₦airaland Forum

Jennyclay:
So a wife/girlfriend should be paying her man monthly What kind of nonsense talk is that Between daddy freeze and Reno I don’t know who’s more foolish

Ladies shouldn’t settle down for broke poverty stricken men either

If you’re a poor foolish broke man and you approach me, I would not only say capital No, I will also abuse you too. Nonsense!!

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear!!

You seriously need help, you're a bitter soul.

If she finally get her money, omo na 100% interest be that

Ballzproblem2:
charity begins at home,feed your people first

Family problem no dey finish

Kajaard:
You did not apply emotional intelligence at all.

Yes, you should have collected the bread.

Most African parents/ In laws et al might think you are disrespectful by rejecting their gift.

This is not the western world. You should have collected the bread no matter how local or little it looks. Cheers.

Person wey carry biscuit go in-law house dey reject bread

Na cruise, how company go pay portable money to charles when they fit forward am directly to am, besides na which brand sef wey dey wan promote.

Ayodeoba:
do you know Lebanon is a sovereign country and if Israel attack them, it’s calling for war

Do you also know Lebanon fired several missiles into Israel recently?

Islie:
Niger governor demands 13% derivation from oil revenue; threatens to shut down Kainji Dam, other national power infrastructure

“We demand compensation for our people. Everything, every resource that comes from Niger state, must be compensated."



SOURCE

They for kuku ask for 13% from the IGR of countries Nigeria supplies electricity to. Rubbish

4tomandchi:
Whenever there’s war women and children suffer the most. What we need in the world is peace.

God please heal the world.

So men don't lost their lives during war?

MS2471:



Hamas and Netayahun playing with lives of women and children



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So the life of men are not important, everything women and children. Mtcheeeeeeew

Kobojunkie:
You didn't even bother to read through the story at all yet you are set strongly against the way she responded to him? Go dey argue with yourself for one corner there abeg!

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Magnoliaa:
Great, then keep quiet if you don't know the whole story. Or why are you suggesting that she shouldn't have left him with nothing to fall back on?

When they were together, did he have anything? If she had died in that marriage, who will you be preaching to to be wise?

You don't know the whole story but you're judging her action.



This is literally the other side of the issue! We've heard from both sides.

Man: My wife has filed to have me deported back to Nigeria. She collected my kids from me. She left me stranded at the airport. I need a job. Help me, please.

People: Women are w.ic.ked. Women are evil. That's how they become demons in obodo oyinbo. Because they want to be free, they'll treat a good man bad! Fear them!

Woman comes out to clarify: That's not what happened. I was abused. He couldn't hold a job. He beat my kids and kept them away from me. He didn't send me to the UK. He wants to blackmail me.

People again: Ummmmm, I'll wait to hear from the other side of the story. They just want to demonise the man sfkofedcjuiknffdfsvdjjgddh.


The man literally came to share his story first! He had the chance and the attention of the public! Everyone was on his side.

When he came to demonise the woman, and people piled on her----were they present?! Did anybody give her the benefit of doubt? If she had formed a "mature silent woman" that is how the public opinion against her would have remained damaged, and everyone will be using it as an argument point. Same with the Hakimi case till this day.

And mind you, the man and his relatives have kept quiet. The friend of the man who came to share the story posted another screenshot from him, he said he wasn't going to say anything anymore after seeing the push back of evidence from the wife and her friends. You think an innocent person would not have come out to defend themself since?



He should start up life from there so he can continue to pummel and leech off her 👍.

I'm 100% entitled to my opinion, there's nothing bad if you make your point without adding insult.

Kobojunkie:
You are being dishonest here. The man had no problem seeing her, his wife, in severe pain while he was punching and dragging her by the hair. The sake of the children was not on his mind all that while. But you feel she should not want to see him go through pain?

He calls to demand money for beer and peppersoup from her, how does that even sound, take note if he ever called to demand money for beer and peppersoup then they were in good terms. I believe he may have done something that provoke her, but not to the extent which she wants people to believe. Just a little kindness is what i was expecting from her.

Magnoliaa:
What choice does she fùcking have??

He held her kids to a ransom! A father used his own children to blackmail his wife. He told her to bring him abroad as well, as her dependent if she wanted to see her kids.


He would never release the children to her or make her see them.


The lady went to the UK with the help of her own family and friends.

Who cares if he doesn't have anything to fall back on? Is that her problem? So she should bring him abroad to be living with and in danger of him again? After escaping him for Naija?

When we give opinion in an issue we're not 100% sure of we should try not to act as if we were present when the whole thing started. Always balance your statement, don't be one sided until you here from both sides, also everything might be true but can also be exaggerated to paint him more evil. For me i don't really care if they divorce or not, but at least he should start up life from there, just that grace from his wife.

Kobojunkie:
Why is it her problem to deal with?

Welcome him so he can continue bashing part II and maybe live off of her in the UK as well.

I also started "tell him about the law" if he raises his hands on her she'll file for his deportation immediately. Gee as much as i don't want anything to do with my ex, she also deserves a better life. Is there any need seeing your once lover in pains, the deed has been done it's for she to show that she's human. If not for anything just for the sake of their children.

From what i read, the man is wrong but the lady went too far. What if he doesn't have anything to fall back to when he's deported, he may never have the chance to meet his children again. At least welcome him, tell him you don't want to continue with the marriage anymore, give him time to get a job and move to another apartment, allow him access to his children anytime he wants, they can also coparent their children and also tell him about the law if he's not ok with it.

yarimo:
are they not human beings like the NLC president?

Have you ever been beaten by taskforce over nothing, just because they want you to pay them. If you've never been humiliated before, you'll not understand the feelings.

georgeakins:
Ibos are barbarians. They still eat human flesh till today

The topic is not about eating humans, much as i know no tribe be saint, some tribe dey move around with matchet and dagger they first read something before they kill, some dey famous as skull miners here on nairaland, some dey famous for yahoo ritual killing, my place dey famous for cultism killing. But trust me people commiting such are not up to 3% in those places. No be everything una go turn to tribal war

yarimo:
And 2 brothers were burnt alive in Anambra state, you and obi didn't come out to say anything . Fake love everywhere

If taskforce never disturb you before, you no go understand talk more of the fake ones. I'm not in support of jungle justice but there should be purnishment for those criminals.

Hezzyluv:
At this point, it looks like even Tinubu is scared of Wike.

Tinubu is not scared of Wike, Tinubu needs wike for 2027 election rigging. Fubara is likely fighting Tinubu and Wike so it's quite impossible for him to win and anything that makes him win this fight wike is dead politically. E no get anything called structure again

Kushites:
You mean Palestinians?

You should say “innocent Palestinian civilians of whom 8,400 have been killed so far by Israeli bombs, including 3,500 children and babies”.

Don’t just say “Hamas” to ease your conscience.

What about innocent Israelites that has been killed and kidnapped?
Who started the war?
Yemen declared war with Israel yesterday, they shoot lots of rockets to Israel and everyone where busy praising them, when Israel starts retaliating no one should shout "justice for Yemen" "free Yemen" "war crime against Yemen" because this was how Hamas started war with Israel.

Tallesty1:
Just 7 months and he proudly calls her My Lady

You dey call 7 months just? As much as they agree to but in a relationship, it doesn't matter how long they've been together

I know the kind of insults i receive just because i say naira marley dey innocent

richeeyo:
The Question should be, Does Obi really think he won the election, with their violent attitude towards every other tribe during the election.

Obi is not the only one in court

Khd95:
Na everybody Dey steal your song, Ehn blackface

Remain Youngee duu and deeman to steal your song

If you watching the podcast "honest bunch" you'll be convinced.

Amigoss:
Kazakhstan about to be called islamophobes

Northern Nigerians about to protest on hearing this news

Muric about to summon the Kazakhstan ambassador to Nigeria

All this I have seen

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Those people no dey ever get sense

Kobicove:
Why embarrass the girl because of ordinary cucumber?

The girl fit buy am without nonsense intension of her mum corrupt mind

Oga say him don forgive, then why you dey bother yourself? My own contribution be say no repeat such mistake again

Make una see country wey dey support Hamas

I like them

Raskimonojendor:
Mr Ibu is a Zombi-dient. He should tell Peter Obi, the principal of the Zombi-diots, to dash him just 5million naira out of the billions of naira Mumu Zombi-dients/Zombi-diots contributed for his campaign..Mr Ibu was one of those that helped canvass for votes for the agulu loser.

Reno is right on this. You don't like this, the lagoon is available for you to jump into

Is it everything that you guys should involve politics, during Endsars Nigerians were one, mohbad's death Nigerians were one why should there be division on something serious like this? If you're an ordinary citizen like me, please do away with tribalism, politicians always looking for a way to create division among us.

ubest1:
Nigeria gov please if you want to build stadium build something better than Uyo stadium not wasting state fund building secondary school play ground & call it stadium, Nigeria is a big name in Africa

This one na campaign ground

God1000:
It appears he didn't love his son much, his actions so far is a testament to that.

You get problem