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Romance › Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Roycemadeit(m): 8:47am On Apr 11, 2022

Shagbatshagba:
I don't get u roycemadeit......so if I father my child are u saying I should not have d mindset of me owning my child?

A human is not an object, like a phone, you know. They are capable of making their own decision but when you have the mindset that you own them, you will do a lot of things that would limit their experience of life and interest. Asides from this, it should not matter if one is the father or not, the most important thing is that that child is human, the mentality that governs the idea of ownership is the root cause of separatism and this is why the world is toxic.

Romance › Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Roycemadeit(m): 12:11am On Apr 11, 2022

AntiMen:
So in a nutshell, you're asking me to explore my feelings with him?

I am asking you to weigh it onwho benefits the most. So, that whatever decision you take you will find closure.

Romance › Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Roycemadeit(m): 12:09am On Apr 11, 2022

AjiBussu:
May your wife continue exploring all her ultimate desires with different men which will make her very happy. After all, marriage to you is an illusion and may you later find out at the age of 60 that all your kids (4) are from different men she has explored with.

Marriage should not change anyone especially their desires and btw no one can fulfill all the desires of their partner, just as no one should claim to own a person child or partner, the fact that your father a person shouldn't give you the idea that they are yours.

Romance › Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Roycemadeit(m): 11:20am On Apr 10, 2022

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children...
I love my husband no doubt...
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling, I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

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Our feelings are born from different scenarios and influences, some are of no known origin. But, since the world will live would try to tell us to have a particular type of feeling for one person they fail to explain why we feel crazy about another person. It simply shows that our society doesn't know enough to tell us how to run our lives. Most people would rather run by the ideals of society relating to relationships than go by what their body is telling them. Most times when we please the expectations of the society we displease ourselves and when we please ourselves, which I must say is best, society will scorn us.

Having read through, I see some saying cry to God, relocate and all sorts of things. Yet, I will like to ask you a question... Will you be happier running from these feelings or will you be happier exploring them? Now, put in mind that marriage is an illusion and it shouldn't override our ultimate desires, which is freedom, but should be viewed as something we do solely because we want to experience who we are, In relation, to our partner... Peace![/color]

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Crime › Re: Ogun Polic Arrest 23-Year-Old Man For Raping & Killing His 29-Year-Old Neighbour by Roycemadeit(m): 9:40am On Apr 08, 2022

[Quote Author=Saphiere Post=111737209]Not That I Am Always Getting Bad News To Paint Men Black. Men Are The Ones Who Like Being On The News For Bad Reasons.

The Day I Will See A Female Nigerian Rapist I Will Commit Suicide.[/Quote]

Well, You Might Never See Such. When Compared To The Man, The Woman Seems To Have Non-existent Sexuality. This Is The Reason Why You Would Hear Most Ladies Say, "I Gave Him My Body." In This Context, You Could See, It Is Implied That She Granted The Man A Favor, She Sacrificed Herself For The Pleasure Of The Man And Not For Herself... After Been Either Psyched Into Believing That Sex Is Evil Or Having Been Mutilated Or Even Both.

In Our Society, If A Woman Celebrates Her Sexuality By Exploring It, She Is Scorned, Alienated, And Stigmatized. What Is Her Crime? Exploring That Which Is As Natural As Sleeping Or Eating. Of Course, When Compared To The Man, This Is Not The Same Case, For He Could Have As Many Sexual Partners As He Desires, Even Marry As Many, And He Would Not Be Shamed Or Stigmatized, And Don't Be Surprised If He Is Applauded For His Prowess At Having So Many Women. The Women Are Made To Live In Self-denial And The Man's Sexuality Is Never Inhibited, He Is Thrown Into A World Without Guidance And The Woman Is Kept Aloof.

Crime › Re: Ogun Polic Arrest 23-Year-Old Man For Raping & Killing His 29-Year-Old Neighbour by Roycemadeit(m): 9:28am On Apr 08, 2022

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Yeah you don't like the truth huh..

I am not supposed to respond to this, you are still looking at the world through a peep hole. But, let me educate you for a second.
The victims and culprits of crimes are not alienated from our society, they were educated, influenced, and manipulated by the system that runs our society. The time between a child's birth and when he commits that crime is a huge number of days and minutes of indirect and direct psychological, religious effects from different quarters. The society is the cause of all crime. Criminals are not born criminals...

Crime › Re: Ogun Polic Arrest 23-Year-Old Man For Raping & Killing His 29-Year-Old Neighbour by Roycemadeit(m): 10:35pm On Apr 07, 2022

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Men are responsible for most of the problems around the world..
Violent crime is almost exclusively committed by men. .Most societal problems war...crime..rape.. sexism.. racism..genocide.. economic inequality.. famine..rape and some other horrible act are mostly linked to men..

When is this nonsense gonna stop..
So disgusting..*pukes*

Stereotyping crimes and attributing them to a particular gender doesn't make so much sense if we ignore that every criminal is influenced by different things and all these things are born by society. We should look at being more responsible as a society, being good parents doesn't alienate kids.

Crime › Re: Ogun Polic Arrest 23-Year-Old Man For Raping & Killing His 29-Year-Old Neighbour by Roycemadeit(m): 10:31pm On Apr 07, 2022

saphiere:
MOST TIMES I would just sit down and wish God didn't create the male gender.

Even God regretted creating this gender.

Fortunately, man was made in his image not woman... grin

We must share lots of qualities asides appearances.

Nairaland General › Re: Have You Ever Met Your Lookalike (doppelganger) And What Was Your Reaction? by Roycemadeit(m): 9:33pm On Mar 28, 2022

In my undergraduate days there was a guy who looked so much like me. Once; a lecturer wanted to get my matric because he thought you had sent me out and I sneaked back into his class, it was until we showed him the guy standing outside that he believed he wasn't me.

Education › Re: FUTO Final Year Student Found Dead In Imo, A Bottle Of Snipper Found In His Room by Roycemadeit(m): 8:51pm On Mar 27, 2022

Therapy is important for many of us to navigate life. In a third world country, where most people strive to survive, not live, therapy should be of utmost importance.

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Romance › Re: Why Did Your Last Relationship End?? by Roycemadeit(m): 1:21pm On Mar 20, 2022

Stargurl20:
Are men who claimed not to be eating Egusi everyday a man who*re?

There's a million type of soups.... Sample as many

Romance › Re: For The Married by Roycemadeit(m): 10:33am On Mar 20, 2022

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Stargurl20:
Women

*If u are a married woman and you're not submissive yo your husband maybe because u have small change, my sister your mumu too much..

* If u a married woman and u wear tight jean, bra, tight like someone who's going to war, while on the bed with ur better half, aunty u mumu.

* If u are a married woman and u do not initiate sex, man ur man feel wanted, doing mummy G.O or Alhaja with ur husband, sister I salute ur mumuism

Men

*If u are a married man, but u give side chick respect, sex position, energy, money, care, attention etc than ur wife, bros, u too mumu.

*If u are a married man and u allow side chicks to disrespect ur wife, the mother of adorable kids, u be bros wey mumu

*If u are a married man and u beat ur wife because she's physically not strong as u, u be coward and mumu

*If u are married man and call ur wife prostitute because she initiated sex, broda, u be mumu. Na me she for come initiate sex with?

This sounds interesting. But, not necessarily true. Thos are probably you defining "how good a wife you will be or are.or husband you would love."
Marriage doesn't rewire anyone nor does a human remain static

Romance › Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Roycemadeit(m): 9:05pm On Mar 18, 2022

wonderr:
Guys run after bad girls because they are easy to access and fun to be with just for pleasure, meanwhile bad girls get everything they want so fast that's y you see them slaying all the time but it doesn't last because guys drop them after they got what they came for
Good girls are not easy to access so guys don't usually run after them but they are been watched and noticed unknowingly to them guys later marry these set of girls and they later enjoy far better than the former

There's a difference between sexually liberated, positive women and those whose sexuality is caged.

Romance › Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Roycemadeit(m): 9:01pm On Mar 18, 2022

Stargurl20:
Is there really any gain in that?

There's no gain in being a good person, not just girl.
The world is not built by morals.
Those who excel didn't excel by being good. It is good to be good but don't look at the possession of the bad and think that they may meet a misfortune, misfortune rarely meets them. grin

Even when you achieve something by being good, the bad can wade in and take it.

You simply should live by what seems the better option each time and not by seiving it through the idea of good or bad as fed to us by those who long to control us. The hell, you can even buy a good name after ruining lives.

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Romance › Re: What Is The Real Reason Almost All Girls Become Chubby When Getting Older? by Roycemadeit(m): 12:45pm On Mar 14, 2022

Atimjessy:
Why do men get pot belly and their carrot shrink when getting older?

Na wa

Politics › Re: Russia Says West Arming Ukraine Will Cause 'Global Collapse' by Roycemadeit(m): 7:20am On Mar 08, 2022

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nedekid:
You call Ukraine small and helpless? You don't know where it is on the map, neither do you understand the geopolitics.
Do you know Ukraine is, the largest country in Europe after Russia by landmass? Twice the size of Germany, Poland, Italy?
The only reason Russia has not made a very fast advance is its reluctance to unleash "shock and awe" as the US did when invading Iraq. Go and watch videos of the first few days of the Gulf War. The US bombed Bagdad to submission. On the skyline of Bagdad continuous explosions. Have you seen that happen in Ukraine? You see Ukrainians stand in front of a Russian military convoy and it stops to avoid them. Which Iraqi could try that on the US troops? A sure one-way ticket to the grave.
Most folks get their news from western propaganda. CNN and other MSM.

Thank you for this...
I couldn't have mustered the strength to make any comments.

Those who have turned prophets of doom for Russia and Putin need to access more information before screaming and swearing...

These folks out here are all sentimental and emotional, there is no iota of truth in their stance. The volume of words they churn out is no different than CNN. Like a fish baited with a worm, they have swallowed the western propaganda and are defending the hook dragging them to slaughter, the same hook thrown by the corporations that own The CNNs, MSMs and run the U.S.

Yet, the black man doesn't stress himself to know more, he rather goes by popular opinion.

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Science/Technology › Re: Scientists Baffled By Mummified 'Mermaid' With 'Human Face' & Tail (Graphic Pic) by Roycemadeit(m): 10:16pm On Mar 04, 2022

This is plausible.

I have listened to someone whose perception of life became godlike after eating the flesh of a humanoid creature.

I don't know if we find it hard to distinguish between an 800-year lifetime or immortality.

Romance › Re: I've Missed Dating Life by Roycemadeit(m): 12:44am On Mar 01, 2022

@mirexxx

I suppose dating is one way we get to live nearly true to ourselves. That surge of emotions, the tingling feeling that seems to put us on our toes while waiting impatiently to have a surreal adventure without boundaries or coercion to explore a new terrain...

I doubt if the married ones have that liberty to be who they are and experience more life. Nevertheless, sooner than later, most relationships get kind of muddy in time especially if it is fueled with expectations.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Why Is There So Much Suffering On Earth? by Roycemadeit(m): 12:08pm On Feb 22, 2022*

Blackdisciple:
Go back and read what I typed again and see if I mentioned the devil killed.

God is God, he has the final say on everything whereas what ever he does is right.

You never knew any one who committed suicide it's the devil who make him do it by letting him knows there's no hope left again, you never know that envy, jealousy, etc all leads to killings too, those also are the works of the devil abi ...don't u see the society we lived in today abi u no dey see wetin dey happen... The devil will deceive you to kill because he is good in deceiving...and we think it's out state of mind...

This life is in 2 ways either you are with the devil or you are with Almighty God it's your choice ......

There are about 13 verses in the Bible where God said he was jealous bro!!! Jealousy and Envy are just semantics...If jealousy is caused by the Devil, then the devil is the cause of God's jealousy?

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Is There So Much Suffering On Earth? by Roycemadeit(m): 5:00pm On Feb 21, 2022

MaxInDHouse:
The true God created us not to be robotic like animals but to use our brains to the full. The only restriction given is that we mustn't think we are capable of ruling over our fellowman, it will lead to a disaster.
Satan convinced the first human pair that they can successfully rule over other humans independently of God so God allowed them to try their efforts until it was glaring that they failed and all those trying to do the same continued to make life miserable for the people they Were able to victimize.
After thousands of years, God decided to intervene but He never intended to kill anyone so he allowed the grandchildren of His friends Abraham to be enslaved in the world's most powerful nation of that time Egypt then after 400 years He journeyed to Egypt with an octogenarian (Moses) who formerly wanted to free the Israelites by force.
God now asked Moses to speak with the King of Egypt but God never attacked Pharaoh so the King's pride kept increasing.
Finally, after so many miracle works that are heard throughout the entire inherited earth, Pharaoh agreed to release the Israelites only to perish in the red sea with all his armies as he later pursued the Israelites.

Now if you are alive back then in any country and you heard that such a God is coming to claim any part of the earth for His people to establish His form of worship will you stubbornly wait to challenge Him and His people?

Wait before you respond listen to what a tribe did when they heard that this God wants to come and claim their land. They dressed in rags and worn-out shoes to go and meet the Israelites and begged them to vow in the name of that same God that they will allow them to stay. These people and their God allowed.
Another woman (a prostitute) begged these people to grant her and all her families a stay and these people and their God allowed them.

So if you are such a God what will you do to all those who heard of your mightiness but decided to dare you?

I can't be such a God... After all, they don't even know me... I never appeared to them. And why should I prove myself in their ignorance?

In the story of Abimelech who took Abraham's wife, God appeared to him in a dream and he returned Sarah. But, in the story of Pharaoh, he lost his onions.

Whatever his intentions were at creation... It didn't succeed. God planned and failed. . .

Experience is the best teacher. Adam and Eve were more or less babies in mature bodies, they did not have an understanding of the concept of good or bad nor obedience or disobedience so they are not at fault... It's more or less like punishing a crawling child because they poured a tin of milk... If I knew that the child might pour it, I will take it out of their reach.

The reason why Abraham's seed was enslaved is that this God changed languages...
Otherwise, there would not have been different nations.

Well, I had to restrict myself to the Bible, just to show you how dishonest Christians are... Not because these events happened, the Bible is not anywhere near facts and should be disregarded by an informed man.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Is There So Much Suffering On Earth? by Roycemadeit(m): 3:58pm On Feb 21, 2022

MaxInDHouse:
Just ask why they must be wiped out and listen to the reason before arguing over what you yourself will overwhelmingly justify later when you find out that there's no other way out!

Why must they be wiped?

Christianity Etc › Re: Why Is There So Much Suffering On Earth? by Roycemadeit(m): 3:51pm On Feb 21, 2022

MaxInDHouse:
Wiping out millions is not the problem but why they must be wiped out is what you should ask.

Wow! So there is a justification for this?

A marauding crowd invades a city, murders everyone in it, but spared only the little virgin girls, they are to be taken as spoils of war as commanded by God.

And you will expect me to believe Christians have moral bearings? You should take out time and evaluate your beliefs...

This is unbelievable... There is a reason why millions are dead not that the matter of the dead millions? And what did that solve? Mtcheew...

Funny How The jealous, genocidal and partisan, burning flesh savouring nosed and blood-sucking God of the Bible, decided to save the world by sacrificing his son. Did he give his life to Christ?

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