₦airaland Forum

phetto:
4 mens nko

Benita27:
Look up the meaning of a "Thief". Spending on a woman is a product of your benevolence, and not stealing. You can't sue her 'cause she rejected you after spending on her 'cause she didn't ask for it. It's not a loan. That's the more reason why some of you should spend wisely, and not use money to make ladies feel they're indebted. Once they feel indebted they may be dating you for that reason and not because they genuinely want to which is a redflag in any relationship.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

tosyne2much:
And he had to publicize it? To attract sympathy or what?

Heart break is what virtually every guy will experience at least once in his lifetime
before your head go correct


I shake my head for the childishness and stupidity of this guy

pu7pl3:
Lol managing direction

Where is the fainting booth please

Fhemmmy:
I can't believe that this nation is more developed than Nigeria . . .

WebSurfer:
I am actually not saying all girls are.. i’m Just here saying most. Why is that very difficult to understand ?

Btw, since you keep saying this maybe you should lecture me on where or how to find the good ones like you to roll it as you always attack me.

Or you don’t want it to stop ?

WebSurfer:
Boys, men.. i am here again to lament as usual

The rising numbers of girls/ladies chasing us is something i am not understanding yet..

I need to get enlightened why girls are pursuing us from left to right, back and front lately...

Very sure it has got nothing to do with christmas because most of these girls we spend nothing on them at all comparing to before.

How is it on your area?

potbelly:
A neck scarf can do the trick...

Earthquake1:
This looks like a movie.

MrRitchie:
What were u expecting in the chinese Yuan deal?? let's see if you have a knowledge of the question you're asking?

WebSurfer:
Really happy things didn't get worse

Statsocial:
While some are arguing about Tithe others are showing what true grace is - the ability to give more than even the people of old.

Surely some would come and say that he should have giving the money to the poor. But I am sure a person who gave to Church and chose anonymity must be doing great things for the poor also.

On a side note, It was during TTG I got to know that Living Faith has pastors who are CEOs of Big Corporations e.g E-tranzact(I think) so I am not surprised.



TheVictorious

Chanchit:
Thanks, I'm not silly cos I've taken the lead. Right now, I'm teaching him how to do his job.

Chanchit:
This is what happens when you have a visionary leader(Ay) not like my basta(r)d elder brother.

massinola:
The hypocrisy of many Pentecostal churches reaches high heavens. They will rush here to type poo about Catholic church, just because they can only dream of their numbers. But go back to worship ordinary man and chairs and call it faith. I rather honour Mary the mother of Christ than worship a mortal pastopreneur and his chair. Catholic I am, Mary I honour, and Catholic I will die.

DigitalScale:
cdq don replace this guy.
dah year konga.com
he dey rap like say na chinese he dey speak
naija artists are just wack

remember the wack verse na.
A KONGA
B KONGA
C KONGA
D KONGA

JUWAPA JUWAPA JUWAPA KONGA
JUWAPA JUWAPA JUWAPA CITA

shaybebaby:
I'm going to ask you to ignore that advice. No offense.

Want a partner who may go the full distance, you must always be yourself.
This isn't some fairy tale where you have a true reveal. This is real life bro.

Secondly, what do you want? I mean in life? What is the picture of the life you want, I mean not now, in 5 years, 10 years?

What are your dreams?

Identify those and find someone who shares the same dream i.e wants the same things and is willing to work with you to achieve the life you both want.

WebSurfer:
Yes.. I found out aftermath through one of those girls you saw on the photos.. pretty much long stories but simply the truth that a lot went on behind my back.. before the violent part came through with her destroying things among others.. infact police troubles and all that which ended when God decided to purnish her after a recorded sound clip of how she was going to kill me..

Goodnight too dear

WebSurfer:
OBARA JESUS

WebSurfer:
Details is too long jor... its way too long to explain by writing.. try to understand..
Just forget those innocent looks you saw on her face,she wasn't far from the devil with an evil and wicked heart

CoolFreeday:
You guys are trying, nice but you have to try harder to stop us from voting PMB in 2019 if he decides to contest.
#God has really bless PMB, the more they criticize him, the more We luv him

WebSurfer:
I just got this now, will look for them soon as i can get my hands on them thanks bro

Trendy247:
Nah.. I mean red oil palm tree

Ndkings1:
Using palm tree wood to roof a house?
Never heard of it before....

SmellingAnus:
He was wrong to have tried to flog you... But it's possible that trousers worn by females are not allied there... Although I am not a Catholic... Just behave like the Romans when you get to Rome... The Priest was wrong anyway, but he is probably a very conservative person...

WebSurfer:
Thanks a lot bro... just that I am very selective when it comes to picking ladies, a very busy person and a loner at same time. I enjoy staying alone.

But I will try my best on that

conductor123:
I'm in my late 20's... Next

The man at the center of my post is Father Hyacinth Okwara, a Catholic priest. He's the principal of Imo Girls college owerri. The school on okigwe road, close to the flyover.

At 9:45 am, I drove into the school premises to make inquiries about the admission procedures. I have a domestic assistant that was brought to me about a week ago,so I wanted to know what I have to do to get her registered in the school.

I parked and headed straight to the administration building.

I saw three women seated and attending to students, I told them that I wanted to make some inquiries pertaining to admission, they said I was in the right place and asked me to take a seat.

While waiting for her to round up what she was doing, a priest in an all white garb walked in.

He came to me and said that he thought I was Bob Marley when I was walking in. I smiled, thinking he was trying to either banter or throw me a compliment.

He now asked "why are you dressed like this? I replied and asked him what he meant"? I told him that is a week day and I'm working and this is how workers dress.. I was still smiling, trying to humor him and seriously hoping that it was all a joke.

He said" and why do you have a hair like that? I looked at the teachers, all with their weavon hair. I now turned and said " father these are braids"plus I only came here to make inquiries.

He said.. Oh! You're laughing! oya get up and get out. Go and change. We don't tolerate hair like these here.

Then it dawned on me. I turned to the woman in front of me and I asked her if I was in model government college school? Maybe I was in the wrong place. While I was talking to the teacher.. This priest, went in and grabbed a cane and started coming menacingly towards me with it
He wanted to start flogging me,screaming that I was indecent and a bad influence on the girls who saw me come in. He had to be held down by four women and man.

There are things that shouldn't happen to people like me. I defend people I don't know when I see them in similar circumstance.
I told him he was in for a storm. I told him to hold on tight.. That this isn't the end. The teachers started pleading with me.. They said he's the Governor's brother and as such is untouchable.

While all these was happening, another man walked in. I don't know his position in the school but he seems to have a bit of authority. The teachers told him what happened. He held my hands and apologized profusely. He begged me to calm down and ignore the priest. Meanwhile the priest already left the scene as at then. The teachers told me I haven't seen anything.

They said that if he can do this to me.. A complete stranger, that I should imagine what they go through on daily basis.
Violence against women is something that we discuss here all the time. The blatant disrespect that women are constantly subjected to at every turn.

A principal in a public government school has no right to regulate what a mother should or shouldn't wear to a school where he's just a worker.
Now I don't know the laws and regulations they have in these schools.. But decency I know can be subjective.
So what was the yard stick he used to measure my indecency?

On the threat to Life..
One would think a priest should know better...but alas, I was wrong.
He was going to flog me with a cane if not that he was held down.

A man who sees women from such a myopic lens is not qualified to be the principal of an all girls school. What is he teaching these girls? That violence against women is OK?

That a man or a priest can flog a woman and get away with it? In which Bible or laws was that written?

If you're reading this.. We all should raise our voices collectively. The impunity and corruption that trails my state is way too much to comprehend.

The Governor's brother has no immunity the last time I checked. The Governor's brother is just another human who has to abide by the laws like every other person. Sometimes we think the people who abuse women and children are just thugs and rogues .. But no. They're are closer than you think.

They're families.. Pastors.. Priest.. Men in position of authority who instead of using it for good.. Abuse all the power and privilege that comes with his office.
I have already gone to my lawyer .

I'm suing him for abuse of power, threat to do bodily harm and violence.
The complaints against him by teachers in the schools are as follows:
He comes in the morning and leaves by 10 am same morning for the whole day. And he has done that very other day for the past 3 years.
The school has never held a board meeting,because he refused to come and see what's happening.
He's very abusive towards the students Teachers and everybody .

The teachers said that he's mentally unbalanced and not in a position to be the principal of a school.
There has been major complaints against him, some has been directed to the commissioner of education and the government house, yet nothing has been done till date.

The teachers are all disgruntled and wiling to testify against him. I have voice recordings and pictures to buttress these. .
I went back there by 11 am with my husband. Met and spoke to some of the teachers. I saw different hair Styles and also took pictures, most crazier than me. So these has nothing to do with the school rules and regulations.

The students were all over the place and no lectures or teaching was going on. I went round. These kids were left to their whims and nothing was going on there.

I guess free education comes with complete negligence....
He needs to resign and we can make it happen
I have it also on good authority that complains has been made to the ministry of Education.

They need to do the needful.
I guess things went these bad because nobody has been able to talk,or take it up officially seeing as he's the golden egg of the Governor. ..
It ends here..

Check for my attire today in the Comment, the one that earned me a flogging. Let's share until it gets to relevant authorities. Our children deserve a decent education and a great atmosphere for their academic work. More than anything they deserve a good role Model and a principal is a major role model.

#JusticeForVivian