₦airaland Forum

Leez:
ppl tend to forget dat his uncle was dantata
and dat he was close to abacha
smh

not just that... That family's wealth dated back 1800 and Dangote is not really the richest. Some inner circle in the North know this that one of Dantata's Sons is richer than Dabgote. Dabgote is fronting and shielding a lot of people.

blacknp:
So why Alhaji Dangote get money pass everyone in the south?Nigeria is one country no North and South only failures and people that have nothing look at Nigeria through tribalism go and talk to otedola and rabiu money talks dirty cash I want you.

mumu, who is dangote without the backing of the government?

Only a myopic individual uses a single man to buttress his point while leaving the general applicable factors...

GoroTango:
Each and every single northerner appointed to any one of those positions by Buhari is more competent than any one of their southern counterparts. Google each and every one of their profiles and see for yourself

How much as that benefited you? It is well known fact that the South is well ahead of the North in all ramification and your claims here is laughable and pathetic. They are better you say, yet you have so many Northerners begging for food on the street of the South.

Go sleep...

gboxbaba:
despite the whole talk of internet this, online business presence that, from my experience as an entrepreneur based in abuja, I have observed that the whole online thing really doesn't work. most companies don't even care about an online presence not because they are not aware but, coz they know its not worth it. people don't go online to find stuff, they just ask around. but is this the reality or is there something I don't know?

yes there is something you don't know

CAPSLOCKED:

IT'S GONNA BE HARD TO DITCH THESE OLD MEN WHO HAS BEEN ROTATING POWER AMONGST THEMSELVES FOR THE PAST 50 YEARS. BUT IT'LL BE NICE TO REPLACE THEM WITH YOUNGER, ABLE THINKING BODIES.

BUT AGAIN, FROM ANOTHER ANGLE.. "NOT TOO YOUNG TO RUN" SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING EVERYONE ABOVE 20 CAN ENGAGE IN. DON'T BE DECEIVED.

THE YOUNG ONES OF NIGERIA ARE ONLY CAPABLE OF RUNNING FOR PRESIDENT OF TWITTER WARS, OR CAPTAINS OF NAIRALAND INTER-TRIBAL BATTLES.

PUTTING THIS COUNTRY IN THE HANDS OF SUCH INEXPERIENCED PEOPLE IS JUST STRAIGHT UP CHAOS.

are you saying there are no capable hands in Nigeria among the youths? Come on, our situation is not as bad as that. The question is will they be allowed?

HoluwarTohbar:
Where were Mamman Daura and Co when Buhari lost election three times? The only person that can help him win again is Tinubu.

you dey mind that mofo?

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WebSurfer:
I totally get your message here..

But on this very case study , it's not like she's not an aspiring career person but either ways, career I can't really trust fully because I am also part of it of which I know exactly what it entails

This current girl, did you share your experience with her on nairaland? I mean full details. If yes, let me see it. I want to read

Luxuryconsult:
Sex is that one thing that is spoiling this world, aside money, fame and power.. Sex is one of the reasons why this world has become what it has become.. Imagine after a lady slept with several guys now i eventually married such and she's supposed to be a queen in my world, like i should start treating her like a queen with her wide hole when she is noting but a substance of mockery somewhere else.. I'd be walking with my wife who is supposed to be a queen and then some random street guys will be laughing at my mumuism.. This is one reason, some men don't trat their wife like that expensive sh*t anymore. I don't know, a thing in me is not just wnating a wife.. I can't become a bad man/devil all because of someone else mistake but whenever it's time and i find a virgin to marry then 'congratulations to me'. I don't know how they said it was during the era of our fathers but i wish we can go back to that period. I was on top of a 19 year old girl after serious begging from her last time and i was crying, this thing has become a well.. She asked me why i was crying, i just told her, i have never felt like this before in my life. Imagine, ehn, before this one turn 25, wetin for don happen? And she's way beautiful.

IMMATURE HYPOCRITE!

WebSurfer:
Thanks bro.
You have really made up alot of sense.

Honestly speaking, maybe it has to do with the age bracket, not that i dont have this type of ladies who want me and are independent, but they are mostly either older or similar.. my closest female friend is a very good person.. im pretty sure shes the type who wants me just like i want her and same time independent...


Thing is that either age or location end up being a barrier .. i think most of the things you thiink i should go for are way too dificult to find below my age bracket
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How do i really find an independent lady below 25 or 26 at least since i am 26?

Same time im under pressure from my family to get married in a way because im the only son and they think i have all it takes

Okay, here is the post I wanted to address yesterday. I was in doldrums over a business deal I had been working on and seems we are just close to killing it off and then came what looks like an obstacle..

Now back to your matter.

I should have addressed the first emboldened in my maiden post but I forgot. YES, AGE is a huge factor with these Nigerian girls. Their counter part in Western Worlds are the real definition of "women grow faster than men of same age", but certainly not in Nigeria. Majority, over 80 % of them act so weird in relationship when they are young... they only start to get WISE when the are approaching 24-25, because that is when they are looking for husband

To the second emboldened part, I would say it is not too difficult when done rightly. It depends on your approach. You are doing it all wrong and that is why you have all the bad tales to tell.

For me when I meet a lady I am interested in, beauty is not enough... I take into cognizance her intellectual capacity or the potential of that. Personal a girl who run around celebrity gossip like I see on nairaland, too focus on eatery, latest clothes, watch Kim Kardashian and her their wise family while she gets nothing income-wise are not in my bracket interest even if she as beautiful as beyonce... at best we get to FORK and it end there.

What you need to do is examine her back ground... beauty is not a enough, it is just the start but not the end.

Now let me show you how worthless most of these girls you have had break you are... They are beautiful... congratulations bro. Now, take their beauty away from them, what do they have that will keep you? Let me guess? Your mind went blank right? What you have are nothing worthless trophy wife as some men who married them call it.

What if they had the best value to cap that their beauty? I am sure you would be quick to mention them when I asked take their beauty away and what else can keep you attached.

Most times the kind of words that comes out of a girl's mouth are very IMPORTANT. I mean the things she talks about often. Gauge everything she says or does and make your assessment. In the past what I do when I start out with a girl is mark them 100%... then gradually start deducting marks from them. Of course, they always fail because they have dumb brains. When they fork up below 50% it is time to say good bye.

Control your obsession for a woman's beauty, it is unhealthy as a man... (I used to do that sha.. )You can get a lady with wow beauty but you need that extra value for happiness to reign. What is the point of having a mami water beauty that torments your soul with sorrow?

Above all, watch her background, the kind of home she comes from is very important too.

You can find a working class lady in that age bracket or at worst a career oriented person. The reason why you feel it is hard is because you have been focusing solely on beauty, skin colour, hip, boobbs, booty... bros, all those are superficial and means nothing to a REAL MAN!. I have reach the stage where those kind of things do not move me anymore, including their NAK.EDNESS. Though right from time, sex has never been the way to might heart... unlike what many ladies think.

Do you also know that women fear men whom they know that they can not use sex to control? I have done this test and I know it...The lady I told was shocked.

She does not need to be working if the age is the problem yet BUT She ought be talking about building a career around something worthwhile

WebSurfer:
tears ran down my cheeks reading this bro.
i should have read it yesterday before sending her 200k to get another phone


i'll try my best from now on..
infact, i promised myfelf this after finding out that i told you last night,

she called this morning to come cook for me and all that but i'll try to keep her at a distance

though i already started talking to someone else but i'll take my time

you are really right about the girls i fancy, {the current is way more beautiful than the one i engaged earlier this year} always extremely too beautiful that i get warned, but i ignore.. not that i dont have girls come to me on their own (average looking) but i dont give a chance cos im used to pretty ones, maybe it makes me feel like im settling for less. maybe but its reality



i really thank you for taking your time to talk to me

i will try my best

When you say settling for less under what context? Bros, you only say such words when a woman bring in more value than JUST BEAUTY. You seem to hold a woman's beauty so highly that you fail to equate or factor in other elements such as communication, good cook, pay bills... yes, taking proper care of you out of her own money too... and most importantly, show you REAL love and care.

BEAUTY is CRAP without the things listed above... So watch it. In business, when you have something that does not put money in your hand, we call it liability and when you have something that put money in your hand, we call it asset.

Is it a crime IF she takes you on a date to buy you meals, all paid for from her own sweat? What about a case where she buys you shoes, wrist watch or fuel your car? It has to go both ways...

ZUBY77:
You mean you will vote for Buhari again even if he declares? Really?
Someone who spent Half of his tenure on hospital bed?
Are we Really this sruupidd?

On the side, what has he achieved since he became president?

Nna, that guy na Northerner... do not waste your time.

WebSurfer:
Oh yea thanks .. my pm email don't work

You should change it. Just create a new email via gmail, sync to your android phone for easy access. when done, click on your profile here and have it changed.

mantosa:
My brother, the matter tire me.

Imagine the wastage. If you pay salary, do you need to loud it? Why not allow the recipients talk for you which holds more weight

he could have just built a website and have posted there. It is cheaper that way

WebSurfer:
Problems with Nigerians..
I am pretty sure you never took a minute to read just a paragraph for starters.. not like I asked for email or ask you to pay for anything

ignore him. Pepe like that die in Penury

mctowel01:
Somebody say robotix !!!!!... yeah yeah✌ love this thread. Websurfer, you need to pay robotix for the high level advice he is giving here. Robotix.. how much is the bill?

man, I speak from experience because I and websurfer share a lot in common as far as women is concern.

lefulefu:
Op,ladies tend to act like dat towards guys who are their magas or atm. seems u are a maga to this babe.biko just do away with this babe b4 she sucks u dry.

Another angle.

WebSurfer:
I have already bro

Good to read that. I was about to reply something you mentioned on the tread I created but I have an urgent issues that has to be addressed first. Business first bro.

When I am done, I will reply.

doctorkush:
mompha paid hush puppy just to trend. this guys only wants to get famous same way hush forced himself to limelight.. who do you think you are deceiving?? anyway let me go and join queue of those that will beg you for money ... brb

so someone will pay you to tarnish your own image? Mimi... Money worshipper. Hushbingo Na him you b.

olawalepopoola:
We need communism in Nigeria like China. A country with almost 160 million people with only a thousand chopping our national Commonwealth. Let us read about the history of communism in China and let there be a revolt against all these leaders whether Yoruba, Hausa ot Igbo leading us to national debt and slavery. God bless Nigeria

can you see that this isn't even getting much action? You are so certain only a few are interested on taking this head on.

JUSTICE4Nigeria:
STORY!!! ,NA CHARLY BOY ,NO, CHARLY PIKIN U WAN COM BE? ASK TUFACE OOO, DONT COME HERE AND CRY ME A RIVER, OR

Why be a pessimist?

ourchoice:
I will be releasing some of my ideas....everyone should feel free to contribute because this is the brainstorming stage and we need all the ideas and motivation.

Believe me, we can do this.

Mind you, I am not interested in any political post....I only want to witness a prosperous Nigeria that all Nigerians can be very proud of.

We will be discussing the age range of members and aspirants as we progress.

We need to mobilize fellow youths and surprise the old politicians.

This is no joke...this is about our future.

Nigerians are so creative and talented, in fact Nigerians are one of the most talented people in the whole world so why are we lagging behind

We really can change things...thank God for the blessing of internet and forums like this this. We don't even need money to achieve this, all we need is mobilization and we are good to go.

Stop supporting the same old people that have been ruining Nigeria. they have nothing good to offer to us. To them, politics is a business to enrich themselves.

We will work to make politics less rewarding financially so that thieves will stop going into politics to make money.

and the owners of nairaland didn't do anything to push this to front page... Tells you they ate happy with the status quo

TheSonOfMark:
Aha! Just when I was about to type a scathingly blunt remark, I stumbled on this - an exact projection of what I felt, what I still feel.

This isn't beautiful. Beauty isn't automatically a function of your skin colour. The chin, eye, lips , earlobes structures are requisites for having a beautiful face.

Kelly Rowland is dark-skinned but I dare opine she's more beautiful than Ellen DeGeneres who's white.

Genevieve is more beautiful than Cossy Orjiakor who's fairskinned.

Save us the politically correct hogwash! Not all black is beauty!

did you create your self? What if you came into the world ugly as Shrek, what would you do?

KingofDenero:
Obviously. That would take a lot of time or money. There's no way around it. We are talking years or over 5 million naira investment .

it won't

WebSurfer:
So i should act poor because i fuc.king need to find someone who will love me for me... it's posts like these that made me stop driving for a period of time and after all said and done i still didnt find a difference

And for your info, i dont entice ladies with money as i mostly assist cos i see the need to if i could

you are not their father and so stop.

Ginaz:
Wasn't this guy engaged? They broke up? Sorry dude. Sometimes love hurts.

yeah. That's right?

helphelp:
Nice.
Comedians dey ensure say dem madam fine sha

chop knuckle... Those guys get eye

WebSurfer:
Thanks bro.
You have really made up alot of sense.

Honestly speaking, maybe it has to do with the age bracket, not that i dont have this type of ladies who want me and are independent, but they are mostly either older or similar.. my closest female friend is a very good person.. im pretty sure shes the type who wants me just like i want her and same time independent...


Thing is that either age or location end up being a barrier .. i think most of the things you thiink i should go for are way too dificult to find below my age bracket
.
How do i really find an independent lady below 25 or 26 at least since i am 26?

Same time im under pressure from my family to get married in a way because im the only son and they think i have all it takes

You got to take it easy bro. 26 and you are allowing pressure from your parents to push like this. Now I can see why you are a bit desperate.

You are a man and you have to let your parents know you are a man. Look, if you follow the pressure from your parents to push you into a ditch with this headless morons, you will be the one to suffer in the long run.... At best your parents will only give you advise and it will end there, while you would just be there alone bearing all the mysteries and burdens.

I know why I am telling you focus on a girl that has interest in you.

Basically it all depends on what a girl wants. For a guy, it is easy for but for a girl, her emotions has to be in sync. What matter is what she wants. It doesn't matter if the person she wants is less better than you, even if she stands a better prospects with you than the other guy. It is what she wants and you have got to let her have it.

For instance a girl I liked but didn't want me kept telling me she does not want me... We dated in the past but she ended it within 4 months. But I kept trying to have her. Now when she would come back she said she has someone but when I would check out the guy the day she uploaded his pic, in looks and otherwise, I am better. But that's what she wants.

Her phone was bad for 3 months and she needed just 7k to get it fixed... Whether she inflated the price o, I don't know anyway, I gave her the money. And she was back online but along the line I found out she doesn't really want me.... Even though the other guy couldn't give her the money to fix her phone for 3 months... She still chose him either way. I did spend in other areas too.

It is same thing that happened to my friend. He had better prospects than the guy his then ex cheated with... Even in finances he was ahead but she chose the other guy over him. Sadly the Honda pilot he bought for her is gone lol.

So bros, keep your money... Winning and keep a woman goes beyond that.

At this stage have fun... You are still young. You are thinking of marriage because they money is available or because you come a from a well to do family. What about us who don't have such luxury?

I have to hustle every dime I make, even while at it, I do not have any time to waste on people who don't want me...
Another thing is that you tend to make these girl's feel it is only them you have. Look, rejection make these girl's sit up...

Go out and pick as much as 3 girls... You can run them all if you want. You know what you want and so stick to the one that gives you the most attention.

Look women are more than men in population. FACT!

while typing this on my phone, a girl worked passed us and you know what? She has that pretty face I talked about. In body, she is okay. But the face is extremely beautiful.. And your boy is hooked

Hey, I am going out to try my chance bro. No time to worry about any other girl. I have another I really like and she has been playing hard to get and my steam is depleting already, unknown to her. It will get to a point where she would not get any attention from me anymore by the time she makes up her mind...but should I wail and wait for her just because she does not want to give in easily? Boy, women outnumbered us already.. For every man, there are about 4-5 women.

I told my friend that the girl that just walked passed us is very pretty. And he said he is gonna get her for me through the younger sister as they are friends since I am new around here.

Bros, no time to let any girl spoil your joy ooo. Go out and have fun. Stop being too serious with these girls.

Marriage is a long journey and you have got to be really really careful. Don't let anyone pressure you into marriage. Do it at your own pace.

Divay22:
Counselor
Dude knows what he's suppose to do, but he's not doing it...
He's about making same mistake he did the first time..

He is just being emotional... And ladies don't want such guys who make them feel like a god.

WebSurfer:
I have learnt

please do bro. Nobody loves us more than our parents and siblings. That is a fact. Relationship is a contract and in a contract, both sides ought to give something to each other as symbiotic relationship but when only one side is giving without receiving, that is a parasitic relationship and should never be encouraged.