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timstone:
I have a neighbor close to me she is about 60years old without a child
She lives in bayelsa state . She want to adopt but don't know the process.
Which state or orphanage home can she get a female child 1 to 2years old.
I really need your help

It’s a noble enterprise . Inquire from a lawyer in the state he/she could make some enquires

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

1. He has seen you as an ingrate. You called him for a pressing issue and at 39 years old can’t figure it out by yourself.

2. As someone has mentioned - move into his house you get free food and accommodation and an opportunity to earn some money.

Ask yourself what other opportunities do you have. ?
Suck up and be a man - the wife would be happy that at least he didn’t bring in a female maid .

Who is Obasenjo ?

Daisy
- you do not have a right to confront your husband side chick . You confront your husband and husband alone .
- you did bad giving him the school fees, you knew he was cheating , you knew he couldn’t be trusted . Maybe you wanted him to save face by allowing him to pay the school fees but you erred .
- you have 3 kids with him . Are you planning to have more or taking precautions. This last piece isn’t really my business but if your husband can’t be trusted and reliable my advice is to make sure he doesn’t leave you with 5 kids all by yourself.
- the main issue is where do you get 140k to pay the school fees. ?

I don’t understand why you don’t take the baby to a pediatrist but you come on NL ?

She’s black that why all the nonsense.
Nobody gave those girls a chance not even I. And if I was awake I would have lost a huge bet.
So …. It’s getting hot in ere …. Take off whatever you want girl !

Kukutente23:
Show pictures of US citizens riding bike to work

I have to agree there a ton of people that ride bikes to work in the summer . Nonetheless US is not 9ja. They will take a shower after riding the bike to gym . In Nigeria you’ll have an office of armpit smelling . We will never be ready …

Hahahaha Laughable.
If you want people to take bicycles to work
Let the VIPs try it with their pot belly and security personnel.
I mean …
- on what roads ?
- on what network of roads ?
- where do they park the bicycles ?

2 things.
He may either have them as special advisers however I feel they are too exposed to controversies.

It’s just temporal .
After I am done with them.
I delete them and delete them from deleted folder.
Blackmailing is for babies plus , I don’t need any of the pictures popping up on my TV screensaver with Amazon photos.
The more the bey trust you the better so I don’t play with them.

How can a single person get approval from the state House of Representatives without any visibility studies that the airport is needed. It’s not that you build an airport in 6 months.

Now besides that are you saying that the airport cannot serve any domestic flights from Lagos to Ebonyi or Lagos to Abuja ?

There must be something else delaying its commencement.

I was about to break my 85inch TV. If the Aussy had equalized!!!!
Where was the coach on the sidelines shouting at the assistant ref ?
Why did Oshoala try to score ? You take that ball to the corner flag girl Common

Anyway congrats 9ja

H0711:
Thank you. He can't afford a maid and his younger sister has refused to come and help. I am also leaving next month.

How much will a maid cost ?

Excellent job dude .
Just missing wall mounted TV screen and some furniture. Why no bed for the mattress

How much is the land ?

lovediehatelive:
So I decided to spend the weekend at my uncle's place because it has been many years I went there.


In the midnight, around 1am, I heard the television was on and I thought he forget to put it off.


So I went to the living room only to see his son of about 4-5 years old watching cartoon. I was shocked and asked him to go and sleep, which he grudgingly agreed.


Now, early morning around 5am or so, same thing happened. I want to the living room and saw him there.


This time he refused to go to bed.


I later found out that's how he does. I wonder if he ever sleeps at night.

The parents are not even bothered, but I'm worried. When we were growing up, who are you to stay awake past 9pm watching TV? Not to talk about waking up at night. Even in the day time you better not be caught idling away on front of the TV when others are busy.

This one just comes to the living room anytime he likes and puts on the TV.

Is this how kids of nowadays behave?

Easy, I’ll pull out the plug after 9pm and change the battery polarity.
They have failed that child and when he’s older and is playing games and his parents want to discipline him he would call the cops

mariahAngel:
I know it might be difficult for some people, but you can only choose one place.

Picture credit: Instagram

Easy immediately cancelling out In-law . No matter how the food is cooked . We are not on good terms and therefore I don’t eat or drink water there.
Bestie - no benefit.
It’s either Spouse or Ex
EX, I’ll think she put love portion in the food even if we eat together, she may have taken the antidote. So spouse - if my spouse could cook like that there will be no need for Side chicks

What are the charges that the FG brought against Former CBN governor ?

I just read “ Emefiele, 61, pleaded “not guilty” to the two counts of illegal possession of firearm and ammunition filed against him by the Federal Government.”

Something is not right. It is either they asked him to confess that Buhari put him up to something and he said no “ of all charges !!!!

The judge specifically said correctional facility which is prison . You don’t do Bail at the DSS offices ?
Who is the head of DSS ? And was he fired ? Someone must be in charge of these hooded hoodlums

Okay a couple of things
1. Your parents ought to have been involved just to get their opinion and view of things.
2. Their daughter must travel out is just hogwash and is ploy just to let you know that they think you are not good enough for their daughter.

My Solutions
1. I don’t care about my in-laws - so my wife takes the kids to see her parents but we all go to see mine . I greet them and say Hi and Hello but we do not converse more than that.
If you love her so much then that would be the solution .

2. You leave her and look for someone whose parents are forward thinking.

3. You both elope and get married. Get a few friends as witnesses.

Goodluck.

How much does it cost to buy a petrol station. ? Asking for a friend of a friend.

Acekidc4:
Musa is a good Understanding Man, he knows what his President Mr Tinubu is doing. Every Sensible Person knows exactly what is happening in Nigeria today. All this Suffering must happen before Enjoyment and Elevation. If you like cry and shout on my mentions from now till Jericho Na you know.

Then why not address the nation at prime time 9pm and tell us exactly what is going on and how long before we reach the promise land.
Within 100 days
- fuel has jumped from N165 to N650.
- school fees fromN19k to N190k
- transportation
- Cost of living
Only some governors have tried to help by increasing Salaries by N10k a month.
Let your man command from Aso Rock with the seal of FGN .

There is nothing wrong with marrying the girl once you get to know her.
Before you do so just
1. Make sure that it’s something that she is ready to leave and what work will she do ?
2. What’s her story ? What made her choose the lifestyle or be forced to do so. Some have debts by family members to pay off.
3. Are you prepared to trust her ?
4. Medical tests and can she have your child ?

Listen, everyone has a past . There are many women who although might not be on Allen Avenue or where you were but they have numerous sexual encounters albeit with few men but no condoms . However these ones use Condoms .
Can I marry or date one ? Sure , u is t all depends . But it’s not something I’ll be willing to tell people at all

IconicR:
This is serious. As long as men have penis then redpill will remain an online thing. One redpiller down 4million more to go.

He is not one of us.
He is an abomination to all humans.

Ezekiel2122:
God bless you. Positive comment so far.
I don't think blaming this man is necessary again. It's a mistake, we all made one or the other. He realized, he's in pain already... Let lesrn to be brothers

One is okay , two is understandable, anything after 3 is deliberate . Unless he has twins plus never heard of birth control ?

ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

You sound and write too educated to be earning 40k . Show me proof ? What do you currently do for a living ? Does Madam work ?

Elbizzcklinz:
Guy i get confused while reading with your writing Pattern.... Pls use the good English
that i can understand. Thanks.

Yeah I also . I wish it was also separated into paragraphs .

Emmerich09:
So it was some minutes past 7pm so me and the guys set out to the Mami and we were at our favorite spot chilling, I picked up my phone and put a call through to lara so she could come join us. I called once she didn't pick up, called twice nd the third time nd she still didn't pick up nd I was worried Cuz it's unlike her, so I told kizzo nd he said I should chill maybe she didn't see the phone while ringing but my mind was just not settled, I was having a feeling like something had gone wrong that will affect my plans for the night bt I chilled nd was drinking with my guys. Few minutes later a text message entered my phone and it reads Mitch when I was coming the commandant saw me and I have been with him since, he won't let me go am sorry, immediately I saw this I knew I was right all along, something has truly gone wrong. I know he won't let her go just like dat, I was so angry that I told my guys of the situation at hand and they advised me to just relax which I couldn't do at that moment. I just lost taste of everything that was going on around me, so I put a call through to her once more and she didn't pick up so i texted her, telling her to tell him dat she has friends waiting for her and it's urgent. She texted back telling me that he still won't let her go, it got into my head nd I started blaming her that why would she allow him see her, dat she should have been conscious of the fact that he's got eyes on her. I waited for a while with no reply from her so I stood up nd told my guys that i wanna take a walk so I stepped out of the joint and was walking out of the Mami. I walked towards the exit of the Mami and rested my back on a car that was parked there, I was so angry about how my perfectly planned night has turned out to be something else, I got tired of staying there nd decided to head back into the Mami when I saw Lara and the commandant walking towards me so I quickly hid behind a car so that they won't see me not knowing that the commandants car was parked close to the one am hiding behind. They walked slowly to his car and he opened the door and sat down, I didn't know Wat he was telling lara but she was all smiles and I was all angry. They kept on talking for about 5mins, then he started the car and drove off, when lara was about to walk past the car I was hiding behind on I called her name loud and she was very shocked to see me standing there, so she came towards me and stood in front of me without saying a word. She knows she has offended me so she was just mute nd and was waiting for my reaction, so I looked at her and said lara just tell me do you think Wat u did tonight is right? She was about explaining that he he's the camp commandant nd she wasn't able to say no, while she said this I was already getting more angry bt I managed to hold up, then I said lara he can't force you to do anything you don't want to do, just tell him dat you can't go with him or you can't see him he won't force you. She was still trying to explain that he is the camp commandant and I didn't know when I shouted aloud f*ck the camp commandant why would he subject you to such, right there I lost it and started saying all sorts. She didn't say a word she was just standing in front of me looking like a baby that is about to cry. Right there I knew I had over done it but my head was still hot and I wasn't in the mood to calm down, so I told her I should see her off to her hostel nd I was so angry that I left her half way to her hostel and started heading towards mine. I got to the hostel and I wasn't myself, kizzo started calling me but I refused to pick up nd some minutes later he and William showed up trying to tell me how angry they were for leaving them at the Mami just like that I calm them down and told them everything that happened nd they were surprised, then kizzo said something that got to me he said Mitch forget say you dey vex oh if na some bebe you dey shout on her head like dat for outside she for just walk out of you oh, lara really like you oh guy and you no suppose shout on her like that oh. William joined him and said guy kizzo dey right oh forget say she mess up small but no be her fault the man no let her go, then I said guys make una no talk like dat, lara get the right to tell the man say she no fit come Abi he go kill her? Then kizzo said Mitch u forget say na him be the camp commandant and the overall power lies in him so once we are still in this camp he has the right oh. I just looked at them both and mtchew then climbedl into my bed and said have had enough for one night. Before I slept I thought about the whole thing nd I know she had her faults nd I had mine too but I knew I was gonna apologize for shouting at her but I also wanted to see what her reaction was gonna be the next day and she really surprised me... Stay tuned...

I know it’s been 5 years but for those reading this and are at camp. The Camp commandant has the power to send her to the most ruthless village in the state. He could even do it that she’s all alone with the next Corper about 30mins away. So even though you may have felt offended her anger was misplaced. How do you think she would feel knowing you bought Damy drinks and even hung out !!! You never defined your relationship-never kissed until then everyone is free to mingle.

Emmerich09:
I woke up early the next day feeling good about last night, normally Kizzo would wake me up so we could go take our bath but this tym around I woke him and William up and they were suprised. We set out for the mami, while on our way I was busy playing my runtown (mad over you) the guyz were just wondering what is wrong with me, they would have asked if not that dey were a bit angry at me for waking them up a little bit before tym lol. We got there took our baths I payed nd we left for the hostel, wore our white and white nd headed out for the parade ground, I got to my Platoon and was standing at the back as usual praise and worship has already started so I joined them. While slapping nd singing i felt a push at my side Wen I looked it was Lara I smiled and said you like sleeping too much see the time u coming nd she gave me that look that says Yimu for you lol. So she was standing close to me and we looked at each other from tym to tym, so after the prayers it was tym for the OBS to do their thing. They announced that our sport activities will be starting that day, the volleyball game for the girls, the football game for the guyz the ten platoons will play against each other and the match past. So I asked her about the volleyball team and she said she was no longer interested nd I looked at her and said lazy ass and she said if I throw you punch ehn and we both laughed. We were briefly interrupted my our Platoon commander Mr solomon and he was so serious that morning about the sport activities, he said we should put ourselves together for the betterment of our Platoon. He said for the volleyball team that they should try their best, before that day they have been practicing same with the football team but I only joined them twice so I wasn't selected to play in our first game. Mr solomon took charge of the match past himself he was so serious about it and he wanted to win it. So after he was thru talking to us it was already daybreak so he started coaching those he selected for the matching and the girls went to the volleyball court, but before now Lara has been telling me about her American friend Ola, another thing i so like about Lara is that she can Gist you ehn, Lara will tell you about something that happened when she was in two hundred level and it will be like it happened yesterday, she is so full of life and you can never get bored around her, that is if she's free with you, so she said she boarded the same bus with Ola from Lagos nd while they were in the bus Ola will be talking using an American accent nd everyone in the bus will give dis awkward look like, who this one dey form for Na, she said even she thought the girl was forming not until she got to know her better and she got to know that Ola schooled in America that's why she speaks that way at times. So we decided to go to the volleyball court we got there and were watching the girls playing, most of them weren't dat Gud but some were really trying. We got bored watching nd I told her come let's go over to the mami to chow and we left there, while on our way to the mami we were just talking nd laughing nurging and pushing each other, peeps were just looking at us and i noticed we were becoming very popular in camp and am getting popular because of her, we were hanging out all day almost every day. Nd I notice that there's no day dat goes by without a minimum of 4 to 5 guys must approach her in camp, because if how beautiful she is and how she carries herself, if we are walking she will say Mitch you see dat dark guy on shades he approached me yesterday saying do you know you are very beautiful but each tym I see you ur always with a guy, you are never alone so I guess today is my lucky day, and he said some other stuffs and asked for my number and I was like ehhn like seriously? What do they even see in you, it's not that you're even fine sef. When I said dis I laughed and she chased me a little, the truth is dat she's really fine but I don't want to be telling her to avoid her feeling herself too much. I was telling her before but when I do instead of her to say thanks Mitch, she will say yes naw Na me naw that kinda thing, she can famz herself ehhn. So we got to the restaurant and ordered, I ordered for fried and jollof rice mixed with salad and meat, while she ordered for jollof rice plantain and meat. I was like Wat about salad and she said she doesn't like Salad I was a bit shocked bt she likes plantain so much, and I said look at you tushed fine geh like you, you don't eat salad and she gave me that look once more and we both laughed. After eating we left the mami and was just chilling under a tree close to her hostel, it's our favorite chilling spot, so I said Lara it's amazing how we have gotten so close within this short time, and during this time of us being together you have made my days in camp worthwhile, I was just looking into her beautiful brown eyes while I talk, nd she bursted my head with Wat she said next, she said yes naw, na me naw, do you think it's easy to be chilling with a hot chic like me and not feel Wat you are feeling nd I was like ooooo nd she stood up nd ran thinking I wanted to chase her and I said don't worry I won't say anything again. She was like sorry naw I won't feel myself again, she sat down and we started talking about ourselves and getting to know each other well nd our family backgrounds, she told me about her past relationship life and I did too, while all dis was going on I noticed that there was a bond growing between us, she's more free with me and I was wit her too. While we were there Kizzo called me dat we should meet up in the Mami to eat Cuz we normally eat together and I told him I already ate nd he was suprised and I told him am with Lara so he quickly understood nd said bad guy later things he hung up. Me being with Lara felt like it should never end, it was all I wanted, and she was all I wanted in a lady, beautiful, smart, intelligent, jovial, and honest. She poseses all this attributes so tell me why won't i want to be with her? So we chilled for some time and she said she needed to go sleep a little nd I teased her about liking sleep too much and she said yes joor so I told her we will see in the afternoon parade , I saw her off to her hostel front and we had a lite hug and she walked inside. I called Kizzo and asked if they were still at the Mami nd said yes so i went ahead to join them.

I would have stolen a kiss of two already sha !

waywardpikin:
I agree with your position on falling a fellow guy's hand in public over a bit*h. Soooo not cool.

Nice story tho. Following.

Well the babe wasn’t into him plus he could have said thanks for the beer or return to sender with a note . “ I can buy my own damn beer “ thanks 😊

officialmario:
Congratulations
You will build your own house in Jesus name
From tenant to landlord
This 8k will favour me and my guys

What does 8k mean ?

TemplarLandry:
Cooked, with no extra ijękuję. 😉😉😉😉😉

Best !! Cooked