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You Will get over it.
We all did

Just give it time

Man up o
More to come

I know everyone is saying break up with her.
But I will tell you otherwise.
Fight to keep her.
Go and see her face to face.
Win her over again even if she is considering someone else.
The woman you described is one to keep.

There are many fishes in the ocean o, but it is when you become a fisherman that you will know that there are fishes and there are fishes.
4years is a long time for her feelings to start weaning. Another guy can applying pressure now, she may be losing focus and needs you to win her over. Las las, na you lose good woman o. Woman pass woman o. If you find a good one, fight to keep her. As you are searching, she is searching for a man that will appreciate her and respect her too. A man that will fight for her. That's what the toasting phase does for a woman. That next one you are going for, you will still toast her ni

Same advise I give ladies.
Cc: sapien

Don't be quick to let out the steams of your life on your mother.
Calling her out like this?
She raised you for God's sake.
I feel her pain.
You got preggy and she stood by you, took the children from you to allow you find your feet.
Only for you to get even wilder afterwards . Too bad.
Consider that deliverance she suggested.
You didn't have all this diagnosis before you had you son. Your problems started after you went wild. Think .
May you all find peace

Yes some people will be given the privilege to not see tribulation.

But tribulation is inevitable for most Christians. That's what tests your stance in Christ.

Go and read about the apostles and how they died before following Christ.
Your glory will be for eternity.

It always ends eventually.
One person must be hiding something.
Nothing perfect in life

greggng:
It means you are a negative energy .....you are not taking good care of her

You don summarise am finish

King44:
How Kim take do am after 5 kids, don't tell me she is not going through stress or there is nothing she is thinking about.

Let's ask Kanye.

You don't get it?
It's all in your hands as a man. Na where you want her to be she go be. So stop blaming the woman. Blame yourself.

There is no seat down and talk to that will work sir.

Take her responsibilities off her neck and she will have nothing else to think about than fashion and physical appearance. You don't help around the house yet you expect her to do magic and still maintain her youthful appearance.

You think raising kids is easy?
Thats Why the society is failing. You have parents who do not know their responsibility. Their priority still lie in vanities of this life, leaving social media and peers to raise their children.

Las las , na you go lose.

Rebound.

I pity the New girl.
She will be trying so hard to fit into a new shoe she can't obviously fit.

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You will never get over this ex you are explaining o. Until you stay off relationships and heal properly.
Sha find a way to let go.
We just can't have it all in life.
Console yourself with the fact that you left for a geniune reason.
Faithfulness is still the first mark some of us thick before any other thing. Once it's not there, you will never have rest of mind in that relationship. Just move on. You left for a good reason. If the New girl doesn't fit. Find another. But Pls, don't go back to that ex.

Option 1
People donating egg or sperm dont claim ownership of a child. Fatherhood goes beyond DNA.

Why is she telling you now?
Because things are not going well for her spouse.
She is mad.
Let her carry her cross. If she was a President's wife, will she remember to tell you?

See yourself as a sperm donor.Noting more.
The boy already has a father who has been going all out to take care of him not minding his current circumstance. I repeat, you are not his father. You only donated sperm. Focus on your family and the children who You father.

Please tell your wife the story first before she hear it outside. Cut that ex off totally.

Option 2
Blood is thicker than water.
If she is saying she can't take care of the child any longer, you can offer to bring him into your home and raise him completely.
No attachee or child support thingy.
Just hand over pikin to you and you raise him. If Not, make she carry her cross. Wash your hand comlt. You have done your part

Your father married a bad wife .
He has accepted it
You just have to manage it til she goes.

Put her in constant prayer.
She can only change tru prayer

Only if God called them.

Did she lie in any of these?
You already explained how she came up with the things she used against you.

It's insult. Thats what people do when they feel hurt by you. They use your disadvantages to make you feel bad.

Just forgive her since she has begged.
Try to forget it and move on. You feel she hasn't done anything tangible for you but she carried your babies. You think that is easy?
Just let it go and build your home from the scratch.

Pls I am interested in that juju that reverse breach babies biko. Knowledge that our stupid government has refused to recognise. People that should be made professors and brought to teach doctors how to do these things. They abandon ancient knowledge that has helped us from time immemorial. Pls I am interested. Make that man no die with that juju o. I need am

Once there is life. There is hope. Give it your best shot. Don't call them now till you can afford to give them something evem as little as a bag of rice. When you finally get to Them, pls pour out your mind to Them, show them remorse, they will never abandon you . Blood is thicker than water. This is the time to hustle not regret . Dust yourself and start afresh. We all make mistakes. Pick up yourself and keep pushing legitimately. Don't go and do drugs again o. Go home when you must have made a little for yourself

So girlfriends use to collect Christmas money from boyfriend.

Wahala for who no get boyfriend o

You are the only one still in this relationship.
She broke up with you already

She is seeing herself as your wife already while you just see her as an option.


I wish someone will speak sense into her head to stop building her life around you.

It's not her fault . Most women do that alot.
She need advice not you

Ifedith
Do you still have honour V20 or nova 4

Ollyb10:
I'm in this situation, planning to break up tho, but I wouldn't do that again, will talk to him first as u'v said. Thanks so much, Op doesn't know she has helped people like me also with this thread.
I just pray I develop that courage to speak cos I'm exactly like u described urself. But I'l try, God will continue to bless ur home.

Amen.
Once you start, it gets easier. Been there. Most guys know how to spoil women naturally due to their flirty nature. But there is this few subset that just doesnt know how. But they can be taught. Just try before you give up. That's what I did and still doing.

Lucyspa:
Most times, the guys leave them e.g it happened to my roommate. She cried tire. After praising her independent and hustling spirit.

He must be very young and still isn't planning his future.