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Gloriouscrown:
Thanks Giddyperson....d engorgement is something else

Express at intervals with your hands, especially whenever it's hurting. Within two to three days, milk production slows down or is halted all together. Weaning is not supposed to be a feat at all at all.

chisun89:
Good evening to all mamas in the house, I hail o. Pls I heard that one is suppose to treat infection and malaria before taking in, how true is this and can anyone help with drugs I can take for the treatment. Thanks all, abeg no waka pass o.

Just got married, am trying to know precautions to take to enable smooth pregnancy journey.

Have you tested to know whether you have any infection to begin with?

allaboutobed:
Wat are u really saying. Can u just explain in one sentence.

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Only in Nigeria.

Good one.

dairykidd:
Lolzz the last pic tho..

Happy birthday Rocktation.. New year's eve babe. More blessings & beautiful years ahead. May all your today's be better than the best

Thank you thank you. I appreciate this.

Mojoy88:
So, my sister, why do you lock your rooms before you sleep since your view says we should blame the predator and not the carelessness of the prey? You shouldn't have taken preventive measure for theft and robbery.

May be you are not aware that boys of their age could get attracted to them and dubiously do the thing with them.

Paedophiles are real. They are in our world of today, same as other social vices. Do everything possible to protect young girls, and decent dressing is a vital way of ensuring that.

Castigating those guys for airing their views is very wrong. I wonder why that lady criminalised their opinion.

Your presumption of what I do with my locks is so amazing, even tho you don't know me from Adam. I wont unmark the need to stay safe for high importance but my brother, not everywhere reeks of all unimaginable evil from the underworld, really.

Most people here just speak, with feelings hinged on religion and brains, shaped by their upbringing. It's not enough for them to disseminate it with so much authority, outside their fathers' parlors.

People will not move under rocks because the world is fast peddling to nothingness. Rather than justify a wrong, encourage people to desist from doing that wrong. The world's healing cannot have a better beginning.

Wallade:
Don't worry, experience will teach you a big lesson, I can only pray it isn't gonna be regretable for you because you were strongly advised.

Keep dressing your kids in indescent, provocative and revealing manner. Infact, let them run around and go about unclad. You may be able to get the pervert, rapist and molester punished but the damage would have been done; irreparable.

Please can you at least attempt to not be overly sensitive, by not making this be about me? I haven't called you a pedophile yet, even tho you so vehemently argue for the motion of walking on egg shells, on their behalf. Surely whatever damage that can be done to any kid, cannot floor that which such a sick person has never experienced life without. So don't talk to me about experience and shit, when you know absolutely nothing of what I'm about.

Wallade:
If your car is flashy or otherwise, no sane person will deliberately leave the car unlocked especially when the locks and security features are functional.

Mind you, thieves wanna just steal your car to use it or sell it for financial gain.

The notes:
Dress responsibly and ensure your kids, male and female, dress responsibly too. Decency takes away from us but adds value to us!

Applicable the other way actually and more rightly so. No sane person should be tempted to or actually steal your car, whether or not, it is unlocked.

Thieves are sociopaths. As are child abusers.

My cent? You just can't blame someone else for someone else's dysfunctions.

Wallade:
I worked in an office sometime back and my colleague got angry with me in course of a general conversation on indecent dressing. She is plump, stout and chubby. When she was in primary school, she went to school dressed in body hugging, curves revealing and short skirt. The teacher disapproved and tongue lashed her and she felt dejected, traumatized and bad. She was complaining, while we were having that discussion, about her male teacher's orientation and assumed that he was sexualizing her as a kid, based on that event.

The mistake I made was to boldly tell her that it was expected that every lady should mind what they wear too and that parents should endeavour to have their kids dress appropriately. She became aggressive, confrontational and almost physical but for the intervention of other colleagues. Honestly, I was shocked.

Come to think of it, we live in a very perverted world today. I hear babies being raped and I can't comprehend what the adult rapist was thinking or the feeling he derived from it. But for the insanity in the society today, men are often moved by what they see. Hence, I feel ladies and men can wear whatever suits them but with caution and consideration of the influence their wears have on others.

I apologize to the lady folks, especially the slay mamas and those who love to dress provocatively, but we must all realize that there are some people that can not keep their pervert demons in check out there. Their pervertions are often triggered by what they see.

They are in the churches, mosques, schools, streets, environment and everywhere. Oftentimes, they look well behaved and respectable.

Okay. Because you put it like that...we will think about it.

Lol.

darlenese:
let's not feign ignorance ,there are predators everywhere . . teach your kids to dress properly , u have heard from the mouth of pedophiles

L O L.

SlimzDboss:
Geez. All these immoralities are mostly caused by failed parental duties and responsibilities

True that. Failed parental responsibilities to mostly the male child.

Wallade:
Why does the car owner have security features, alarms, locks and trackers on his car if he didn't need to protect the car?

Would you blame a car owner that parked her car in public without locking it and activating the security features if the car got stolen?

Probably not. But I would blame the car owner for having a flashy car anyways. Tell us, would you receive a medal of honor for being tempted or actually stealing a car, simply because its owner left it unlocked?

Interesting. A lot of single lads would scamper away from any responsibility regarding paternity, whatsoever.

Yet, here this one is.

How can you tell an entertainer how to dress, when you're not the only fan she has?

Dumbo.

ignant:
You should have the grace to reconsider your expectations and misgivings. You are willing to take at face value a release that reads like a press brief from an anonymous source, as gospel.

No where in this supposed 'fact' did it deny Jeremi's sexual involvement with Linda nor denial of paternity of the kid. So ask yourself- shouldn't an adult male who has no interest in a lasting relationship with a woman have the common sense to throw a rubber on? The dude hasn't claimed rape yet. So what this whole event reveals at the minimum is that Jeremi had unprotected sex with Linda over the course of a few years. That is either the mannerism of a male who is reckless with his decisions or has an afterthought of stability.

Maybe whatsoever Linda had with the dude broke down now but fueling the narrative that Linda has disappointed makes Jeremi to look like the victim here.

I find it amusing how people look up to individuals as models. You just have no idea what they are doing behind closed doors.

And how can you tell what I'm taking as gospel? My disappointment is not a consequence of reading this particular piece per se, funnily, but that Linda should be caught up in a baby mama mess, at all.

Isn't it sad that this self acclaimed paragon of virtue, with tongue that has its own soapbox on which it judges people, did not have the common sense to know that she had to walk the path, she so tenaciously tries to sell?

I don't know Jeremy and won't judge him, 'cos he's not the one who's been all up in our faces. So it's a tick from me that he could be reckless or had an afterthought to stability like you suggested, but how can Linda in all her piousness, excuse herself from this shitty state of things? She even said the baby came as a surprise...indicating that she's just as reckless as you say Jeremy might be. Except of cos, she'll come around to spinning us another yarn about how protection couldn't keep baby away, in which case, I'll still blame her for not taking advantage of the ultimate form of protection; abstinence before marriage, as she was the one who dedicated her existence to castigating baby mamas, irregardless of how they achieved their status.

Again, she might not be my model, but I won't blame others for their choice of her as theirs. Everyone can do with someone to admire and look up to, insofar as you do not assume that they are great in EVERY possible way, just because they are in ONE way. Nobody truly, is perfect...as demonstrated by Linda.

Orla234:
Just see what Linda reduced herself to.

Oh well we're all humans after all...

She's so so annoying me, I tell you. Never felt this disappointed in someone idk, all my life.

If the partner is that much of a prize, anybody can do it. A good example is Meghan Markle and Prince Harry... Her ascension to the throne, would demand that she cuts all avenues for direct public communication with just anybody. Doesn't necessarily mean that she cannot jump onto the internet at all tho.

Soo you understand..dat kain tin . You really have to be of some realll value to ask so much from this computer age generation of human beings.

xxxtedyxxx:
Stop telling girls you want to date them, or asking them out. You give away all your power when you do that.

Imagine the " let me think about it first" reply... you want to avoid that by all means.

If you want a girl, act like her boyfriend from day one: and you don't need any permission to do that.

Lol. You know whats up.

Still can't believe this Linda Ikeji. Of all the people that love to foam at the mouth? So soo shameful. It will take a long while, for me to get over.

bitingcool:
No mind d guy. Too know make agbede short!
Weldone OP. U no tell us how U were rewarded..was it in d oza room ?

Lol. Olofofo. Na only soup hin want you to know about.

shortgun:
Too much water.
Overcooked vegetable.
You didn't allow the oil to heat properly n its too much that's why the oil is separating.
Next time add stock fish no matter how small.
Your procedure is wrong....You have to pour in the stock first before adding water(you might not need to add water sef)
Scent leave is too much....the aroma will be "too strong"
Anyways, practice makes perfect.

Haba...you just talk like say na you invent egusi soup. Which one is practice makes perfect for where dish arrangement de? Go to Paris and see magical cuisines; frying pans catching fire ontop recipe, people gathering herbs, weeds and what not, together, ontop dishes that supposedly have standard recipes. All in some race to become the next best chef.

Happy happy birthday to you, dear.

Sinewy human beings are just like trees to me.

I imagined he was going to furnish the public with some sort of evidential footage of the president, doing all they claim that the alleged clone would not do.

So people are supposed to just take your word for it, because you are who? Information minister?

dairykidd:
Thank u jarè . The subject doesn't even need to be discussed in a religious gathering in the first place. If it was a sexuality or love seminar or whatever it would be okay... On a second thought i believe that f00lish so called pastor is just selling himself to some gullible & not too smart wives who will fall for his crap & then he will start milking them for every penny they are worth.

True. That could be his plan. He could be tactfully building up his CV, so he can become a celebrity pastor-counsellor to prey on lonely, vulnerable and gullible wives...

It doesnt even require someone to be out of church environs, sometimes, to not be soo detailed and crass about certain subjects. What kind of preaching was the pastor doing, that even required him to give a demonstration with his body? Even biblical account of Adam and his partner, leaving the garden, are that he'd eaten some forbidden fruit. Why then does the pastor think he should be more vocal?