₦airaland Forum

Divoc19:
Yes.
But we're not getting married here.
We'll move before the marriage

Hmm

ShobayoEmma:
Why can't US defence speak in the language Russia understand by playing with them with two or three nuclear bomb?

NB: I only speak the mins of Buhari' o.

Hmm
Russia is no small country sir
Any attack on Russia territory won't be a cakewalk!

CharisEleos:
This is the major reason I'm scared to go into marriage.
Men ain't loyal anymore.

I like the healthy life I'm living, spiritually, mentally, medically and emotionally. Huh!

Don't be scared...

bjtinz:
Of course I don't support extrajudicial killing, but if OPs account is true, why where they running in the first place?

That is it!!!
Perhaps 50k or even 20k would have settled this whole issue. If they had nothing incriminating with them, running from police wasn't a good move.

Amotolongbo:
Is the dog aware of what is happening?

Lol

idolda:
Economics cos they are highly sought after than accountants

Highly sought?
For Nigeria? Hmm

Optimistguy1969:
Why Dem come do im picture like Adieu papa poster?

Bros abeg link up with them basket mouth...
No allow this talent waste!
Laugh wan finish me...

bukatyne:
Let me humor you this once on this topic and make a lengthy post with an introduction for Wikipedia:

[b]Contentment is an emotional state of satisfaction that can be seen as a mental state, maybe drawn from being at ease in one's situation, body and mind. Colloquially speaking, contentment could be a state of having accepted one's situation and is a milder and more tentative form of happiness.

Ewo! bukatyne!
U don go bring plenty write up come
U like argument....
Person no dey win u lol
I miss those days in family section sha...

Hmm
If Ooni was not in support of his secession campaign, they can't be calling on him now.
Any body championing secession campaign in any part of the world, should expect govt to fight back, I knew it was only a matter of time, but came earlier than I expected. Maybe his announcement of the Lagos rally prompted govt rapid response, so igboho shouldn't be surprised!
I remember when Texas wanted to break away from USA, them no gree. Despite Texas was a country before joining the union. So the likes of igboho & kanu should expect govt to fight back. No govt like losing territories all over the world.

bukatyne:
@Bold,

That is your opinion sir.

Contentment has nothing to do with your financial status (at least in my case).

Na lie!
U are not just being sincere!
Money is a necessity, excess of it is what is regarded as vanity! But as humans, we need a considerable amount of it to live a contented & fulfilled life!

bukatyne:
@bold:

Words on gold.

Words on gold
You can't possibly be contented when u have no money! That's guy's submission is wrong!
If u have made little money, u can't possibly compare your contentment level with when u were u struggling?

Blueelf:
Let's be specific

IF you're not making at least N500k per month (and you stay in a Major City like Lagos, Abuja and Port-Hacourt), please don't marry

I used 30mins of my precious time to calculate it. Please marriage is not compulsory and women love your ability to provide, not you

Word!

obembet:
Nonsense

Op! And all those of you that aggreed with him, u beta think twice. That Linda said and later have baby.

Is it when you are 50s u will settle down and train your children at old age?

Marriage open doors. Just marry the right woman

See who is talking??
Smh

vickydankal:
4 keys to solve half of the marital issues
1. Money
2. More money
3. Increase the more money
4. Make more money with the increased money

Ha!
Na wa for u o

Facts111:
People told me that alot. But i just don't know which way to starting improving it.

If u are a Christian join a group in your church. There u get to meet both gender. It is one of the easiest way of overcoming shyness. Whatever u decide, don't ever join cult!

saphiere:
Stupid father. I would say he is late.

Your father did this to u?
Quite sad...Did he sexually abuse u when u were young?

bigpicture001:
But we are planning to marry...and I dint mean cut off from ur siblings...I mean pay more attention to ur relationship and and get more involved with ur man...ur brothers and sister wont take a biga risk for you than your loving husband and boyfriend...

You are very petty for man!
This complains should be coming from your girlfriend, not u the man! Very shameful!
Better leave that girl alone & let her meet a more reasonable person, before u ruin her life with your pettiness!

AchalugoNwa:
I take it as a joke because I get alot of it from friends

and to make the matter worse my younger brother got married recently

But for me it's Adadike or nothing

But u are a guy nau

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

To guys it may not be considered as an insult
But to ladies, it is considered as an insult

TheEnygma:
Do I really need to explain it to you, a wanted man on in his own country is illegally detained and taken back to the country he's running from will have negetive implications to their country....

- No one will ever want to seek asylum in Kenya again because of the possibility that their government might sell you out to the country that you are running from.
- Tourism will drop drastically because most foreigners won't feel safe visiting the country which might affect the country economically.
-A lot of human rights organizations might start a campaign against them, which might give them a bad image.
-They will receive a lot of media backlash from a lot of countries because such acts might be against some international laws especially since technically NK hasn't committed any crime that will make him internationally recognized as a criminal or terrorist.

The list goes on and on.....

All these for a powerful country like Kenya because of a nobody like kanu?? Lol
This guy has so much brain wash u people...

slimghost:
Plenty illiterate kids on Nairaland! Kid, Mandela actually picked up arms. Start reading son.

You are the kid here!!
Do u know why the white forces gave Mandela south Africa to lead?? Go read about Mandela!
U know nothing about him!

Vickym1:
The are Nigeria govt scared of telling Nigerians where they kidnap kanu from or maybe they tot that people or countries will applaud them for kidnapping him they never knew it will get to this and I know they're regretting their actions by now.

Like Obasanjo said, buhari can never learn from his past

U think so @bold?
Elzazaky has been in prison & didn't commit one quarter of the things kanu has committed, yet despite all the ECOWAS court verdict, he is still being detained, let alone kanu with various incriminating facts from ESN to inciting violence in the east? Do u know how many Shiites have died in Abuja protesting elzazaky release? Seems you people don't know what it means to be a sovereign state! U people underestimate the power of govt! Only God can save kanu on this one with a man like Buhari in power!

TheEnygma:
This would affect Kenya's government negetively it's true that they had a hand in his arrest.

How??
U people are funny!
How will the arrest of a nobody affect a powerful country like Kenya??
Do u even know what it means to be a sovereign state??

nairalandankrah:
Mandela was more radical.. Go read up!

You are the one that need to read up!
You obviously know nothing about Mandela!
Do not ever compare Mandela with kanu unless u want God to punish u!

PDPdestroyer:
Our politicians, especially the PDP stock are very funny. Reno is openly supporting the breakup of Nigeria by approving of Kanu's misdemeanours, simply because PDP is not in power. Will he be supporting Kanu were his party the ones in power?
Nigerians are largely unpatriotic, they are only patriotic when in vantage position to steal, and become overnight activists and anti-Nigeria when they lose such privilege....and some sub-humans actually listen to people like Reno Omockery, SMH

My thought exactly @ the bold

Okd1:
I have tried calling, sent emails etc and got no response. My transaction has been processing for 14hrs and done over 56 confirmation on blockchain network. My references ID

Reference ID fmnjT1IRyq .

It may be due to weekend
You should get your funds before Tomorrow morning. They are very reliable, but there may be delay due to weekend. All the same send them a mail with your ref id stating your problem.

November24:
I tell you baba...
Wicked women everywhere,he feeds your children with that Job. He's to do that for life.

That man is not a happy man,I can swear my life.

@bold Honestly u are a very sensible person!

November24:
I have mature friends looking for husband they will worship... This one dey shakara

That's life for u...

November24:
No sir,she is wicked.
The man is not weak.
See,when a woman knows you are born again and don't see divorce as an option,they treat you like shit because they know you can't drive them,the man is protecting his calling,being a pastor is not easy,people expect them to be blameless.
I was raised a Catholic,now I attend winners with my husband,I had to love the church cos I love my husband.

Your husband is your God first before the almighty.
If you don't want to marry and submit,stay single!!!

This marriage life isn't for everybody.

You are right to a very large extent & God bless u for your wisdom! Marriage life is truly not for everyone. This is the first time I am hearing a pastor's wife attending another church. How will such a man face his members if he can't even convince his wife? I just feel for him.

deepwater:
The bible says women should be submissive to their husband

You all above are submissive to your pastor


Woman wey dey jump from church to church na ashewo




You just cool down to embarrass your husband for public and church because say him marry u abi?

Imagine a pastor wey him wife no dey come him church. Baba has our full support to tidy that choir mistress.

What nonsense is that!

God bless u!
The bold is very shocking!!!
This is the first time I am hearing such!
How will a pastor's wife be attending another church?? I just feel for that man...

1MinuteWithTina:
I totally get you.
My husband is one of the pastors in his church but I attend another. I do not 'feel' his church at all and I'm only happy when we shared the grace at the end so I left.
It also created brouhaha at the beginning but I told him I'd rather stay at home. He eventually let me be and I now attend another church.
You need to pray about it.

Your husband is a pastor in a church and u attend another church?? That is totally unacceptable! Your husband is weak! & u are not a good wife! You are disgracing that man! I honestly feel for him.

frozen70:
But do you agree that a gentle child, when mix up with children during play times learns to be active and fight for himself, is part exposure

That doesn't apply here!
The boy is too young for op to start complaining about timidity or leniency! Haba! Can u remember when u were 5 years?? Op should allow him grow freely, when he is at least 15, then he can start talking about the child personality. Any child below age 10 physical attributes & personality cannot be determined. U can't even determine if a kid will be brilliant at 5 yrs! What op is about doing is nothing but child abuse! He should allow that kid to grow freely until he is 15.
2pac was raised by his mom & was said to be very gentle growing up, but he ended up as one of the most notorious thug rapper the world has ever known. 5 yrs is too young for this!