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Christianity EtcRe: The Ignorance Of Generational Curse & How It Is Affecting My Marriage by Samuelgr8(op): 10:26am On May 05, 2018
Sorry ma, you know the reason why and i tut you should be your brothers keeper. Anyway, am hoping that soon my stories will be going to the front page when i meet up with Seun condition and you will see less of the stories here.
Itzonlyme:
Why diverting the story to a blog? Looking for traffic? Oh just wasted my mb cry[color=#550000][/color]
Christianity EtcThe Ignorance Of Generational Curse & How It Is Affecting My Marriage by Samuelgr8(op): 9:42am On May 05, 2018
The story below is generating serious controversy. I want to here your sincere opinion as Christians


Dear Jzhane,

How are you. Congratulations on your blog,I would say you have done very well. My wife sends her regards. Yes,my wife.haha…me and Ese got married last month and we thank God for this. You have my permission to post our story because we want to expose what is going on and hopefully help put an end to the stigma that is going on in our society.

Ese and I went to the same primary school in Warri. She was a very pretty and intelligent girl. But I was a very timid little boy so I never had the courage to talk to her. But as a little boy,I used to imagine that she was my girlfriend: she was my crush. As fate would have it,we ran into each other several years later. This time,I had become a very successful surgeon in the United States. I met Ese during a party thrown by a mutual Nigerian friend.I didnt waste my time to shoot my shot. Luckily for me,Ese was single. We dated for almost a year before I asked her to marry me. I must say,I am the luckiest man alive to be with such a smart lady as Ese.

So what is the problem you may ask? When I informed my people that I was going to get married to Ese,they told me they would look into her family background to ensure that she was from a well brought up home. They came back to say that I could not marry Ese cos they found out that something is wrong with the men that get married into that family. From their research,Ese’s grandfather died of mental illness,her Uncle ran mad and stripped in the market while Ese’s own father also died of a strange illness,hence the family is cursed. They rumored that all the men in that family always end up with one type of sickness or the other or even end up dead mysteriously.

With this discovery,my family insisted that I could not get married to Ese. Well,I didnt listen to them. I am a christian,even if I am not a serious one. I do not in any way believe that Ese’s lineage is cursed. Even Ese is a better christian than I am. In as much as it was sad,I and Ese visited her parents and did our traditional marriage rites in February. None of my family members attended the ceremony. Only my elder sister who lives in Canada attended our wedding in the US. Even as educated as my elder sister is,she is a Lawyer practicing in Canada.
RomanceRe: The Ignorance Of Generational Curse & How It Is Affecting My Marriage by Samuelgr8: 9:39am On May 05, 2018
The issue of generational curse has to do with individual believe. It exist no doubt, but it up to you to allow it work in your life or not. I met someone who said no one in his entire family has ever graduated from university becos of generational curse. truth be told this guy dropped when we where in 200L, when i was in 400L he gained another admission and as i type he has long dropped out and till date he is yet to go back, i have graduated for over 7 years now. This guy in quested is a believer. I also have similar issue but a different scenario, but i stood my ground to the glory of God. That's why i said it depend on what we allow as believers
FamilyRe: They Say My Marriage Is Doomed With Generational Curse! by Samuelgr8(op): 11:16pm On May 04, 2018
no body is a loser except they choose to
forreelinc:
grin loser
RomanceRe: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Samuelgr8: 11:13pm On May 04, 2018
shocked shocked shocked
Kumar4india:
wat if the counsel doesnt go well?
RomanceRe: To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Samuelgr8(op): 6:39pm On May 04, 2018
Gbam!!!
Kumar4india:
My advice is if you cant sort it out now, quit the relationship.
FamilyRe: Should I Confront Her? by Samuelgr8(op): 6:38pm On May 04, 2018
www.livelystones.com.ng
ayesco202:
Abeg, who knows how and where I can get my PVC registration done?
FamilyRe: They Say My Marriage Is Doomed With Generational Curse! by Samuelgr8(op): 6:37pm On May 04, 2018
cool cool cool
forreelinc:
grin loser
FamilyThey Say My Marriage Is Doomed With Generational Curse! by Samuelgr8(op):
Dear Jzhane,

How are you. Congratulations on your blog,I would say you have done very well. My wife sends her regards. Yes,my wife.haha…me and Ese got married last month and we thank God for this. You have my permission to post our story because we want to expose what is going on and hopefully help put an end to the stigma that is going on in our society.

Ese and I went to the same primary school in Warri. She was a very pretty and intelligent girl. But I was a very timid little boy so I never had the courage to talk to her. But as a little boy,I used to imagine that she was my girlfriend: she was my crush. As fate would have it,we ran into each other several years later. This time,I had become a very successful surgeon in the United States. I met Ese during a party thrown by a mutual Nigerian friend.I didnt waste my time to shoot my shot. Luckily for me,Ese was single. We dated for almost a year before I asked her to marry me. I must say,I am the luckiest man alive to be with such a smart lady as Ese.

So what is the problem you may ask? When I informed my people that I was going to get married to Ese,they told me they would look into her family background to ensure that she was from a well brought up home. They came back to say that I could not marry Ese cos they found out that something is wrong with the men that get married into that family. From their research,Ese’s grandfather died of mental illness,her Uncle ran mad and stripped in the market while Ese’s own father also died of a strange illness,hence the family is cursed. They rumored that all the men in that family always end up with one type of sickness or the other or even end up dead mysteriously.

With this discovery,my family insisted that I could not get married to Ese. Well,I didnt listen to them. I am a christian,even if I am not a serious one. I do not in any way believe that Ese’s lineage is cursed. Even Ese is a better christian than I am. In as much as it was sad,I and Ese visited her parents and did our traditional marriage rites in February. None of my family members attended the ceremony. Only my elder sister who lives in Canada attended our wedding in the US. Even as educated as my elder sister is,she is a Lawyer practicing in Canada. She also advised me that I should.....Read full story from the blog:


Note: kindly leave your constructive comments on the blog because the sender may not see it here.https://livelystones.com.ng/the-ignorance-of-generational-curse-how-it-is-affecting-my-marriage/
FamilyRe: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Samuelgr8: 4:44pm On May 04, 2018
grin grin grin
enoqueen:
U for finish the story sha. Cos he sweet....
CrimeRe: Angry Neighbors Invade Woman's House Over Housemaid Brutality. Photos by Samuelgr8: 4:38pm On May 04, 2018
True talk@Evablizin.I dont really know what they want to achieve having children like rabbits. Someone asked me if i wasnt going to have a second child. I said credit my account with N10million only
Evablizin:
shocked


I hope the gave the bitter woman thorough beating,like breaking her head too.

People should stop bringing kids that they can't care for in this wicked world.
RomanceRe: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Samuelgr8: 9:29am On May 04, 2018
yes the Pastor will give the right counsel
MetaPhysical:
Ahhh, pastor ke? shocked shocked
RomanceRe: Should I Confront Her? by Samuelgr8(op): 9:27am On May 04, 2018
Am coming
mikejj:
cheesy grin folo which link..if u no complete the story here suuu.
RomanceRe: My Fiancee & Her Ex :is This Naive Or Playing Me For A Fool? by Samuelgr8(op): 8:04pm On May 03, 2018
Weldone
yeyerolling:
Linus blogger
FamilyShould I Confront Her? by Samuelgr8(op): 7:55pm On May 03, 2018
Dear Lively Stones,

My wife and I belong to our estate whatsapp group. Recently, I needed to use her her phone as I was out of credit. Please note that I have never used her phone for anything significant before. We have been married for almost 6 years and there has never been a reason to snoop on each others phone. Occasionally we check each others phone… Maybe my wife needs to use my data or anything like that…. But never ever have we had a reason to suspect each other….so this fateful day, as I tried to use my wife phone to call… I noticed it she didn’t have enough credit as well. That’s how I ended up deciding to use whatspp call… She had data so I could use her data for whatsapp call.
After making the whatsapp call,i saw that she had some unread messages. Out of curiosity I opened a whatsapp message,it was from a man asking her to send a video of her twerking for him. I was a bit surprised…. I began to scroll to previous messages… That’s when I discovered that this man and my wife have been talking for some time now… I scrolled further and found out that,this same man has.....Read full story from:


https://livelystones.com.ng/should-i-confront-her/
RomanceShould I Confront Her? by Samuelgr8(op): 7:22pm On May 03, 2018
Dear Lively Stones,

My wife and I belong to our estate whatsapp group. Recently, I needed to use her her phone as I was out of credit. Please note that I have never used her phone for anything significant before. We have been married for almost 6 years and there has never been a reason to snoop on each others phone. Occasionally we check each others phone… Maybe my wife needs to use my data or anything like that…. But never ever have we had a reason to suspect each other….so this fateful day, as I tried to use my wife phone to call… I noticed it she didn’t have enough credit as well. That’s how I ended up deciding to use whatspp call… She had data so I could use her data for whatsapp call.
After making the whatsapp call,i saw that she had some unread messages. Out of curiosity I opened a whatsapp message,it was from a man asking her to send a video of her twerking for him. I was a bit surprised…. I began to scroll to previous messages… That’s when I discovered that this man and my wife have been talking for some time now… I scrolled further and found out that,this same man has.....Read full story from:


https://livelystones.com.ng/should-i-confront-her/
FamilyRe: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Samuelgr8: 7:31am On May 03, 2018
definitely! when he had her, he didnt see her value to the point of granting ur friends permission to go after her. Apparently his friend has been eyeing her knowing her worlth.
internationalman:
Whether it's over your dead body or over your live body..

Losing her is losing her
RomanceRe: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Samuelgr8: 7:28am On May 03, 2018
b4 nko? na native doctor u want make them ask her to see
MetaPhysical:
Ahhh, pastor ke? shocked shocked
RomanceRe: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Samuelgr8: 10:28pm On May 02, 2018
grin grin
PureWaterNylon:
huh


Whoever You Are. I Just Want You To Know That, you Dont Have Sense...
RomanceRe: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Samuelgr8: 1:25pm On May 02, 2018
He just realized he had pride like most people and want to make amend. Biko temper justice with mercy my sister
Nkepris:
Pls leave her alone!!
RomanceI Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Samuelgr8(op): 9:55am On May 02, 2018
Good day LS,

My ex wife and I have been divorced for two years now. I cheated on her and our marriage never recovered from that. We tried to make things work but we just felt so hurt and broken after that. Now,when I look at the past,I think apart from the cheating,I didnt help matters much. This is because,I didnt work hard enough to make my marriage work. My wife asked me to attend a counseling session with her but I refused. I was too proud. I didnt want anyone coming into our private life and telling me what to do. I was also angry when my wife served me the divorce papers six months after that. I felt like I could do without her so in my pride,I signed it and before I knew it,the divorce was completed.

Its been two years after that and if I am sincere,I have not really moved on. I still think about her alot. My heart breaks too every time I go and visit my sons. They are 3 and 5. They always want us to get back together. Instead of me to try and work things out,I started dating other women immediately. I thought that would make my wife jealous. A year after,she started seeing an old friend of mine who we lost touch with. Greg and I were friends until he relocated to Canada. He and my wife connected on facebook and started to date. Well,my wife actually told me but I pretended like I didnt care. They have been seeing each other mostly online but he visits Nigeria to see her every three months.

Seeing my ex wife happy and how my old friend makes her happy makes me feel so jealous and I cant handle it. When Greg asked for my permission to date my ex wife,I ....




https://livelystones.com.ng/i-lost-my-wife-once-but-it-is-over-my-dead-body-before-i-loose-her-again/
FamilyRe: To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Samuelgr8(op): 7:31pm On May 01, 2018
Better watch your step b4 venturing in....else....
FamilyRe: To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Samuelgr8(op): 12:16pm On May 01, 2018
huh huh
fykes:
Dude u r sitting on a keg of gun powder.. She is bitter about something it may not even be d hurt, she is disappointed, maybe still in love with her ex..she will turn u bitter, get confrontational and maybe when u can't handle it , u will hit her. Don't say u can't, I've seen it all before, that is one helluva toxic relationship u got, tell her to shape up or ship off ASAP. And don't let ur heart lead ur head wrongly.
My one kobo!
FamilyTo Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Samuelgr8(op): 8:41am On May 01, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

My girlfriend has serious trust issues. I have tried to accommodate her issues but it looks like this might be the end of our relationship. However,I confided in colleague who thinks that I should be patient and give i more time before making a decision.

I met Anabel last year. She had just ended her four years relationship with a guy who cheated on her. It took a while to convince her that I was real. I liked her alot cos she is very beautiful,kind and homely. Some would consider her wife material,I do too. She is the most responsible girl I ever dated. She prays alot,a very good cook and my folks really like her.


But she wants to know every female around me. If any lady comments that my facebook pictures are fine,she begins to troll them. I have had to sit with her and talked to her several times about her trust issues. When I do,she cries and says its as a result of the hurt she experienced in the past relationship she had. She always promises to work on herself but it looks like she is not working hard enough.

Because of her issues,when I recently chatted with my ex who just wished me happy new month. I didnt even think it would ever be an issue but as usual now,my babe just went off ,demanding.....



https://livelystones.com.ng/to-break-up-or-not-to-break-up-she-wont-let-go-of-the-past/
RomanceTo Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Samuelgr8(op): 8:29am On May 01, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

My girlfriend has serious trust issues. I have tried to accommodate her issues but it looks like this might be the end of our relationship. However,I confided in colleague who thinks that I should be patient and give i more time before making a decision.

I met Anabel last year. She had just ended her four years relationship with a guy who cheated on her. It took a while to convince her that I was real. I liked her alot cos she is very beautiful,kind and homely. Some would consider her wife material,I do too. She is the most responsible girl I ever dated. She prays alot,a very good cook and my folks really like her.


But she wants to know every female around me. If any lady comments that my facebook pictures are fine,she begins to troll them. I have had to sit with her and talked to her several times about her trust issues. When I do,she cries and says its as a result of the hurt she experienced in the past relationship she had. She always promises to work on herself but it looks like she is not working hard enough.

Because of her issues,when I recently chatted with my ex who just wished me happy new month. I didnt even think it would ever be an issue but as usual now,my babe just went off ,demanding.....



https://livelystones.com.ng/to-break-up-or-not-to-break-up-she-wont-let-go-of-the-past/
RomanceRe: God Punish Poverty!…my Wife Treats Me Like A Slave by Samuelgr8: 12:51am On May 01, 2018
grin grin grin
idibe24:
my dear dis is warn to all men dat is use to run to follow ladies dat av money,pls follow ur heart wat ur heart tel u,am not dy wen u hear ur shoe
RomanceRe: Help!how Do I Move On From My Marriage When My Husband Needs Me by Samuelgr8: 12:50am On May 01, 2018
shocked shocked shocked
fulaniHERDSman:
Na you carry curse meet the innocent man. Useless jezebel
RomanceRe: My Fiancee & Her Ex :is This Naive Or Playing Me For A Fool? by Samuelgr8(op): 12:46am On May 01, 2018
shocked shocked
z11111:
great!!!
RomanceRe: My Money Or My Love: What Does She Really Want? by Samuelgr8: 12:45am On May 01, 2018
On point!
chenzen:
she wants your destiny brohuh ... and when she gets it. chairman, u are finished!!!
RomanceRe: His Siblings Versus Our Marriage: Is This The End Of My Marriage? by Samuelgr8: 12:44am On May 01, 2018
most ladies will exclude themselves. thumb up for been truthful
missiret:
The first thing you must know is that you cant stop his family from visiting, family is everything to even to you, he is like the father of the house , it is your husband that should set boundaries for them, why would his sister Be disrespecting you in your home, though I am not married yet but I will never allow any of my siblings or even my parent disrespect my guy not to talk of my future husband, this is where patience and wisdom application comes in, wisdom is profitable in all things, so get wisdom, dont let them see you as a bad wife, it is just a matter of time, they too will marry one day and again how do u even expect his family members not to come to your house?


Secondly, All women has a common problem including me, it is hard to see two guys living together having issues but women o, they will fight sa ni.. When it comes to marriage, it is easy for a lady to leave with her family members more than her in laws because what her sister will do to her and she will talk to her and even slap her and just forget, she may not b able to talk if it were the in laws simply because she wont want to offend them in the process of saying her mind and some in laws sef are just too insensitive, they just behave anyhow not knowing the consequence of their behaviors in the home, so family interference should be limited from both sides in the family
RomanceRe: One Night From Twelve Years Ago Is Now Tearing My Marriage Apart by Samuelgr8: 12:41am On May 01, 2018
grin grin grin
Olifiz:
Nice one for posting the full story here. I just hope it’s only one person that clicked that link.
RomanceRe: Our Marriage Was Over Long Before Now,how Can I Wait 7 Years More? by Samuelgr8: 9:44pm On Apr 30, 2018
hmnnnn, cannot escape the attack

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