₦airaland Forum

Obrigardo:
It's quite clear buhari doesn't want his party to lead anymore.

Buhari is not against his party winning, buhari is only after a free & fair elections. Devoid of vote buying.

harmonyglobal:
I believe what Tinubu is doing is right...some cabals in APC wants power to remain in the north which is detrimental to the unity of this country. Northern gov forum came together to allow power shift to the south, but some few northern powers are frustrating it. Tinubu is really fighting for the unity of this country wc many people don't understand now. Allow a fulani to fuani transition and watch how agitations consumed the country

Tinubu is fighting for unity with a Muslim Muslim ticket? Despite the outcry against that decision? Are u sure u know d meaning of unity at all?

habsydiamond:
Why is it all these politicians that are clamouring for extension if they don't have interior motives. This policy does not affect them directed if not for elections where they intend to buy votes with the money they embezzle and after winning to pick the money back from the country or state treasure purse. I pray the day remains at the actual date.

Exactly!
The bold words is the big question?
Why are they so concerned & are becoming restless? And all the politicians against this policy are majorly APC members, because they have stashed up cash to buy votes. They just prove buhari right for coming up with this policy. The restlessness on their part is worrisome & that should give Nigerians reasons to join buhari on this.

Beremx:
After the protest, they will still go to the banks to queue up for 20k maximum withdrawal. I support the judgement of the supreme court not because it favours the vote buyers but it will ease the suffering of the masses.
What I witnessed in the bank today ehn...

Madam a little price for freedom is worth it!
Nothing worthwhile comes without a little sacrifice. Inconvenience for two weeks & suffering for another 8 years which is better? Believe me after 25th of this month, this nonsense will stop. Politicians hoping to buy votes are the ones fighting this new policy. They are the ones manipulating bank managers to hoard new notes. God is just using Buhari to fight for the masses, but we don't know.

Image123:
It means Tinubu will win by millions of votes because the suffering Nigerians including the IMF are against the madness. By your estimations, they are aligned with Tinubu.

Senseless followers will always align with their master & that is what u all are doing. Hoping to buy votes with old notes. If that isn't case, why the so much fear among the APC camp as regards this new policy?

Image123:
For your own good? i don't have time to argue commonsense. Watch Tinubu trounce you and your principal silly again and agin. Nuff said.

Only those that align with tinubu are against this new policy? Why? This is the big question? What are u people so much afraid of?

Image123:
You must be opportuned to listen to and follow the news. 36 state governors are against the policy and stood, met, went to court because of it.

Oga we all know what is going on
Who are the governors that went to court?
Even Atiku has clearly stated the deadline should not be extended & we know the reason buhari came up with this cashless policy, it is to curtail vote buying, but why are APC governors running from pillar to post? When did they start caring so much about the common man? This policy was suggested because of tinubu & APC members, u can see how restless they are, proving buhari right. If they have no fear this new naira is going to affect their vote buying capacity, they wouldn't be making so much noise. Let Nigerians bear this till 25th of this month, it is for our own good!

Image123:
Do i understand why PDP and LP supporters and their candidates prefer the suffering and chaos of many to this judgment?

Because they clearly have no cash stashed somewhere for vote buying. Why is it that only APC members & governors are against this policy? Months of ASUU strike & fuel scarcity they didn't head to court, just few weeks of naira change, they are already in court. Are u telling me the governors are suffering the scarcity? When did they start suddenly caring so much about the common man? We all know the reason for all these moves...Except u choose to lie to yourself

Dreal1247:
This will still teach people to stop keeping their money with the banks. I just watched a video where a bank official was being molested. The poor man lost the mother as a result of no cash. It's like he knows the banker who declined giving him cash when he visited the bank. At the lost of the mum, he was then venting his anger on the innocent banker who was carrying out the instructions given to him.

Where did he lost his mother?
What about transfer?
I don't believe it can be as bad as losing life when there is transfer! POS agents are doing transfer for as low as 100 naira, even market women are accepting transfer.

whiteboyswag:
Let’s all be serious when someone ask for help.it’s possible to have one bedroom with that funds I’ve done it before but you must be on site yourself and try to avoid cement where you can and expensive roofing materials, floor can be rug or quality rubber carpet and you have a house. See how I’m avoiding cement in this building

But ur site location is not Nigeria

CaveAdullam:
If you don't like fish, don't taste fish oil.

However, I hope this is not a coping mechanism. Not that you'll cry in the corner of the bedroom and come from a terminator online. Or, start screaming men are scum and how no man wants you, or how men are after your money instead of love in the future.

Stay well, dear sister.

The bold is clearly the case here!
She is already regretting her decision. If not, I see no need creating this thread in the first place.

EriMma1:
If you believe aged people are being taken care of by their children then you're in for a big surprise as they will so abandon you and face their lives and businesses. If God is not with you, you'll be the most miserable and lonely soul in your old age . So erase that mentality.

So many aged people you see walking around hopelessly, is it because they don't have children or they were not once married?

What about those in care homes? Don't they have families? They do. so why are they put in care home and not their childrens homes? Abeg drop this mentality.

If you want to have a fulfilled retirement life, put God first and have a good retirement plan so you won't have to depend on any one. Whether you have children or not.

Marriage is not a guarantee to a fulfilled retirement life.

So why are u bothered?
U just enumerated your fears!
U think u are deceiving us? U are only deceiving yourself. If u are truly convinced within yourself that marriage is not a guarantee to a fulfilled retirement life, why bother to the extent of creating a thread about it? I pity u. When u get to your 50s, body go tell u. U think u are wiser than God that designed the institution of marriage stating it is not good for man to be alone? Keep on deceiving yourself. I only pity that innocent man u are about to ruin his happiness. This is why men are advised not to Marry older ladies. Any lady that has passed age 35 got issues, if not, she suppose don marry.

EriMma1:
Yeah. This is exactly what I'm saying.
Of course you won't see anything in my concerns and worries for those things and it's easy for you to say it's not a big deal because you're not the one doing them but your wife. so you don't know what it feels like. Madam is the one doing everything that's why it is not a big deal.

Excuse me!

Are u getting scared of loneliness already?
All these years u have remained single did anyone kill u? Continue with ur single life. I see no reason for this thread. Tell ur spiritual leaders u enjoy ur single space & they will let u be. U can't eat ur cake & have it. U don't want to compromise, but u wish to enjoy what married people enjoy? It doesn't work that way. Choose one, single or married life & stick with it! They all come with sacrifices.

itchie:
Why not? Is it not food that both of you will eat she wants to cook with it? Why is this even a question?

Honestly @bold

Romanoff:
Watch how they will say it is disrespectful for a wife to send her husband on an errand.

But u & I know almost every man is doing this. This is not even an issue for debate & I don't know what this man mean by asking this question. Even kids ask their parents to get something for them on their way from work.

Dandicker:
The truth is- if you're in relationship and you know it won't lead to marriage please kindly reduce the rate of spending money on her because if she leaves you, you got to think how much you av invested on her and that might cause you serious heartbreak..... Invest that huge money on your mum or orphanage home n wait for the blessings.

The bold is very true
The more u spend on people, the harder it is to move on when they leave u. Reason men who sponsored ladies education find it hard to move on after breakup.

Bearfruit:
you can still have companionship we meet people everyday and like I said not every marriage produce children. the Bible says you can keep a female friend but if you feel unseemingy about her/ yourbody, then marry rather than burn with passion.we cannot be wiser than the holy spirit.

The bold is where u are getting it wrong!
Marriage is not all about children, but a man & woman. Children will come & go, but u two will remain. I will use my family as an example, if not for my dad my mom wouldn't be alive today. She was seriously ill at some point & my dad was the one doing all the runnings. None of us could go home & stay because of our engagement, we could only visit. My dad is a pensioner & had all his time dedicated to my mom. My mom had a lot of friends, but where were they?
My point is, these people u are seeing as friends will not be there when u need them most, only the bond shared between spouses or with kids can propel one to make such sacrifice. All these friends & colleagues will not stay with u in the hospital when u are sick tomorrow, they will come after some days, spend maximum of 1 hour & go. Take time to visit any hospital, those admitted, enquire about the people sitting beside the sick bed of patients, taking care of them, they will all likely fall into spouses, kids & parents. You will hardly see a friend or colleague there!

rickleye:
Why should I when it benefits me ? Do you know how many women’s guards are down when you can make them laugh ? I know my worth and once they get to know me - would know this dude is a prince in pauper clothes !

If u think it's cool to belittle yourself just to get into a woman's pants, then it's fine. A lot of men even do way more sillier things to get a woman. But my point is, don't just standardize it.

rickleye:
Dude it's called reverse phycology. The girl will certainly laugh for which you would have broken her façade.

It's a wrong approach!
Do not talk down on yourself or suggest any utterance of such just to break a girl's facade! If that is what u have been doing, stop it.

rickleye:
Dude you're my hero for your backbone.
There was a lady - a damsel i met at the supermarket in Magodo in October 9th. I couldn't fathom the confidence to say hello. I am still not over the lost chance to date her.
For you, bounce back and ask the next lady. If she looks you up and down - Just say " I know I am not up to your standard but can you tell me why not ? " I just wanted to say - you look like an angel. You must have fallen from the skies cause you shine like the stars at night.

Do not say the bold to any girl or human!

Bearfruit:
the main reason for marriage according to the book of books aka the word of God is to avoid fornication.(to keep your vessel holy as the body is not for fornication)
If you are a eunuch there is no reason for getting married.
As for bearing children,it is not every marriage that is fruitful so that is not a valid reason.
Then companionship is what you have already between friends, family members etc.
Marry for the right reasons!!!!so help you God.

Companionship between friends & family is still different from that u will share with your kids & spouse. The companionship gap between friends & family becomes wider as u age. They will also be dealing with their immediate family & have less time for u when u need them most.

ItsTutsi:
It's like almost all the Ibos in Nigeria are criminals! Once any nyamiri flat.head Osu steps out he/she gets arrested where the system is working!

Behind every successful Ibo man/woman is drug peddling, ritual, 419, coded ashawo etc

Dokpesi is not an igbo man

vengertime:
I have so many of my siblings there, UK Na from hand to mouth everybody dey do there .


If you want to Japa go to USA and Canada stay away from UK

U are first person saying this
People over there say there are a lot of jobs in UK.

blaquebelle:
Stingy person don drop quote

What you don't realise is that the more you help people, the more doors will be open for you. Because an answer to your prayers is an answer to many people's prayers. It's good to cultivate the habit of giving, especially for people who really need it. You will reap the blessings, as long as your hustle is legit oo.
And never forget that even you would need help from someone else eventually.
Stay blessed.

The bold statement is false & bespeaks u are not a giver. If u have given people money consistently for 1 year, u will know giving can make u broke, I mean really broke if u don't apply wisdom!

chatinent:
I'm just thinking about what Timaya will be feeling rn.

Honestly
Empress is just unlucky with men

Moh247:
It's a choice

Either we use all our income to eat and import everything with Niger Delta Oyel money

Or

We close our borders and look for how to produce locally even if it's expensive when infrastructure is fixed it would be cheaper

You don't have shame...

aloaye11:
my brother make una try get sense small na, I thought you guys are educated, if u guys continue killing yourselves,una day ruduce una power because number matters that is why the north has always dictate the political terrain, u guy need each other and only with peace, when u force people on something results in division. It's a shame Igbos killing Igbos because of Biafra that they want for ibos

Honestly I have never seen such a thing in my life. I just made my post below before seeing yours. The funny part of it is that in their mind they think the are punishing Buhari by killing their own people? Na wa o

Rubbiish:
This is f00lishness
You are killing ur own people & saying Buhari must hear am? U are not killing people in Kastina? He will be rounding up his tenure in few months & go back to his home town, tell me who is the big loser? Ojukwu fought Nigeria & never killed one single Igbo all through his agitation for Biafra. But u people are killing your fellow Igbos & run into hiding whenever the Nigeria Army comes around, which are the real people u are supposed to fight. Ojukwu fought Nigeria army, not Igbos.

mcmurphy132:
No election in our land..

We Igbo will kill anybody kill able

Buhari must. Hear am.

We're going burn Market tomorrow

This is f00lishness
You are killing ur own people & saying Buhari must hear am? U are not killing people in Kastina? He will be rounding up his tenure in few months & go back to his home town, tell me who is the big loser? Ojukwu fought Nigeria & never killed one single Igbo all through his agitation for Biafra. But u people are killing your fellow Igbos & run into hiding whenever the Nigeria Army comes around, which are the real people u are supposed to fight. Ojukwu fought Nigeria army, not Igbos.

KingLennon:
I wonder why Yul's marriage to this lady is causing controversy. A man did what's best for himself and people are here arguing.

HBD Judy...

Yul caused it!
He was acting too much of a lover boy before he got married to the 2nd wife & uptill now he is still acting childish. He is trying too hard to please faceless people online, which gives people room to talk more about the marriage. A man taking a polygamous route should have the I don't give damn kind of mindset, that way everybody will mind their business & have nothing to talk about.

Houseofglam7:

The man is looking good...There is hope

1Sharon:
And men wonder why mothers day is more popular than fathers day..


It's because the mothers are always there, they know their kids in and out.

I don't think so at bold
Women events are more popular because women are more petty & naturally know how to glamorize things. It doesn't apply to mothers day alone. Women just know how to celebrate more, that is just it. Men naturally don't have time for pettiness.