Good morning doc,
I write dis morning with pain in my heart cos I dunno wat else to do... I fink it's high time i take dis issue seriously jez kidding but am kind of getting impatient.

I don't know y my circle length keep changing. My circle is usually 25days, my previous circle changed to 24 days which u said was normal so I thought my circle is now 24 days. On cd24 of d circle I jez completed now, I was expecting to see my period which didn't show and cd25 was like dat too. A part of me was happy thinking conception has occurred until I woke up dis morning and saw her ugly face(menses).
My question now is, what is causing changes in my circle?

I also want to know if I am OK internally cos I don't know wat is happening to me. I want u to tell me all d kinds of tests I need to run except HSG cos it's scary and I don't fink I av blockage
I need to also know the kind of test my dh need to run too jez to be sure if both of us are free from anything delaying bfp... Dis is my 6th circle

I still av 2 applicators left and d pre-seed... CD wat shld I use it since I don't av up to 9 applicators again and can I soak d applicator with hot water in other to reuse?

What can I use to improve my CM cos it's not coming at all and pre-seed is quite expensive

I'm sorry for my long post

crowndbay:

Please kindly provide the address where you get it. I seriously need it as well.

Kunle Ara pharmacy in Ibadan...
2, Queen Elizabeth 2 rd. UCH 1st gate area

fanacy:
but i was told that if you meet your patner when she releases egg there's 99% chances of her giving birth to a baby Girl
REASONs i was told is that:
the Xchorosome is powerful than the Y chorosome.. And if you meet ur patner wen she just release an egg.. The X will over power the Y chorosome and the chances of producing a female offspring is very certain
But when meet your patner 24hrs after she released.. There's 99% of producing a Male child Becoz ..then the X chorosome has gettingweaker by which the Y chorosome can over power it!

Who tld u dat....
It's true X chromosome is stronger dan Y chromosome but Y chromosome runs faster dan X chromosome.
So, if der is no sperm in d uterus prior to the release of an egg. Y chromosome will reach d egg before X chromosome.
And naturally, females have only X chromosome. So d male determines d gender of a child

helovesme:
Cc rukkington

Thnx, I'm really grateful

I'm grateful to everyone for d advise and suggestions. I will jez relax my mind and hope in God .
Although, I did sumfin diff dis circle based on doc prescription and I pray I get bfp soon.

nazablossom:
2ww means 2 weeks wait,that's 2weeks after ovulation before your next menstrual flow. God will answer you soon with a BFP.

Thnx, i'm grateful and Ameen to your prayer

Pls wat are the things to use to hasten conception. Each time I go to d hospital, doc repeat d same thing dat I shld wait for a yr before complaining. 1 yr is kinda far.
Wat are d things u did differently to get bfp

Good afternoon everyone,
Dis is my first time of commenting on dis thread but av been following for a long time. I av not been commenting because am not yet pregnant, though av been trying for like 5 months now. I used pre-seed during my O dis circle..... I'm seriously hoping I get bfp

Someone talked abt having sex during 2ww which my hinder conception. Pls, wat is 2ww?

onoslove:
Pls can you share tips on how to prepare home made coconut oil.

How to make pure coconut oil. Get 1-2 coconut break it and cut into pieces den blend or grind smooth wit water. Pour it inside pot, put it on a low heat and leave it for a while wen it's turning brown u will see coconut oil coming. Extract d oil d remaining one der is coconut sweet (baba dudu) if u understand yoruba

Baxilexi:
Hello rukkington. My condolences to your in-laws. Yes, there is certainly hope. Lets stay positive.

Thnx Doc

Good evening doc,
Concerning d pre-seed usage u tld me to use from cd9 to cd17. I started it on cd8 and I used it till ystday which was cd14. I wnt be able to continue it because I wnt be able to bd for few wks... I lost my mother inlaw today.
I want to ask if der is hope for conception cos am still having O symptoms

Orente21:
tnx ma. Did u book or u just went there. Or there is a day 4attendin 2pple. How early can i go?did u collect ur result dat day.sorry 4d long questn. Dnt knw d place bt l ask around,Am goin fr challenge

Dey operate 24/7... u will jez go der and tell dem d type of scan u want to do and dey will tell u d price. u will collect d result same day
Try and go der early because of d crowd and ensure der is urine in your bladder b4 d scan to avoid delay

I did mine on cd11 during my O

Orente21:
@Rukkington,pls where did u do ur pelvic scan in ibadan and aw much was it

I did it at st. Gregory's specialist clinic and ultrasound diagnostic centre... 124, old adeoyo rd. yemetu, Ibadan. Almost opposite yemetu police station.
#1500 for d pelvic scan

Fumbaby:
[quote author=Rukkington why not see a gynea that will examine? All this you are doing is try and error

OK dear, thnx

Baxilexi:

Hello
The non-parous cervix is usually posterior, during child birth it becomes central, then anterior.
You don't need to worry.

Thnx Doc, I'm grateful

enince08:
That's very true dear

Good evening Doc,
Pls I want to ask if ones cervix is not in d middle, does it pose any risk.
Dis circle is kind of diff for me cos am doing sumfin diff
I decided to start checking my cervix since I av not been doing it. And I realized it's not in d middle. I dunno if am checking it well. But if it's not in d middle, is der a need to worry?

charix:

No but I know very well most of our primary school teachers were educated-illiterates. They always parroted hearsay as solid fact.
I also did a Google search and found out it was true.
Personal experience has shown me - try as I may - I've not been able to brush my teeth to look paper-white, rather they've a yellowish hue to them. Trust me, I've mixed and mixed different brand name toothpastes to increase the likelihood of them turning white to no avail.

Mix lemon and baking soda together and use it to brush your teeth... U can use your brush or your finger.
Ensure u don't brush your teeth with toothpaste immediately so dat it wnt affect your enamel

Make sure it is baking soda NOT baking powder

Godmother:
Did you know that urinating after sex is good practice and keeps you healthy? It may not be comfortable, especially when you want to just lie down and sleep. But as a woman, the benefits of urinating after sex are numerous.
Read it up here
www.divaclan.com/2016/02/17/why-its-important-to-urinate-after-sex/

For women who are trying to conceive. Wld u advise dem to urinate immediately after intercourse... Hell No.
U want d whole sperm to escape abi

enince08:

A male with high sperm count stands the chance of have a male child.

The time of intercourse during ovulation period determines d gender of a baby because Y chromosome runs faster but dies quickly while X chromosome runs slow but stay longer in d uterus.
If u meet your wife on d day she releases an egg, der is 99% chance dat she will deliver a baby boy

@Chigirl45 sorry I av been offline....
I av a frd too who TTC for 5yrs, she did series of test including hsg but didn't get bfp until she did ovulation tracking and used drug dat will make her produce more dan 1 egg during O with d help of her OB/GYN
I dunno if u can do such too because she was able to get bfp d month she used d drug. she tld me she was able to produce 5 matured egg. Her baby is 3 months old nw...
I can't do such now because it's jez my 5th months of TTC

AdaEkube:

Don't worry it will,by God's grace u will announce ur Bfp dis month,Js don't stress yourself abt it.

Thnx dear, am trying not to stress myself abt it but it's not easy..... TTC is really a serious issue, so many dos and donts.
Ameen to your prayer

Baxilexi:
Start with 3gm, if it gets messy or spills over, reduce to 2gm.

Thnx Doc, I will do just dat

AdaEkube:

Saw ur post on d oda thread,why not do follicle tracking?,it will detect d right time u ovulate and u will equally know if u do ovulate.Most women don't ovulate,most especially if u hv suffered from hormonal disorder.

I do ovulate and I study my body a lot for signs of ovulation, so I kw wen am ovulating.
I went for a pelvic scan last month, d day I went for d scan based on my calculation was my ovulation day and d sonographer tld me dat day dat I had released an egg waiting to be fertilised. Dat's how I knew dat my calculation was correct. And I have regular circle.
I jez pray dis pre-seed work for me too cos av heard a lot of positive comment on it and I pray I get bfp soon

It's really a bad idea to bleach u kw.... It causes skin cancer in d long run. Tell her to use moisturizing cream to maintain her complexion. My 2 kobo

AdaEkube:

Attach d applicator to d preseed tube,u know how syringe is used when collecting an injection from d bottle....u collect d preseed liquid Js like dat,collect little ooo,like half of d applicator then u insert.

Thnx, I'm grateful

Baxilexi:

The first 4-6days is what counts. So if either one of you bails after day 6, its laudable.

OK Doc, Am grateful
I will complete d 9 days journey In sha Allah
For d pre-seed, which gm is advisable, 2gm or 3gm

A covered person is beautiful, an unclad person is hot.... Heaven is beautiful, hell is hot

Baxilexi:

True that.(in respect to your 24days cycle)
Alright, commence application/baby making from CD 9. Use up all 9 applicators(if that's the amount in your pack). Meaning you'll be done by CD 17.
My regards to your DH, the task ahead is daunting but I trust he's prepared.

Doc u are really funny
Baby dancing for 9 days non stop.... I av never done dat b4 in my entire life. It's really a big task.
And to my dh

May God help us...... D world is really coming to an end.
In few year's time, some pple will walk on d street completely naked and claim it's fashion. Nothing is as good as being covered up. #Hijab, my identity

Baxilexi:

About your friend, were her result gotten from a notable lab?
Right abdominal cramp? The causes are many, could be gynaecological or not. Take paracetamol and see if it subsides. Do not use ibuprofen or any other sort of pain killer.
CD8 is too soon. Start 11.

Good morning Doc,
I don't know much abt her o. I was asking her on how to use pre-seed and she tld me all of dat.

U said I shld start at cd 11 but I av a 24 day circle. is CD 11 not too far since u said 3 days b4 O
I'm really grateful for your prompt replies

Baxilexi:

Hello rukkington
Step 1 - make sure your timing is correct. 3 days before ovulation. Sperm can survive up to 5 days in-utero.
Step 2 - load the applicator. Lie on your back with a pillow under your butt. Insert the applicator as far in as possible and discharge it's content. If it wouldn't be awkward DH can help you with this process.
Note: One applicator per session. No repeats.
Step 3 - make love. Modified Missionary would be just fine. At ejaculation DH should stay in a little while.
Afterwards, don't be in a hurry to get outta bed (gravity). Resolution is the fourth stage of intercourse. Make it count. Bearing in mind swimmers are at work and it's good for the psyche.
If the aftermath doesn't gross you out, sleep in that spot.
About your friend, has her husband had himself checked?
If yes, I'll ask some more questions.
Got question? Feel free.

Thnx Doc, am grateful
Abt my Frd, she said her husband has been checked.

Today is cd6 and av been having cramp since morning at d right side of my abdomen. What is d cause?
I plan using d pre-seed at cd8