Romance › Re: Please Stop Saying It.. STOP IT!! by Saff(f): 1:54pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
TheOdd1sOut: but i thought you hated men and dicks. Ive seen you quote ''men are scum'' so many times. I don’t Hate men. I hate the way that SOME men behave. Gerrit? |
Romance › Re: Please Stop Saying It.. STOP IT!! by Saff(f): 1:35pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
Where are the pictures of d tin |
Romance › Re: 19years Old Nigerian Secondary School Students Get Married (see Photos) by Saff(f): 1:34pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
DOUBLEWAHALA: so childern can no longer stage a play in their mid-term break party without tagin it another thing? bloggers are vicious |
Romance › Re: Do Not Be Depressed , Share Your Challenges Here by Saff(f): 1:05pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
Well school is not running away and it has no age limit. To keep yourself busy you can learn a trade or develop a skill that could eventually earn you money for school. School is not a do or die, trust me. Don’t be discouraged you’re blessings are on the way. You don’t have to follow the pace of everyone else, it may take some time but you’ll get there. Goodluckkk |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Saff(f): 10:50am On Jul 27, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Why Are Our Beloved Nairaland Feminists Denouncing Their Faith? by Saff(f): 10:10am On Jul 27, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: "To Be A Man Is Not Easy " - AN OVERRATED STATEMENT? by Saff(f): 6:38am On Jul 27, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: "To Be A Man Is Not Easy " - AN OVERRATED STATEMENT? by Saff(f): 6:38am On Jul 27, 2018 |
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Business › Re: See A Suitcase Man Ordered From Jumia, See What He Got (Photos) by Saff(f): 11:02pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
How can you buy a normal size suitcase for 2k. Where they do that at? Ode  |
Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Wows In White Bikini (Photo) by Saff(f): 6:06pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
NairaMaster1: Bad prayer.
It's not good to wish yourself modern day ashawo.
Be like OMOTOLA, M. JOHNSON, QUEEN NWOKOYE, MARY URANTA, AND THE FEW HUMBLE ONES.
Be like your mum too. Being like her is also being like Tonto dike and co.
Run!!!!
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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Saff(f): 5:55pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
I love tiwa. Love love love 
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Romance › Re: If She Cheats While Sharing Wedding Card!! by Saff(f): 5:47pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
This is nothing new |
Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Wows In White Bikini (Photo) by Saff(f): 3:27pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
Fine woman.  Love her. Wanna be like her when I grow up  |
Romance › Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 3:26pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
zicoraads: That's a shame. Who would have thought?! So you prefer the old safiaa  This is a first. |
Romance › Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 3:19pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
zicoraads: I never pegged you for a scaredy cat.  I told you yesterday that I’m a changed woman. |
Romance › Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 3:02pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
zicoraads: Really? This is new to me. Who is that?   |
Romance › Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 2:22pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
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Crime › Re: Man Berated For Saying Single Ladies That Hate Going To The Market Are Shameless by Saff(f): 2:21pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
LuciferChristi: I am geestring. I am donstan18. I am milemile. I am whoever calls you out for the fraud & hypocrite that you are. I love you too  |
Romance › Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 2:20pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 1:48pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
2buffagain: Again with the nairaland binary logic.
I did not say anybody should be left alone and forgotten. I said their role is to be diminished (https://www.google.com/search?q=diminished). A best friend is someone you have long calls with many times a week or so and discuss everything with including your personal life. It is foolishness if that kind of closeness is with a member of the opposite sex that is not your spouse after marriage. Unless you want to one day find yourself unknowingly raising your wife's best-friend's child, You would do well to establish such boundaries.
I strongly believe that in order for man and woman to be "best friends" or even friends, it means there is an element of attraction. It could be small, it could be one-sided, but it must be there. This is wisdom I am giving you.
I have girls who I chill with on that level, but I know this chilling would not be possible if they were not in a way attracted to me. Girls generally don't develop close friendships with guys they find repulsive Likewise guys! Very true. My future guy can’t have any female friends and I like it like that. Can’t be paranoid and worried for nothing. Not even worth it tbh. |
Romance › Re: Is It Normal For My Wife To Have A Male Best Friend? by Saff(f): 1:41pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
You can’t be really close to the opposite sex without having some kind of emotions involved. I don’t approve of it . I have guy friends but we’re not speaking everyday and every minute. It’s just weird to me. If you ask her to limit her communication with him and she doesn’t, you know where you stand. |
Crime › Re: Man Berated For Saying Single Ladies That Hate Going To The Market Are Shameless by Saff(f): 1:35pm On Jul 26, 2018 |
LuciferChristi: Stupid feminists.
They'll tell you its not their duty to do so but its a man's duty to give them money for shopping, wigs, phones, makeup & other meaningless objects that conceal their ugliness.
Lazy lot!
Their feminism is selective just like Saff/Safiaa. When its time to work, they claim gender equality & run away. When its time to eat, they tell you its a man's duty to do certain things.
Its old fashioned for a woman to be confined to taking care of the home like our mothers of old but it isn't old fashioned for a man to provide endless money for family upkeep like our fathers of old.
Bloody hypocrites! You and Geestring are obsessed  If you’re not the same person, continue  |
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo: 'Money Is Very Important In Marriage' by Saff(f): 8:33pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
zicoraads: But it shouldn't be. Sometimes when I see my two lil brothers, who are still dependant on handouts, engrossed on their tabs and phones. I'll be like, somewhere online, a certain Saff or Poco or Oyin etc. is busy arguing back and forth, and complaining how 'men' are this and that.  loool. I’m a changed woman  |
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo: 'Money Is Very Important In Marriage' by Saff(f): 8:20pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
Rooneyboy: Why are you tempting men with ur profile pic now. And if they toast you now you'll refuse.
Nawa O, women ! Na wa for women sha!! |
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo: 'Money Is Very Important In Marriage' by Saff(f): 7:57pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
Idrismusty97: It makes more sense for a man to say this than a woman. A man is more likely to work for his money than a woman. If a woman does nothing but cross legs waiting for a man to come feed and cloth her, if these same exact words comes out of her mouth then she is undoubtedly, undeniably a certified gold digger. Oh okay. Noted. |
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo: 'Money Is Very Important In Marriage' by Saff(f): 7:56pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
zicoraads: Comments from who?!
I've said this countless times. There exist a certain age grade of teenagers, or even those in their early 20s who spew a lot of bile and act in a certain manner online. Most of them are in Romance section. That you lot sometimes take that age grade as a representative of 'men' on Nairaland is always baffling.
Any man who doesn't know that finances are almost as important as the love two people profess is still not grown. Yeah that’s totally true. Reason why I totally try to avoid commenting in that section or reply to mentions as of lately. It’s hard not to think they’re the representation, when so many guys support them and like their comments. It’s a subconscious thing anyway... |
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo: 'Money Is Very Important In Marriage' by Saff(f): 7:09pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
zicoraads: Right. It's gradually moving up, up, up. Any chance it'll move higher anytime soon? 
You seem to be in so much love with your legs. They look lovely tbh.
And erm, most of us know the importance of money. The difference is, Timi didn't make it out as the only and most important thing. Ladies now make it the one and only thing. To a lot of them, it's only money that matters. Which is why we tag most of them gold diggers. lol thanks Oh I see. I still think if a woman said this in the same exact manner, the comments would be totally different. But hey, that’s just my opinion. |
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo: 'Money Is Very Important In Marriage' by Saff(f): 6:40pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
Before nko. But let a woman say this and shes tagged a golddigger. Smh |
Travel › Re: The Adventures Of A New UK Migrant by Saff(f): 5:10pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
UKmigrant: My oyinbo babe once asked me if I was planning to marry her to get papers like other Nigerians do. She said she watched a documentary about Nigerians in sham marriages for papers so they could stay here and work and after a few years, they left the country and abandon the woman taking all their money back to Nigeria. I just open mouth wide like I no even know how I go reply her.
The only thing I said was, I am here right now without being married to anyone and working legally, so why does she think I need to marry her to remain here. She said cos she doesn't want to be played. I reassured her that I am never gonna marry her! Case closed! hmmmm lol |
Celebrities › Re: Princess Shyngle Gets Death Threats For Shading Single Female Celebrities by Saff(f): 4:10pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
Offpoint: So it took seùn 8 years to actually remove zero from nairaland pagination number. He made me not to comment since morning, thinking I'm on 2nd page... not knowing there's been an update.
That BBQ guy on the top should be made mod, he spent more time on nairaland than all of the mod combined. BBQ biz no dey move again, na person wey chop belleful de demand for BBQ..... seün help his career abeg.
Besides! Seün you're too stingy, there are some Nairalanders you should paid for their contribution to this forum, people like Explorer. he add more value to this forum than most of your mods do. No insult intended to the mods before dem press CTR+Ban+2090 I noticed it too. We are happy that Seun is at least making some kind of progress. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido's Girlfriend Chioma Dumps School - Family Not Happy With Development by Saff(f): 2:00pm On Jul 25, 2018 |
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