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RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 12:57pm On Mar 08, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Drug peddling, fraud(cyber or physical), clergy and skull mining
The bolded, why?
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 12:56pm On Mar 08, 2022
grin
paulolee:
nurse, or works in a morgue...no wan marry who spirit go follow me dey service
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 12:56pm On Mar 08, 2022
cooooooks:
I strongly preach that people should not judge one's past too harshly. The extent of runs especially.

However, I don't think I could date an ex runs babe. Then because of Nigeria, I'd be very careful of dating someone in the armed forces.

Other than that, I'm an equal opportunity dater.
The bolded what do you mean? The italics, why?
PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 12:54pm On Mar 08, 2022
Mercury12:
1 Chess friends app
2 WhatsApp
3 Asphalt 9
what does this app do?
PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 12:20pm On Mar 08, 2022
undecided
callme9mm:
Got ya.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Acting Strange by Rubyjade: 12:19pm On Mar 08, 2022
Kelvin2022:
She refused to tell me I got angry and left
Most times when a lady refuse to say something, what she wants is pet, cuddle and nicely ask her
PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 12:14pm On Mar 08, 2022
callme9mm:
Yes I do. You want to play iMessage games ? smiley
Not really good at online games
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 12:06pm On Mar 08, 2022
Jeon:
cry

any occupation that is dangerous, risky to someone's life
Name them?
PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 12:05pm On Mar 08, 2022
Why?!
Jeon:
None.
PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 12:05pm On Mar 08, 2022
Datboredberry:
Opera mini (Nairaland, bored panda etc)

Reddit

WhatsApp
bored panda? Can you screenshot it
PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 12:05pm On Mar 08, 2022
callme9mm:
Safari, WhatsApp Twitter
You use an iphone?
PhonesRe: What Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 12:00pm On Mar 08, 2022
silverlinen:
Damn.... it's tinder, bumble and reddit.
never new it's still exist
FamilyRe: Is It Good For Couples To Keep Joint Accounts In Marriage? by Rubyjade: 11:58am On Mar 08, 2022
No
PhonesWhat Are Your Top 3 Most Used Apps? by Rubyjade(op): 11:57am On Mar 08, 2022
What are your top 3 most used apps?
Me:
Messenger, WHATS APP & Twitter

RomanceLoud Whispers by Rubyjade(op): 11:51am On Mar 08, 2022
Dating you or being in the talking phase doesn't mean he should talk to you every single day, every single hour. What happened to all your other friends and relatives? No work? No school? You can easily choke a person by putting the whole weight of your life on him or her

I am not dating anyone but I feel the pain of daters. Followers track my on line status if DMs are not swiftly replied and I am thinking, am I entitled to a life? �

Not liking your slay IG picture is wahala and can cause breakup. Smart phone dating has its peculiar demands. People no longer have real lives.
If a lover’s smart phone is not working for 2 days, your whole life collapses and your peace is destroyed. Jesus is the Prince of peace. The control of your joy and peace should not be handed over to a mere mortal who can walk away anytime. It should be secured in Christ.

Familiarity breeds contempt. Some breathing space is good and beneficial. By these smartphone rules, a man cannot even go to fast and pray for 7 days on a mountain with no phone contact. You would have broken up before he returns. These relationships are fast becoming idolatry. This begs the question. Are these relationships really healthy alliances between 2 adults possibly leading to marriage or are they refuges for people trying to use others for relationships to cure loneliness or satisfy sexual urges?

I heard from Sunday teachings that some sisters now miss service because they follow their dates to the club overnight so they can be sure he ain't rocking side chicks. Sister, dump him. U cannot lose your peace and deliverance because you want to track a Bozo on line or real life. People are replying that “find a man who loves you, who will call visit daily yen yen yen”. I want to see you everyday 24/7 but I have to go to work Monday to Friday else I’ll be broke. I also have to go to church 3 times a week. I cannot worship you because u are bae.


In defence of the other side, if you are exclusive with anyone, he or she kinda takes priority over the other folks you are messing and joking with on line. If you have time to waste fooling around on line, the exclusive should understandably take priority.

By the way, dating carries no commitment. You are not engaged. Anyone can pull out of dating anytime without anyone crying scum if there is no viable marriage future envisaged. Which is one of the reasons, I advocate no fornication and only minimal financial exposure while dating
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 11:47am On Mar 08, 2022
Ecos:
Mortuary attendant!
why?!
RomanceRe: What Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 11:47am On Mar 08, 2022
grin
chatinent:
Some people don't mind dating a rich god-fearing armed robber.
EducationRe: What Can A Teacher Or Parent Do, To Improve The Legibility Of This Handwriting? by Rubyjade: 11:45am On Mar 08, 2022
Dulfy:
Watch this movie...LIKE STARS ON EARTH.THANK ME LATER�
Oga Na writing we dey talk about not career path
EducationRe: What Can A Teacher Or Parent Do, To Improve The Legibility Of This Handwriting? by Rubyjade: 11:44am On Mar 08, 2022
grin
GoldenJAT:
I have two students like that presently!! I mark any assignments, classwork, etc, done by them last, so I can concentrate and read what they wrote.
Found out they are smart and not to be judged on the basis of their writings!! But I kid you not!! Marking their notes isn't for the faint hearted.
EducationRe: What Can A Teacher Or Parent Do, To Improve The Legibility Of This Handwriting? by Rubyjade: 11:41am On Mar 08, 2022
julybaba:
Dear Nairalanders, what can a parent or teacher do, to improve the legibility of this child's handwriting?
The child is currently in JSS3.
Your suggestions will be appreciated.

Please mod, I need your help to get this post to front page.
Thanks.
it's obvious the child will be a doctor
RomanceWhat Occupation Would Make You Not Date Or Marry Someone by Rubyjade(op): 11:37am On Mar 08, 2022
I recently hung out with a group of girlfriends I hadn’t seen in a very long time. I’d like to say that it’s because we’re all busy,so I was grateful to get the opportunity to catch up with my girls.

As usual, those ladies that were single lamented about their nonexistent relationship status. “Where were all the good guys?” “Why do they all live with their mama or have multiple baby mamas?” “How come they don’t have great jobs or make a lot of money?” I quietly sat there listening, not missing any of my single days. However, the more I listened, the more questions formulated in my head. “What constitutes as a great job?” “What is ‘a lot’ of money?” After all, those things are pretty relative, so I was curious to learn what types of guys they were attracting and why they felt these men weren’t good enough.

One friend said, “The doorman in my building asked me out on a date. Can you believe it? Like I’d date ‘the help’.” Suddenly, I began to understand why some of these women were still single.

“What’s wrong with the doorman?” I asked.

“Uh, he’s a doorman,” she responded, as if the answer was obvious.

I followed up by asking if it was just doormen she was against, or any man who was in a service/customer service type of job. After all, “the help” is not limited to doormen, maids, butlers, janitors or any other job that reminds her of “slavery” (her words, not mine). Service industries also include positions within sectors such as hospitality, sales, public health and any other position where your responsibility is to service or be of service to other people. But because those were still considered service industry jobs in a sense, were they too deemed not respectable? “Would she not date a man in any of those fields?” I thought to myself.

What Occupation would stop you from dating or marrying Someone?
RomanceRe: A Ghanian Shares Her Story About Nigerian Men by Rubyjade: 11:31am On Mar 08, 2022
grin
TravelRe: Why Do Many Of The Chinese Who Go To Work In Africa Prefer To Remain by Rubyjade: 11:30am On Mar 08, 2022
wink
PropertiesRe: Just Moved In Three Months Ago And Told To Pack Out Now. by Rubyjade: 11:12am On Mar 08, 2022
grin

Firstly, we you issued receipts for the payments you made?
This story no just jell.

Either it's a cooked up story from a lazy OP.
Or details have been concealed cos the OP's "friend" knows he was at fault. Thats if truly Op is not the friend.lol

Cos I was assuming they had made progress with the house condition and wanted to increase the rent.
But as this case is theres no progress
Secondly, never move into an apartment with recommendations from friends, church members or colleagues
Moreso, until you get your refund before you move out, state this in clear terms to them

Finally get a lawyer
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Acting Strange by Rubyjade: 11:09am On Mar 08, 2022
Kelvin2022:
No I know when she sees it because she told me
Okay! Why not ask what the issues is
RomanceRe: How Handsome Am I? Rate My Pics by Rubyjade: 8:33am On Mar 08, 2022
kiss
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Acting Strange by Rubyjade: 8:33am On Mar 08, 2022
Probably she is seeing her period
RomanceRe: How My Friend Used My Girlfriend For Money Ritual ( True Life Confession) by Rubyjade: 8:32am On Mar 08, 2022
grin

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