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 Family › Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Rubyjade: 1:49am On Mar 11, 2022 |
No Uzomarrr12345:Adam has already done all the work before eve came, you get the drift |
| Family › Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Rubyjade: 1:46am On Mar 11, 2022 |
Movingon5:Looking forward to reading your story so I can learn. |
| Family › Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Rubyjade: 1:43am On Mar 11, 2022 |
ibechris:True |
| Family › Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by Rubyjade: 1:42am On Mar 11, 2022 |
HarunaWest:You lack Vitamin sex |
| Family › Re: Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Rubyjade: 1:35am On Mar 11, 2022 |
Truvelisback:The question is don't you have friends, siblings or neighbors, why your ex? |
| Romance › Re: Being Single And Above 30, Come In! by Rubyjade(op): 1:33am On Mar 11, 2022 |
luminouz:I am hitting you were it hurts the most. |
| Romance › Re: Being Single And Above 30, Come In! by Rubyjade(op): 1:33am On Mar 11, 2022 |
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| Romance › Who Does A Man Love More, The Woman He Lies To Or The One He Tells The Truth? by Rubyjade(op): 1:31am On Mar 11, 2022 |
Who Does A Man Love More, The Woman He Lies To Or The One He Tells The Truth? Well,from my own perspective, it could be either both or none. Intention is everything, or almost, I think. A man who lies to his woman could either be a man who is a habitual liar, or one who wants to spare her feelings. A man who tells the truth could either be one who does so to deal her an emotional blow, or who wants to apologize for hurting her feelings. Me, I'd rather be with the one who tells the truth. At least I'll know where I stand. And, if you love yourself enough, you'll know whether he truly loves you — and you won't need to ask or read answers to such questions to figure it out. Guys, over to you |
| Romance › Re: Can A Man Love Two Women At The Same Time? by Rubyjade: 1:30am On Mar 11, 2022 |
AdesewaAde:You are the girlfriend |
| Romance › Losing Yourself by Rubyjade(op): 1:22am On Mar 11, 2022 |
So my cousin met this girl sometime last year in school, according to him they had issues in keke where in he asked her to drop down from the keke that he already paid for charter... After that incident, he asked her out and she told him she was engaged and getting married, but he persisted. He made her come to his house, and we had s**. According to her was that her intentions was to sleep with him and then leave being that it must be what he wanted, he had to let her know he needed her heart. It took a while but she eventually did love him ( or so I thouht). I got to find out that his supposed engaged partner, she hasn't even met the guy for real, they met on Facebook and now they only talk on whatsapp but she loves him . This girl moved in with him and he get pissed when guy calls her.. she tells the guy(Facebook) she loves him and then come back to my cousin to tell him the same ... Few days ago, they had issues again because of this and she called him selfish, that he don't care about the feelings of the guy and that he knew from the beginning . My cousin loves this girl deeply, and she says she loves him too, most of her sisters knows my cousin but my cuz feel she is lying to him, he feel she doesn't love him and I should let her go .. She has explicitly said she can't stop talking to this guy(Facebook) and cuz should have a heart attack if he wants to, that he should take the relationship step by ste What does he do nairalanders ? Hw's confused .. Should he let her go or keep her around knowing fully well she's gonna leave .... its very clear to him that she will leave although she says she's not so sure about that . Lol, she tells this guy that she's dreams about him daily on whatsapp and yet Come back to sleep with my cousin. Kindly help... My cousin is losing him  self for a girl |
| Crime › Re: Chidinma Ojukwu Crowned Miss Cell At Kirikiri Prison. by Rubyjade: 7:50am On Mar 10, 2022 |
Crazeworld:The female correctional side, the male side is hell on earth 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Chidinma Ojukwu Crowned Miss Cell At Kirikiri Prison. by Rubyjade: 7:48am On Mar 10, 2022 |
brightalo1010:Evans 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: Chidinma Ojukwu Crowned Miss Cell At Kirikiri Prison. by Rubyjade: 7:46am On Mar 10, 2022 |
Lightened:How? |
| Romance › Re: Love Has Been Compromised!!!! by Rubyjade(op): 7:03am On Mar 10, 2022 |
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| Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Betrayal Experience by Rubyjade(op): 7:02am On Mar 10, 2022 |
Demigod22: 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Rubyjade: 7:00am On Mar 10, 2022 |
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| Romance › Re: Being Single And Above 30, Come In! by Rubyjade(op): 6:59am On Mar 10, 2022 |
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| Romance › Be A Lover Not A Player by Rubyjade(op): 6:56am On Mar 10, 2022 |
Ladies don't go looking for men who can provide your needs today. Think about tomorrow. Look for a man who is honest, respects you and a man who can accept you for who you are. A man who will still stay married to you even when your leg is amputated. If you are looking for a man to take care of you then, know that you are for "SALE" and anything you buy with money will be "USED". Learn to be responsible and industrious because if you keep depending on a man and he's no more in your life, you will suffer badly. Stop looking for "Mr flashy man". Look for true love, even if that love is given to you by "Mr Nobody". And men, stop taking advantage of ladies because you think you can use money to buy them. If you don't love them, stop wasting their time and playing double games to destroy their emotions. Be a lover, not a "PLAYER". Peace✌️ |
| Romance › Re: If You Earning $200 And You Married, Let's Talk by Rubyjade(op): 6:52am On Mar 10, 2022 |
africonn:60% |
| Romance › Re: MATURED MINDS!! Hookup Or Girlfriend – Which One Is The Better Option? by Rubyjade: 6:49am On Mar 10, 2022 |
 GF Benefits Unlimited sex No STD Emotions attachment Romance/cuddle Problem Gifts in between times Regular money for maintenance Hookup Benefits No emotional attachment One off time No regular money for maintenance Disadvantage STD's Not pocket friendly No romance & cuddle 1 Like |
| Romance › If You Earning $200 And You Married, Let's Talk by Rubyjade(op): 11:27pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
If u are earning 260k as salary, pls don't marry. Let's Break it down, 1. you transport to work to and fro. 2. You eat lunch at work. 3. You are to pay house rent, Nepa bills, security and water bills. 4. Food for you and your wife. 5. Laundry and other stuff. 6. Airtime , MB and DSTV subscription. 7. Fuel for generator. 8. General house maintenance, buy clothes and undies. 9. You are expected to buy body cream, good relaxer, roll on and other deodorants for your wife. 10. At least 2 dresses per month for her. 11. If she is ILL, hospital bills. 12. Church women association dues and dress. 13. You are expected to render financial obligations to her family and your family. Yet, You want to marry with 260k? I hope you won't impregnate your wife! May God help us all. |
| Romance › Love Has Been Compromised!!!! by Rubyjade(op): 11:12pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Love has been compromised. I've come across so many men who said they want an independent modernised working class lady,who would help with bills ( Good decision though)... I know of a girl who was a cleaner in one of the banks,any guy she tells is was a cleaner will not find her good enough for marriage, just for friendship... And she wasn't getting younger, She changed strategy and started by wearing nice dress to work, taking pictures in various seats and tables in the banking hall, tells any man that cares to know she's a banker, less than 2 months a man started talking marriage to her, told her how he prayed and God told him she was his wife, 3months later they got married, Problem started, When the husband found out the woman he married is a cleaner... Babe has gotten the Mrs she craves for... That's all that matters to her... A guy once approached me here in 2014 asked if I'm a working class Lady, I told him I'm a student, today he is married to a banker.. You see.... Many women have been rejected due to their poor back ground,educational level, their class in the society, The jobs they do, When they run out of patience and start living a fake life out of frustration because they're scared they will never get a man to wife them as marriage is very important to them, A Cunny man die, a cunny woman will bury him.. If a woman doesn't raise her standards, these end time men won't find her useful in marriage.... Marriage has been compromised, many don't marry for love, rather for benefits, That's why a man will say, he wants to marry a nurse,a banker an accountant, Without minding if he is compatible with the woman or he just getting married to the title (nurse). Some are in unhappy marriages because they married because of this same requirements.. This issue is not attributed to the men only, women do it too... No love anywhere in the society.. And I'm not surprised at the rate of divorce.. As you advise ladies to stop living a fake life also encourage the men to accept women for who they really are and not what they're bringing to the(table) marriage. When you see a woman doing the little she can to earn, that alone should tell you she's hardworking, Not when she's doing a professional work you can only classify her as a working class lady. In as much it is very bad to live a fake life.. Part of the blame should Go to the men. Fake people attracts their likes. In the End of it all... Love has been compromised... I come in peace.. Happy weekend 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why I Avoid Single Lady's by Rubyjade: 11:07pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Love has been compromised. I've come across so many men who said they want an independent modernised working class lady,who would help with bills ( Good decision though)... I know of a girl who was a cleaner in one of the banks,any guy she tells is was a cleaner will not find her good enough for marriage, just for friendship... And she wasn't getting younger, She changed strategy and started by wearing nice dress to work, taking pictures in various seats and tables in the banking hall, tells any man that cares to know she's a banker, less than 2 months a man started talking marriage to her, told her how he prayed and God told him she was his wife, 3months later they got married, Problem started, When the husband found out the woman he married is a cleaner... Babe has gotten the Mrs she craves for... That's all that matters to her... A guy once approached me here in 2014 asked if I'm a working class Lady, I told him I'm a student, today he is married to a banker.. You see.... Many women have been rejected due to their poor back ground,educational level, their class in the society, The jobs they do, When they run out of patience and start living a fake life out of frustration because they're scared they will never get a man to wife them as marriage is very important to them, A Cunny man die, a cunny woman will bury him.. If a woman doesn't raise her standards, these end time men won't find her useful in marriage.... Marriage has been compromised, many don't marry for love, rather for benefits, That's why a man will say, he wants to marry a nurse,a banker an accountant, Without minding if he is compatible with the woman or he just getting married to the title (nurse). Some are in unhappy marriages because they married because of this same requirements.. This issue is not attributed to the men only, women do it too... No love anywhere in the society.. And I'm not surprised at the rate of divorce.. As you advise ladies to stop living a fake life also encourage the men to accept women for who they really are and not what they're bringing to the(table) marriage. When you see a woman doing the little she can to earn, that alone should tell you she's hardworking, Not when she's doing a professional work you can only classify her as a working class lady. In as much it is very bad to live a fake life.. Part of the blame should Go to the men. Fake people attracts their likes. In the End of it all... Love has been compromised... I come in peace.. Happy weekend 14 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Being Single And Above 30, Come In! by Rubyjade(op): 11:05pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
If you are above 30 and you are still single as a guy, better start going to churches or start working on yourself, it's either you have a bad character or your Uncle in the village don't want you to get married. Yes, this is the bitter truth... Being single at 30 and above is bad, and the chances of you getting married and having your kids on time is slim... What if delay in child bearing occurs and you happens to stay for more 5 or 10 years before children starts coming... Uncle, get married now ooo, time waits for nobody How does it sound? Does it sound stupid? This is the lines most you use on ladies, making them believe they are overdue for marriage. This is the lines most of you use on ladies, that talks them into depression. At 40, he got married to her when she was 20, believing he has higher advantage as a man, yes, God blessed them with a girl and since then no issue. Uncle is running to 50 and becoming very weak, Aunty is running to 30 and looking more sound and beautiful ❤️. The chances of Uncle dying anytime soon is 50-50 because he has a diseases which keeps him in the hospital all the time. When next you think about shaming a woman, because she is 30 & above and single, read this... |
| Family › Re: RE: Am I Spoiling My 7-year Old? by Rubyjade: 9:57pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
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| Family › Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Rubyjade: 8:51pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
| Romance › Re: Your Honest Opinion by Rubyjade: 8:41pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
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| Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Betrayal Experience by Rubyjade(op): 8:36pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Highman56:Thank you 1 Like |
| Nairaland General › Re: Share Your Betrayal Experience by Rubyjade(op): 8:32pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Karleb:What did she do? 1 Like |
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