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Saintinoo:
Happy Sunday gentlemen of this section.

I see almost everyday how men go about asking ladies for a date, burning date and airtime, trying to impress ladies which I find so disgusting.
I don't know if it is a problem with me, but, I find it absurd, time and resource wasting to go days asking a lady out, buy things to impress her, call her every morning and send gifts just to have a woman around me.

I have had some few girlfriend in the past and even my last ex, I only asked her out once and wait for her to make up her mind, never spent a dime on dates or gifts.

Guys tell us about yourselves, do you go about doing all those zee world and nollywood styles to get your woman.

Wizardslayer:
Please people that married a woman that keep asking for sex sex and they're never tired of it. Please how do you cope with the unending demand for sex.

squash47:
Lately, I have been reading posts about men saying their women must provide something for their family. Like, help pay children's school fees, feedings, house rents and other stuffs.
And I got curious.

So, as a man, if you marry a woman and God forbid, she dies and leave you alone with the kids, won't you be able to take good care of yourself and your children without her support?

No one prays for evil, but let's be real, bad things happen.
So, men,if your wife dies now leaving you and the kids, how are you going to manage the situation ?

Mynd44, Nlfpmod, please push this to the right section.

Matix222:
Me and this girl has been for a year before now she wasn’t like this tho but now she doesn’t check up on me unless I do so


I decided to be for a week without texting or calling her to see her reaction I was surprised she didn’t call or text either this is really getting on my nerves

You are assuming you’re dating she sees you as a friend. You have been friendzoned


What should I do guys?

robosky02:
The 2023 FIFA Women’s World Cup in Australia and New Zealand ended on Sunday.


Spain defeated England 1-0 in the final to win the trophy.

A first-half goal from Olga Carmona ensured Spain defeated England at the Stadium Australia.


DAILY POST brings you the list of award winners following the conclusion of the Women’s World Cup on Sunday:

Japan’s Hinata Miyazawa won the Golden Boot for the tournament’s top scorer with five goals.

France’s Kadidiatou Diani won the Silver Boot Award, and Germany’s Alexandra Popp won the Bronze Boot Award.

England’s Mary Earps, who was named the FIFA Best Women’s Goalkeeper earlier this year, has been awarded the Adidas Golden Glove Award after earning three clean sheets and making a host of fine saves, including a penalty in the final against Spain.


Japan was awarded the FIFA Fair Play Award after finishing first in the Fair Play contest.

Spain’s Salma Paralluelo won the FIFA Best Young Player Award after scoring crucial goals in both the quarter-finals and semi-finals.

Her teammate Aitana Bonmati won the Golden Ball Award for the best player of the tournament.

Jennifer Hermoso won the Silver Ball Award, and Sweden’s Amanda Ilestedt won the Bronze Ball Award.



https://dailypost.ng/2023/08/20/2023-fifa-womens-world-cup-award-full-list-of-winners-as-spain-lift-trophy/

Emir8:
How can redenomination stabilize naira. You want to create 300, 400, 2000 etc naira and you think that will stabilize naira against foreign currencies? These people are daft. Instead of increasing export, they are looking for ways to embezzle money

After Ghana did redenomination, their currency and economy crashed to the lowest since 1976. Inflation rises to all-time highest level.

fineboynl:
Marriage is been forced in African by African society. In western world when you are not ready you are not.

Puss360:
The duty of a parent is to train their daughters to know themselves...
If you know yourself, you will know that from 20 yrs is now an adult and at that age any of your actions has to be taken with care....
From that age You should know when you feel you are ready for marriage, nobody should coerce you ..
You should also know the kind of man you are getting married to, nobody should know the man more than you....
If along the lane of marriage, you discover some toxic behaviour, decision to leave should rest on your shoulder Nd not your parents...

Remember, it's your marriage, it's your husband...
Not theirs...

ednut1:
why is Uganda not doing what it takes to feed the children Foreign Charities still operate in Uganda. World bank loans are for development not feeding

Sonnobax15:

Why only Nigerian guys?

I can't do this shiit...

Beverlyjean:
U are the stupid fool...u will tell me how many nations will celebrate their team after getting knocked out in R16

basedonbelieff:
Access to President: Through out a Senators tenure he may never have the chance to meet the president one on one. Ministers interact with the President on a daily basis

winnah:
Good morning family, I never felt the need to do this, it's not like I don't know what else to do. I just need your opinion.
Am currently a Branch manager of one of the biggest indigenous retail company (supermarket) in the country. Some group of Indian investor bought over my company... And I was transferred to Abakaliki to open our new branch. my relationship with the new owners I won't lie, is great..
My net monthly salary now is 110k, I have an official car and I live in the company's quarters.
There's no hope for salary increment. In the next 10 years am not sure of getting to 200k. My fiancee is in pH, and we are hoping to get married by next year.. this places a lot of demand to increase my income so I can afford to take care of my family.

However, I have an offer with another retail company in pH with salary of 200k. The company has promised and increment upon my confirmation. I went for the interview yesterday.. when they saw my experience and everything in my CV they became anxious to bring me in... So they asked how much am expecting I told them 200-250k and they settle at 200k. Right they, the chairman asked HR to give me offer letter and that I should start with immediate effect. My pain now is that,
First ; according to the HR their budget for the position was 300k.. now I've short change my self.. I feel so bad.

Secondly; I don't know how to present this to my MD, how do I tell them am leaving.. and the notice seems short. As I met him yesterday with a lot of expectations and target from me, just don't know how to communicate it to him. How I wish they can offer me this amount. Is two weeks enough to do handing over...

winnah:
Good morning family, I never felt the need to do this, it's not like I don't know what else to do. I just need your opinion.
Am currently a Branch manager of one of the biggest indigenous retail company (supermarket) in the country. Some group of Indian investor bought over my company... And I was transferred to Abakaliki to open our new branch. my relationship with the new owners I won't lie, is great..
My net monthly salary now is 110k, I have an official car and I live in the company's quarters.
There's no hope for salary increment. In the next 10 years am not sure of getting to 200k. My fiancee is in pH, and we are hoping to get married by next year.. this places a lot of demand to increase my income so I can afford to take care of my family.

However, I have an offer with another retail company in pH with salary of 200k. The company has promised and increment upon my confirmation. I went for the interview yesterday.. when they saw my experience and everything in my CV they became anxious to bring me in... So they asked how much am expecting I told them 200-250k and they settle at 200k. Right they, the chairman asked HR to give me offer letter and that I should start with immediate effect. My pain now is that,
First ; according to the HR their budget for the position was 300k.. now I've short change my self.. I feel so bad.

Secondly; I don't know how to present this to my MD, how do I tell them am leaving.. and the notice seems short. As I met him yesterday with a lot of expectations and target from me, just don't know how to communicate it to him. How I wish they can offer me this amount. Is two weeks enough to do handing over...

Kobojunkie:
1. Again with the noise! Read what Jesus Christ told you about how to become free from slavery to sin in John 8 vs 31 - 44. So long as you are a slave to sin, there is no good---- works ofRighteousness ---- to be obtained from you by God, this since yours sins make filthy all your works rendering them an abomination to God - Isaiah 64 vs 1 - 6. So, as long you are unrighteous --- though born-again--- , what James said does not apply to you.

2. Now with that mind, realize that because you are born-again does not mean you are Holy and Righteous and as such you are urged by Jesus Christ to seek first the Kingdom of God(Holiness) and then God's Righteousness, in order that all these things---- the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God ---- shall be added to you. When Jesus Christ urged you to become holy(set free from slavery to sin) and then proceeded to tell you in John 8 vs 31 - 38 how to become Holy, Jesus Christ was not being foolish at all.

3. Born into sin? Meaning Jesus Christ was also born into sin?

4. Jesus Christ never said anywhere in His Gospel that confessing with your mouth will save you from sin. So where do you get this idea of yours from except from the religious scripts of your pastors and mogs aka religion?

5. Remove what seal? Where do these fairy tales which are found nowhere in the Law and Truth as spoken by Jesus Christ come from?

efelicity:
Recently my Mother-in-law requested to come and live with us and I accepted. Unknown to me, she was coming to tempt me. This woman will dress half naked in the absence of her daughter. I'm a full time husband who takes care of the kids, do the dishes and cook before my wife comes back because if I didn't finish by the time she's back, she will shout at me.
Back to my story. Because of my availability at home, my mother in law takes the opportunity to be peeping at me in the bathroom and comes to sit on my lap in the sitting room. Now she's pushed me to the wall that I have feeling for her. Please what should I do now?