Felabrity:
the engagements is too low

That can't be the real account

The real account was taken down after Gistlover did the exposé.

Exceed15:


I showed my wife this and we dey laugh u together ...madam Abi old cargo go look for a man u can molest with ur toxic character..

Yinmu.

You showed your wife.

Rotfl.

Exceed15:


I m happily married with two kids.
Na u go find ur bearing.... Useless frustrated derailed specie . I pity the man in your life.. na like ds u go dey insult am... Oniranu .. ko shi kuro... Tuehhh God forbid bad thing.

I pity that woman. She never see husband o. She no just know yet.



I pray for your son(s), may they be more kind than you are and may they never be wife beaters.

Exceed15:


Oh na so e dey pinch .
Obviously you have symptoms of bitterness. It's glaring in your outburst. I pity the man in your life.

You are the one with attributes of a wife beater.

I pity any woman who is married to you or who will marry you.

Exceed15:


Shut up jare...Were you there when she made the children beat their mother? Is it even rational ..una too dey add salt to pepper..Osinachi autopsy says otherwise by national hospital. Only God knows what's hidden.

Are you daft or you didn't read in the news where it was reported that her kids said so?

You better be kind before such a fate befalls you or someone close to you.

Insult me again and watch me give you the home training you lacked in your two parent household.

DenreleDave:


And who told u tinubu or Atiku threatened to sue gist lover


Una go just dey say anything just for like and share sake

That's what I meant. That they didn't see or sue gistlover.

Calm down sir, most of us done grow pass likes.

Kingcalls:


Again, that's y we sud know who we are marrying...most people see the signs but due to selfishness, they overlook ...

No man just beats a woman just like that...most women are verbally and emotionally abusive and it leads to physical violence... women of these days are not taught to respect their husbands , no matter what he does to u ... most women insult their husbands and some men will never take insults by a woman that he fends for and is way older than ... I'm not saying that this is always the case, but majorly... Marry someone with sense not a fool , whether man or woman

No sane person will open eyes and marry someone who will hurt them.

Shit happens, life happens and that's why we have to be kind.

Not to go about stigmatizing single parents. Untill you've walked in their shoes, you can't tell.

You don't run from what you enjoy.

That all I can say.

Kingcalls:


When married, and u hv kids , its now the kids first ...reason y a man should not wife a hoe , to avoid a cheating wife ... a wife that really has fear of God ... most women don't consider the kids , that's y they fike for divorce anyhow

It's if you put the kids first that you'll leave. Imagine your kids knowing their mother is an adulterer or imagine them seeing your wife abuse you verbally. How do you think it will affect them?

Do you think that kind of environment will have a positive impact on them?

Or a woman staying with a man who beats her while her kids watch. How does staying "for the kids" benefit those kids?

Those kids will still blame you for staying if they don't see it as normal to abuse their own spouses too.

The late Osinachi probably stayed because of her children and what people will say, where did it land her.

It's life first then the children's well being(they are better off being removed from an unhealthy environment) if you you ask me.

Kingcalls:


That's y I said I might just chill till they get married b4 I divorce her ... Divorce kind of ruins the future of the kids

Easier said than done.

Kingcalls:


80% of divorce cases are filed by women ... if my wife cheats , I will most likely divorce her and keep the kids because that's the only reason y divorce can be allowed ... men raise better kids, statistics have shown... but because of the kids , I might not divorce her till the kids get married , but she will just be more like an official wife

So it's okay for a man to marry your daughter cause you as a single parent raised her.

Lol. Sadly, the post said "single parent" irrespective of if it's a man or woman.

Aklee4994:
@Romanoff,come and put some decorum of sense of life to your gender here.


Pls this thread need you to save some old layers life.

There's nothing wrong with marrying a single father as long as the woman is no longer in his life and he doesn't have a couple of kids with different women.

There are other religious factors but I wouldn't want to delve into that.

If they still see each other, it will be hard to trust.

Jogs1900:

Gistlover that has turned to a withunting blog...

So what happened when Gistlover posted about Tinubu?

Kingcalls:


Nonsense talk... u women can't just reason logically, that's y u women are terrible at giving advice

A woman from a broken home has the highest chance of breaking her own home as well if she gets married.... Statistics have shown ooooo ...

So what happens to your daughter after you've found out your wife (her mother) is a serial adulterer?

You should consider being a virtual assistant.

odaniel1:


Wouldn't accessing those with that information prove abortive considering they could be dead or difficult to reach? I'll rather be partnerless.

Haba, so all members of the family died?

Are all divorcees from single parent household?

Otunbakayce:
Pele, olorun a GBA e la.

Claim the prayer for yourself.

You clearly need it.

When Gistlover did the exposé on Tinubu and Atiku wey get money pass Dino, with all their money, them no see Gistlover hold.

Na Uncle Dino dey beat chest.


Lol.

Otunbakayce:
Gerraout! Chronic unrepentant liar.

Single toxic sick lady claiming to be married and have dated a senators son. Trying to turn stories from too many african movie into her reality.

Fvck you!!!

Pele o

AntiChristian:


So this makes "And the One who sent me is with me; he did not abandon me to myself, because I always do the things pleasing to him.” John 8:29 false!

Was going go reply you but your moniker gave you away.

ogene144:

Marrying a daughter from a single mom is the worst thing I can give you examples because they won't value marriage

This is a big fat lie.

You people say this so much yet, even couples from two parents household divorce steadily without even looking back.

At the cross, Jesus was carrying the sins of the world, at that point, God could not even look at him. Because God cannot stand sin.

The weight of Jesus' sacrifice was so enormous that even Jesus wished it was possible for the cup to pass over him.

If the sin of one man makes him unfit to stand before God's presence, then imagine carrying the sins of the world.

Otunbakayce:
You are a sick liar!

With an outburst like this, you're obviously the sick one.

Over someone you know nothing about.

Get well soon o.

tiswell:
there is no 'healthy environment" in single parenting

The kids are psychologically affected,directly or indirectly. And they usually exhibit such psychological imbalance in their behaviors.

Dey play o

So if you find out your wife is an adulterer, you'll stay in the marriage so that your kids are not "psychologically affected". Abi?

Just dey play.

Dey play o

CHoccolaTE:


Honestly, the mindset of males on this forum makes me pity Nigerian women. These are the men they are married or have to tolerate at the office, compound etc.

I wish I can stand my ground when arguing with them but I have a short temper and I am likely to start using rude words when they spout nonsense, which always ruins the debate.

Most of them here are kids hiding under the cloak of anonymity.

It's how they contribute to marital issues that will make you realize that they are nothing but kids who are either still collecting pocket money from their parents or are just "woke" on Nairaland but are closeted simps.

CHoccolaTE:


You put up very intelligent points in this debate but the thing with arguing with males is that they hate losing to females so they keep taking you round in circles until they wear you out or they change the topic to another one they can defend properly or they start using ad hominens and telling you how you are irrational or untruthful or emotional and so on.
Very difficult and irritating gender.

I know this too well. It's why I know how to stand my ground and stay on my own point.

I admire guys here who can argue intelligently and civilly. Them no reach 10 for this forum.

Could be. Especially on a group life insurance situation.

Fiscus105:



U re not truthful to urself

Bye.

No. You're trying to get me to tell you that women are generally materialistic in their choices of spouses but I can't relate cause i might not have a lot of friends but the ones I have are sensible.

So if you attract lazy and vain females or if that's what you see around, that's all on you and not for me to validate.

Bye sir.

Fiscus105:



My second question.

If girl has relationship with public school teacher and medical doctor came from nowhere to has her hand in marriage.

Out of 10 girls how many will still stick to Mr teacher?

I can't tell but my generation is different from what we have these days.

In my circle of friends, I have an almost equal number of women who earn more than their husband.

So you're asking the wrong person bro.

Go to Zuba and see how people travel to Kaduna en masse. As one car dey full, on to the next one.

You no go even reason kidnapping.

Fiscus105:



I have married for years.


I repeat, majority (not all) of single mothers caused it upon themselves, and its mainly because of pure outward assessment of a guy (hypergamy) when choosing partner.


I want to ask you a question and I want you to answer it sincerely, "in ur mind o"

If you are into serious relationship with a guy who is a teacher in public school and of a sudden, another guys just arrived and he is a medical doctor in teaching hospital.

Won't you forget Mr teacher?


How many girls will still stick to Mr teacher in this situation?

I am also married.

Now let me shock you, I dated a senator's son once. Why did I break up with the clown? Dude could never apologize to save his life. Rather than apologize, he'd ask "where do you want to go to, let me spoil you".

I saw right through it and ran away for my life.

Another one, rich but would insult my life and family during any disagreement, that was the point I decided it was better to marry an average guy than a rich dude.

Only hungry and lazy women are impressed by money.

If money was always the case, what happened to the rich women who are also being abused?

Or the abuse that goes on in the ghettos?