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I don't like to bring my personal life to this forum but this one moved me where my husband works there was an error in IV no one could rectify it but when he did and draw the attention of the nurses and explained the errors in the calculations to her and walked away quitely they said this must be a Nigerian man they argued until one of them was bold and asked him and his admitted

rampant:
@topic

honestly they r some cool naija guys,can't imagine myself wt anybody that is not a nigerian,thank God sha ,blind love did not take me elsewhere

TRUE TALK

Busta:
hehehehehe . .

Is that not true?

ifyalways:
dalu.i was wondering ma o bu nani m.anyway,anyi nile kwekoritara na o dighi nma.i hope na di bobo ga agba isi akwara jukwa.the most he can do is to contrtibute to the burial and not to ilu ya.
kedu maka ndi ulo gi?udo
@Topic,onye na amaghi onye mmadu bu ma o bu aha mmadu na akpo onye ahu "onyea"
if u don't know someones name,u call the person " Mister" or "eeh you"

Mgbe m na agraduate from universti mayo biara mepe emume anyi koro akuko si na tupu oburu ihe obu na onwere mgbe ohapuru akwukwo chuwa enyi nwanyi emecha enyi nwa anyi aha pu ya gbalaga si n a obu it boribo nke ahu akuziere ya ihe obiahachi were akwukwo ya kporo ihe ugbua o buru go mmadu bara onwe ya uru. Ogba anyi ume si biko mgbe obula enyi na akwukwo chere gi n'ihu biko k'anyi horo akwukwo n'hi na mmadu na aharipu

otu isi mee akwa ndina gi obu otu ahu ka iga esi dina na ya
How you make your bed is how you will lie on it

Nigerian men rules all the time no arguement
Their intelligent intoxicates me

All the newly married women kwenu hei!!!!!!!!!!
All the old married women kwenu hei!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All the happily married women kwezue nu hei, hei, hei!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A na eji anya ama oka kara aka
You use your eye and know the worth/value of corn or person

A na eji isi ahu ama uto nsi
One uses the smell of ahu and know the smell of feaces

Ebe onye oso ruru onye ije ga eru abe ahu
where a runner reach a walker will reach there too

Aku fecha odara awo

ifyalways:
Hmmn,a maghim if its happening in my side though
it just happened to someone i know.Enyim nwanyi,huru one bobo na anya.di bobo sikwanu na ezinaulo na ejighi ego while ndi be the girl ji ego.ihunanaya mechara di girl,ya kwusi iga akwukwo kama o na anata ndi be ha ego ugwo akwukwo na ihe ndi ozo,infact,ndi be the girl nwere impression na o na aga akwukwo,ha amaghi na o ji ugwo akwukwo ya azu enyi ya nwoke na ulo akwukwo.Emecha di bobo a graduateia,chota ezigbo oru,nke nwanyi wuzinu drop out but still o kporo ya,ha ebiri,o ga tinyezie ya na ulo akwukwo,afo ime abata ka eme ,ka eme ga gba ngwu nwanyi,nwa a a nwuo na afo ime ahu.ndi be nke nwanyi gba isi akwara na o ga eburu uzo luo di ozu tutu o lie ya dika nwanyi ya.O dikwa egwu.a ga na-ekpe di kpe
@Topic,ndi m na azo ndu,ndi na azom ndu
the people i protect,same people protects me

A nuo lam udi akuko a

rampant:
naaaaa though d psoter did not lay emphasis on where she listened to the voice msg

but at d same time rubi don't forget that this man might have also been dating d other girl before he got married,so the girl in question might still have his number and other personal contacts of his

so that one is not a case

I know but I think they say forsake all others when you are married no be so? My dear more tori dee inside this story the husband slept with his ex the wife slept with her ex. You are right I think for her to grieve that is psychological trauma

I am even begining to doubt the poster because I don't think a man in his right mind will cheat on the wife and give the girl his house number not even cell phone. I think the story is not yet complete. As a married woman I can put one and two together.

rampant:
abi ooo

and d most annoying part is,some of them women telling her to keep it a secret r married,people just get married to change their single status to married,they don't know what that word marriage is all about,and they r here telling us crabs

like i said before just imagine if she and her hubby r living peacefully now,and then d guy she did it wt then ,just appears?appearing i mean is wt solid and concrete proof,what will happen?

is it not better she tells d man and clears her heart ,then if he doesnt want her again she leaves d house for him wt a clear conscience and good mind,than trying to save it just to maintain d married status

yes i know that they r some secrets that should be taken to d grave,but my dear at d same time we should not also forget that there is nothing hidden under d sun

It is like we sat down and discuss I was arguing with a guy on this earlier I don't klnow if you read my post. It is not possible to hide it there are things to hind but cheating on your husband my dear personally I can't hide it some how along the line if the even if the ex do not com with proof it will sneak out from her mouth or somebody she confided in will threaten her with that. Pregnancy cannot be covered after nine months

Ibime:
O boy, Yankee is trying when it comes to giving opportunities to blacks and so is UK. Their governments constantly throw grants and funding at social schemes to improve the lives of black folk. Unfortunately, a lot of black folk do not see this and always think the Government is against them. I believe that a black man with any drive and focus will succeed in Yankee or UK. All those complaining about USA should go and see their black counterparts in Brazil, Latin America, Germany etc

WORD NO SHAKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rampant:
my dear body dey inside cloth jare,how u dey ?and your hubby?hope all is well

some people just see this marriage thing like a boyfriend and girlfriend issue,don't tell him ,don't tell him ,don't tell him,they r some secrets that can make one loose what he/she loves most in life



what if she has reconsiled wt her husband,and they r now living happily ,and then d her ex justknocks at their door one day and exposes her wt proofs?what will happen

im very sure this same people telling her to keep it a secret will blame her for not telling her husband right from d onset

People do not understand that there is big difference blw boyfriend and girl friend it is not easy to walk away many woman swallow more than the poster postered and coming here to open their mouth and talk nonsense

rampant:
if he likes let him go sleep wt a thousand women out there,idats his business,we r talking about individual conscience here,her conscience is already pricking her ,so there is no bleeping way she can live wt it tied to her heart alone,not even if she prays to God and asks him for forgiveness

How body? you have been making nice input on this thread

@Blantant
Did you read my post very very well? The blacks are given eg financial aid to go to school if they want to and qualify for it I know a lot of many blacks that came to America to be precise Nigerians and became doctors, nurses, pharmacist and even own the private agencies it is up to you what you want to be. I you dialogue on political sector blacks and white yes I might agree with you. On the other hand re-read my post!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Do blacks in America have the opportunity to become what ever they want to be or we are full of excuses?
[quote][/quote]I personally have observed that blacks have the opportunity because it a country that gives people the 100% room/freedom to grow/become what you want to be if you are willing and able. On the other hand eg there are some job opportunities that some companies/organizations have sweared within themselves that no black will enter they might not say it verbally because of lawsuit but within the management they know who they want to hire and that makes it hard most times for blacks to be heard and not seen

camary:
My candid opinion is that, you are making the guys head to get swell by showing him how extreme you are so attached to him. Anyway, there is no wrong showing him how you love him, but it should be appreciated by him. For the fact of having the guts to tell you to be patient until his lover leaves is an indication that, he no longer loves by putting such condition for a come back. Infact, let us be factual, you must have wronged him to blame you for your predicament. If you do, you better accept you mistakes, plead for a date with him preferable in a public place and tender your apology and tell him to forgive you. After that, just mind your business in his affair and leave the rest for God. This may turn him around. GOODLUCK

nice advice

Hannibal:
It worries me she is now having psychological trauma after shagging an ex boy-f. . . .
Once a woman sets out to go bed anutha man for pleasure, she sould be damned ready to face the consequences.
The price she must pay is to bury the secret and take it to her grave. . . .

Anutha option is to open her mouth carelessly and confess and get ditched to the gutter. . . . .
Single chics are still struggling to hitch and someone wants to risk her marriage on something she coulda avoided.
I know what i'd do as a woman anyways.

what will you do our ears are itching. Meanwhile it will definitely sneak out from her mouth one day if she don't make up her mind and draw her husbands attention on that issue you know pregnancy cannot be cover forever

@Hannibal do you think it is that easy to keep such secret till death? The poster is already having psychological trauma on that issue. It could be easier is for men but women I don't think so

congratulation/Remain blessed

manmustwac:
some people no dey look date when they reply to a thread

Na true

Tell him let the worst happen it is better you tell him than him findi ng out believe me one day it must surely sneak out of your mouth or whom you confide in will use it and threatens you so try to pray a little for courage/boldness also for God to help change his heart to forgive you Good luck. I wish you the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Friendship leads to courtship and courtship leads to marriage I don't really like the word courtship because whenever  it is decleared in a relationship each party will become consious of how to behave at least not to offend the other person but when people become friends they relate to each other freely without been consious of themselves and that gives more room to study one another very well

HCH3COO:
what's wrong? are you a lesbian? we can still work something out if you are.

I am married with kids pls

HCH3COO:
male of course my dear. do not panic.  are we still under contract to multiply?

@Poster take your time and be a little patient, follow yor heart and make your decision when you are more calm than now

HCH3COO:
ole . that curiosity don take ya life.
we can multiply after we add. what say you?

Are you a male or female? Try and update your profile

Okanran:
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,hmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,this never was bout me,,,,,,,,hello!!!,,,,,,,,,,,,,,more like you not being so quick to come to a conclusion based on the post of a fictious cyber entity,,,,,,,,,,be it good or bad.

Nuff said

HCH3COO:
rubi let's multiply.

Let's add

izeek:
people meet up in diff places,
its the person that matters not the forum which u met.

so i implore that u access the person rather than the venue or circumstances on how u met.

word

Okanran:
Believe me dear I know from personal experience that you're way off target. Ever considered the fact that some peeps in here might just be having fun

If your concience condems you based on what I post then you have don't have any boldness

You cannot be different from how you talk. Personally I can tell peoples personality through their post/the way they talk on line if you are wise and observant