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Family › Re: Is There Any Problem With getting Married While You Are Still In School? by ronald4lif(m): 2:02pm On Sep 09, 2015

Person never fit feed himself na to add another mouth join huh

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Politics › Re: See 9 States Buhari's Anti-corruption Battle Is Raging by ronald4lif(m): 1:47pm On Sep 09, 2015

I haven't heard of EFCC beaming their cursor towards Anambra. What's happening? I hope they invite Peter Obi to provide details of his stewardship to the poor masses of Anambra he looted their common patrimony to build Next mall and fund his sumptuous lifestyle. undecided

Politics › Re: We’ll Meet In The Battlefield -- Asari Dokubo Tells APC by ronald4lif(m): 1:35pm On Sep 09, 2015

When will this obese clown zip it? Didn't he threatened fire and brimstone that Nigeria would cease to exist should Jonathan loses the presidential election. But till today nothing.

How fast can Asari even run should a jumble and chaos occur? This clown keeps inciting the youth of the Niger Delta against the Nigerian state but can't pinpoint to one beneficial initiative he has personal pioneered to better their lives. The only one university he could think of was taken to Benin Republic. The millions of dollars illegal oil deals Jonathan contracted to him and his cronies will soon be cancelled and let's see what he can do. Nonsense.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Sometimes I Want To Regret Going To School by ronald4lif(m): 1:18pm On Sep 09, 2015

Ayo25:
The fact that there are millions of graduate roaming the streets in search for a job is hardly a consolation for anyone who have not gone to school, no matter the amount of wealth he posseses, if you know what education means. That your so called rich illiterate friend will always carry with him anywhere he goes some sort of 'emptiness' in him, which no amount of wealth can fill. Education is an end in itself.

May I also remind you that conventional degrees and citadel of learning is not the only medium to acquire education? Whilst degree and school is important and a must have, it's not the only ladder to obtain intelligence and education. Someone might not have a university degree but better sound minded than one with degrees. Therefore for such people who are successful and rich in their businesses, they won't bulge about never having a degree. You'd be surprised to the level of intelligence they display when you engage them.

Like someone has said, go to school, acquire as many degree as you can but never think that your degree can take you to extraordinary places. It takes more than a piece of credentials to attain top heights. Just go to school to develop and equip yourself to face difficult challenges of life. Not to hammer. But if it ends up well, then good for you.

Also, salary earners hardly make speedy progression like their self employed counter-part and anyone can be self employed, degree or not.

Romance › Re: A Nairalander Opinion On "Reasons Why Guys Dont Date Girls with pics by ronald4lif(m): 12:48am On Sep 09, 2015

I'm precluded. Sorry, I date girls and the reason tendered herein or no reason whatsoever would deter me.

Romance › Re: Help!!! My Love For Money by ronald4lif(m): 12:33am On Sep 09, 2015

When there's money you forget bae but when money disappear you remember say she dey. Diaris god oo. cheesy

You no gbadu this babe, when you jam babe wey you like things will change.

Family › Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by ronald4lif(m): 11:44pm On Sep 08, 2015

Let her get her ass off the upholstery and get herself a job. She can't be a liability and make a ruse at same time. You're a husband, not her dependant. What insolence. undecided

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Jokes Etc › Re: Hilarious: Villagers Play On Snooker Made From Clay Using Cucumber As Balls by ronald4lif(m): 10:02pm On Sep 08, 2015

Interesting. Good creativity.

But I'm curious and trying to figure where they ever saw a snooker board and even much so how to play. From the pic they are young lads, the environment is tacky and too remote to have a relaxation centre where they could have seen or learn how to play snooker from. Perhaps it's through the TV. Oh well.

Family › Re: Family Section And The "Get Separated" Syndrome! by ronald4lif(m): 8:25pm On Sep 08, 2015*

When a lady complains of constant domestic abuse and sought for advice what kind of advice do you expect she get? When a man/woman complains their partner is a chronic cheat and they have done everything humanly possible to ensure they change and they refuse what kind of advice do you want the public to render to them? Oh they should keep praying till thy kingdom come while they're being assaulted and blackmailed I guess?

Not saying that there aren't some advices that are extreme and shouldn't be given but some "get separated" are warranted and in order. Except if you want people to provide false opinion in order to appear sanctimonious when they know deep down such advices are sham and not something they'd tell a loved one.

I think some persons are yet to come to terms that the era when people sugarcoat their opinion and persevere some unbearable and inhumane torture in the name of "for better for worse" union or mislead others just coz they don't want to ruin a ceremonial union is so victorian. I'd not go about telling someone to separate from their partner but same time won't hesitate to render my undiluted opinion just to preserve a marriage. Sought for a public opinion and I would tell it as it is and its up to you to decide.

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Politics › Re: Buhari’s Appointments Are Not Lopsided Says Jonathan’s Former-aide, Omokiri by ronald4lif(m): 11:05am On Sep 08, 2015

Just like Reno, others have said that if the North can deliver Nigeria by occupying all the political positions in Nigeria, that we should allow it on the altar of meritocracy over ethnicity. I concur to this extent.

In a political setting as Nigeria, the ultimate aim is political equality and equity. I would love a Nation where we can hold our heads high and appoint people based on merit no matter where we come from and without regard to their names. But that is the Nigerian dream and we have to start with the amendment of our laws. The constitution of this country provides for the issue of federal character, a word which means that as far as possible, any and every governmental agency or parastatal must be all inclusive. It must not look or appear to be lopsided or ethnic controlled.

It will be inequitable if a student from the North is allowed to enter college with a score of 3/10 while a student from the south cannot be admitted with a score of 5/10 all in the name of federal character. What I am saying is, if there will be a change of policy, let it be total and all encompassing. The last administration was taunted for appointing southerners more than Northerners, will it now be fair to say that, if all Northerners can perform, let them do the job? He who comes to equity must come with clean hands and he who goes to equity must also do equity and equity aids the vigilant and not the indolent.

Finally, surely, equity should not be treated as a tyrannous phenomenon threatening the law. It does not exist in vacuo or supposedly to roam about pouring water on the fire of the law. Equity is not a war lord, determined to do battle with the law. Until the laws are amended, we must obey them. Federal character is enacted in the constitution of Nigeria and it must be adhered to until there's an amendment.

Agriculture › Re: See The Big Fish A Nairalander Reared In His Compound. by ronald4lif(m): 10:32pm On Sep 07, 2015

Choi! Fresh fish pepper soup o. Better chop.

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Romance › Re: Exposed: “Why Girls Play Hard To Get & How To Make Them Not Do It Around You" by ronald4lif(m): 9:52pm On Sep 07, 2015

Truckpusher:
All these epsitle for the same girls that lines up in the streets across major cities of Nigeria even all over the world waiting for men to say hi!?

Bros ,this topic was meant for people in the 8os nowadays these girls got eagle's eyes - They pick you ,you don't pick them.

I'm just imagining a guy going through all these just to attract and get laid to a woman, really. He'd have to give up whatever he does, work or studies, just to emerge successful. Coz from my discernment this should be a full time job as even the vigorous task that comes with daily jobs can't be this arduous. All for a punna that's abound everywhere. Joker. grin

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Romance › Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by ronald4lif(m): 6:49pm On Sep 07, 2015

Nicely written. Headquarter's material.

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Romance › Re: ONE Question You Should Never Ask A Woman by ronald4lif(m): 2:22pm On Sep 07, 2015

Does that include when I'm expected to pay for the hair huh

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Romance › Re: Ladies & Gentle Men Advice Your Nigga Wisely..... by ronald4lif(m): 10:12pm On Sep 06, 2015*

Lol @ no insult please respect your old age. cheesy

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Christianity Etc › Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ronald4lif(m): 10:31pm On Sep 05, 2015

emusmith:
Have you seen one before?

Na today? Stories are even abound on the web where Christian married women were caught pants down cheating or some cases their hubby filed for divorce due to infidelity. Some even lives with their hubby and not in a distance affair.

I hope you don't think a loose married woman won't cheat because she's a Christian huh

Christianity Etc › Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ronald4lif(m): 10:23pm On Sep 05, 2015

emusmith:
Didn't you see. Especially if ...?

Does it matter. You think christian women don't cheat huh

Politics › Re: Photo Of Senator Godswill Akpabio On His Hospital Bed In London by ronald4lif(m): 10:13pm On Sep 05, 2015

Nawa o. What happened to the world class hospital he commissioned in Uyo sometime last year? Who are these people deceiving by their 'world class infrastructures' and 'groundbreaking' facilities they usually parade in the media. You call it world class but don't use it and fly to Europe for headache.

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Family › Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 10:05pm On Sep 05, 2015

YourMain:
Yeah. I'd turn up looking sexy.

Who sexy help huh

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Christianity Etc › Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ronald4lif(m): 9:57pm On Sep 05, 2015

emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

The embolden is false. Married women do play outside games on a near equal scale like the men. You think conji respects gender? grin

The question is not all encompassing. It should have been how do distance couple cope. The diaspora married men whose spouse are in Nigeria should have been included too. Wanna know how 'we' cope? wink

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Celebrities › Re: Rukky Sanda Declares Her Age, 31, In Style (Photos) by ronald4lif(m): 8:01pm On Sep 05, 2015

Kachisbarbie:
Someone once told me that people lie about their age if they don't feel 'totally accomplished' for their real age.

Then another set doubt people's age, if they feel threatened by the 'accomplishments'.

I don't know how true it is o...because some nairalanders can doubt age sha.

Both are true. Many people tend to judge people's age based on their achievement. If you own certain acquisition then you must be an oldie.

Apart from using themselves as a parameter, they see people of same age and older everyday wandering about doing nothing, so the feeling of how can he/she be different and achieved so much already sets in.

Also, I think when it involves ladies their relationship status plays a role in the way people view their age. If she's married then whatever age she claims is hardly contested but once she's single she must be lying and reducing her age not to scare away potential suitors. For to these set of guys every single lady life goal is to get married.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by ronald4lif(m): 7:41pm On Sep 05, 2015

AgapeCharis:
[color=#27408B]I just had to do that. They're making here look like some village square. [/color]

Just maybe if you had put little effort in learning your native lingua you would have been able to converse with it and join the fray. It's no one's fault that you've lived all your life in Lagos and has never been to your hometown. Come dey open eye like say you buy person mb. Ntor. tongue

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by ronald4lif(m): 7:35pm On Sep 05, 2015

AgapeCharis:
[color=#27408B]Maybe you didn't understand the English I typed.

Si eba puo! [/color]

Celebrities › Re: Rukky Sanda Declares Her Age, 31, In Style (Photos) by ronald4lif(m): 7:25pm On Sep 05, 2015

nuelzy:
if dis woman nah 31...make my nyash tear reach neck.....kini??....una lies dey purge abeg

She looks 31, even younger. It's not everyone's age that we must contest.

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Family › Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 7:15pm On Sep 05, 2015

freecocoa:
My dear that's the part I find shocking and confusing.

I don't know his wife.

Then when next he brings up the issue of whether you will attend or not be reluctant to give a definite answer or say no. When he mentions that his fiancée is insisting you show up again then grill him about how did she knows about you. What has been he telling her about you and for what purpose.

This you must find out and from there you would be able to arrive at a better decision, to attend or not.

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Family › Re: Check Out This Marriage Picture. by ronald4lif(m): 7:09pm On Sep 05, 2015

Deejavuu:
you think so?

Love is blind ya know

Love is not and has never been blind. Whoever coined that phrase is a fraud. wink

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Family › Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 7:06pm On Sep 05, 2015

What's the relationship between you and the would-be wife. How did she know you to insist you grace her wedding huh

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Family › Re: Check Out This Marriage Picture. by ronald4lif(m): 7:00pm On Sep 05, 2015

Obviously a marriage of convenience. He's in for some perquisite and has no emotional attachment to the bride.

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Jokes Etc › Re: Its September !!! School Fees Palaver (photo) by ronald4lif(m): 6:50pm On Sep 05, 2015

Lol.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by ronald4lif(m): 6:45pm On Sep 05, 2015

AgapeCharis:
[color=#27408B]See this use and dump boy. I'd take your words serious when ladies stop using you and eventually dumping you.

Till then, get lost. [/color]

Is that all you can bring forth. I thought you'd bring down walls. Just dey threaten people any how like some macho. Yeye. undecided

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by ronald4lif(m): 6:30pm On Sep 05, 2015

AgapeCharis:
[color=#27408B]Who's this?
Stfu and take your chit-chats out of this thread. It's an English forum. Not some village square.

No thanks. [/color]

Yawns.

Mumu boy go park one side. Everyone is free to chat with whatever language they want and you can't do sh1t. undecided

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Romance › Re: Advice Please: My Boyfriend Is Angry by ronald4lif(m): 5:33pm On Sep 05, 2015

falconey:
[color=#990000][/color]

So are girlfriends. They're scarce too. wink

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