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PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 6:21pm On Mar 09, 2022
FaithBrain1994:
Forex have suspended transactions until september 9. Be guided.
Wh
Nairaland GeneralShare Your Betrayal Experience by Rubyjade(op): 6:20pm On Mar 09, 2022
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.
RomanceRe: Should I Save My Sister Or Mind My Business? by Rubyjade(op): 6:19pm On Mar 09, 2022
BallingGuy:
Can I private chat you?
Yes
RomanceRe: Loud Whispers by Rubyjade(op): 1:40pm On Mar 09, 2022
wink
Palema007:
So I'm not a freak after all ! Lol..

Constant calls, monitoring, talk etc chokes me up . Although this should not excuse not being accountable but a breeding space sometimes is necessary.
FamilyRe: Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Rubyjade: 1:39pm On Mar 09, 2022
neonly:
Then dat when communication should come in instead denying her children food because of her ego
True
RomanceRe: Loud Whispers by Rubyjade(op): 9:28am On Mar 09, 2022
house10s:
boring
I am not the reason for your misfortune.
FamilyRe: Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Rubyjade: 9:16am On Mar 09, 2022
Lamasta:
I love your contribution but my question is why do women like roping their kids to issues relating them and their hubbyhuh
I don't know my dear
FamilyRe: Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Rubyjade: 9:15am On Mar 09, 2022
neonly:
What has d woman put on d table since d man is broke
In a relationship now it should what can u tender not always on d receiving end in d disguise of an a woman pls d man should force d children to eat abeg if she want to eat or not her Wahala
No time to check time for dis buhari era
Don't be quick to make hasty generalization, she probably have been fending for the family and probably not happy he went back to the ex
FamilyRe: Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Rubyjade: 8:57am On Mar 09, 2022
The woman actions are not justified because the man was already down, what if the table turns? Will the man also not eat the food ?
RomanceRe: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Rubyjade: 8:55am On Mar 09, 2022
wink
RomanceRe: My Story. Sexlife,cultlife And All. by Rubyjade: 6:36am On Mar 09, 2022
CrimeRe: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by Rubyjade: 6:33am On Mar 09, 2022
Just shocked
CrimeRe: Custom Detain 2 Trucks Filled With Petrol Kegs At Challenge, Ibadan by Rubyjade: 5:59am On Mar 09, 2022
How may I help you? I got your pm
FlyingKing:
If government do the right thing they wouldn't have the opportunity and the audacity to be hording fuel and sell in black market.
FamilyRe: Is It Appropriate For Two Siblings To Marry From The Same Family? by Rubyjade(op): 8:18pm On Mar 08, 2022
cool
Jirilistic:
I see nothing wrong in it as there's no blood ties between both parties getting married
RomanceRe: Loud Whispers by Rubyjade(op): 8:16pm On Mar 08, 2022
shocked
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool I COMPRISUN ur CAPRISUN..



Na CONFIRM CAPRISUN u CAPRISUN SO..



if NO b say SUN 2much I for BLAST 3 BULLET for AIR..


real TALK MAN!


LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN!
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 8:14pm On Mar 08, 2022
cheesy
1Sharon:
Menial jobs.

If he works in the entertainment sector: acting, singing, rapping. Guys in that sector aren't faithful or husband material in my eyes.
RomanceRe: My Ex Wants Us To Be Having Sex Few Weeks After Her Marriage by Rubyjade: 4:29pm On Mar 08, 2022
surebona:
Ok, our relationship was not that serious because I was still bringing up my ex into conversation so she found someone that was willing to marry her, she got married and few weeks later she chatted me up that her man is not capable of getting her pregnant due to complications and that she want me to please help out, that the man agreed to her getting satisfaction outside..

Me confuse o.
Abeg which kind wahala b this one and I no even know weten I wan cap dis bani like dis o.
You are about to die
RomanceRe: Loud Whispers by Rubyjade(op): 4:28pm On Mar 08, 2022
wink
Emmawhite91:
due to the fact we are dating does not mean. I should just focus all my attention you. I need space to focus on my family,friends,coleagues and my work also. Am not going to be a monitoring agent to you neither do I want you to be one too.
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 4:27pm On Mar 08, 2022
Dshocker:
Lets say 98% does it
hmmmm it means you have been doing it with them
PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 4:26pm On Mar 08, 2022
Swipa:
Mt5, telegram, whatsapp
what's this?
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 4:24pm On Mar 08, 2022
Dshocker:
Tell me what i don't know
Not all are into what you think
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 4:24pm On Mar 08, 2022
wealthtrak:
Aha Rubyjade... So you're not
one of the single ladies out there?

Women are hypergamous in nature, while men can marry
women who are below them
in social status. Lol.

I wouldn't marry an "uneducated"
woman regardless of how much
she has though. We have to be
on the same page in terms of
vision and intellect.
what's wrong in marrying an uneducated woman
RomanceRe: Help Me My Boyfriend Is No More Giving Me Attention Again by Rubyjade: 4:20pm On Mar 08, 2022
orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.
But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any. What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing ihe took him 2 months to win my heart
What are you contributing to his life? He probably has met another lady bettering his life than you sucking him dry.
RomanceRe: Help Me My Boyfriend Is No More Giving Me Attention Again by Rubyjade: 4:19pm On Mar 08, 2022
cheesy
RomanceRe: Loud Whispers by Rubyjade(op): 4:19pm On Mar 08, 2022
cheesy
Emmawhite91:
Wow! Best post so far in year 2022
RomanceRe: Should I Save My Sister Or Mind My Business? by Rubyjade(op): 4:17pm On Mar 08, 2022
house10s:
okay pm to tell me how much then
Nah! Thank you for your time and help.
CareerRe: How Much Is Your Salary? How Many Months Salary Would Make Up Ur House Rent? by Rubyjade: 4:17pm On Mar 08, 2022
ibechris:
I am a financier and lend out money for business only.
I had like to learn tho business
CareerRe: Why Do Narcissist Get Angry When You Decide To Resign From Their Company by Rubyjade: 3:58pm On Mar 08, 2022
They didn't use you enough
RomanceRe: Should I Save My Sister Or Mind My Business? by Rubyjade(op): 3:57pm On Mar 08, 2022
house10s:
thats my question.
d fact he bleeped u for toilet means ur sister go soon enter house seem am dey fuk house help.

so how much he pay u, no lie
it's immaterial to the discussion.
CareerRe: How Much Is Your Salary? How Many Months Salary Would Make Up Ur House Rent? by Rubyjade: 3:55pm On Mar 08, 2022
vivalavida:
Madam, there are a lot of things to put into consideration before saying such. Proximity to your office matters is lot. Security too should be high on the list. You can decide to pay 120k as the salary but transportation to the office will run into thousands monthly. There are people that pay such and their daily fare to work in this lagos is in the region of 1k. By the time you do the sum for a month, and then foe the year, you will know you are being pennywise pound foolish. You haven't even added the stress and traffic jam to and fro the office.
I think � you talking about those staying on the mainland n working on the island. But with the little time I hve spent in Lagos, most people stay far from there office
FamilyRe: Is It Appropriate For Two Siblings To Marry From The Same Family? by Rubyjade(op): 3:53pm On Mar 08, 2022
Moeman:
yes it will improve unity...[b]but it can also bring problem[/b]s...it just depends on the families that are involved
How?
CareerRe: How Much Is Your Salary? How Many Months Salary Would Make Up Ur House Rent? by Rubyjade: 3:52pm On Mar 08, 2022
SportsHD:
It's unrealistic in this Nigeria. Being that real estate prices are up and other factors.
Not all people earn big figures as salary.
Some need three months or four months even if their rent is 150k. Which is a starting price for a self con in a moderately decent area in Abuja and most places in Nigeria too. Some people would choose living in a 150k apartment that's closer to their work than a 80k apartment that's far from their workplace.
Abuja 200-250 depending on the areas Jabi amd Lugbe you MAY see

Lagos 120-150 Ayobo, Ipaja, Ajah, Ebutte metta, Bariga

Ogun 80-100 Ijebu-Ode, Sango, Oju Ore

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