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WebSurfer:
My bro. Only if I tell you that same person returned back and she's acting better now.

But either ways I always make her understand I wouldn't spend a penny on her and we've have been on our own, even gave back part of money borrowed from me but I used it on her again the next day without asking.

Its like is she understand all these differences now and have tried to put them away.

Only problem I still have with her sometimes now is her pride..


Just hope she is not pretending now

Make her work to earn your respect. Don't give her on a gold platter. DON'T DON'T. How are you sure she hasn't gone to the guy who paid and after their sex rump, after feeding her mind, she is back to you. It's like eating your cake and having it.

expertix:
That domain was regged upside down. IMHO i think it should be solarleads and not leadssolar. Well yoh might be lucky getting someone to buy it.
About nominalia settings. That is the problem with them, You just have to create the cname. in your cpanel

leeds is a location in UK. Take note. So, it's perfectly intact.

Neduzze5:
This is what change of power causes.... Just like when Buhari came into Power.

When the former VC of the school, Prof Edeoga was leaving, he had a candidate in mind to replace him and most of the staff in the school where his cronies.

However, Otunta played the kind of politics he played and grabbed the position.

Now he plans to payback those that didn't support his election and loyalists of the former V.C by sacking them.

Maybe he wants to bring his village people to come and run the school.

Thank God say man no be God sha!!

Most Nigerians are vindictive. Why sack just because they didn't support him?

MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?

Do a DNA test. I know it's not cheap but do it once the baby is born or tell her a DNA will be done.

LesbianBoy:
What impact has ik ogbonna had on people directly? If he has nothing sensible thing to say he should just gbenu e soun

do u live with him? No. How then can you know?

Airtimex:
My bro you don't have to bring Nnamdi kanu in this matter...


Lets face the truth...

He has to bring Nnamdi Kanu into it because she drove home point without insulting anyone.

Sezua:
entrepreneur


noun (plural entrepreneurs)
- A person who organizes and operates a business venture and assumes much of the associated risk.
- A person who organizes a risky activity of any kind and acts substantially in the manner of a business entrepreneur.

Shut up op

Lol. You should ask the op is she is an entrepreneur. Let's start from there.

abhosts:
The Banks want to discourage the use of Naira Cards for USD Transactions.

I think that is the point but that will only be achieved if and when the exchange rates has drastically fallen.

addisoy:
A BIG SHAME !! I HAVE NOTICED THAT ALL GOVT ORGANIZATIONS ARE NOT WELL ORGANIZED, PHONE LINES DON'T GO THROUGH, WEBSITES LOOKING LIKE UNCOMPLETED SITE, EVEN THEIR WORKERS ARE NOT SMART ENOUGH. YOU CAN'T JUST COMPARE WITH PRIVATE BUSINESS SETUPS, THEY ALWAYS ON POINT.

I THINK IT BOILS DOWN TO THE ISSUE OF POOR MANAGEMENT, INADEQUATE FINANCING AND LOOTING, WHERE CONTRACTS ARE NOT FULLY EXECUTED IF YOU ASK ME.

lol u forgot to add nepotism.

calberian:
I'm being made to understand that he survived with injuries.

Maybe its my movie brain talking but I just feel he could have taken them all out from his position because the robbers were all exposed and, relative to his, at vulnerable positions.

Nonetheless, he deserves every support and commendation.

Banking app should help in avoiding being caught in this kind of crossfire. If you don't really have to go to the bank, advise yourself accordingly.

what if he runs out if bullets against 3 men? see u.

Iluv:
Damn!!!

This is just like a movie. I hope the policeman survived.

He deserves a medal for reacting. Some others will just quietly remain in that outpost until the robbers leave.

NA so one mumu enter ATM withrew over 500k right in an open place. The police man tried by i have a feeling he was shot.

I just made a payment today for a transaction of $21.67 but GTB deducted N8,559.65 at the rate of 395. We all know that dollar is now N362-N365/$. So, why is our banks charging us above this mark? We need answers and query so that they can bring down the price to the official rate.


A simple glance through AbokiFX.com as shown in the screenshot above can see what banks are charging for online payments across boards.

I believe I am not the only one that have experienced this and I want everybody to tweet to CBN using @CenBank to lodge a complain on twitter.
Please do so now. keep tweeting


front page please.. @lalalsticlala,ishilove, dominique please front page.

KevMitnick:
He expects you to change your bad ways, so he gives u all the rope you need. But because he is quiet and reserved, you think he is dumb and stupid... Lol, big mistake. These set of people are actually the most intelligent and thoughtful. If you know one, please be open and sincere with him, no games and you'll be ok. I promise.

this exactly what most of them do. They think you are dumb for overlooking most of their atrocities meanwhile you are just hoping that they change.

It's exactly what played out with the ex I talked about. I was giving chance to make amends but she kept getting worse and worse until I ended the whole thing. I love this girl so much at that time and she took me for an idiot with no future.

When she came back 2 or 3 years later and I didn't take her back, she couldn't believe her eyes, she couldn't believe I found it hard to forgive her and this made her kept begging me. Last year, she was the one wooing me but it's too late cos my eyes don too open to stick to one girl like her. No thanks to her role in making me that kind of guy that disrespect and disregard relationship with one partner.

Michellla:
Kenya again

do you have a copy of that book?

jaydee87:
this makes Ronald the best. hard work pays.. messi is a very good player in fact one of the best the world would see same as Ronald.

Talent is not enough bro.

NwaAmaikpe:

Why will a mother dump her baby

Women are heartless...a woman abandoned her own baby because she looked ugly.

Na wa o



No matter how ugly the baby is, the baby is your baby.

not because she looks ugly BUT the circumstances surrounding such child. This one is better. There was one I saw in Gutter in 2008 and raised alarm within seconds, the whole street was thrown in to commotion. It was a boy but dead already.

missnawty:
Lord have mercy.. I feel so bad for her daughters.. Cos abi lenu yatosi abi nidi ooo.. Who can even b like ones mother

i understand your sentiments. Trust me, they will be fine. They will grow to live without her.

Riduane:
That tells you what? That Talent is overrated

yeah bro. I can testify to that.

GloriaNinja:
C RONALDO IS SIMPLY THE BEST.

he works so hard... Messi on the other hand is a born Baller!!

ProWalker:
Na disappointment everywhere Ipob turns
I wonder what they can do with those tiny five hamlets with the way they bred uncontrollably

we were handed 20 pounds after the war... we rose from ashes of the war and we will surely survive it.

Go and write it down.

Let your region be given 20 pounds while everything is taken away from that and let's see how they will survive.

Ode!

bro4u:
clearly this cow isnt speaking for the Urhobo race, even if he is when war breaks out now y'all will fight with your limited manpower against the Northerners?, better join the winning side you morons

Shut up. Just shut your mouth. Stop dragging others into our agitation. It is not by force. They are not Igbos and will never be.

Nne5:
I've always maintained Biafra is 5 SE states and 5 SE states is Biafra.


Don't know who invited these SS people.




He is!

Don't know why Ipob keep begging for unity with these people.Its pathetic because they aren't needed.

Don't mind any idiot who try drag other regions into Biafra. I really don't know what is wrong with some Igbos among us. See how they are making a mockery of the whole Biafra agitation as if we can't survive without those.

Josh44s:
This ur comment weak me. God! Save me from hoes like this one

she is being realistic brom

Saintsammurai:
Now all the married men that posted on that topic will all be thinking that she might be my wife..
I see so many DNA tests this week..
By the way, i pity the husband of that lady..
ladies like that, can kill the husband just to protect her secrets when the husband finds out..
She kills the man, and uses his wealth to take care of another guy's kids..

It happened in Benin in 2016.

Ikenna0b:
Who the Bleep told you this?

Nigga go read a history book and stop ranting what you read on FB or where ever.

The Great wall of China was built to stop the invasions and raid of nomadic clans invading the Chinese empire as well as used for border control.


My God I cannot believe a grown ass man with access with Internet actually spewed this level of ignorance you displayed here.


Here read and educate yourself
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Wall_of_China

I said a Chinese.. I read it a few days ago... and I believe you know Quora. I never said myself said it. It was just my usual routine as I frequent there everyday...

Ikenna0b:
What you mean red eye?



Simple referendum like so many have asked. A UN sponsored and monitored Referendum is the fastest and easiest for any nation to secede their country. If it must result to war like we see the animals of Nigeria do, then I personally believe that Biafra should stop trying to befriend British and Russia and sort after allies that noone dares to approve as allies. Having the best military does not always mean you can fight and win, having the determination and will makes a better solider hence somalia once defeated the US military (yes somalians did), also why biafran soliders killed more Nigerian soliders despite the odds.
The biafran leaders need to start building allies with both neighboring countries and other countries. Referendum is good and dandy but we must also work on plan B. In addition, something I personally think IPOB leaders need to work on and that's stop announcing everything. It is not a must you have to share all your strategies. Keep the informations to yourself as the more mystery, the better.



Honestly what I pray we do is copy the Chinese and build a wall. Yes it's archaic but it works. The wall would also be used as border control. Before anyone can pass through it, they must identify who he or She is therefore, if herdsmen that are let it, do their usual behavior, it'll be easier to identify them and also impossible for them to escape.

Lol, a Chinese narrated why those walls in China was built, as I read on Quora.

The walls were built because China's leader around 18 or 19th century thought they could do without others in the world, stop importation, stop relationship and all things. They felt that they had "arrived" and so, they no longer needed anybody.

Technologically, they were ahead of the rest of the world, they had the best guns (at that time), they were world powers and undefeated.

Then came the industrialization age in the west and europe and everything China built and hoped for collapsed, they lost many wars and so they had to back to the drawing board.

So, I hope you idea of building a wall is not cut relationships with the rest of the world lol.

EzeUche:
Please be quiet now that you have made your point! Thanks.

okay boss!

KratosCorp:
If you are igbo then Buhari is from Nri.

Get off the thread for goodness sake.

You came here actively insulting Igbos and ended up derailing a peaceful thread that was first of its kind. Yet, could not see how shameful it is for an igbo person to do so.

You must be such a shameless fellow with chronic identity crisis.

I will not buy into any of your nonsense, whether now or in the future. What majority of you are good at is just create chaos, not even laying foundation like the OP of this thread has done. Out of respect for the OP and others, I will refrain from responding to nonentities who have absolutely nothing to offer the Biafra cause but deface her image and portray her as boastful and hateful mother.

Mcowubaba:
Adure4ver, yeah I know her...

No offense.....
She was a bit Narcissistic too, always talking about how successful she is, and how she is doing her Masters degree bla bla bla, how she is a renowned pharmacist...

She always portrayed Igbos in a bad light, she was not a true patriot....

I don't blame IPOBs for attacking her, her case was justified.......

I'm talking about IPOBs attacking just about anybody, both those that mean no harm or issue against them...

Adure4ver always asks for it, by her uncanny utterances, she didn't just have a different opinion, she always had a crazy opinion, that's 2 different things

I was not an IPOB member then or even now, but I engaged her in some arguments on few occasions..

I'm sorry if you respected her views, I also apologize for saying my own opinion about her...

And sincerely, I'm happy she deactivated (that I didn't know till now) , anyway, nobody really deactivates from Nairaland, she is probably still a guest or she opened another account, no be today matter

no problem bro. we are all entitled to our opinion and our opinions can't entirely be right in the eyes of everyone BUT she spoke in most times the truth. Yeah, I did read a few times where she bragged about her Msc... that is highly due to her background and upbringing.

can you see the mofo feeling funky because I do not worship his god (Nnamdi Kanu) like he does... these are the elements that MUST be eliminated for this cause to become a reality.

I don't worship anybody... you don't feed me so why should I worship you?

Nwakaumu:
pls,afonja shift. Nnamdi kanu is not your mate,or you want incur the wrath of amadioha to strike you dead,how dare you talk about him in that manner.

I will talk about him you fool. he not a god. he has blood like i do. he breathes like i do. I worship no man, dead or alive... and if he dare take the place of God as i see him already doing, thunder will both or you. You are a bastard for daring me and question why i will challenge his stance. you fool. get the fork out of my sight you irrelevant miasma.

Mcowubaba:
I created a thread about this... Exactly...

And as usual I was called Yoruba Muslim.....

Nnamdi Kanu has radicalised some Igbo youths, the are so aggressive, insultive and antagonistic....
Filled with anger, hate and intolerance...

Only their opinion should count in their own mindset, once you have a contrary opinion, you automatically become an AFONJA or Yoruba Muslim...

How can Biafra work like this

Nnamdi kanu is a BRAVE Igbo icon, no doubt, he will always be referenced, But I think he should step aside.
He is the main reason why some Igbos are still sitting on the fence.
In all honesty no sane Igbo man can be in full support of all the idealogies of Nnamdi Kanu, that man is too hate-filled, and egoistic.

We need more actions, and less talk..


One other great mistake some IPOBs have been making is to keep including some minority ethnic groups to Biafra, this has made many of them feel narcissistic and unnecessary relevant to Igbos.

The have Cursed and abused Igbos unnecessarily, personally I don't gave a fvck about any of them..

I don't why some deranged IPOB members keep engaging them in argument, hereby giving them avenue to keep insulting Igbo people.

Some IPOBs seriously get on my nerves, can't you leave this minorities only

I love that some Logical Igbo men like pazienza are speaking out in this regard

Bros, thank you for seeing what I had explained. From what I am seeing, Nnamdi Kanu will be put where he belongs when this movement is all full throttle. Trust me, except we are not IGBOS.

I respect his guts, I love his bravery, he has played his role and will NEVER be forgotten. However, his approach and hateful speeches will do us more harm than good if we allow it propagate beyond this level.

adure4ever was a brilliant young lady but my God, THIS IPOB guys from Nnamdi Kanu's camp tore that lady to pieces until she had to deactivate her account... they dealt with her because she shared a contrary view. I miss her and do hope she comes back. She was really really brilliant, up to date with history, politics for someone of her age ( I think 20y.o).

it is well.

KratosCorp:
Stop using IPOB as an excuse for self-loathing. There are literally millions of nationalistic minded and pro-Biafran igbos who do not belong to IPOB nor necessarily agree with its ideology totally. You need no polite and courteous IPOB to know that Nigeria is not working and will never work due to its institutionalized injustice and penchant for wickedness.

Unless you are one of the few igbos who benefit from the status quo at the expense of the collective then you have no justifiable reason not know that this amalgamation is restrictive to the average igbo and is a huge burden on the entire south.

You can't deny the fact that when people think about BIAFRA, what they see is the current circle of Nnamdi Kanu's version which constitutes lots of arrogant, proud, hateful and irritating attitude. That is what I am referring to and it is a bad image in my own view.

I would prefer a well co-ordinated progression such has been displayed on this thread than what Nnamdi Kanu's currently represents.