₦airaland Forum

BrutusOj:
You foools been making noise of starting your own company while you stay in your father's house and eat free food and play bet9ja. You think it's that easy starting up a business?

lol. Any money na money o. 150k is pretty easy to earn on your own if you know your way around. So many guys with internet business skills now make such money in a week.

That guy has a point but he was rude about it.

The truth is that running things yourself could afford you ample time to do multiple things, like running 2-3 business together with each bringing in 200k per month and that's like 400k per month.

You wouldn't have much time to achieve that while working and before you can reach the rank where they pay you 400k per month, it would take years.

TIME is the pivotal mark here. TIME TIME TIME.

But all in all, whatever make one happy is the key.

ChukwuObi:
Please can any one here help me with N7, 000? My daughter is very sick and need N7, 000 for her medical bills. Please, i don't want to lose her. I beg you guys with the name of God. Please save a soul...


NAME: Obi Chukwu

ACCOUN NUMBER: 0080032457

BANK: Diamond Bank



Thank you and God bless

Fake account

simonlee:
I doubt this can happen. But if truly it does happen, you guys have scored hatrick against the afonjas who feel kinda like the book people. keep it up biaffra people

don't bring tribal slur into this. Success is not hereditary before some people come here beating chest. The dude worked hard for himself and his family ALONE. Go do yours.

Congrats ma'am. It's all about Hard work, believe you can make it and above all SKILL SKILL SKILL

Dexema:
Exactly what I was about to say, if you guys don't have kids yet kindly and please kick her the hell out of your house. Fvckin olosho wey dey form orente.

this is not a case of olosho bro. If na olosho, she for dey fork different dicks. It's just a case of a woman not loving a man.

He is just there for the "Mrs" title. I don't forgive people who play on my intelligence. I don't! You can commit any other crime against me BUT when it seems you played on my intelligence, you are a gunnnnneeeeerrr. QED.

@Olubee22, how was your night? Hope you slept well? Omo da da, Omo to bi re (hope I go I spoke it well?) lol.

Benignasweety:
Am heavy and expecting

so sorry ma'am.

Benignasweety:
currently going tru something like this but d opposite... God help me cuz I see myself divorcing soon...

if you don't have a child yet, end it. I am a strong supporter of your happiness should come first.

Olubee22:
It's obvious Op was just a back up plan and the ex was the real deal.

It applies to both men and women jare. I'm sure what she did ,some guy somewhere is doing the same thing .

He just fell for the wrong person but also had his faults like why would he take her back? To make matters worse, her friends pleaded on her behalf like she didn't feel sorry at all. It has always been one sided and he failed to see or chose to ignore it

If the marriage is yet to produce a child ,he should bounce .if otherwise ,he should give her a space and take some time to think it through.

Hmmmmmmm... You have a point. Bless you.

ademola2017:
Hi Nairalanders,

I am in a state of dilemma as my marriage is shaking.

Before we got married, my wife treated me like a piece of shit and never gave me any regards or attention. Any little quarrel would be blown out of proportion and wouldn't talk to me for days. I did the calling always and each time I ask her why she doesn't call, she would say I should get used to it. There was a day when a baseless quarrel occurred, she accused me falsely and we didn't talk for more than two months. I stayed single and was already moving on until her friend came begging on her behalf. I wondered why she didn't come herself but all the same I accepted her back. She changed like she was doing me favor but I still persisted because I loved her genuinely.

Fast forward, we got married and I was hoping for a good future with her. As usual I was very open to her and discussed every issues with her. At a point, I found out the marriage was one sided. I gave more but got little or nothing from her. I never burden her with house chores or cooking at all. We sat always to talk about her attitude but she would say things are fine while I will be grieving and having sleepless nights. She will wake up in the middle of the night to check my phone to know if i was cheating. I swear I have never cheated on my wife... She knows my password and never hid anything from her.
As we went on in the marriage, her behavior became worse and couldn't condone it again. She never saw anything wrong with her attitude and would say her apologizes are expensive.

I decided to do a background check on her and found out she double dated all through when we started dating and gave the guy more attention for 2years of our relationship. When things went bad between them, she fell back to me and unknown to me, I accepted her back. She and her ex were still in good communication till the night I confronted her. She would rather confide in her ex than confide in me (Now husband) Now, I feel so hurt, betrayed and used and can’t trust her again.

She has been very apologetic and says she is ready to change. So if had not found out about her double ways, I will still be condoning her insolent ways. I am seriously finding it hard in my heart to forgive her. Even if I do, I can never ever forget because I do not trust her again.

What will you guys advice?

Do you have any child from the marriage? If no, I would say END that marriage for your own good. Most woman don't appreciate your type except you do the opposite.

Being good to women is alien to them.

@Olubee22, can you see what I was saying? Now tell me where this brother went wrong?

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Olubee22:
Yes

oh okay. Omo Alhaji

Olubee22:
You are welcome

are you a muslim?

Olubee22:
Seriously ,I don't know how to put it . It includes all the normal things you guys do but when you do it in excess ,it feels like you are choking the girl .

As much as you want to show you care and like the girl ,try to give her a space ,don't be like MTN and try too hard to impress her .

Hmmmmmm... okay o. Thanks.

Olubee22:
We do appreciate it when guys are nice but some can overdo it and that could be really annoying .

Don't forget that guys are deceptive too, some would do anything to get a girl and once they are done that's the end.

In my world ,you don't have to overdo things to impress me ,just be honest .Honesty is all I need .

You guys behave as if the world revolves around you.

I don't know what overdo means, can you elaborate on that? It just might help a soul.

Olubee22:
Lol, why nah

Seriously ,if the guy is that great and calm like you have stated why would I want to trade that for something else?
Everyone is got one or two negative sides but I try as much as possible to be the best I could be . I don't believe in all men are the same but most times they will always let you down .

I'm not being defensive but you know your experience isn't mine and mine isn't yours.

Certainly, we are different. I done extensive research and experiments using myself to know you don't need to give a woman all "good" to keep her.

I am almost at the "give up" point and I know for certain it might happen that I don't want a woman in my life since I can't be myself around her.

Being nice,loving, caring, promising does not work for most Nigerian ladies. Did you see the dude whom you told "sorry"? Didn't see he did all the "nicies" and what did he get in return? "Heart Breakl

I have read from a lady on nairaland that she ended a relationship because "he was too nice"

Sometimes, they prefer to lead a guy on with deception.

My premise is that never love a woman up to the point where she knows it. It's best a woman never finds out.

Sincerely, Nigerian ladies DONT appreciate that "nice" because he is a pest!

austinosita:
Ayiri don finally shame bbn

So if una like, make una rig am, efe go still collect pass the other one(for those wey understand)



But how true is this tho?

you go to love those guys from the South South. The defend their own, whether your thief or not, they defend. Tompolo we no see till today.

enuk80:
I wish i never loved her because she just broke up with me yesterday..I gave her my love, time, attention,make sure she was happy, wash her cloths, go to any length for her, gave her my ATM pin..I pleased her while trying to displeased myself even when i knew she slept behind my back with different guys, entertained married men as friend, kept in touch with her fiance who engaged her for three yrs that didn't married her, evn when she knew her fiance has a child...I did and print her project work for her..I gave gave and sent her money..I was blinded by love or should I say I was a fool for love because this girl don't worth everything I did for her..she manipulated, decievd, lied, played with emotion and pretend to be a good girl when she is not...I forgave her countless times even when she broke my heart and she got so comfortable in my forgiveness..she went home to returned her engagement ring to her fiance so she could be with me but was sulprise when sent me a break up text that she is sorry for all d pain she caused me and she can't continue d relationship with me because she has gone to where her heart is free with and love...i remembered each time we had little miss understanding, she will tell me that what have done for her..that I have never done anything for her

Do the opposite of what you just stated here to the next girl and see her die to have you. Nigerian women don't deserve love.

Olubee22:
it hurts a lot but I always have it in mind that they will always fumble. I do my own part and when they eventually mess up, I will just laff it off like "I knew it"

These days when I read comment such as your coming from a lady, I laugh because there is a high tendency that she will definitely disappoint that "great guy" when he shows up. Ladies often say they want the positives but in their hearts, by virtue of their emotions, it's the negatives (unworthy) of a guy they always clutch on to.

You can't be calm, communicative, responsible, dedicated, committed and always giving attention without being tagged a pest, a weakling, not man enough.

Before you defend, do note I speak from experience!

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SalamRushdie:
When we have purposeful and visionary men like Ambode Nigeria is still looking for the right leader ...The day we stop all the quota system presidency thing and go for the best it's then Nigeria will start improving...I see no reason why Nigerians shouldn't draft Ambode to Aso Rock on 2019 if we are really serious about fixing this country because of all the leaders I have studied in this country he is the only one that has that visionary thought process a nation needs to attain some real growth

Tah... Osinbajo would be preferable. Ambo ko, Amebo ni.

deflover:
Mr mighty egho
How do you expect them to act
And when they take laws into thier hands u will scream there are better ways to ask for your rights within the Nigerian project
You are just wat u are
Created by the system not to use the ice cream u call a brain

As if that is what the North do and get away with it all the time! I don't have anything else to say because I am sure you know what I mean and reality isn't lying either.

Buharimustgo:
Amaechi is not only a stooge but his is very sick mentally,a northerner can never behave the way he does I don't know what is wrong with the South east and South south people

they are cowards. Forget the loudmouthed idiots that chant biafra or ss nonsense. Like they say, empty vessels make the loudest noise. The North don't make noise, they ACT!

TPAND:
I got small boobs and proud of it

that's what I love most. Big Boobs are a turn off for me. I prefer orange size boobs to grape size. Keep being proud of what you have.

daretodiffer:
You don't need anyone to disgrace. You have done the job perfectly! You have given notice that you are a pervert and an unintelligent humna being. What else can I do?

bitch go fork yourself, you miserable nonentity. Did I get into your mention or invited you into mine? Did I insult you before you insulted me. May your busy body land you into more problems than you ever bargained for. You want to flex "feminism" on me? You die well. Offline i will land you dirty slap for putting your mouth in my affair uninvited. Look at the amoeba, feeling funky. Go wash your smelly vagina abeg.

repogirl:
You don't have to smile but you definitely don't come on line intending to publicly embarrass or shame the lady. How can they remain friends after this?

The trust isn't there anymore.

So because he spent 3800 on a first date, she should agree to being his girlfriend, so as not to hurt his feelings ? Did she beg him to take her out before?

You have a point though. But the society don't appreciate a guy who speak out his pains. I can tell you for a fact a guy like that are less dangerous than those who don't speak.

Look at the guy who murdered his military babe for instance, he was hurt, he didn't speak up and then did the unimaginable. We got to start thinking on both sides, everything comes with advantage and disadvantages.

Fear those who don't talk more than those who speak up about their pains. If someone makes you know your action hurt them, no matter how childish it may seem, appreciate them in a way than those who bottle it up and still smile at you. Trust me, I know what I am saying.

I will embrace this guy for emptying his heart over the ones who bottle up in the name of trying to be a "man" cos they are more dangerous some times.

Emmahunk:
You are a great guy. Pride and ego will not allow 90% of men here to do what you just did. To accept one's fault and appolgise for it is a rare quality .I am proud of you .

the society expect a man not cry but if that's what it should be, then men shouldn't have tear gland.

daretodiffer:

i thought you would dare more. I understand what it means to be a Nigerian dumb fork! You thought I would continue to be cool and felt you would have your way. You want it dirty? bring it on. We go disgrace ourself here today

Chidizman:
If you believe this stunt peddled by these lots. You obviously need a new brain. How did them both get each others account number? Nigerians, Why can't you be smart and think? Even first bank have joined the chorus. Continue

no mind them. That's MMM can fool a lot of people. Imagin 3M people falling for MMM and tell me If there is hope for this country lol.

daretodiffer:
Bitvh like your mama

smelly cunts feeling funky. Busy body tsetse fly. Bloody irritant with no sense of belongings. make Amandioha strike your destiny into coma.

daretodiffer:
Biko you are a pest/pervert not a gentleman.

biitch, that's enough. I don't recall ever quoting you in the first place. Stay on your lane.

daretodiffer:
Someone is inherently stupid and you are asking me play nice...I hear you. He insulted me when he started bitching about women.

He is entitled to his own opinions but not stupid ones.


Anyways you have a point

. You make me laugh. I have repented from my old ways. If not, I know how to handle your type.

You don't know me and why I choose to do what I do when I hang out with a lady, but you feel a guy like my type is beinga pervert for being a nice gentleman. It's on record that Nigerian girls don't want such and so I am not surprise that you see a guy being nice as a weakling.