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What happened to the one initiated by buhari and his cohort?

I do hope this girl is being given a better portion of the money to take care of her needs. They should be able to give her proper education, including studying outside the country.

WebSurfer:
Thanks a lot bro... just that I am very selective when it comes to picking ladies, a very busy person and a loner at same time. I enjoy staying alone.

But I will try my best on that

I understand. I an selective too. But what matter most is your happiness. Think about it. Beauty with sorrow is not worth it.

Ymodulus:
Thanks

Hey bro, I need your expertise on something based on your past experienced. I would prefer to discuss this privately. I had wanted to create a thread on it but wasn't sure if I could get better response. Let me know when you see this. Well, I am just hiding behind this moniker... we have chatted a lot when you were on BBM. I even told you about my ear infection problem back then.. I bet you know who this is now; so please respond. I don't mind calling and if you can't help out, I believe there are persons in your network that can help sort this out

WebSurfer:
Lol.. I see comedian ush Bebe seriously on her matter (sliding into her dm on instagram cos I got her password)

He happens to be currently around so I think he is try a use that opportunity to meet her.. I just dey watch, laugh and observe

lol... enjoy your life bro. Don't let any daughter of eve spoil your joy. Get girls around you and make her feel she is losing you... until she ask what is happening and why are you drifting away.

If that happens, you have a rare opportunity to turn the table around, make the rules and state what you want or she forks off if she can not abide by them.

Though I doubt you can get much out of this girl as she seems to be in her prime. I will advice that you just look for someone else and move on... if that one sef fork up, dump her and move on until you get what you want but don't do it without trying. The good thing is that you will be learning how to be in control of your emotions as you proceed until you master it all.

You can even try some Nairaland ladies but I would advise with an alternate handles bro... keep trying until you find what you want. Don't be serious but see this stage as a learning stage.

WebSurfer:
She was asking for 10k... uses the 200k to buy another phone..

Even as small as it is like she said she knew i can afford, boldly said i cant .

Well, i already stopped the thoughts of hoping anything from her including the sex...

Haave got too many ladies around me who go as far as spending on my PA just to hook them up with me..

Not that i want to jump around with any of them but its time i realise my worth

Cool... Cool. Happy about that. Love the way you mentioned "worth "

HurricaneSmith:
This is not cool bro! What took u this long to come display ur deal search philanthropist move na? Kindly let that other dude run his show with the little fee biko.. com'on

don't mind them. They are all over nairaland. Trying to spoil another mans business and think they are good business strategist. That is how I once advertised on nairaland and another person, who never posted the product despite having it, posted at a far less price that I was wondered how they make profit.

I quickly deleted mine, congratulated the person and took my product to facebook, paid for ads and sold everything.

WebSurfer:
Well thanks...


Very well bro.. the late replies was because of things I have been doing making me come on here less.

As for the girl, she alone does the calling or writing, trying to ask for meetup and all that but I acted all busy till she traveled for about a week on a break away from work. was surprised I turned her down when she called to ask for assistance again.

Something I never did before.

Now you can see she does not love you. She sees you as an ATM. You just gave her 200k that over 80 million Nigerians dont even earn in a month, not up to 2 weeks, she is asking for another one.

Do you see what I have been saying? Do you see she does not love you? I can't blame her though... It is the way you started with her that led to all these.

Aside from the sex, what value do you benefit from her? Has she ever advices you on any decisions? I know the answer to that is BIG FAT NO.

How did I know? Girls who don't love you or care about you follow same pattern.

What did she do with the 200k that you gave her? Bros, people like you clothes and feed another man through "girl friend"... What if a guy who does not even exert as much effort to gain her attention have been getting all the money you give her? Did you think about that?

A girl I met has corrected my errors more than twice, even advices and suggested a business idea for me. Now, that is someone that can add value to a man's life.


Now, get her out of your life for good. I mean completely. Or better yet stop every financial benefit you give her and see if she won't find her square root.

WebSurfer:
You can imagine

Here is another thing that can help you. Found on my favourite social media site.. it is a question and answer site.

I asked a girl out and she said, "You are too ugly to date." What should I do?
Jim Euclid
Jim Euclid, Veterinarian, writer
Updated Sep 20

I was born ugly, so I empathize.

When I was 13, I saw this ugly dude with a stunning girl on his arm.

I asked my Dad what the secret was.

He said there were three possibilities.

1: The girl was his sister
2: The girl was a hooker/gold digger
3: The guy understood women

As I got older (and uglier), I realized that option 3 was the only way to go. So I did some reading (waste of time), then some experimenting. Here's what worked for me...

I found a nice Plain Jane type and said I wasn't interested in dating her, just looking for a friend to go to the movies with. We talked a lot. I listened mostly. I found out what her interests were, and steadily focused more and more on those things. I tried to keep things interesting by throwing in the occasional joke.

After a while I realised she had a crush on me.

Eventually I had to move interstate and the friendship fizzled.

Then I met another girl. This new one was stunning, and since we had to work together and there was a lot of communicating involved, after a week I said, 'I'm not interested in you romantically, but could we be friends?'

(I lied)

'What do you mean?' she said.' 'Are you saying I'm ugly?'

That taught me that self-esteem issues are across the board with men and women, regardless of their looks.

The thing about ugly people, aside from our self-esteem issues - we are usually more appreciative and go the extra mile to keep the women we do have happy. But we are also more prone to jealousy if other men flirt with her. So it's a double-edged sword.

The thing about beauty - it's all in the head. I've met many drop-dead gorgeous woman. I can usually tell when they open their mouth how much beauty there is inside.

Here's my challenge for you:

Listen to a woman for five minutes and you'll know whether she's worth the effort. And by then, she'll know if you're worth it.

trustyshoess:
This is what baffles me about some women. Why would I need a man to make me feel emotionally fulfilled or loved? I love myself enough for me. A man? Yes I might WANT a man but I most definitely do not NEED one. Why would I want to depend on another human being? It all begins with loving oneself. Love yourself

to me, feminist or whatever you guys call it are just a bunch of heart broken queens...at least your statement here still echoes anger...

WebSurfer:
You can imagine

hello bro? How are you doing and getting on? What's up with the girl? How is your relationship with her now?

mikkyangel:
All items are now in Lagos and are ready for pickup...thanks for ur time..
-PLEASE, TRY AND PICKUP UR ITEMS WITHIN 5 DAYS,(delay is dangerous),
-Late fee charges starts from day 6

boss I have message you on whatsapp... How do I get the HP envy to the owner? He wants to use courier company to deliver it to his base so we need a name to use... I mean what is the name of the courier company within Lagos and how much do they charge

valjoy:
That's the phone I actually want to buy but thought of getting experts advice on devices to go for first before I waste my money. I am even following the xiaomi thread sef. Do you think thats the phone for me? Also I am considering the Mi Max2 but the problem here is I use Glo sim. Thanks.

the phone is good. Beats techno and infinix while rival Samsung and apple

MrBigiman:
DSTV has no rival. Kwese TV is also actually lovely.

DSTV has a rival... If you have been following the CEO and owner of kwese, bros, you will know that man does not say what he can't do. Kwese is still gathering storm.

Olukat:
So sad!
Bless you

I have been following this hushpuppi thing... Trust me, Nigeria can never be great. It is not a curse but reality.

And you wonder why politicians steal in this country? The do it to get respected. If you have money, people will eat your shiiit, drink your urine... We are lost completely

DanseMacabre:
What most Nigerians don't seem to get is that these guys are enemies only on social media, but in the real world, they're all thick as thieves. They just continued the system inherited from the British and it works perfectly for them: that of divide and conquer.


And FFK, busted!! So with all your grandiose and elevated speech, you no fit spell 'irreparable' sef How I wish say I fit get one big man wey go make me him media aide...

don't wish.. make it happen. get into the arena.

Olekumaster:
I just know you can't make me commit suicide.

Hate him or like, fact is that niqqa is made for life.

One thing I like about him though is that he doesn't spend his fake money on fake girls!

lol.. And this one want Nigeria to be great with a mentality like this? A generation that worship money than anything else in life.

LadyGoddiva:
But why do *some* men feel threatened by feminists though

Nigerian ladies have no right to feminism... Cos most of them think feminism means being bitter.

VERQUEST111:
okay
just kontinue...

that boy is just in his 20s and an iPod member. Imagine what he is posting on 1st of November

Whenever he has been caught pants down, they throw some good news to distract folks... stupid man.. get out of that place and go tell us your involvement in MAINGATE...

xxx9033:
See my account balance is for all mtn sim working

are you not tired? get a life... and stop spamming the entire nairaland.... cretin

chibabe259:
Mainagate is the MAINgate of corruption. Kiss the truth.

no mind them... dishing out distraction...

alexialin:
I read through this thread and tears were just falling down my cheeks.

Some ladies get head but no headtie to wear

Some get headties but no head

Life is unfair sha.. Very unfair. Extremely unfair.

That is just the way it is. Life is unfair in my spheres of activities... I have had my own share of disappointment with Nigerian female folks...

At one point, a girl I was dating told me I don't plan ahead and that she was gonna make a lot of money... all these were borne out attention and calls she was numerously getting from guys. But today, she knows how it ended.

python1:
Part of me tells me this is not true. First class, Physics with Electronic, 22, female, yet jobless. Na lie joor. Job scarce but e never reach like that. Not adding up.

Nigerian bloggers and lie are like IPOB and Biafra

alexialin:
I read through this thread and tears were just falling down my cheeks.

Some ladies get head but no headtie to wear

Some get headties but no head

Life is unfair sha.. Very unfair. Extremely unfair.

that is life

WebSurfer:
I was just reading a post now about how a girl pretended for over 6 years friendship, 2 years relationship and after marriage, boom.. this was almost same case with the one I engaged.. just that I forcefully brought out the violence from her by chance



https://www.nairaland.com/4133663/beat-wife-what-done-differently

Lol, I have seen that thread. Why you have refused to say anything about the girl you engaged and what led to the disengagement what I do not know.

Bro, share your story or may be remove the pics from the thread before you do that sha... you might save a brother too

WebSurfer:
You can imagine

lol... Women are not what we assume they are.

humantorch02:
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that corporate Account shiiit is the problem I have with paystack. Wish would give lesser option

FRANKODEY1:
I use PayPal, stripe and paystack

does pay stack work with international currencies? How is it done please. I don't have a corporate account and that is what is hindering me from using paystack.

WebSurfer:
robotix
i wanted to ask this guy something, but i decided to respect myself

lol, ask him what bro?

WebSurfer:
I totally get your message here..

But on this very case study , it's not like she's not an aspiring career person but either ways, career I can't really trust fully because I am also part of it of which I know exactly what it entails

See this? Always remember you are a rare breed.

blacknp:
Only a myopic individual uses a single man to buttress his point you claim,so why only mention President Buhari or has he been the only Ruler in power since independence?

So why they no help your papa like dangote? abi is your papa from cameroun or when others were hustling he was busy smoking morrocco and now you have taken in his foot steps a generational curse of lazy people?like papa like pikin?

Like I mentioned only failures and lazy people are trying to blame the President for their failure in life,Pdp was their for 16 years,how much did you save for the rainy day,donkey Kong you are not even asking about accountability. Nigeria has moved on without you. I heard the Wailers are looking for a lead singer?

Mumu but the North has ruled this country as presidents than the South... What is the result? Since you decided to bring your father into this as a brainless fool... I can see your father didn't teach you logical reasoning.

You people from the North are the major problem of this country. You have ruled as presidents yet your region is ridden with so much poverty that you have begged of Northern extract scattered across the South and North in legions. You should be ashamed of yourself. The North still has the largest population of illiterates in Nigeria .. What an achievement for region that has had the highest presidential position.

Dunce