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Family › Re: Man Gets Scolded By His Young Daughter After He Went To Marry Another Lady (vid) by Roycemadeit(m): 9:58am On Jun 30, 2023

eagleonearth:
while I don't subscribe to polygamy, I second the fact that this generation has lost it all in terms of respect for the elderly.

If an elder doesn't behave as respectably as they have been teaching the youngsters, they do not deserve respect.

It's like saying because the rapist is the eldest man, let's leave him be for respect's sake. grin

Family › Re: Man Gets Scolded By His Young Daughter After He Went To Marry Another Lady (vid) by Roycemadeit(m): 7:39am On Jun 30, 2023

maasoap:
Actually, it is on rise. Very much on the rise. Majority of the Christians believe that their religion says "one man one wife" and they're expect the faithfuls to adhere to that. So, it is understandable. But for the Muslims whose religion supports it, the resistance is mind boggling most especially in the south west. Even in the homes of the so called Alfas where the the understanding is expected to be deep

You are simply reiterating what I'd said, it's all about influence.

[color=#Cde600]A polygamous home does mean fracas must exist. Unlike the northerners who are raised through Middle-Easterner culture, the southwesterners are more interactive with Western-culture. We are conflicted and afflicted by these cultures.[/color]

[color=#Bca600]Times change, in the traditional setting, without the influence of other cultures, a man takes more wives and live in peace.[/color]

[color=#Fe0099]Today, a lot of women have been influenced to be hostile when their man takes another wife. Just as a lot of men have been nurtured to be vengeful when their wives have extramarital affairs. ^{And, of course, we have feminism dancing skelewu at the corner.}[/color]

[color=#AA0077]In my opinion, it's wise a husband does not promise that it's him for her forever. Vows mostly guarantee failure. And if he desires another wife, he must seek the permission of his wife.[/color]

Family › Re: Man Gets Scolded By His Young Daughter After He Went To Marry Another Lady (vid) by Roycemadeit(m): 10:39pm On Jun 29, 2023

maasoap:
That's the girl's version of the story and I'm not buying it. First wives and their kids have never been known to agree with daddies to marry second wives. There is always strong resistance, I have seen this on numerous occasions.

As I said, westernization is to be blamed...

These ruckus between wives and their kids doesn't happen in Islamic homes as often when compared to the Christian homes...

Many of our fathers came from polygamous homes and lived happily...

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Family › Re: Man Gets Scolded By His Young Daughter After He Went To Marry Another Lady (vid) by Roycemadeit(m): 10:34pm On Jun 29, 2023

RALPHOW:
What men are looking for is peace of mind!
If your mother gives him peace of mind, he will never considered 2nd wife, worse is side chick.
Small girl don't know what the man may be going through in the hands of her mother.

I don't apologize when I say this is a bit myopic.

No one can give you peace of mind.

We know our desires are limitless and nobody is content until they have attained a level of consciousness that would allow their minds to be at peace.

Give a man who is unable to will his mind the most peace-of-mind giving woman, he would still crave for the troublesome one.

Family › Re: Man Gets Scolded By His Young Daughter After He Went To Marry Another Lady (vid) by Roycemadeit(m): 9:42pm On Jun 29, 2023*

maasoap:
End time indeed, for daughter to be telling dad how to live his life.

The little girl is disappointed that he lied...

I mean there are certain things we should own up to. When an elder is wrong we should not hide our mouth, we must call him out. Because he has lost the respect that would have been his, like an elder who let's children play with his penis and still expects respect. No, his own children would say, "I am disappointed in you!"

[color=#AB0077]^{In ancient times, it was a norm to marry several wives but that's not the case today as we have become so westernized that we are left with a large number of unmarried women growing geometrically. Let's marry more wives, but let's not throw a bomb in the home that has been built. A husband alone CANNOT BUILD A HOME. Don't swear vows to stick with one woman, they don't ask such at a TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE, if you are capable to have more wives do it, your wife and children would RESPECT YOU as they know you have a traditional belief or an Islamic belief that allows more wives compared to going behind to thief a wife because you know your home would not expect or respect such an act of betrayal.}[/color]

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Christianity Etc › Re: No Woman Who Has Used Earrings Has Ever Entered Heaven - Pastor Paul Rika by Roycemadeit(m): 3:55pm On May 21, 2023

BornofGod108:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBt5AvZzQBM

No woman who has used earrings has ever entered heaven will never enter heaven by pst Paul Rika

God doesn't want his people wearing gold or any other ornaments...
But he Lives within a gold fenced community...

Politics › Re: Peter Obi Family Vs Tinubu Family In Pictures. by Roycemadeit(m): 8:13pm On Mar 07, 2023

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Romance › Re: Do You Think Forgiving A Partner That Cheated On You Makes You Weak by Roycemadeit(m): 8:11pm On Mar 07, 2023

Privatisation of Genitals and its Cons

Politics › Re: God Removed A Military Ruler Who Acted Like He Owned Nigeria - Pastor Adeboye by Roycemadeit(m): 6:08pm On Feb 28, 2023*

These people keep on saying and believing rubbish.

"When and where did God say he was who removed him?"

Always irresponsible.

Always apportioning everything to the devil or God.

If it is what they hope or is beneficial to their selfish perception, is it God? If it's not, the devil. And never the individuals who carried out the act are to blame or eulogized.

How the hell did God remove Abacha? When the CIA took him out for political sanctions he put against the West.

God did not see to removing the owners of the foreign companies and policymakers who suck Africa dry...

Or those Nigerian leaders who are in bed with those who bleed Nigeria dry...

^{This is the reason why I insist believers live fantastically never seeing what is in their faces no matter how evident or} LARGE.

Literature › Re: Lagos And Abuja: A Tale Of Two Cities. by Roycemadeit(m): 9:29pm On Feb 14, 2023

Chuks84:
I was born and bred in Lagos, had my primary, secondary and tertiary education in Lagos. I hated Lagos! The madness, everybody was in rush to go somewhere.

Interesting

Technology Market › Re: What To Do With These Old Typewriters? by Roycemadeit(op): 5:32pm On Feb 03, 2023

SOLD

Christianity Etc › Re: Book Of Light: Confession Of Yahweh On Why He Is Called Satan By Supreme R by Roycemadeit(m): 4:16pm On Jan 26, 2023

Leiylau:
I will but not now

Christianity Etc › Re: Book Of Light: Confession Of Yahweh On Why He Is Called Satan By Supreme R by Roycemadeit(m): 10:47am On Jan 26, 2023

Leiylau:
Are you a Christian ?

Why are u eager to read it?

I am a Chinese white witch I treasure such book but you African apes joke with it as if it's a novel . Wat u runaway from in life shall get you in death

It's cool if you don't want to share.

Christianity Etc › Re: Book Of Light: Confession Of Yahweh On Why He Is Called Satan By Supreme R by Roycemadeit(m): 7:46pm On Jan 25, 2023

[color=#12AF00]Could you please share the book in which this is found?[/color]

Fashion › Re: Please, Is This Outfit I Got For My Birthday Too Short To Be Worn Outside? Pics by Roycemadeit(m): 7:39pm On Jan 25, 2023

[color=#0F00D0]FadilaMaikiriki it's cool to be worn outside but the outside you are going wear it in is the problem...[/color]

Family › Re: After Being Single For Soo Long, Im Now Scared Of Getting Married. Please Help!! by Roycemadeit(m): 9:35pm On Jan 23, 2023

EriMma1

I do understand your fear of being married, or [color=#A8DA9E]^imprisoned[/color] because that's what it is if one is been realistic. Yet, when it is done without any compulsions, one could say they exercised their freedom to be in it.

Just as ritmek said, [color=#Aa8790]"Do what makes you happy."[/color]

[color=#DD0077]My take is you have to live as you desire and within your set principles too but as you do also realize that you are not those things and you can affect changes wherever necessary.[/color]

But, you should tell yourself the truth. Don't look at the man to make permutations on what the future holds but yourself. You have to ask the hard questions and see if you can, of your own volition, fulfill your role as society requires. [color=#00F869]Now, if you see those things required of you as a wife as sacrifices then you have robbed yourself of happiness.[/color]

TV/Movies › Re: You Can Only Watch One Actor's Movies For The Rest Of Your Life. Who Would It Be by Roycemadeit(m): 9:04pm On Jan 21, 2023

Wagner Moura

Kevin Spacey

Melissa McCarthy

Jamie Foxx

To mention a pinch.

Christianity Etc › Re: But The Mustard Seed Is Not The Smallest Of All Seeds... by Roycemadeit(m): 5:48pm On Jan 19, 2023*

It shows the fallibility of the Word of God.

What do we expect from someone who created everything but doesn't know of pathogens but says all illnesses are caused by the devil?

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TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Titans (BBTitans) 2023: Live Updates Thread by Roycemadeit(m): 7:24pm On Jan 15, 2023

We are here again
We are here again

Business › Re: Aminu Dantata: I Am Just Waiting For My Time, I No Longer Enjoy Life by Roycemadeit(m): 6:13am On Dec 28, 2022*

Righteousness2:
That is life for you.

This is why we hammer on the need to prepare for Eternity because that is real life.

Life here on earth is just a temporal thing.
Eternity is forever and ever.

Don't allow the few years you have here on earth to destroy yours forever and ever.
Live in the Consciousness of your Eternity.

If you will make Eternal life in Heaven, you must Believe and Surrender to JESUS Christ as your LORD and Savior.

How you gon live for eternity chanting the same thing and not going crazy?

Life here provides choices, bad or good.

But Heaven!

That's gotta be horrible.

You got gold you can't spend, you wear crowns you ain't kings.

No choices, no dying, no breaks.

Immortality isn't bliss.

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Crime › Re: Bolanle Raheem's Husband Gives Chilling Account Of How She Was Murdered by Roycemadeit(m): 2:11pm On Dec 27, 2022

olasaad:
Do you think this is his first time killing innocent people God really wants to expose him before he retired. Evil man.

So, God wanted to expose him by killing another person? cool

Christianity Etc › Re: Before Your Son Brings Another Son As His Wife, Wake Up - Bishop Oyedepo by Roycemadeit(m): 7:12am On Nov 28, 2022

CanadaOrBust:
Son & Sons LTD

Meaning what? Does that make it natural or right? God destroyed whole cities because of it.
Divinely wired my ass!

Hope you know he didn't... Sodom and Gomorrah ain't real neither was Tower of Babel or Noah cheesy

Christianity Etc › Re: I Don't Need Any Religion - Wole Soyinka by Roycemadeit(m): 4:03pm On Nov 23, 2022

Kobojunkie:
1. You and I don't obviously believe in the same God hence your deity is not my deity. So, Kindly get back to simply answering the question asked instead of writing these epistles to nowhere.

A. So, in believing in your deity, you do not need to obey him as he requires nothing from you and gives you nothing since all you have is meaninglessness to contend with, right?

2. Please avoid fhe many time wasting rehearing and try to stick to subject abeg!

B. If there is nothing but meaninglessness with your deity, what exactly would there be to be scared of? Why even bother acknowledging the existence of the deity, to begin with, if it all amounts to meaninglessness for you?

3. What deity created all yet preferring one tribe?

If you are trying to assert this of the God of Israel, then I am afraid you are mistaken as His plan from even before He conscripted the descendants if Israel was to save people from every language, every tribe and every nation for Himself by using Israel.

4. If you are referring to that written in the National Constitution that is written to have been given by God to the people of Israel, then , again, I am afraid you misconstrue the essence of that Law to the people. That Constitution was designed with many of the same Laws of engage that existed at the time between Nations. The Egyptians, Babylonians,Philistines, Hittites nations of the time had pretty similar laws in the own constitution if you looked carefully. So why not the Nation of Israel?

God added His forever laws, to what seemed the typical Constitution of a Nation at that time, with promise that if the people would diligently obey Him by adopting and obeying the Constitution, He would raise them above all other nations of the earth. And we all know how that has been going so far.

5. I don't follow at all.

6. He didn't change at all. Nor did He suddenly decide to save the other tribes either.

Look, all this does is reveal is you have never in fact read the book without blinders on. Try it someday and you might be shocked..

Okay

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Business › Re: Fisayo Fosudo Redesigns The ₦500 Note Through Photoshop by Roycemadeit(m): 3:27pm On Nov 23, 2022

immortalcrown:
E gets wetin' dem never talk about the Arabic words on the Naira notes. Which tribe in Nigeria speaks Arabic? Was Nigeria colonized by Arabic people? What exactly is the justification?

Actually, yes. Islamic fundamentalists colonized parts of northern Nigeria and would have colonized more areas had the British not truncated their advancement... A proper Muslim should be able to speak and read the Arabic language, to them that is the language spoken in Jannah...

Christianity Etc › Re: I Don't Need Any Religion - Wole Soyinka by Roycemadeit(m): 9:53am On Nov 23, 2022*

Kobojunkie:
1. So, in believing in your deity, you do not need to obey him as he requires nothing from you and gives you nothing since all you have is meaninglessness to contend with, right?

2. If there is nothing but meaninglessness with your deity, what exactly would there be to be scared of? Why even bother acknowledging the existence of the deity, to begin with, if it all amounts to meaninglessness for you?

I don't believe in my deity.

I do not need to believe in a deity.

I DON'T HAVE A DEITY!

A deity is usually tailored to the culture and tradition of a people... This explains why every tribe or people has deities they worship, use to mark events, and try to explain natural phenomenons around these deity/deities their stories are tied and cultures are empowered, and I must add that as knowledge grow the deities become smaller just as they absorb deities of other people who they suppose are more powerful.

Most cultures are polytheistic. Humans had attributed every unexplainable thing to different deities but the idea of a singular deity, which we see in Abrahamic religions was not original. That's why Christians dance around when asked to explain the Trinity and even the devil, who had enough power to try and overthrow God, in three persons.

Everything you have, your perception of good or bad is solely yours to make. There are options laid before you, you are not going to be judged for killing a person who tries to kill you or stealing to get your family treated when nobody cares. Behind the concept of crime are love and goodness. Even jealousy is sponsored by self-love. These are basic things we should have come to acknowledge but when they continually drum into our ears that some things are bad, we should take out time to examine the concept of good and bad.

So, if you are nurtured to think a woman wearing trousers is bad, then you see a man wearing skirts you would find it an abomination. They are neither bad nor good. Your perceptions solely stem from indoctrination. Just as some people scream against animal cruelty but eat meat.

Fear remains a tool by which humans are controlled. If fire had burned your hand, you will learn not to put your hand in it, you don't fear it, but have a better understanding of it.

It is very interesting to note that most things humans fear are not real, but stem from imagination, anxiety, and irresponsibility.

Humans aren't supposed to live in fear. Just as the bible says the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom then turn around to say love the lord your God... One should ask why you fear what you love and not being dumped in an asylum.

However, you think of life and the decisions we make, we must understand that everything has no meaning just a bunch of experiences we get from our choices.

Here are a few questions:

How is it that God who created all tribe prefer one tribe over others?

How would you justify the Godly act and command of killing off children or making virgins slaves for his favorite tribe?

While you answer, think about the perception of those people he hurt of the God of Israel, then of New Testament All Loving God, if you were one of those hurt.

After that, show why the unchangeable God of Israel decided to redeem other tribes in the world? Did he grow love for them or did he not know to have compassion on sinners?

Christianity Etc › Re: I Don't Need Any Religion - Wole Soyinka by Roycemadeit(m): 9:37pm On Nov 22, 2022

Kobojunkie:
1.
2.
We don't serve/obey the same God by the way, and there is meaning to be had for me beyond all the meaninglessness..

There's no need obeying or serving God... What's the purpose to serving a God that requires nothing? It is either because you are scared of been punished for doing things that are natural or beneficial to you or suppose you would live eternally in a place with fence and mansions with no beds, to sing alleluya forever and ever...

Christianity Etc › Re: I Don't Need Any Religion - Wole Soyinka by Roycemadeit(m): 2:36pm On Nov 22, 2022

Sweetvie:
Hmm
Mine is kinda simple.
I believe in him and his existence...There was a point in my life i started doubting if there's even God but he show himself in a way I can never forget.
I believe in God and his words... I just don't believe in those people who call themselves pastor neither can I kneel b4 them. They've turn religion into something else entirely. That's y there's so many doubt abt Christianity now

Great...

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Christianity Etc › Re: I Don't Need Any Religion - Wole Soyinka by Roycemadeit(m): 12:43pm On Nov 22, 2022

Sweetvie:
Lol... Funny
You're confusing yourself.
I don't even know where to start typing from.

Tell me what you believe...

Christianity Etc › Re: I Don't Need Any Religion - Wole Soyinka by Roycemadeit(m): 8:12am On Nov 22, 2022

Kobojunkie:
1. Notice how you don't really answer the question asked?

I asked if it isn't the one creator of good that also created evil? Is there more than one creator?

2. If you don't believe in the deity described in scripture, that is fine. No need to pitch your deity against any others. Simply asking questions here to ascertain your belief is all.

3. You "create" all these things, all of which eventually end up in the landfill, polluting the sea and earth with no end in sight - this is the meaning of existence? This what amounts to a cycle of meaningless is what you consider the meaning of life?

1. Nothing can exist without the creator.
2. I don't believe, I know.
3. Yes, life is meaningless. You only give it meaning by choosing or doing whatever you desire.

What is the meaning of life to you?

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Christianity Etc › Re: I Don't Need Any Religion - Wole Soyinka by Roycemadeit(m): 7:09am On Nov 22, 2022*

Kobojunkie:
1. So is there more than one creator, is that what you believe? Recall this started off as a question regarding the creator of evil.

When you say God, everyone looks at Christianity. But the God of Israel is localized, it is only given to interpretations by the jews, he is no different from how Odin is to the Vikings or Zeus to the Greeks.

I should have made that clearer...

So, there is the Creator. The Creator is not only genderless but doesn't pick one over another, nor punishes, being that good and evil are the same thing but polarized, none is to be rewarded or punished for.

2. This all still doesn't make sense to me.

I pitched the creator against God i.e God of Israel.

3. To know what? Recreate what? How do you recreate who you are when the version that is you is the one you work with until you die?

To explore, do whatever you may, recreate and create anything you want of your life. You may not understand how powerful the mind is. You see the mind brings about everything from the cars to shirts.[/quote]

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