Family › Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Rubbiish(m): 4:09pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
co787: She is 2 years old my wife is still in detention I will bail her next week I haven't arrested him yet because I am in Lagos there are in nnewi I am planning to go there next week along with my wife to arrest him and I will return to Lagos alone she will stay with her people I don't see any point arresting ur wife It was a very confusing situation for her, it is not easy for her to sell her brother. The only wrong she did was not telling u & having a bad person as a brother, because she is protecting her brother & was afraid of the action u would take, but she forgot such thing can't be hidden for long, even ur daughter would have also spill it out one day. My advice to u is to release ur wife immediately, u think it is easy for her?? U don't love that girl more than her, it is a very tight situation for her. Release her, if u wish to divorce her, do that directly. The person u should arrest is the brother, now that u have even arrested ur wife, maybe him go don run by now. Your wife was in a catch 22 situation. She was just confused. Don't add to her trauma already, release her immediately & divorce her if u wish to. |
Celebrities › Re: N-Power Fraud: D'banj Arrested & Detained - ICPC Confirms, Releases Statement by Rubbiish(m): 1:30pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Hezzyluv: But wait ooo... 
Wetin concern aeroplane with buss top?
Wetin concern. D'banj with Political fraud?
On the other hand, no smoke without fire. I think below is the connection He was honoured as a brand ambassador for N power
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Business › Re: CBN Drops ATM Withdrawal Limit To N20k/Day by Rubbiish(m): 5:45pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
obi58: POS guys will have to think out of the box.... For example if I want to withdraw 100k from POS instead of using ATM card I will transfer to the POS person who will include charge. However the challenge they will have is sourcing for cash with the new bank withdrawal charges I suspect POS charges per withdrawal will have to increase.
The real difficulty lies in going to the market. If you want to pay a market woman who is not enlightened above 20k how you go fit do am? @bold they will embrace transfer A lot of these market vendors are already embracing transfer. |
Business › Re: CBN Drops ATM Withdrawal Limit To N20k/Day by Rubbiish(m): 5:36pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
anthony533: POS business is about to fade out just like the way recharge card business was... I don't think so How many people even withdraw more than 20k daily via POS? Na between 5k to 10k vast majority dey withdraw. Above 20k withdrawal don't happen frequently and I don't think it is enough to shut down the business |
Education › Re: Nnamdi Azikiwe University 300 Level Student Commits Suicide by Rubbiish(m): 3:13pm On Dec 02, 2022 |
Goldbw122: So why are u still alive ? Just asking with politiness no insult, give reasons why are u still living what is the hope of you living as an individual? He is still alive because he doesn't have the guts. Reflect on what he wrote & u will see he got a point. It takes a brave heart to commit suicide. A lot of people are still here because they don't have the heart to cause their loved ones pains or have the mind to take their life. But if the opportunity should present itself if they would wish to come back to life or choose at their birth stage if they wish to continue life, I can tell u 80% of the world population would not wish to come back. |
Family › Re: A 60 Year Old Nigerian Father Shares His Regret On Parenting . by Rubbiish(m): 7:06pm On Nov 30, 2022 |
Echonosenny: Are you not happy that your children are successful? What if you showered all the attention on them and they ended up wayward. You'll still come here to complain bitterly that you have cows for children.. Exactly! The man is just being petty Expecting ur kids to travel all the way from Canada just for birthday. Even those in the cities here, how many can go to their villages to celebrate birthday with their parents. Let alone someone abroad, this has nothing to do with bad parenting abeg |
Family › Re: A 60 Year Old Nigerian Father Shares His Regret On Parenting . by Rubbiish(m): 7:01pm On Nov 30, 2022 |
Justkatty: Parenting isn't just about providing at all times It goes beyond that..... anyways lesson learnt. There is absolute no lessons to learn here The man is just being sentimental & taking things out of proportion. That his children should leave whatever they are doing & come for simple things as birthday? All my friends abroad only come home for burial & not all o. I am yet to see any that came for ordinary birthday. It is more of a distance issue & not bad parenting. The children still communicate with him, even the daughter had to apologize. Even daughters in Nigeria hardly visit home, let alone a married one in South Africa & she even sent a detailed explanation. |
Family › Re: A 60 Year Old Nigerian Father Shares His Regret On Parenting . by Rubbiish(m): 6:55pm On Nov 30, 2022 |
Your children are not in Nigeria, even if u won the award for the best dad, u don't expect them to come for simple things as birthday. Distance is already an issue. I always tell people, when kids grow up, they will also face their own family, i see nothing wrong in what ur daughter did. I don't see anything that has to do with bad parenting here |
Crime › Re: Man Arrested For Allegedly Defiling His 9-Year-Old Daughter In Anambra by Rubbiish(m): 9:45am On Nov 29, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Is Marriage Really Beneficial For A Man.? by Rubbiish(m): 6:38am On Nov 29, 2022 |
myke92: Is Marriage truly beneficial to a Man.?
And if it is, what are the real benefits aside from the following :
- Companionship - Procreation
Let's hear once again from the experienced folks. What more real benefits are u looking for again other than companionship & procreation? Let me tell u the truth, only very few men can do without the two once they cross 30 yrs & start making money. |
Family › Re: Should I Allow My Wife Relocate by Rubbiish(m): 1:38pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Afodot0022: I just want to know if it will be easy to run the family while we live apart. Couples that leave apart, pls i need your input and how you all manage to run your home living apart. Oga why are u asking this question when u already know the answer? Why is she desperate to move out? If ur wife could cheat under your nose, what of when she start living alone? U think the kids living with her will prevent her from cheating? There is high chances she will continue cheating once she steps out, humans hardly change. So far from ur write up, she seem less interested in the union. She is not making any effort to stay close. If finance is not the issue, I will advice she stay. |
Family › Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Rubbiish(m): 5:14pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
frozen70: What I can say is, make sure you marry someone you love very well and let that person be your friend
No matter the situation, if you respect each other, you guys will cope
Life after marriage will humble you no matter how tough, stupid or careless you are All these things u are saying happens in the movies. What do u mean by love & be ur friend? In marriage real stuff comes in, school fees, house rent, feeding etc. The word love is pure deception. Didn't u read a story of a guy on this section whose wife left him because he is unable to provide for the home? We should stop deceiving intending couples with love, it is misleading. |
Food › Re: The Catfish Soup A Broke Nairalander Prepared. by Rubbiish(m): 9:42pm On Nov 24, 2022 |
ahnie: You na big man nau,I haven't eaten anything food for the past 3 minutes.
You try with the cook. |
Politics › Re: Atiku And Okowa Pull Out Of Presidential Town Hall Meeting by Rubbiish(m): 5:11pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
Honjoshy4u: Good..... That platform is APC platform. See the way they tried setting up Obi. Let Tinubu go first. Useless platform Exactly! The arrangement of the candidates is very biased! Why place tinubu at the very last? I was expecting peter Obi to pull out too. |
Family › Re: Martha, The Pregnant Lady Commits Suicide After Husband Caught Her With A Pastor by Rubbiish(m): 8:57pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: The end thereof is always destruction.
Those of you sleeping around like dogs without control, your dooms day awaits you. Year don finish...no pre wedding pics from u smh |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Wife Left Me Help Am Loseing My Mind by Rubbiish(m): 12:21pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Amza07: my whole world is tearing apart. My wife left me today because of suffering, i have am looking for a loan to build up my business, please help me life is difficult for me right now. if you help me i promise to stand With you forever So she finally left...where did she go to? |
Food › Re: My Simple Recipe For Roasted Chicken by Rubbiish(m): 9:03pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
BABANGBALI: Una go just dey make person salivate for nothing on social media. Honestly lol |
Food › Re: My Simple Recipe For Roasted Chicken by Rubbiish(m): 9:03pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
mariahAngel: Op, I'm expecting pictures o, or else... 
By the way, where's Channah1 sef? Chai! This girl go like food well well Anywhere there is food, u must be there  |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Rubbiish(m): 4:42pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Romanoff: Not every child will get a degree. Just know this. As long as you're earning money and living under your parent's roof, you should be able to contribute to the bills.
It's just the responsible thing to do. Of course I know not everyone will have a degree, but it is a measure of how tough things are out there. At his age, the child is not under any obligation to contribute! He is still young & should be in college. If it happens he is working, the money should be for his personal use. These are the disadvantages of being raised under failed parents! His mates are all going back to school after the ASUU strike, but he is being pushed out of his own parents house, that is unfair! |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Rubbiish(m): 4:32pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
MITCHELL96: Pressure Nigerian mother's be putting on their kids to make money is something else. Mothers are the number one cause why so many young boys are into fraud, girls into hookup, but they will never admit it. They put so much pressure on their kids, comparing them with others, subconsciously pushing children into crime, but they won't know |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Rubbiish(m): 4:29pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Be realistic. How will that be possible on a paltry sum of 20K? How much will the rent be? Food? Miscellaneous bills? Adjust my foot. That is how they force kids into crime There is higher chances of that boy going into crime to survive once he moves out. Most parents don't give kids the necessary foundation they need to stand before moving out. What they are unable to do as adults, they expect a kid to do it |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Rubbiish(m): 4:23pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
laiperi: The op is not telling us everything and we should not expect him to.
Usually it is the father that tells a boy to leave. Moms are usually spoiler and protectors of their sons.
If you are already giving her half of your salary, that is encouraging.
The other thing I can think of is if you are in the way, between her and her partner.
20 years old is too young to push out without support. He should be in college. Thank u! |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Rubbiish(m): 4:22pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Romanoff: A 20 year old who has a job and lives at home should be paying bills. What bills?? The parents are failing! A 20 years old boy should be in school studying, any money he is making should be for his personal use, if he wishes to give to his parent fine, but he is not under any obligation to do so! African parents put too much expectation on their kids, reason crime rate is extremely high in this part of the world. Many of these kids into crime are as a result of pressure from parents, most especially mothers! Putting undue pressure on kids, comparing them with other children. A mother is already pushing a 20 years old to assume the position of a breadwinner & people are supporting it. In a country where adults with degrees are finding it difficult to stand. |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Rubbiish(m): 4:15pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
rickleye: There are 2 sides to a story, a mum just doesnt ask child to move out. She said " leave me alone " which means 1. She had him young and has had to fend for child 2. He's earning money yet does not contribute anything to the house up keep. 3. Still asking her for minor expenses which he should be able to pay for himself. Where were u at 20? At 20 this boy should be in school studying, not being pressured to assume the position of a breadwinner. He is still young! These things u listed are no fault of the boy & the blame should not be shifted to the poor boy. He is not responsible for his mom having him early, him keeping his earnings at this age is very excusable. Pushing that boy out at this stage is very unfair. He deserve to be happy like every other kid his age in school out there. |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Rubbiish(m): 4:01pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Romanoff: If you are treating your mother well doing chores around the house, supporting her in paying bills, she wouldn't be so eager for you to leave at 20 so start telling the truth. What bills do u expect a 20 years old to pay? That is the responsibility of his parents This is how u people subconsciously push kids to crime |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Rubbiish(m): 3:59pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Incredible128: The people here are wicked, which kind of mother do u have? That's very unthoughtful of her considering how harsh the economy is and who the hell pushes a 20year old out of the house? I tire o I was very surprised seeing all the above comments saying a 20 year old should move out till I came across ur comment. This is how they promote crime. How do they expect a 20 years old to fend for himself. How many of them left home at 20 |
Food › Re: How Do You Want Food To Be Arranged At Your Front? by Rubbiish(m): 12:38pm On Nov 15, 2022 |
mariahAngel: Are you both left-handed?
I assume right-handed people would prefer the soup to be on their right hand side, since it is more convenient/close (from hand) to the mouth. Exactly! |
Family › Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Rubbiish(m): 6:08pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Life2020: U are very wise I thought about that and I have made up my mind that I'm not going to marry again, at least not till my girls are grown up. I have heard stories about girls being sexually abused or even physical abused, I don't want my girls to grow up in that type of environment. I might have a few date here and there but let's see because my girls will always be first. Honestly I want to hear his side of the story because I'm honestly curious to hear his own side of the story. Are u sure u can do the bold? It is not as easy as u think Going by ur write up, u guys were young & really had nothing when he married u, saying he got married to u because of money is out of it. |
Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Sentenced To 11 Years In US Federal Prison For Online Scams by Rubbiish(m): 9:47am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Angelfrost: Just 11 years?!! He is lucky!
With good behavior, he can be paroled after 5 or 6 years! 11 years in prison calendar is 5 years & 6 months |
Food › Re: See The Plate Of Rice I Bought For #400 by Rubbiish(m): 8:16pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
mariahAngel: Me, I like the look of the stew and the fish shaa. Lol |
Family › Re: Please We Are Sorry. Now We Understand (Pix) by Rubbiish(m): 3:18pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
pansophist: If you sha want peace, cut off people that will stress your life, that are there to take and adds nothing. Because if you die today and magically appear in ten years time, they will still be alive and thriving. The bold statement is so true |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: I Need 3 Youtube Video Maker/ Editor N30k Weekly Immediate Employment by Rubbiish(m): 8:19pm On Oct 29, 2022 |
Nwaotu10: I'm a good video editor with unprecedented and outlandish dexterity. The only thing constraining me from applying is that I'm yet to buy voice-over instruments. The op will provide voice over & script. Yours is to only edit. Read his post again |