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Shelumiel:
It is best you catch her in the act. That way you are justified

emkz:
She is cheating albeit emotionally which is a precursor to physical cheating.

You cannot act based on the scanty information you currently have. Take her phone, dowload whatsapp web on your computer, scan her phone on it and monitor her chats in real time or back up her chats in dropbox every 30 seconds. Alternatively, pretend you are not suspecting her and live normally with her until the day she would be off her guard (like forgetting to delete the chat or introducing new unconventional sexual positions like reverse cowboy, reverse doggy, reverse well digger, head-over-heels, ladder, squat-and-kiss-while-bonking, etc).

Before a man can discuss phallus matters with a woman including that of her husband, he must have become too comfortable with her, either having been intimate with her or he has bonked her.

If you are suspecting she's cheating, she probably already is. Goodluck.

zaksman1960:
Please guys don't mind any mistake I will make .am not So good in writing

Have been married for two years now ,meet my wife through a friend .we got along and did married say one year after we meet.during our courtship I never for once had any reason to doubt her loyalty as everything was nearly perfect.as she told about her past life and relationship though not so good but not too bad either.
Before I forget to mention she was done with her OND at the time I meet her .and was eager to complete her HND this was not a problem for me as i was ready and capable of assisting her to complete the program.she have birth to our first child during her final year though not easy for her combining education with baby .but she was able to complete the program though with an extra semester. To cut the story short my people she was mobilized for NYSC for batch A 2020,though she could not complete the 3 weeks camp due to the Corona virus pandemic.as their camp was cut short .
before I forget I do have access to her phone as I know the password to it ..am not that kind of guy who possess trust issue beside I trusted her wholeheartedly so I had no reason to suspect her. most times I just check news on her phone and atymes play game ..
So I was push one day to check her whatapp .I observe a chat with a guy,her fellow corper the guy asking her how she copes with lockdown .how she is enjoying my di...k and if she does enjoy it ..I was shocked. For her to be chatting with a guy asking her such question .I didn't ask her about it I just ignore it. I began to follow up with her chat with this guy , I observe she does delete all her chat with this guy but as a fast guy atymes I manage to read her chat before she deletes them ..after that scene she was chatting the guy complaining that she does not see his calls ..the guy replied that it's because he knows am around because of lockdown that why he doesn't call. Then just yesterday night the guy was asking when she is coming over. though she slept off thats why she could not reply him .this morning I observed as usual the chat was deleted.

I need ur advice my people .sorry for the long write up. I have not confronted her yet cause am not sure if she is really cheating or about to.and also I think I don't have enough evidence too.

Why does she deletes her chat if nothing is fishing

FivePeas:
My dear. Go get yourself educated. With my newspaper I'm employing close to 20 persons and seeking to expand to 50, this feat can't be achieved by someone with average psyche, it's you who needs thorough orientation. Go get yourself properly educated before you engage in public discussions next time. Do something of value with your life



Don't bother replying.im done with you

FivePeas:
Go school yourself kid. I'm sure you didn't attain understanding from dreaming

ProfDview1:
God hep us ooo




I discover that most of igbo defenders here are not igbo... Their real mother is from borno, they were only sold to igbo family from birth


I wunt. Be surprised if their parent later confess to them that they are nt their biological parent

iCauseTrouble:
Same cannot be said of Kano. Their Governor is so clueless. He only knows how to put money in his babariga

NaijadrivaCars:
This fake JJ Okocha's "sister" sef de feel funky. Don't you know that they are entering Onitsha?


Did you take business studies or economics or even geography classes in school? You should know where the people will head to if you did.

Nwanyiogwashi:
Why can't this people still in Onitsha? Must they enter Asaba with this madness

Kizzygentle:
In dis life there is nothing like right or wrong to succeed. Just be in d game and follow d trend. Gone are d days u try to be honest. Even honest workers are been fired for been honest and they regret not been honest. God himself will understand. Its survival. The world has changed and we need to be updated with d changes.

Orubebe01:
Tell us how you got the job then I will tell you the salary scale

FivePeas:
Why not work on researching the information I gave to you first. FYI China has in recent times never increased its gold reserve and print currency at the same time. Go do your research.

Blazebond:
Most of the replies here about inflation ain't really right,world economics is ruining africa,China printed money,they are still printing money till today,infact China have refused to allow the yuan to rise to its real value (the Chinese yuan real value is as high as the u.s.a dollar currently)China is doin all these because they want their goods to be affordable around the world and that automatically makes goods of Europeans and Americans more expensive around the globe,Nigeria can print more naira to stabilize in critical times like these,we can print more money so as to boost our economy and enable the industrialization that we all yearn about,industrialization on a massive scale is the only way Nigeria can meet her dreams of exportation,you borrow a bit and you print a bit,the world ain't waiting for anybody,this wild goose dream of a dollar to match a naira that most of us yearn for is childish and stupid,the real secret is to toe the path of the crafty Chinese,allow your naira to trade at 100 to a dollar,but produce goods and provide services that will match the best of the best worldwide and see people flock to your goods and services,because yours would definitely be cheaper cause of your low cost of production,same quality but cheaper in prices,China is doing it is goods today and it is paying off for them,how did they start?they started by printing more of their currency in other to boost industrialization in their country.

FivePeas:
Before you try to act God on me go read up on China on its ascendancy path to second global financial power, when you find the truth yourself, your ignorance will have been cured



And before you mumble up grammar to try to look intelligent, please remind yourself what the underlying principle of cash flow loans is about



Good day

FivePeas:
China in the past decade printed lots of money and it didn't go the path of Zimbabwe. A country can print more money or inject more funds into its economy proportionately to its projected estimated economic value. I.e if a country can make one trillion in five years, it can have one trillion printed in the hope that it's economic potential over the time line matches the value of the printed money.

ImperialBlack:
I need urgent suggestions as to any online business that I can start with #5000 capital and can in the long run generate #15000-#20000 per month.

It shouldn't be too complex to grasp, and I should be able to easily monitor it's growth.

N. B
I'm not interested in any ponzi schemes or get rich quick schemes

Lalasticlala, iLegendd, mynd44

This could also be of help to other nairalanders

ImperialBlack:
I need urgent suggestions as to any online business that I can start with #5000 capital and can in the long run generate #15000-#20000 per month.

It shouldn't be too complex to grasp, and I should be able to easily monitor it's growth.

N. B
I'm not interested in any ponzi schemes or get rich quick schemes

Lalasticlala, iLegendd, mynd44

This could also be of help to other nairalanders

wristbangle:
You will know this week

princeSammyz:
By weekend, we will be well past 3000 cases. And that will still represent gross under reporting. I hope another comprehensive lockdown would become necessary just after lifting this one. Everyone please go out only if necessary. Stay safe

wristbangle:
This is not the time for government to ease the lockdown. Using developed countries as case study to resume work when the covid-19 test done so far is less than 1% of country's population will backfire and result to massacre.

Essential companies and few government parastatals ( higher level cadre) can resume while lower cadre employees & private firms should observe curfew.

Just this evening when I went out to get something at the junction. With the lockdown still ongoing, I saw danfo buses operating with passengers filled to brim in each buses. No social distancing, no use of nose cover, etc. The drivers&conductors look tattered as if they haven't had their bath for a year. Is this the kind of people that want to wash their hands regularly per trip?

Sanwo should note that greedy commuters and hasty passengers will not abide by the kitchen laws he dished.

infini771:
Kudos. Hope our grandchildren can offset all these loans you are using to do all these things.

2 Reduce the number of touts in our State, we're this is not Onitcha or Aba.

wman:
It's the same thing abroad too. Most of them marry within their social class and their race. You hardly see white girls from rich homes marry black men unless they are well-to-do.

stuffs4me:
True talk bro.. The OP is a gold digger and the lady's dad saw his conny tricks from a mile away. Ordinary factory worker with a diploma wants to marry a lady with B.Sc and masters that works in a big company in Lagos.

The OP should go and eat his mumu love.

BadLuckonmyGame:
your writing skill is so poor. I'm sure your spoken English is the same. I don't blame the parents. Your types are the ones giving OND and HND graduates problems.

BadLuckonmyGame:
your writing skill is so poor. I'm sure your spoken English is the same. I don't blame the parents. Your types are the ones giving OND and HND graduates problems.

Midex88:
Nairalanders. I hail o

landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.

We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful.

It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds.

After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.

After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.

Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.

12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder.

He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?

HarunaWest:
You know I didn't explicitly say they are bad to marry. I just said they don't really relate well with other tribes apart from there's. I once had a chick from there, even my uncle married from there,but divorced now, my friend married from there as well, the marriage lasted just 6 months. The family usually has a great influence over their female child. So it's like you married the while family. When the see you as an outsider, in a bid to protect their own, they start dishing out instructions to their daughter and before you know, the good girl don bad.

HarunaWest:
If you are not Idoma, don't even try to marry from that tribe then. They suit themselves better.
Then as for the eyes, it's hereditary, she will go blur later on and it might affect the kids as well. But there's always a way out. The surgery can slow down the process and she will live a normal life although she might use recommended glasses through out her life.

drizslim:
Discharging dem is not the best alternative, the case of Paulo dybala comes to mind. Pls this virus needs to be contained very well

EBMedia:
http://igberetvnews.com/1349661/breaking-abia-discharges-one-covid-19-patient/

xjiggy:
what do you think will follow after teachers resume? See as you're exposing your intellectual ineptitude.

Angelfrost:
Sigh... What are you saying sef??! Did you even read to comprehend??!

How does staying at home for weeks, and continuously, prevent the inevitable??!

No widespread testing and isolation is happening ever!!! How hard is that for you to comprehend??!...

The state citizens have basically isolated themselves for over 2 weeks with no symptoms, hospitalizations, deaths, etc... And no new entry into the state... Is it not fair or commonsense that they reopen for business while keeping others out??!...

Bro, lack of testing and isolation makes lock down and crippling of economic activities for weeks on end very stupid and pointless!!! Please, ask around!!!