₦airaland Forum

magoo10:
if he had become governor who knows the crimes he would used his office to be committing and the crimes the ones in government are committing.

It doesn't make any difference. After Donald, the rest of governors the state have produced are useless. Cross River is the most unfortunate state when it comes to governance.

I don't think she made a mistake. It doesn't look like it to me.

Gjrich:
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3. Talk to your partner. Have an honest conversation. Share your feelings, and listen to their side too. This can bring clarity to the situation and help decide the next steps.

4. Take care of yourself. Emotional well-being is crucial. Seek support from friends or professionals. It’s okay to feel hurt, and talking about it can be therapeutic.

5. Evaluate the relationship. Consider if trust can be rebuilt. Both partners need to be willing to work on it. If not, it might be time to move on.

6. Establish boundaries for the future. If you decide to stay together, set clear expectations. Discuss what needs to change for the relationship to heal.

7. If moving on is the best choice, be ready to let go. It’s challenging but holding onto self-respect is important.

This doesn't apply to human beings. Tell ChatGPT to be a human first, then ask them same question again.

Benwallt:
No where is 50% good in Nigeria. I agreed some places have been fortunate by sheer luck.

SS haven't been luck both at state n federal level though but Jonathan can't take all the blame though he messed up

We are talking about a major FG road here—he Calabar-Itu highway, and you say I should just let him walk away? Do you know the number of road projects he completed in the North? Do you know the number of road projects Buhari completed for the North? Haven't you already seen what Tinubu is doing for the SW? And you say GEJ wasn't badluck for the SS? You should think again.

Benwallt:
Very harsh

If you live here, you'll understand our frustration. Do you know how bad are federal roads down SS here?

Manny21:
Where is Amaechi who wanted to please Buhari by constructing rail line to Niger Republic while he failed to maintain the one in his home state.

That's exactly the same thing GEJ did. He focused on the North to buy their heart for his second term bid while ignoring his people in the South South. At last, God punished him and he failed.

Moyinoluwa35:
Sometimes my body get weak with what am seeing in nigeria, the youth is just been blinded with religion and tribes issues and shy away from the truth.
I can swear with my life that the leaders of nigerians have done a charm a very strong one to silence the masses not to know the right from left, everyday the hardship keep increasing and we keep adjusting , most people have not seen food to eat,most people on nairaland can not boost of 30k on their account , and the keep supporting those who wants to destroy them.
Inflation keep rising, but income keep been stignant. How many of you can boost of quality health, don't you know the more the hardship the more your life expectancy rate reduce.. I must hustle anyhow to take my kids outside this country because the country is irredeemable.

God bless your hustle dear. I pray you succeed in your journey to give your kids a better life away from here.

Our country is in serious bondage. Everyone is looking and acting stupid for the politicians. Meanwhile, while GEJ was the president, ethnic wars wasn't much an issue. The Ijaw or the entire South South wasn't supporting the man to suppress the people. Nigeria took a new turn when Buhari came onboard. The old man started was there favoring his ethnic people with appointments and ignoring the others from other regions.

Tinubu came in and worsen the situation even with his supporting his suppressing and demonic policies against the people. Now, it's pure hardship everywhere yet you still have people supporting him. If you complain, they tag you an enemy. As it stands, Nigeria is doom and I wouldn't encourage anyone to stick around when they can afford to leave.

Worst still, Nigerians hardly speak for themselves. You'll see someone doing rubbish and everyone would keep quiet because they are not affected today. There's no sense of community again. Everyone wants to mind their business. This isn't a country, mbök. Nigeria is far from being a country.

Supremos:
very terrible and heart rendering.

There's no region with worst state of roads like south east.

You don't have any idea about what we are going through on Calabar-Itu highway. The FG intentionally cut off SS/SE from development. That's what I know.

onumadu:
If he does that, how would he steal money like all his predecessors?
NNPC and the refineries are the major conduits for siphoning Nigeria's money.

And NO, he is not foolish and his cabinets are not stupid.
They are just sociopaths, like Buhari and others before him.

That is why they rigged Peter Obi out.
For someone like Obi to win presidential election in Nigeria, a coup or a revolution must happen first.
Painful truth.

You are on point bro. Whoever says the government is foolish doesn't understand jack. These niggas seriously calculate their actions and execute them. The idea is to keep embezzling money and keep the masses poor so they can keep begging them.

Sermwell:
You're obviously a kid!!

Who took care of you from infancy, feeding and clothing you to even age 10 deserves anything from you.
Do you know what it means to feed, cloth and house someone for 10 good years??

Even if that's the only thing your father did for you, he has tried!

That's my opinion. That's my life. You can stick to your opinion and your life.

I'll not sacrifice my life for someone that merely raised me. Look, it's not about raising someone but helping them to become successful in life. Sadly, in poor families, the parents don't care. You can also choose to sacrifice your own life for them.

You can choose to dance and enjoy the poverty they transferred to you. I'll never support anyone to focus on parents that transfered poverty to them instead of seeing how to fix their own life first.

Absuchat:
Dad didn't live recklessly, same with mom....but they left rather too early.
There's no guarantee to long life

Nothing is guaranteed in life. However, as long as you are here, you've got to live it good and leave the things you can't control to nature.

Above all, take your mind off your parents. They are gone for good and there's nothing you can do about it. At least, they lived their life.

The race of life is a lone game. Focus on your life and make no excuses regarding your parents. There's nothing they can do for you right now and you can still succeed big because your life or success doesn't depend on them.

All you need to do is to build up yourself; get yourself ready for life, and the lines will fall in place for you.

Absuchat:
It happens. But karma will surely take a toll on her children (that's if it's not karma that made the kids abandon her).

Which ever way, 73 by my wishes....is the best time to take a bow and exit this meaningless place we are in.

I lost my dad when he was 43....my mom left at 52

See how you can plan to make meaning out of your own life. Your parents lived their life and bowed out. Don't use the excuse of your parents not living so long on earth to live recklessly.

EmeeNaka:
Did you read the topic very well? Your attack on poor parents are scathing and bears no semblance of understanding of their respective situation nor semblance of evidenced study.

You are speaking grammar because I know I'm not attacking them but their attitude towards the survival of their children when they truly know they practically brought and raised poverty in the family.

I don't really have a problem with children being their parent's retirement plan. The design is that children should take care of their aged parents and I don't see anything wrong with that. Where I seriously have a problem is when parents don't invest in their children to become successful in life and simply focus on making more children and by God's grace one of the children escapes poverty with little or no contribution from the parents, then you see them coming to lay claims of the child and complaining to the world how the child has abandoned them.

For God's sake, this is a child that suffered so much and alone to become successful and instead of you allowing the child to begin investing in their future and family and stamp out poverty in their own lineage, you are coming to complain about negligence. Must everyone be poor in the family?

From my observation in Nigeria, poor parents don't care about their children. They don't even pray for them to succeed. All they are interested about is what they can get from the children because they feel it's the children's responsibility to take care of them. They don't care about lifting even one to escape poverty in the family so in future, that one can also save others. They care only about themselves. They don't care about the endemic poverty in the family.

Royaltyy:
He's a fool. What if he needs them in future, maybe for political office or an opportunity overseas or even that same handwork he's talking about, cos thaere are some handwork that are big contracts and it's only your certificate that can earn you such contracts...

He might regret his actions later

Don't cry for him. He's accepted his fate. Think about your own life. Keep hoping when you'll use your certificate to enter Aso Rock.

GanagiBitrus:
If you are married, you should be sensible enough to know that there are marital problems that can turn a wife you consider an angel into a demon.

&one way women show their anger & frustrations in such situations is being destructive.

So when I say consider yourself lucky, it's either such marital issues don't come up or they are not beyond what your wife can bear.

So perhaps you are the one talking rubbish.

You are still talking rubbish. So, the only way you should express your anger and frustration is by destroying my properties? Don't say women, please, maybe you should say some women. My woman isn't that foolish to destroy my things because she truly knows the day tries it, I'll destroy her too. Stop this SIMP talk. Grow some balls and be a man. Stamp your authority in your home.

GanagiBitrus:
Consider yourself lucky If your wife has never destroyed anything in the house.

You are talking rubb!sh. So you will bear with a woman destroying things in your house because she's your wife? Are you a man at all?

vincenteger:
Please enlighten us on how to use headlamp
Many of us don't know

When you see an oncoming vehicle reducing their own, simply do same. They reduce because your own is disturbing their view so they expect you reduce your own too.

When you pass them you can set yours high again.

Other times, they may flash you meaning there could be danger ahead of you.

Tntsi:
The people's President, anytime, anyday, anywhere.

You can say that again. In 2027, we go again

Kizyte:
Actresses making bundles of money rain, while our highly talented actors are ravishing in poverty, many sick, and some died. Should we start praying for God of actresses to locate us?

May God grant Mr Ibu quick recovery! 🙏

Dey there dey talk nonsense

OVB123:
Life is full of up and down. Get well soon thespian.

My countryman, I feel so bad hearing this. Life is so unpredictable.

Recently, a friend was analysizing how men can easily become afflicted with prostrate problems, which can seriously obstruct urination and defecation, and I was just sitting cold. Then, I asked myself, why are we so fragile? Why does our body fail easily?

I feel so sad about this development. For someone in their golden years, it can speed up their death. This man has always been active before this trouble started. I'm just wondering how he's going to cope sitting one place or being wheeled around.

Saying the amputation was done to keep him alive doesn't really settle well with me. He may begin to think about the whole thing everyday and call death upon himself. I hate all these troubles with living. I so hate it.

Sonnobax15:

Na wa......

And I can bet my two precious balls that there are some members who went to church today on empty stomachs .

What about those that trekked down to church with no hope of returning home to have food on their tables....

Well,let me mind my business before dem go begin come to attack me..

Stop talking like Judas Iscariot. Is it your money? Is he the one that brought the members you are talking about to this world? You talk as though you'll do different if you were in his position. In your entire life, how much have you given to the poor? Oh, it's because you are not a pastor.

At every level, giving is discretionary. Allow people to live their life the way they want. Your criticizing them won't change anything. When you have your own money, give the way you want.

bhella10:
It doesn't take much to draw you out does it? ONKR!

You are a big fool. God punish you.

winterfell007:
Leave the fool. He fills he peppering the Igbos. He's makes it seem as if the Igbos are suffering. I can even bet that the Igbos in Lagos that he loves to brag about live a more comfortable life than him.

That's why I usually say this country will never move forward. The level at which people tilt to their tribe than being Nigerian is alarming. Personally, I no longer support the so-called one Nigeria.

December is just next month. Let's see how this would crash the price of fuel in Nigeria. At least that's what we all pray for and all the long story.

FreeStuffsNG:
The never-say-never indomitable spirit of a Patriotic Nigerian prevailed once again! We did it and we did it BIG!

Thank you Asiwaju Tinubu for not letting this dream die from the initial stage that the vision carrier, Alhaji Aliko Dangote, ran to you in desperation when our late President Yardua of the PDP , revoked his successful bid for our national refineries. You assured him that Lagos will support him to realise his dream. That dream is realized today. You are truly a visionary Leader of our time. God bless you Asiwaju Tinubu.

Thank you Alhaji Aliko Dangote and your team members for this great feat.

Thank you President Buhari for approving NNPC's request to support the project with the 20% stake.

Thank you Mr Mele Kyari of NNPC and Mr Emefiele of the CBN for the relentless hardwork you both put into this project to save it from failing.

Thank you to all our indigenous banks and international banks, crude oil production companies, CBN, NNPC, patriotic public and civil servants, the great and patriotic Nigerians and lovers of Nigeria who all contributed to make this project a laudable success.

Great gbosagbosa Thank you to the Centre of Excellence, my Lagos state and in particular, Eti-osa for being a worthy host. E seun lopolopo eyin lobaloba, Ijoye ati gbogbo ara ilu Eko.

Thank you HE Babatunde Raji Fashola for your leadership in helping Dangote Refinery call Etiosa home today.

It's a feat even generations unborn will benefit from as they will not inherit the evil petrol subsidy system that nearly killed Nigeria.

To the shame of the naysayers and unpatriotic elements, Dangote Refinery made it and you lost again. All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las,they always lose.
Congratulations to Nigeria. God bless Nigeria for ever!

Manna Vulture grills did this zombie work better than you. Today, he's tired. Even you will be tired. I used to see you like a sane chap, but BAT came and urinated on your brain. You've now retired to sycophancy—digging the web everyday to look for news that suit your zombie work. Weldone.

Doglover123456:
I no be scam my G unless you’re the guy I posted using the other nairaland account to reply here I’m a Kefi dog breeder I don’t usually post here anymore because of this scam thing and moreover you no worth my talk

E pele o.

You dey play with nairaland members abi? Next time, go and deal with another forum member. Na you sabi. I guess you are below 30.

georgeakins:
Are these biaflan clowns suicidal like boko haram?
They are all looking hagard. I think they want to make money from gullible Ibos.
Soon, they will start taxing their people like Kanu, Ekpa used to do.

Looking haggard doesn't take away the fact that they are physical demons.

Don't blame anyone paying task to non state actors. They do so to stay alive because the government have failed them.

Northern herdsmen and terrorists are taxing people in the North. You should be concerned about that too. Terrorists killed tens of people in Ondo state. No justice for the dead or people of that town.

So, when talking about terrorism in any part of the country, understand it's something that's plaguing all of us. No part of this country is safe.

9jvirgin:
The only way out of the problems we are facing as a continent is to have a man like Peter Obi rule the people with sincerity and integrity. Without Peter Obi, Nigeria cannot rise as a nation.

Calm down bro. Even though I'm Obidient, I won't go this far. I don't believe in any politician but only try as much as I can to support those I feel appear a bit sane.

This is how we thought Buhari would make sense and we all witnessed what happened during his eight year rule.

Maybe Nigeria isn't destined to be free from the claws of evil. I don't really know what's going on but the country is f—ked right now.

BOSSkesh:
Another human practice target for our army recruits
Jokers

You better keep quiet there. If it was easy to wipe these guys, Boko Haram would've been history. Just 10 militants can take down 500 military men because they don't fight just with physical strength and ammunition.

gammarays:
Yes you can but it's easier getting lagosians if you're in Lagos 😊

Organically—true. However, paid adverts targeting US/UK from Nigeria would still succeed.

Reflections3:
please guys, please I've tried to get little help here to no avail, please I beg you in the name of Almighty GOD pls, If any good samaritan can please help me, no matter how little so we can buy foodstuff and cook, I will be very happy. my daughter and I we are starving. Please help us the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on  sunday. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since Monday and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for my daughter please am a single mother. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. Almighty God bless you

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My name is Angella Oyom. Almighty God bless you and your family

Mr. Seun

Does it mean there's no way you can tighten registration on this platform to frustrate this unfortunate human being? Is it that easy for one person to keep coming back and creating more and more account?