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Ok, a serial abortinist is that 90% that was talked about in the other thread    but I get what you are saying about not knowing about the countless abortions unless one partook in them!  Tricky!

Do you really want me to answer you? I might have an answer for you but you may not like it-ooo!

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Sits back and gets a bowl of popcorn,

While I oil my lips so they don't crack from laughing, then I grab my beer to be still for what is about to come

[quote author=petebor02 link=topic=455467.msg6143303#msg6143303 date=1275562085][/quote]Now you are not making sense! And no the man was not old and he could make babies, he already had one when I met him! Let's not make baseless assumptions here!

petebor02:
the fact is that any lazy who had stay in a intimacy relationship up to 2 years and above must have aborted babies.simple

Totally untrue, I was once in a relationship for five years with a man and I never fell pregnant once because I made sure it did not happen, let's not act like preventing unwanted pregnancies is impossible, noted, sometimes medicines being taken can affect the strength of the pill, not sure about injection but that does not happen every day!

People are just reckless knowing they will make it all go away!

@ snowdrops, people will be cagey about this issue because it touches many raw nerves.    My issue is with people looking down upon unmarried mothers when many have had at least one abortion, the double-standards are just too great for one to ignore.  Having said that, we all have choices in life, to each his own but just because a woman does not have a living child does not mean she has never been pregnant before!

Bearing in mind that the serial "abortionist" might have damaged her uterus trying to maintain the "no child before marriage" rule, she may never be able to give you a child EVER! What then?

Abortion is definitely legal in most countries, that is great news because women now have a choice should they find themselves in a situation that requires termination of pregnancy for whatever reason, I am all for choice but what's got my head shaking is the hypocrisy, as one poster stated, a pastor taking his girlfriend to a clinic to abort. So the man of the cloth would rather have his girlfriend abort an unwanted pregnancy than be disgraced by having a child before marriage.

Contaceptives (many options are available yet people choose not to use these) are there to prevent unwanted pregnancies and I highly doubt that TOP was designed to be used in the same manner! Whatever makes one sleep better at night I guess, do you!

Evidently we are not reading the same posts lady. Clearly you missed the part where people talk about their girls being pregnant and a ton of people suggesting they abort the baby.

I NEVER said people SAID they would rather abort than use contraceptives but I said it SEEMS that is the case, what is your beef?

They way people talk about it!

Evidently some people would rather abort than use contaceptives, seems a child out of wedlock is more of a sin than than abortion! My conclusion since being on NL!

Never done it, prevention is better than cure I say!

Indeed life can be wicked madlady, I know all about it!

madlady:
I've never TRULY been in love so I can honestly say "I would never be blinded for love ".

Thought you were married madlady?  Or maybe it was someone else' post!

As for me, I will not be silly for love, will not allow myself get abused for love, I have seen things in my young life, che!

sting_224:
lol

Didn't lol at the joke, just smiled. There is a tiny pinch of funny in it.

It flew right over my head

He is ok (changed my mind after taking another look)

I agree with you also Travelista, that girl has no real friends, she caught my attention too, SMH at the madness, WHY oh WHY let someone out the house like that! 

Surely not all relationships will lead to marriage, and also people fall out of love, nothing wrong with that at all, it is life, it happens!

Evidently I have no funny bone in my body, I miss the other forum where one can just "report abuse" and the post magically disappears, like a thief in the night!  

MRbrownJAY:
^^^^^^^but what a contradiction. . . . . . how poor is a man who has to resort to enticing a mate with money to find happiness. . . . . . . . . . its a fake sense of happiness that will disappear as soon as the money does. this kind of man will always be alone (even if he is married to 20 gals).

Unfortunately there is a lot of that fake happiness going around, really sad!

No guy would disrespect me enough to raise a finger at me, so my mother is out of the question!

Nothing for me to think about there!

The words that stand out for me here are control and insecurity, wish life was a lot simpler than that but surely a woman who works and can hold the family together should the man fail to do so should be celebrated, men and their EGOS!

I am beginning to thing this has something to do with culture and/or upbringing! I could be wrong!

femmy2010:
Money money money ,without this a man is almost not a man in Nigeria.

That seems to be IT, also the men with the money seem to flaunt it as they know it will buy them the "love", I have seen girls dating men with tons of money but the men could have easily relocated from a nearby forest but of course the girls are only concerned about the depth of the pocket and the men know this!

I get you guys, in any relationship, gifts are welcome and helping each other out financially is fine or the more financially secure partner helping out is cool but BUYING the love SO, does the love go when the money goes?

Down here some Naija men joke about others only getting girlfriends when they arrive in SA because in Nigeria, no girl would even look in the direction of a broke/average man!

It seems the norm that most Naija guys expect to pay (monetery or with gifts) a girl to be their girlfriend, interesting, so if a guy has no money he can't get a girl?

@ topic,


I am myself on here, a superficial version though as things usually remain just that, never deep enough I say!

I am watching from the sidelines, WW3 is about to blow up, the insults are not necessary people, can't you get your point across without being "personal", anyway, I am out of here!