Kingpin1000: Why did you marry at the first place? Compare when you were a bachelor and now. The stress in relationship is too much. Talk more of having a bad day at work only to come home and meet someone frowning her face. I no fit marry abeg
desiredmee: It was a win win situation, without Obaseki PDP won't be the rulling party In Edo state today, Obaseki saw an opportunity same as PDP. Now the real issue is why would the PDP not want to integrate the people that came to the party with Obaseki into PDP. What Wike is doing now is trying to paint Obaseki a betrayer, in all he has said not once has he said the exact thing happening. Try and watch the video where the deputy of governor of Edo state addressed this issue. That you gave your platform for someone to become a governor does not mean you will be the one dictating for him. Wike should take a chill pill, we the Edolites are solidly behind our stand fit governor Obaseki. Just like Edo no be Lagos same way e no ne Rivers.
juman: On this issue the gov. behaving like the west reacting to russia. He refuse to address the concern of obaseki and his followers. They are saying they are marginalized in pdp. But instead wike abusing them. That is not good enough.
Hope the pdp national leaders take note of what obaseki and his followers are complain about.
marginalised in what regards? That they did not give him ticket to contest as governor? What does he want as a governor? What has he contributed to the party since he came to PDP as a governor? Do you know what PDP did for him? We had a PDP candidate in that state but since APC denied him ticket, every other men stood down for him.... Is that not enough for him and his deputy? You don't become a strong party man by creating issues but rather by solving issues
novia22: My dear....I just tire.... The way this generation lack common sense eeeh... Even the friend that came to defend it on social media too has an empty brain..... God bless you... But I believe they have learnt some lessons today... They can wear it to their outings o... But when it has to do with corporate job you must look corporate and leg chain, tattoos and co are not corporate
Bigredmachine: What has a leg chain got to do with the job, was the question... Now the answer is... What is the work of the leg chain on the leg...
I have come to a conclusion that many people don't have any tangible reasons as to why they do some certain things in this life, because u see other people do it, u too just want to do it...
If for example my friend who is a musician tints his hair, pierce his ear and draws tattoo on his body (just to promote his hustle) and because it looks good on him, then me an aspiring banker or a medical doctor should i now go and do same, just because it looks good... Anyway I digress
This empty skull headed girl, would see it as normal and something accepted by the general public...
Am happy she did not get the Job... Cause her appearance has already showed she's irresponsible...
I agree with you.... They will always tell you to dress corporate and I'm not sure leg chain is part of corporate.... When they turn down people tieing wrapper to interview this set of leg chain humans will not cry foul
Malory: Emperor Wike. Imagine this tyrant as the president. God forbid
you need a president that your community people will keep on kidnapping and killing all in the name of bandit and bokoharam.... God will bring a man like Wike who don't take shit
MamiTer: Hello good people of nairaland, I have a pressing issue and I really need your help.
A couple of years back I broke up with my boyfriend whom I really loved due to distance barriers. Getting over him was difficult for me so I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.
I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.
The relationship was far from perfect, I was in it solely for what I benefited but we weren't compatible and it was from one issue to another. We were always at logger heads all the time. He insults me and my family at any given opportunity and talks down on me using secrets I shared with him as leverage each time we quarrel. He shredded my self-esteem.
He was insecure and attacked my male friends at any given opportunity including my lecturers, he would access my social media accounts and send derogatory message to any male contact he feels is making a pass at me. All these attitudes made me fed up with him and I decided to breakup for good.
Early this year I met a guy online and somehow we vibed together quickly, we met physically for the first time and it felt like we've known for ages. Everything moved so quickly with this new guy that I started developing serious feelings for him. I was scared because I never knew I would feel something like that again after I broke up with my other ex.
This new guy makes me happy and treats me like a woman, anytime spent with him is always memorable and I don't feel like leaving. The chemistry that we share is super strong and everything seems so perfect.
Now to my issue, this new guy is a fresh graduate and not yet stable, I don't have issues with his financial status because he made me realize a Lady can actually be happy without money being thrown at her. But I'm still scared of going all full into the relationship he might go for service and never come back to me. I don't just want a repeat of my previous relationship that got shattered after my ex relocated.
On the other hand, the other guy is hell bent on getting me back, he's been pleading and sending people to beg me even though I told him I've moved on and has even had sex with the new guy but he still wants me back.
I'm confused and don't know what to do, my heart is with the new guy but the other guy is making things so difficult for me and almost driving me insane. Can I still grow to love him?? Though I've been unable to after almost a year.
Should move on with the new guy?? I've known him for barely two months but it seems I've known him for ages, my feelings are exploding and I can hardly control them which is making me scared.
I'm sorry for the long epistle but I had to let it all out. Please advice me.
while you are pursuing fantasies also think about your future... Love is not all that matters... There are other things... Age is also a factor... If the age favours you then you can play along... But you need to select a guy that you both can take care of each other financially and moves ahead to get settled.... That's the main essence of relationship if I may say.
I refuse to read this news to the end because it does not add up.... Why ASUU? There is no way ASUU could be the cause of this. Someone just killed the guy and write down the note.... Let's compare his handwriting with that of the note then you will know the truth... Nonsense!
janedonez: It is purely for ASUU, when ever government calls for negotiations, they should tell them to check their last negotiations and abide by the agreement. What are they going to the meeting to do?
did you read the news at all? Because ASUU just said what you are saying now in the news... They said they won't renegotiate,that government should refer to their last negotiation
Wisesaying001: Have you thought of discussing it with her?
there is nothing to discuss here... Posting people should be entirely optional... I never posted my girlfriend now my wife but she use to post me anytime she feels like... But that didn't mean that I did not love her.... I'm not just a posting type.... Let him give freedom to the girl
Pasima: I told my girlfriend to post my pics on her Whatsapp profile and she refused to do so, but I post hers telling the world how proud I am to have her.
I was very angry I want to end the Relationship. You see all this Catholics girls na now I fear them wella. Full of games and cheating.
you did not do well... She can still post you on her status yet have no feelings for you.... Do your thing and allow a woman to do her things willingly. When you posted her you did that willingly... She did not compel you to do it... There are things she might be doing in your favour with out you knowing.... So whatever you can do, do it... Don't ask her to do same
naija4life247: This guy can do anything. The boss is prepared for the worst.
Putin is ready for heaven to fall. He is an ex KGB, not a comedian like Ukraine clown and soon to be former president. He has planned this over the years. He is prepared to take the world including China if China decides to die with the enemies in the West including US, whole of Europe, Canada, Australia. Putin is ready to end the world, after all everything that has a beginning must surely has an end.
If Europe and US continue their nonsense, we will all wake up one day in Hell Fire because Putin will nuke all of us.
and you believe that the earth God Almighty created can be destroyed by a mere human? Wait and see how he will disperse the missiles and they will drop like stone without any action
Omooba77: Governor Nasir El-Rufai of Kaduna State has disclosed that the state government knows the location of the bandits terrorising the state.
Speaking Thursday at a news briefing at the State House, Abuja, El-Rufai stated that where the terrorists operate from in the state and their telephone numbers are well known to government.
He, however, stressed that the state government was handicapped to confront the terrorists.
According to him, “The state government cannot face the terrorists. We need the support of the military to do that.”
The governor added that the military must be ready to completely wipe out the criminals terrorising not only Kaduna but most states in the North-west zone.
His words: “There must be sincerity of purpose for the security challenges facing the North-west to be solved. The military and security agencies should be ready to work together to completely wipe out the terrorists once and for all.”
this man is trying to tell is something... He is just being diplomatic so that they will not fall on him... There is a military sabotage from the top... That's why the military is not functioning in fighting this terrorist...
dailybuzzng: Dame Amaechi, Mike Ozekhome, Prof. Ado Tenebe, Ini Ememobong, Others Win Big At Stakeholders Summit On Social Justice.
.... _Addresses issues of inequality, human right, Youth Participation in Politics_
Wife of the Minister for Transportation and former First Lady of Rivers State, Dame Judith Chibuike Amaechi, renowned legal practitioner and human rights lawyer, Chief Mike Ozekhome SAN and other eminent Nigerians have been honoured with awards of excellence at the just concluded stakeholders summit on social justice in Abuja.
The event organised by Drum Majors For Peace in partnership with Earthspring International was part of activities to mark the 2022 World Day of Justice.
The summit which brought together leaders of thought, politicians, law enforcement agencies, civil society organisations, Non Governmental Organisations, faith-based organisations (FBOs) and the media seeks to promote advocacy for culture of human rights tolerance and responsible freedom in the society.
Panelists also highlighted some of the most critical social justice issues in the society with a call on everyone to stand up and contribute a part in changing the social justice narrative in society and the world at large.
Speaking at the event at Sheraton Hotels Abuja, the Executive Director, Drum Majors for Peace, Amb. Nsikan Paul noted that the summit is a veritable platform to galvanize support for the promotion of sustainable development goals (SDGs) especially goal 16 (Peace, Justice and Strong Institutions).
According to Paul, it is one of the platforms to mobilise stakeholders for policy formulation that addresses various issues of inequality, poverty, human right abuses, professionalism and adherence to rule of law and gender balancing in governance, amongst others.
He appealed to stakeholders to do more in complementing the efforts of Government and other relevant agencies in promoting social justice.
Amb. Paul also remarked that the summit which was held along with award ceremony seeks to recognize selfless service among Nigerians especially in promotion of social justice as well as encouraging those who have raised the bar of social justice, women and youth participation in politics, good governance and inclusiveness.
He said the awardees were carefully selected based on merit and their outstanding record of service to the nation.
In her remarks, one of the awardees and special guest, Dame Judith Chibuike Amaechi expressed gratitude to the organisers of the event which she said is a robust avenue to sensitise the general public on the need to speak up and speak out against injustices.
According to the Rivers former First Lady, the summit creates room for the continuous social engagement with the Social Justice gate-keepers to make the society more liveable.
Dame Judith Amaechi who bagged Peace and Humanitarian Service award expressed gratitude that her modest contributions to raise the bar of inclusiveness, improved living standard and welfare of the girl child is being acknowledged.
In his remarks Rev. Joseph Hayab said "We at Global Peace Foundation Nigeria preach that all humans are members of One Family Under God therefore our message is a call to Social justice where everyone deserves equal economic, political, and social rights and opportunities as members of the family, community, state, and the nation at large.
We must see and treat each other as one and equal.
We encourage our Youths to respect those who are their seniors and also those who are holding any office of responsibility but we must acknowledge that everyone whether he or she is big it small, male or female, black or white is special, unique, and important in building a peaceful and sustainable society. His rights and privileges should be given to him."
Chief Mike Ozekhome SAN bagged Voice of Social Justice award
Others who were honoured include Dr. Abdulrazaq Abubakar Garba who bagged Excellent Leadership Award, Hon. Isaac David GCO, (Sarkin Samaritan Abuja), Okokoro Ejiro-oghene as Queen of Peace International, Dr. Sulaiman Adejoh, the National President Messengers of Peace, ACG Abubakar Mohammed Gombe as Icon Of Peace And Excellent Leadership and Hon. Iyom Nikky Ejezie as Peace and Humanitarian Service Awardee.
Others awardees include, for Excellent Leadership, Dr. Tommy Etim Okon for Peace and Humanitarian Service, HRM Dr. Amb. Halimat Adenike Tejuosho, for Humanitarian Service, Alex Nwankwo (AlexReports) PR Expert / Media Consultant for Youth prize for peace and social cohesion, Comrade Christopher Udoh for Youth Prize For Excellent Leadership and Dr. Chris Oko Odey for Peace Service Award.
Also in the list of those honoured include, Amb. Okama Ekpe Brook, Founder & President ACHA and REV. JOHN Joseph Hayab, President, Global Peace Foundation.
The summit was well attended by dignitaries from various works of life including The Honourable Commissioner Federal Character Commission Representing Akwa Ibom State, Obongawan Dorah Ebong, The High Commissioner/Ambassador to Jamaica, Belize, Dominica Republic & Haiti Her Excellency Maureen P. Tamuno Ph.D
Members of the panel at the social justice summit include, High Chief Peter Ameh, the National Secretary, Coalition of United Political Parties CUPP, Amb. Austin Peacemaker, ECOWAS Youth Ambassador and COMR. Solomon Adodo, the President, National Youth Council of Nigeria.
Other panelists include, activist Amina Elias Danjuma, Comrade (Barr.) Ini Ememobong, the Commissioner For Information and Strategy, Akwa Ibom State, David Agu Esq., Partner Ojoge, Omileye & Partners, Michael Edem-Duke, President, Citizen Journalists Network (CJN) and Dr. Henry Debem, President/Founder, The G-ROLE AFRICA.
I work in a very reputable company and my salary is good at my age, I spent money alot on unnecessary things. A friend of mine always advice me to save because things might not be keep rossy like this in future which I don't pray for . So I think it's best for me to have a reserve because of raining days.
I always wish to have discipline account Which I will find it difficult to touch no matter the challenges, but all my calculations is not working, am not lucky when it come to all this akawo or Ajo ( daily contribution or cooperative savings), most of them always get issues when it come to my turn to collect. .
I don't know if it's village people or luck. This has make me lose money in all this Ponzi scheme, MBA etc.
There some insurance agent that do come to my office and introduce thier savings scheme which I love thier benefits ( Tax rebate and life cover. I will not die now in Jesus name) but what people say about getting money when it come to maturity do scared me. A friend of mine lose over 6M in cash craft ( they are not insurance ).
I have several bank account, I know savings in bank is good but I can always terminate my contract whenever I need money they because they don't have charges.
So all this has been given me serious issue and I want to start saving this year.
Can I pick savings plan with insurance or I should just go to the bank? go to prudential zenith in zenith bank and save your money... You can save monthly, quarterly,or yearly. It works on direct debit where your account can be debited without you going to the bank to make payment...
Astoria: Ask yourself this very interesting question: How many folks had received insurance payouts from the First-Party Insurance, let's not even go to the distant Third-Party Insurance. Like you rightly said, most of us do these processes to avoid wahala from law enforcement. In the overall, making insurance claims in nigeria can generally be frustrating.
sinistermind: Insurance can actually pay of third party. Insurance in Nigeria over the years have greatly improved and not what it used to be. So who ever is calling third party insurance “Police let me pass” is very wrong. As long as you pay a premium, the insurance company must pay third party claims
some of them goes to secretariat to buy third party just to pass police.... Those ones do not have cover and I guess that's the one they are referring to
Politics › Re: Atiku: Why I Didn’t Pick Tinubu As Running Mate In 2007 by saintnegroid(m): 2:47pm On Mar 16, 2022
