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lkillbrokehoes:
I wish some simps will listen to this advice, I myself I have never asked a girl out more than once, if she says NO, that will be the end of our conversation. I still don't understand why a guy will be chasing one girl for months, that's what I will never do in my life.

Honestly @bold
It doesn't make sense
If someone tells u no, u move on!

shiwex:
Stupid backward country........these are adults in universities...not kids...

Very backward mentality
They should go to most foreign institutions in the US & UK to see what their students are wearing & they are far better than us. Everyone wants to go there. We like dealing with so much irrelevancy in this part of the world. How does wearing ankle chain affects anyone?

shegra58:
I was opportune to work with oando at my early life and made my first millions in my early 20's and I was reckless with the money I was making being a Single guy,I buy unnecessary things, spend unnecessarylly on women and things that doesn't matter but one of my brother back then noticed my life and advise me to go and get myself a good girl and get married fast forward to 6 years later i was transferred to Nnsuka in Enugu state and after 1 year I got married after that I noticed that

What I used in eating in a day is enough to make soup and eat for 3 days with my wife and 2 kids
My wife wash our clothes and I iron them that saves me on laundry.

I spend less on women and friends because they know that I'm married and don't bring their responsibility to me anymore,above all you will definitely manage what you have because of your family responsibility

The bold is very very true!
But this apply to singles doing well sha

ADSP116:
My children don't eat much before,but now,they consume like desert donkeys.

Lol

translux:
Really , I thought I was the only one spending this much, I always give madam30k every Monday for the Week, though for 4 kids, I stay in Island from Monday to Friday, on My own I manage 10k myself for the week, that's a total 40k on weekly basis and N120k a month, I have been trying to reduce this but I don't want the kids to suffer, they were well fed and if I reduced that amount, it would affect the children feeding.

When I see the sacrifice & discomfort we go through to ensure our kids are ok, I only realize we can never appreciate our parents enough. Guess if not for family, every man out there would be rich.

shegra58:
you tend to spend less when you're married I'm talking from experience

Hmm?

wonderr:
no offense intended but I guess you are not a living thing

abeg no kill me with laff lol

Quite funny, world dirtiest & lived up to 94 yrs, man is even looking healthy. Whereas the world neatest human don't last that long

This is pure wickedness!
How can any human do this to a baby?

These pastors can be very funny, they print out stickers for their members to use in their homes & cars, as some form of protection, while they themselves move in bullet proof cars with attached security to their homes lol. Who is deceiving who?

SPAMBOX7:
You made it sound like introverts are people who don't talk at all.
Introverts are really wonderful people. They talk a lot and do lotta things when they are used to you. You may even be wondering if that particular person is really an introvert. Introvert or not it's all about being free with a person, you make them be at ease hence they can be themselves. I'm an introvert as well I don't go about talking to people in public all in the name of I wanna be jovial, like them acclaimed extroverts do, cos I see it as creepy. But if I get to know you a bit you may even wonder if I was that same guy that was so quiet all those years.

Exactly @bold
One thing I have noticed is seems a lot of people have misconstrued impression of introverts and tend to classify certain group of people as introverts. If u are depress or going through some life difficulties that is now affecting the way u react, that doesn't mean u are an introvert. A lot of depressed people tend to see themselves as introverts. Introverts are people who don't talk or do things unnecessarily with those they are not familiar with. Their level of self respect is very high, anything that will lead to shaming or ridicule, they always try to avoid it. But once they get familiar with u, they can go any length.

Divay22:
Is it possible for two introvert to get married?

I don't want to imagine, how both won't talk to theirselves and they will be totally okay..

Introverts are talkative when they become familiar with someone. Once they become familiar with each other as couples, they will be worst than extroverts in terms of talking

obembet:
Make them lock the market till February. Government should safe live first.

After all we dey do am every Monday in south east

Smh
They should lock people source of livelihood till February? How inconsiderate...

Obavoh:
I usually have sex with my wife 2 weeks after she puts to bed. It pains her a little but I am very gentle with her. She knows I am not a cheating husband that is why.

Last night as I tried to make love to her, she was crying as usual. Before you know it, her aunty started banging the door and was shouting that I want to kill my wife.

I felt so embarrassed and went tried to explain to her that it’s not so. She said if I try it again she will carry my wife and children back to the village and will return her bride price.

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The bold is very disgusting to read!
U mean ur wife cry anytime u have sex with her??

freddie009:
When a woman starts making money, she believes she doesn't need a man. Does that mean women date men because of financial gains?
Most times you hear them say "I make my own money, I don't need you"

We all need a companion, trust me. She might not feel it now until she approaches 40, and then her friends/colleagues will be focusing on their kids and family. She will be left all alone, then she will become desperate.

Exactly @bold
U see most people saying what is marriage here are mostly below 30 yrs. When u approach 40, whether male or female, u must feel that absence of family. When u see all ur friends & colleagues now doing school run, u must feel that sense of regret. If i had started earlier. But u can only get this feeling when u approach 40, because by then reality sets in & it is not a good one. U begin to question all u have ever worked for, who will enjoy the money u have worked for, the so called career u are dying so hard to build becomes unfulfilling because there isn't anyone to enjoy the money u are making from it.

Latty88:
I can categorically tell you that your sister has not seen her kind of man that is why you think she is not serious about getting married.

I was like her until I met my man. I squarely focused on my career and other important things that my mum would not let me rest. In fact several people tried to connect me with suitors but I never liked any of them.

You and your mum should just let her be and keep praying for her, when she meet her man Na she go tell una say she wan marry.

When will she meet her man?
How old were u when u met your man?
Once a lady cross 35 yrs, chances becomes slim. When u take her home as a man, ur people will start questioning u about her age.
The older she gets, the slimmer her chances becomes. Op & his mom are just being concerned because it is natural for them to be concerned.

Monaboo:
I'm beautiful. I'm 29yrs and I am not married.

The funny part is that, I am not even thinking about marriage atall. I don't even envy married people atall. I think I'm wired differently.

U are not wired differently o
We all passed through this stage, it is very sweet now because u are still young. Many of ur mates are still unmarried. Wait till u start approaching 40, seeing all ur friends kids all grown up & entering school, then it will start hitting u, believe me. U will not understand this till that time comes. This is where many ladies miss it, because they have a biological clock ticking which reduces their marital value as they age. If u are not a clergy like rev sis, always have marriage at the back of ur mind. U can always have career even at 50, but when u pass ur prime as a lady without a man, then it becomes a problem.

Richnero99:
I am not just an introvert but I am a bit shy as well, especially around the opposite gender.

Are my normal?

U are very normal my friend
What do u actually need friends for?
Good u already have a job, whether from home, it doesn't matter. So long u have a job & it's able to pay ur bills, cool. U can get married, u just need a lady that understands u. When u are ready to settle down, search for one, u will find her.

Magnumproperty:
You dey cry kwa? When a lady here is 34. She's still in her late father's' house. Her two younger sisters are married and she still here so happy. She dey happy go other people's wedding on Saturdays. Her life no move forward and she no move backward. She just dey like that

@bold to u she is happy, but deep down she is sad. The smile u are seeing on her face is just smokescreen.

Berankis:
This one is knowledgeable. Marriage is always not what we dream of. Sometimes, I wish I could go back to single days, wife also feels like that too... But we keeping it together. It's like marriage zaps life out from a man. You work and work and work...

Na so una dey talk @bold!
It is just mere thoughts
Even if the opportunity presents itself to go back to single life, u & ur wife won't go! Humans are naturally insatiable, reasons u still make reference to single life. I have friends who always complain about marriage life, the moment their wife & kids travel for two days, they start crying for them to come back. Work is sweet when u see your love ones enjoying the money u make. When u keep working & there is even no one to enjoy it, it becomes boring. Reason u see majority of men getting married once they start making money. So there will be people to enjoy that money they are making. I have friends that once talked down on marriage, immediately they started landing jobs, next thing I see na wedding IV.

kay29000:
You're taking this too personal. Is a woman's chances of having a healthy baby reduce at 40,yes or no? Compare that to men that can still father healthy children into their 70s. This is the angle I'm coming from. I'm not bashing women.

She knows u are saying the truth, everybody knows what u are saying is the truth, but she is just frustrated! Nigeria men are not the cause of menopause, let her shift her blame to biology & nature.

BRATISLAVA:
Still sentiment.

Maybe in Nigeria where all the men are reading the same sheep manual that dictates to them what and what women can and cannot do because of this and that.

Live and let women live.

Some of you here have sisters older than 40 who are unmarried, yet come here to judge and mock women tirelessly.

You are the one being sentimental here
Perhaps u should blame nature & biology & leave Nigeria men alone. U know what they have been saying is true, but u keep running in circles. Nigeria men are not responsible for a woman getting to a certain age & attain menopause, they are not the cause of a woman's beauty dwindling with age. Man's attractive point is basically money, which we saw in the Ned & Regina case. But a woman attractive point is her prime! U can argue all u want, but u know deep down it is the truth!

Na wa o

mariahAngel:
As much as I know, he's the best we've had so far.
Hopefully, it gets and keeps getting better, and not that the predecessor be better than the successor every time.

Who, according to you, is the best president we've ever had?

Yar'adua was a better president than Jonathan. Murtala Mohammed remains the best.

owobokiri:
It's only a generational fool that intentionally makes the same mistake all the times because of clannish reasons.

This continuous dodging of interviews and appearances was the same tactics they used to smuggle Buhari into the presidential Villa.

We all know how it has gone.. Now they want to repeat the same trick again. How can a man contesting for the presidency of the country, find it difficult to make himself available to the electorates?

Exactly @bold
I wanted to say same thing
The man is always evading interviews & debate. That is a big red flag!

mariahAngel:
Jonathan is the bigger person in that picture.
He's a gracious man.
The best president we never knew we had.

Hope the bold is just a rating between him & Buhari sha? Jonathan is a peaceful man no doubt, but not the best president Nigeria has ever had

JASONjnr:
How you people let women control your emotions is beyond me,..

Honestly!
Very pathetic set of men
Running to nairaland to post nonsense

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Stop posting nonsense please!
How can u be posting a salary of 10k??
Don't u have conscience?

Rozross:
Its your mind and those dirty contents you watch having its effect on you. Its not a difficult thing to abstain, work on your mindset and what you watch

See this one lol

oliverwrites:
I swear down. I have spent about 20m and we are only at roofing stage and with my taste I will definitely need another 20m to complete a 5 bedroom duplex.

To think my wife warned me to let us do a 3 bedroom bungalow first.

Once I finish this house and finally japa if any yeye tenant ( another foolish move I intend japaing and should not have started the project at all ) dare uses nail not to talk of hammer we go go court.

Your wife was right o
Not until one starts building, u will never understand what it entails to build a house currently in this country. U begin to question yourself if it is worth it. U can't plan for other things, the project will just be gulping all ur funds. No aspect of building project is cheap. The financial commitment is just too high on a building project. 1m becomes worthless like 100 naira.

Oejozeff:
Hey guys please check out the animation I did with my PC recently

Nice videos!
U really tried
What software is this?

@MaryAye
God saved u!
That guy would have made life a living hell for u & ur son. Don't go back him to o! U sounded like someone already in love