₦airaland Forum

okro adighi aka onye kuru ya
Okro cannot be taller than the owner/person that planted it

I have read many poster saying women should and women act like they are in 1950. My fellow nairaland from observation and what I noticed a long the line in the dating or relationship a man will always be a man he will some remind you of your act either verbally or through body language. Let the man make the 80% or 90% move and that then the woman can take over. If a woman struggle to get a man she will struggle to keep him simple

uchkochi:
Christianity does not end in accepting Christ.Yes you are saved but it was only your spirit man that got renewed and saved.Your mind still remain thesame so also your body.That is why u have to work out your salvation with fear and tremble.You will remain battered in sin unless you understand your covenant right in Christ.
You have the responsibility of working on your mind,God wont take away those feelings of lust and urge for pre marital sex.You have to develope your spirit man by labouring in the word.The bible is the only way to build your spirit man to dominate your flesh so u can really live as a christian.Its a sweet race i tell you but you have a part to play.Labour and attend to the word of God.This will help you begin by studying 3 chapters every day paray always,fast when convenient then watch and see how you will build resistance and capacity to withstand when that urge comes scriptures will come out to deal with it.Please kill that sin before it kills you.
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Go and watch my role model minister juanita Bynum (no more sheet) she deals on this issue down to earth without hesitation and reservation she is part of TBN ministries

@eche I want to ask if it is alright tell other tales stories a part from tortoise it is like we are exhausted from tortoise story. I have other stories to tell I know people are enjoying our story thread what do you think any input from ify and nwaka

dyabman:
first love could possibly last till marriage, because When we guys get seperated from our first love for the first time , there are possiblities they could meet again in the future and settle for marriage ,

True talk

Follow your heart

Thank you note is very very important and neccessary beacuse it tells the person who interviewed you that your really appreciate his/her time spent in interviewing you and believe he/she will keep it in your file when any other job opening comes up you will be one of the people who will be notified even before it goes out to advertisement it works

Udyro:
I came to realise that 98% of men in general do not stick to their FIRST LOVE till marriage. They always opt out for another one at the end, leaving their Dates to cry out their broken heart. Some after years of toiling with them and making them to become something.

what shld be done?

If you r,

If a man do not stick to his first love tll marriage from biblical point of view I will say that something has gone wrong somewhere. They should go back to God and find out why and what went wrong because there was a time he/she was the best in town and both of them forsake all others

@ Poster if a woman does it the first time,second time and third time soon she will become tired of doing it because it is not in her nature to do it. 80% of men do not feel comfortable seeing a woman doing. I think there is something God deposited in men that makes them more comfortable to woo a woman and ask a woman for a date

The Sly:
Before attempting to answer the question. . . . . . . .Read this Article.



''Last Wednesday, we had a very important and urgent need to be in Kumasi very early the next day. It was already midnight Nigerian Time (11pm in Ghana), and we were still in the heart of Accra, surrounded by its brilliant lights, soothing serenity (there was not the faintest hint of any generator anywhere) and profound modesty, wondering what to do. But a Ghanaian who was with us did not seem to share our worries. He simply told us to hit the road, that in the next three hours, we should be in Kumasi.

I looked at him with surprise and disbelief. Who was sure nobody had hired him to lure the three of us into a well-laid ambush by violent robbers? When I expressed my concern about armed robbers, his answer was sharp, with a tinge of impatience.

"There are no armed robbers!"

When I repeated the concern much later, he said something he should not have said, but which Nigerians need to continue hearing no matter how painful we find it: "I have told you, no armed robbers! This is not Nige. . . . . . !"
He cut himself short. It occurred to him, a bit too late though, that he had gone too far in his bid to emphasize that point. Just like the way I felt when I shouted to some Nigerians at one place we had gone to in Accra some days later when the driver was about to run over a bag: "Remove that Ghana-Must-Go bag!"

When I called a Nigerian friend and he reassured me that the long journey from Accra to Kumasi was safe, we hit the road. At the one or two places where very friendly policemen had stopped us, they merely looked at the vehicle and waved us on with their torches, without the slightest hint that they wanted an egunje. And so, after a long journey through lonely, lengthy stretches of the expressway, and vast quiet countryside, we embraced the warmth of the clean, well-lit streets of Kumasi early that cold morning, and found our way to the serene ambience of the Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology.

Ghana is a very poor country. Beyond the glitter of an efficient system is poverty that is real and palpable. But Ghana has been lucky with its leaders. What nation would not prosper under the watch of a visionary, patriotic leader who is not afraid of his people who had elected him in fairly free and fair elections, but lives among them (instead of hiding himself in an impregnable fortress like Aso Rock) , and is able to inspire the citizenry to believe in him, and buy into his determination to put in place a workable system? It is only thieving, failed leaders that live in perpetual fear of their people. Throughout my stay in Ghana, I never dialled any number twice with my Ghana MTN line, no matter the country I called! But in Nigeria, if you dial a number saved in your phone, what you would probably hear is: "This number does not exist on the MTN network." Then you try again: "The number you have dialled is incorrect." And you dial the third time: "The number you have dialled is switched off." Fourth time: "The number you have dialled is unavailable." And if you have the patience to try the fifth time, it may then go through! What a country!

Ghana Telecom service providers are effectively monitored and regulated, unlike what Ernest Ndukwe claims he is doing for us here. The regulatory body ensures that no service provider sells lines more than it has the capacity to manage. It once, reportedly, called MTN to order, when it attempted to roll out lines like it does in this our lawless jungle. Each time I recharged my line with two Ghana Cedis (N230), I would make several calls both to Nigeria and within Ghana, and would still have much credit remaining. But here, the thing finishes with incredible speed. It offends me each time anyone attempts comparing Nigeria with Europe or America. From Swaziland, Botswana to Mozambique, Kenya, Tanzania, Zambia to Uganda, Benin, Ghana, Ivory Coast to the Gambia, Nigeria is, perhaps, the only country in the whole of Africa that is yet to achieve stability in its energy supply. We are here still grappling with pitch darkness and watching our pitiably blank and hare brained leaders telling embarrassing, infantile stories about their inexplicable failure and insufferable incompetence, while very poor countries we can easily buy up have since left us behind on this issue of power supply and provision of other social amenities.

In most of these countries, one can conveniently walk to any public tap and drink water, but whoever tries that here any time some liquid manages to trickle from any public tap would be guilty of attempting suicide.

At Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology (KNUST), Americans, Britishers, Chinese and people from diverse nations of the world are proudly enrolled as students. In 1993, I met an America Professor of Economics who proudly announced to me that while he studied for his Masters Degree at the University College, Ibadan, (UCI) in 1958, he stayed at Kuti Hall. I wonder if he can advise any American child today to get near that same Kuti Hall he spoke so glowingly about, or encourage the child of his worst enemy to attend a Nigerian University

. While a friend and I took a walk around midnight on Saturday, we felt so safe, despite the several trees in the well landscaped and beautified compounded that lend the school its serenity, but which could provide cover for any cultists to strike. As we stood on a walkway, about eight American youths hopped across, chattering, laughing and feeling so much at home. I am told that children of countless Nigerian government officials are enrolled in the school, generating huge funds for Ghana with which it now offers diverse scholarships to its own citizens. Yes, Nigerians would prefer paying all the money to Ghana than improving and making our own schools safe so that youths from several parts of the world can also come here (as used to be the case) to study. Indeed, the KNUST faculty Guest Houses can comfortably diminish some things that pass for "big" hotels in Nigeria.

Ghanaians do not have the drive and innovativeness of Nigerians. Under sincere and honest leaders who are not mere common criminals whose eyes and hearts are only focused on the treasury, what would stop Nigeria from becoming one of the greatest countries in the world? But what do we get here: the Babangidas, the Abachas, the Obasanjos: rulers who derive peculiar animation from prospering by marketing the nation's entrails. Obasanjo's only noticeable achievement while in office was to join the emergency Billionaires' Club with such fanfare and brazenness that sent all the others scampering for safety. But while leaving office, he left us in the hands of an Umoru Yar'Adua whose only understanding of leadership seems to be to perennially grope for direction . So, while our leanly endowed neighbours like Ghana are gradually laying solid foundation for greater tomorrow, Nigeria is decaying and sinking into unimaginable depths. Laden with insufferably inept legislators, and a character like Maurice Iwu as INEC Chairman, what options are left for a country so immensely rich, but so irresponsibly managed? What a tragedy.

Too long to read without any snack and juice on the table

@Topic Nigeria is blessed all we need is good gov and all hands on desk

Mortiple:
Chaa chaa chaa,
Igbo, rie nu!
Igbo, biri nu!!
Igbo, meka nu!!!

Umunne na Umunna, ndi Igbo kwoo aba, anam ekele unu. Asim ya diri anyi nile mma.

Alotolam (I am back)! Anam abia na ogbako anyi am bu Nairaland kwa mbosi, kama adighim enwe ohere itinye onu na okwu. Igbo si na: Ihe (Ife) dabara na mmiri, ukwu ka eji acho ya.

Ify, Echelon, Youngies, rubi, otele, na kwa ndi ozo, asim ndewo nu!

Nno biko n'abiarute n'threadia nihi na ndi ibgo turu ilu si anyu ko mamiri onu okpo ofufu

Lady J:
ok,go to d igbo kwenu thread,im very sure they will teach u igbo there

Idi sure na ochoro imu igbo for real ya buru kwa eziokwu omutacha ugbua o buru anyi mewe ihe ochi
Zebrudaya si n'izu ka nma na nneji yo oooooo ooooooooooo

ifyalways:
Rubi ooooooooooooooo
e chefuolam ihe m choro iju gi na mbu.
ole gi ugbua?biko "arigbo" na "nchu-anwu" abu otu akwukwo?
o gbaram ghari,doo m anya.

Amaghi m ihe bu arigbo mana amam nchu anwu
I chetere lem nchuanwu eji esi nkwobi anata n'uhuruchi

@Lady J obu gi bu jenny? Kedu ka ndi Europe mere?

@Ify kedu ka imere? Ikwe siri iru n' NTA

@otele aha gi nka aaaaa

@echelon iyere eye n'ihe gbasara ndi igbo
Ibu igbo profeso?

O nwere akuko mbe mu n'acho iche te odi uto nke ukwu mu che taya ama abia koo ya
onye nkuzi m na primary school koro anyi akuko ahu

@ibobabe picture gi di nma

Queenisha:
Ibobabe i maka.
abu m nwanyi
I wish na m nwere nwanne Nwoke n'acho nwanyi
but in case i cho recommendation.

Uche2nna bu ezigbo mmadu

Toshmann anugo nwanyi

Romeo is a grandfather

agaba ji umunwanyi ato

Ikomi n'eme 419

Presido di manageable

echelon,I'm still watching

otele choro i ga na bed

Ozioma nwere nwunye bekee

_joking

Chukwu gozie ndiIgbo dum Amen

Idi kwa kurent. Arinze gi OOOOOOOOOOO

@ Ify love anya n'ije I miss you OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Gini mere ajuolam ese echelem echichi unlike you biko nno

I wish her the best if that will bring her breakthrough

littleb:
@rubi

Then the intention is differ. not quoting it has been abrogated by blood of Jesus. Frankly speaking, the laws have been there since ever before Jesus and the demand on us is to obey it. We only apply wisdom to its uses and applications and not transgresses. If lady must wear trousers, then questions arises as how she wear it? of what kind? silk/wool etc., at where? does it shows her sexiest shapes and the like. above all, of what purpose, i.e intention. We should not be fooling ourself and claim it to religion proof.

I 100% agree with you that is where xtain maturity comes in

toshmann:
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Anya n'ile aaaaaaaa o dikwa na nma?

agaba123:
Iwe ewegbuola Toshi na rubi alugo di, lol

Kedu ka imere ahu odi kwa gi asi m kam kele gi

toshmann:
chineke meeee

nwanne ahuru m yaaa ooooo chei, ala mbano muru m leeeee
bia o, bikonu kedu ihe nwa ada di otu a na eme na ukraine? nne i ga aputa ebe ahu, gbadata europe. oburugodi poland no shaking.

chei, ibobabe kedu phone number gi
. . . ooops, nne echefuola m na aluo la m nwanyi
but no shaking faxi-iara m number gi, madam will understand

Wa ooh di m bu onye Mbano unu bu so ezigbo madu

@ Topic one thing I personally believe is if our spirit condems us not then we have boldness. Many xtains do not wear trouser based on where they reside. If one lives in USA where the temperature is sometimes negative during winter one do not have choice than to wear it.

@ When a man love/treats his wife very well irregardless of anything submission flows naturally

@seun real drama, I think men enjoy the drama when women fight because of them

Emecha ha ga akiayi n'ihi na agba acha oso aguo mile

CH3COO:
forcing it would only make it worse.

As a friend she earns it

CH3COO:
how are you so sure?  you don't even know the guy

Yes, I don't know the guy but why should he wait till she demands and ask if he loves her that makes her to wonder whether if she is in a relationship with him or not.