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iamfertile:
To God be the glory. I did another hsg last week Saturday and guess what - MY TUBES ARE OPEN. BILATERAL PATENT TUBES.
....but the result indicates asherman syndrome and pelvic adhesion. Pls I need advice on which herbs that can clear it. I've heard of ushakirisha+ some herbs and pelvic massage but I really don't know what & what to add to make it. Pls I really need your advice. Thanks

Continue serrapeptase
Look for womb setters .
They will help you

Divanona:
Someone asked why I was not married all this while.

I've been trying to figure out my life and be a good mom to my son and not give any prospective husband unnecessary responsibility to carry.


It was all my fault I didn't allowed any relationship work out with me.

The school fees he gave me i stated wasn't the reason for him not graduating. It wasn't my fault that he couldn't graduate, because he sorted it out that semester and wrote his departmental exams as well. It was after I've left

Your son is 8 now
Pls focus on other relationships and make it work. This one you are hoping for can only work if he had sorted himself out first before coming to you.

Not every relationship must end in marriage.
We know your heart still yarns for him
But 8yrs is too much of a long time to abandon your own child no matter how messed up your life is.

Pls forgive him.
Let him havE access to his blood.
But pls, dont think marriage with him.
Help him anyhow you want to. But don't start that nonsense building with him. Let him build and if you are still available when he is ready to handle a family burden as a man, ok and fine. Find yourself new relationships. You deserve to be spoilt . No go kill yourself. You are not the reason he didn't make it yet.

Any man that leaves you at your most vulnerable point (pregnancy is the worst) will still leave you again. Be careful

As I dey hug my pillow for 8months now shey I don die ni

There is always a plan to join him or her But they always dont materialize so fast.

Notwithstanding, there are people that abandon their spouse for money and it shouldnt be encouraged. Both those that practice Bigamy should be castrated. Some ladies even know and still put head. They just want the money .

Don't pay school fees or give anything you cannot afford. pls tell them to hustle and find their path, that's how you found yours.

But pls make sure your parents are not hungry , homeless or in sickness.

Forgiveness is mandatory. If you are a Christian it's not optional. It's a law you must fulfill.
What you do for them after you must have forgiven them is totally personal. You don't go about sharing money to anyone that ask you on the street abi? that's how you should handle their case too. Give only when it's important and what you can afford to give per time.

You can't marry without them Sir. Your spouse must know them and understand why your relationship with them is like that. How she chooses to treat them should solely be left to her discretion. Don't soil her mind or relationship with them. Just treat them fairly . Pls don't hate them.

Your blessings are tied to all these things. It's starts with you letting go of all they made you go through. Trust me, you will see your life blossom again. Every Biology father or mother has spiritual right over their children and can call down blessing on them. It's a natural principal. Those that understand it utilize it well. You may think you are doing well alone, but just try this principle. Forgive them and reconnect to them. Let them pray for you and watch your life take a new turn.

Like I said. Don't go overboard if you don't want to. Do what you can do but make sure that when they see or remember you, they bless God and call on his blessing for you. Parental blessings is still in operation and will never stop. It's up to you to forgive them and tap from it. You are doing well alone but try this and see yourself go even higher

UDOKABESTLUV:
OZO WILL WIN THIS YEAR BBNAIJA 85MILLION NAIRA

Na for nairaland you dey watch your own 25m

Kriss216:
Prince and Kiddwaya leaving the house before Dorothy shows we value breast too much for this country.
Breast that we're not even touching or sucking.

People that don't watch the show

I started writing my dreams out and found out I have been jonsing all this while.

Don't joke with it.
Get pen and a diary and write them out.

If Daniel , Joseph and the others didn't write down theirs, we may not have gotten the relevance of their dream.

alphaNomega:
Your statement "Cheats don't change" is very true and invalidates what you wrote after it. Which one be give your life to Christ? "Church girl" neva handle before na why... The type wey go fuçk-pray-fuçk × 3 in one night

Church girl no mean say you encountered Christ.

The difference is in the encounter

That she is seeing or saw her ex doesn't mean she is cheating on you.

Do your investigation and find out if you want to confront her .
If you feel threatened, or do not trust her enough, just sit her down and make things clear to her that you don't want her to be in contact with him in anyway.

But I have to ask .
If she is not cheating on you,
Will this ex help you in any way?

That he was her ex shouldn't make him an enemy of the family.

There is this story of a popular now ex governor, whose family didn't allow him marry his university girlfriend due to political affiliation. He had to marry a daughter of the cabal. The ex girlfriend later married a random guy who the governor eventually offered political appointment to help the ex, their friendship and loyalty got so intense that the governor eventually handed over the state to him. People know the story.

Stop seeing your wife or husband's ex as a problem. Except you married a dog. That's the only animal that goes back to his shit.

Make meaningful relationships out of them. Walk away if you feel insecure. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourselves

justebuka:
Sorry
But who is paying??

The people you are solving their problem will pay you. When the demand gets higher you train others to help you and a conglomerate is formed..

OvaSabi1:
I bet that even if you had not studied sociology, you'd still be doing the current job you're doing. That is because it is in you. You have had this gift. It's not a university lecturer and his obsolete hand out who gave you the tools you currently have. However, OP may not have that gift. There are a lot of free resources online that will empower you in sociology. This is why it is always better to go into a professional field first. You can always circle back to your passion. Even Accounting, Engineering, Architecture, Nursing all deal with solving societal problems. There are medical doctors who are acting, they didn't study theatre arts.

True.
That's why I said he should change his mindset about certificates and jobs. It didn't really matter what you read. You will still end up where God wants you if you work with him.

justebuka:
Please no offence
Where do u work??

You still don't get it .
Find a societal problem and solve it. I work for myself

I read Sociology. I don't regret it.. I am Currently an Health Entrepreneur but applying all my sociological skills while on the job.

Done NGO jobs, civil service, customer services in private sector, and many others before I decided to pick a societal problem and focus on it which is what sociology is all about. Am proud of the few people whose life I have been able to lighten up with the problem I solve. Am still a work in progress. Never stopping.

Change your mindset about certificates and jobs. Sociology exposes you to societal problems and develops your critical thinking abilities to solve those problems. It's broad and helps you fit anywhere.

The first thing people ask me when they meet me is if I am a medical doctor. Lol. I only read Sociology but as a problem solver and with my research abilities, I know much more than your doctor.

The truth is that she was terribly stressed out from the last episode. That's why she is not willing to help this time. She didn't hesitate vtge last time so why is she hesitating now?
Stress.


Just find as much helping hand as possible. You didn't do any bad by asking her. It's the normal thing, you are the host, your wife is supposed to help you organise it to be successful. Why will you go and pay an outsider for just 20guest when you both can handle it if you put heads together.

She's just stressed out. Offer her as many helps as you can get. You can offer to go buy the foodstuffs or assign the errand to a different person entirely. Still get an extra hand to help her in the cooking. Don't just stop at helping her do semo alone, offer to help her in many more areas. Make her understand why you both can do it and save money for the family. Don't just offer, let her see you put in more efforts.

My parents are over 70 and have been hosting this kinda thing since we were little, we have never paid anyone to do it no matter the number. We put heads together or ask friends and family to help. It's just once in a year. As kids, we use to look forwards to the plenty food and drinks that follow afterwards.

If na the land and house others get dey drive you. My dear, you will be lost in this land.

Distinguish yourself.
Not everything is money.
Build a career path and work towards it.
You go still big pass them in the future if your head is there.

Marry her Sir.
Make your mum see why you choose her

mercyooGod:
which one is ems?

i want doc best serr, Fallopian tube cleansing and others

what about peace transport

Peace takes to onitsha before coming to your side. The tea isn't available now. Expecting it next week end

Ignore if you have been using it for a while without such alert
Customer service can make mistake while entering a number for alerts for that customer that owns the account.
We see it alot in banking.
A customer will come complaining that he/she requested for alerts but is still not getting it and when you ask them to call out their phone number you will see one or 2 numbers were mismatched.

It's just human error.

You should only return if the alerts started from day1 of using the sim

light099:
A wise SA lady once said, "the weakest makes the loudest noise in the room."

Few times, you might be privileged to realize those who cashout and benefit most from this forum are not those noise makers, who sleep on FP threads or those who shout FTC. And the most intelligent minds with best ideas on this forum, are not those 'notice me' who post on every thread.
I've been lucky to come across few of such, never saw them on FP before.

You joined 5 years ago, less than 300 posts yet you've cashed out a beautiful babe from this social medium, while some people with over 5k posts have been shouting FTC since, with nothing to show for it.
Enjoy your wife and marriage, you earned it son.

Happy married life.

Your head is there.

mercyooGod:
good evening
@ ROSEEY0 dear sis, if i post money will i be able to receive drug from you i need some drugs form you .
i want serrepates doc best friend and other drugs for Fallopian tubes.

i hope transportation is ok now

RTC isn't operational now. But DHL is available for doorstep or EMS.

Kobojunkie:
He prayed to God His Father, the one from whom He was begotten from.

Will you pray to yourself?