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Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 2:10pm On Aug 16, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: And you say, you were taught with "Biblical specific values"...what does the Book of Proverb say, about 'sparing the rod"? Spanking is definitely not a "solve all" way of correcting a child, it is always good to use it as "last resort" to correction, if all others fail. 1 Like |
Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 2:06pm On Aug 16, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: Go and sit down....it was food, but no longer food...and that is why it is called "s/hi/t, igbe, nshi, kashi... |
Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 2:04pm On Aug 16, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: Kobo..learn to be real and stop pretending....my son just turned 2 this past saturday...and boy!!!!! he knows when mama is not in the mood....all i have to do is ""give him that stare" without uttering anything and he stops. A parent has to device different means of correcting a child, not only by yelling, spanking or punnishment....even spanking a boy at that age, is just torture...because where will i hit and where will i leave? Sometimes i ask him, "if he wants to go upstairs?" and he shakes his head!!!! |
Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 1:57pm On Aug 16, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: I don't understand how someone will use his/her right hand to wipe his/her azz.....it is disgusting to even imagine it. But the truth is people do it and the world has not come to an end because of that....how many people will follow you into the toilet when you do your business? Though it is just nasty....ewwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!! Nasty!!!!!!!!!!!****puking***** |
Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 1:54pm On Aug 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: This is the rubbish their schools have turned to: You gat to be kidding me!!!! one look from me, will stop him from screaming.....it is obvious the boys parents did not train him well, if a 7 year old boy can be misbehaving to this extent, i wonder what he will do when he turns 14? be beating and exchanging blows with his dad for sure! |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 11:26pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
Aww nice!!! going to take a shower after a nice dance workout..... |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 10:37pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
I am dancing to "kabakaba"...oya do kabakabakaba"...oya sare kabakabakaba (shaking everything)...from there i am going to dance to "chop my money"....nice makosa dancing....some people dey fume....who cares? and i will dance to "olu maintains..."nawty"....na mi biko..some people will sleep with headaches tonight..... |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 9:46pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
aribisala0: BACK TO THE SENDER....I can see that you have been followed by your villagers....go and eat the amala and ewedu that has been prepared for you and stop crying over Ronkebp's post. Oni kan se!!!....go and make more money and stop exposing your hairless and abless chest. I said i will not indulge you and i mean it. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 9:37pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
aribisala0: If i say i should trade words with you, you will cry....i did not insult you, i only said save it for your daughter, abi if you are advising me a total starnger upon "nothing" what will you say to your daughter upon "something"? really? no need to cry over split milk. I will not indulge your rantings. Face your wife and your life...let us not derail this thread. Man!!! |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 9:20pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
aribisala0: I have told you, save your story for your daughter....i don't care what you think. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 9:16pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
jay bee: I know my hubby's pocket. so demanding for what he can"t afford will be crazy and unrealistic....infact the way he will look at me says volume. And to burst all yah bubbles...i have never asked for anything from my hubby...well maybe a Louis-vuitton when he asked me what i wanted for valentine.....he knows what to do....i don't even bother about my bills or other things...he takes care of them and shows me extra love....whatever he does, is first and foremost to make me happy...even though we have our own misunderstandings and disagreement....financially, emotionally, physically and everyother -allys' we click 100%. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 8:54pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
aribisala0:....na real "eye insect"...my dear i know what i want in my man, i am not a pretender....i can go all out to satisfy him and i expect him to do the same as long as it is within his powers and i am so contented with whatever he "gives" me. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 8:38pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
aribisala0: why can't you be making it like Tiger woods, does he have 10 heads, how will you burn those fats, if you don't exercise and turn it to millions in the bank? hmmmm? |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 8:35pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
sleekdot: Ask my husband if you see him....what i have given him in monetary terms, he can't add them up..the calculator will read "error"... the giving should be "mutual". |
Crime / Re: Nigerian Coupled Jailed For Beating Their Kids In The UK by ronkebp(f): 8:32pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
Story!!!! you never can trust this so -called authorities when Nigerians are involved,.... |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 8:25pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
aribisala0: Balderdash!!!!too much unwarranted story.... |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 8:22pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
naijababe:To each his/her own....i love my hubby enough to be able to accept anything that comes from his heart to give me, no matter how small or how i can afford it. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 8:07pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
stillwater: ^^^Lol. But that is what caring is all about, it doesn't have to be monetarily based. Although it's just common courtesy to hold the door for someone coming behind. I'll take this over a razz nkwobi-loving man that feels doling out cash makes him all that. My dear...i get you, what is the use of a "chukwu "dat has money with no affection and a "dayo" that has affection and no money... in the long run they will end up the same way....it has to be balanced to "an extent". |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 7:59pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
chic2pimp: Nice list, i love the breakfast in bed .....but still you guys do not see anything wrong in not being able to spend freely on your wife it just beats me. Just so we are clear....i do not support young women living on the pockets of their lovers, it is really none of my business what they do with their lives, and the men dishing out money to them. But in a case where you have married, and let your wife be making millions more than what you as a man is earning...that man has to be able to spend on his wife, it is part of showing you care, showing you care for someone, can be emotional, spiritual, financial, physical (where the holding of hands, hugs and kisses falls under), social, psychological etc. If you are only good in the physical aspect of the relationship alone, what of other apsects?. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 7:46pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
stillwater: My dear don't be deceived all na for show!!!! |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 7:41pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
dayokanu: To show your wife you love her so in all this things you have written....your wife does not deserve gifts for her birthday, valentine or your wedding anniversary....if she asked, then she is a leech?....you cannot take her to the spa and pay for her to be pampered? you can not fly her to paris (city of love) just to tell her i love you. you have not mentioned anything monetary in all you have written, even if i get it that you "think" you have the rudiments of what it takes to get married...you still do not see anything wrong in not being able to spend on your wife without you seeing her as a leech you don't abi Indeed!!! like you really do or will do all this things.....i laugh in swahili...you are a typical naija man....stop pretending...."open the door for her let her go in first.." like you actually do that. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 7:18pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
aribisala0:No need for long turenchi.....answer the question without trying to psycho-analyze my post....how will you show your wife you care for her..Dayo has listed two for you...continue...abi that is all you "generation of literate Naija men" have to offer You have a woman (your wife) assume all things are equal, how will you care for her? abi is your wife part of the leeches Naija is beginning to breed? i hope not. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 7:12pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
dayokanu: So the way to show your wife you care is by Spending money? NA you sabi....i asked that you list how you will show "your wife" that you care for her....ojebi, don't spend time with her, another man will be doing that on your behalf, without stress. So because someone gets offended because you buy them gifts "always" without showing them any "iorta of love", means they do not want gifts at all....rationale of a stingy man. list what you will do for your wife, to show her that you care. simple as ABC!!!!! |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 7:07pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
chic2pimp: my question is very simple.....list it, whether it involves money or not. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 6:41pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
Whatever!!!!! yawns!!!!!!how do you show your wife that you care about her? forget girlfriends for a second now, tell me how a married man will show his wife he cares about her. |
Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 6:38pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
coogar:whether it is legal or not, abortion is still abortion. let me in to the number of young girls in secondary schools and high schools that are no longer virgins or are baby-mamas, that is what i asked. coogar:i am talking from my own personal view and experiences, you are evading the question, did you do it or not? it is a simple yes or no question. coogar:you can believe whatever, it will not change the price of palmoil in the market.... coogar:why not answer the question, you are the one running away from it. answer the question. coogar:what discipline is wrong? and how many parents treat their kids like this supposed "animals"....like i said before, i don't know what happens in other people's home, but in my house ooooo, we children are loved, respected and disciplined when necessary....and that has not made us to get a room in "ward 7". |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 6:16pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
dayokanu: story!!!! i do not blame her, i can't stand a guy that does not have initiatives, please buy me gifts and spoil me if you have the wherewithals, if you don't, buy me puff-puff, i will eat it with love and make sure you add pure water ontop...would not want to choke on the puff-puff....you have no initiatives is equal to a stingy man in my dictionary....if i complain as my boyfriend about my needs, it is because i have someone to talk to, if i cannot talk to my boyfriend or fiance about my needs, then that is no relationship....do i want you to foot my bills when i talk to you about them, no!!! but you as a man will have to listen and ask me how i want to go about meeting them. It just goes along way to show that you care. |
Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 6:08pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
coogar:Good figures, 25 to 23, now how many teenagers are parents, give me that ratio, american to nigerian teenagers, thank God it is 25 per 1000 women, the figure is not so bad, at first i thought it would be 750 per 1000 women. mind you, you said 15-44, i was talking about 13-19 years of age. coogar:How many of your cousins have you slept with, (i direct the questions back at you because i want to start from you as an individual) and how you have also contributed to the hypocrisy, how many of your nieces have you disvirgined? and how many of your neighbours daughters have you slept with? Personally i have not had those experiences. coogar:My school was "girls" only...so did not see where anyone was beaten like an animal coogar:so your parents used koboko on you? hmmm!!! i know where the beaf is from and why you think training kids the Nigeria-way is wrong. coogar:what case? what is the validity of that aritcle, for all i care it might have been copied from other sources that have been outdated...that means nothing. |
Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 5:56pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:And what are these bible specific values, that before the Bible came to Africa, Nigerian parents were not teaching their kids? Kobojunkie:it depends on how you see the training or teachings, for example, my mum taught me how to cook well because the food is the way to a man's heart", she taught me how to clean the home, because cleanliness is next to godliness, (she did not teach me how to have s/e/x though) but made mention countless times on how to satisfy my husband sexually,she taught me how to behave in certain situations, i am a woman and my mum should be able to teach me things i should know when i eventually get married. I have a brother whom is also being taught how to be a responsible man and how to help out with some of the chores at home....so all the lessons i have learnt so far has made me a second class citizen? Do you think we do not have our responsibilities as a woman/mother in the home? since you were taught Bible-specific values you should know what the Bible (Proverb) says about what qualities a "virtuous woman" should possess. Kobojunkie: Even if we have policemen leaving in every corner and the safety is such that, you can actually sleep in the house in Nigeria or anywhere for that matter with your doors open and no one will disturb....there is nothing my kids will belooking for as long as they still live under my roof, outside, anything passed 7.00pm...that is just the way i feel about it... if staying outside till late will avert fear in them, they should better remain afraid or fearful. Trust female children? my dear it is not all about female children, so boys cannot keep bad companies and start to smoke marijuana at a tender age? it has nothing to do with being male or female....but come to think of it, who is more vulnerable, the male or females? |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 5:35pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
coogar: That is the world we live in now, deal with it. we have dishonest men and women everywhere, if you happen to fall prey to one, good luck then. |
Family / Re: Where Did Our Daughters Learn To Be Materialistic? by ronkebp(f): 5:30pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
dayokanu: ^^ Ronke, I did not comment on that thread, because i would have been fighting too many people, so you think "a man " who has a girlfriend, cannot pay for her hair....now means she is a pay-as-you-go kind of a chic? what is the big deal, to take my boyfriend to the barbers and pay for his hair-cut even if i know that he has the money? would heaven have fallen if i did that, what is wrong in giving each other gifts every now and then? A man that cannot take care of his girlfriend and sees her as pay-as-you-go, will eventually see his wife as pay-as-you go. |
Family / Re: by ronkebp(f): 5:22pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
coogar:i can see you are part of the men that have impregnated them and led them to abortion clinics , go to a secondary school, sample 100 female students in lets say ss2. and also sample 100 female students in America( for example) in 11th grade, and tell me the number of virgins in each school, when you have successfully done that, then tell me what the results are, if not you have not said anything. coogar:what is the essence of what? of training your kids? what is wrong in using strict discipline to an extent on a child? oh so because you were asked to kneel down and hands-up and pick-pins as a measure of discipline is now termed "abuse"? coogar: stop abusing the children! that's the approach.and who is abusing their children? were you abused as a young boy?.....my parents never abused their kids in any way and i really have not come in contact with any parent in Nigeria that physically abused their children, only if i watch them on tv or like the lady that her pictures were displayed on NL sometime ago that beat her son to the point of "no recognition"...Any Nigerain trained adult here on NL that has been really abused by his or her parents should come out and say so. |
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