₦airaland Forum

Pepperdemisback:
You can go on with your own name, use your first name as your surname and start your own family. Your father has a right to who uses his name. Father was not aware of the wedding.

Lol. Father has lived his life. Let the son also live his.' Surname is immaterial. The woman isn't sick. She's even pregnant. So, what's all the noise for? There's a reason we have a minor and adult human sets. His son is an adult and he's free by law to take his decisions in life.

Negroid001:
The father doesn't want him to make the greatest mistake of his life. Marrying a used product that a long list of men had for free.

The boy no get sense.

Leave him alone. Most men don't get to marry a virgin. On your own, you've slept with more than 20 different girls, but here you are talking sh!t.

Godswillu:
I support the father on this
How will you do TRADITIONAL WEDDING without the consent of your father and your father is alive.

Who and who was the guys family members during the traditional wedding (or did they rent family)

why will the guy allow the lady pressure her to do traditional wedding (ABI the lady is trying to hide something).

So, if my dad refuse to give his consent for my traditional marriage, does it mean the marriage shouldn't go on? Let the man just give them the blessing and rest. The son has made his decision. Nothing spoil.

dauntless15:
Exactly what I'm going through, imagine picking a less qualified applicant over you because of your nationality, it's unfair.

If you want to continue applying, build projects. Maybe through your project, they may have interest in you. But for me, YouTube is calling now. I won't like anyone to mess up my mood again.

dauntless15:
What's annoying is the things they're spoiling for honest Nigerians who are trying to make it legitimately, like me for instance I have great digital skills I spent money and years learning, and everything I tried to get a remote job failed because the moment they realize I'm Nigerian they all take to their heels, everything will be going smooth until I honestly tell them where I'm from cuz they assume we're all the same, now I can't get remote jobs and every options I've tried to legally leave this country has failed, it's unfair that everyone has to pay the price for the sins of some stupid people, make una pity us.

Same thing here. I lost three interviews because of being a Nigerian. They'll select my CV and send my name to their recruiter but the moment those recruiters know I'm a Nigerian, it ends there.

One even promised to send me money to set up an office but it never worked. I don kuku dey do YouTube now. I won't be applying again. I know how I felt by then. I don't want that feelings again.

Patrioticman007:
PRINCE HARRY will always be respected by the world for exposing the racial discrimination of the white over black race. His offense was marrying Megan a black & the Palace was concerned only about the future King or Queen of England might be BLACK Colored.

It's a shame that the propaganda machine of the West has eaten their brain, due to colonial power & their pet projects called missionaries, brain washing.

Who said Meghan is black? How did you come to that?

Paraman:
Obidients hate news like this

Look throughout the first and see how many support the project. So, anybody that doesn't support foolish things is an Obidient. You guys are so stwepid. This is how you are going to grow up being a fool, achieving nothing and standing for fraud.

yinkkus:
Stupid people like you will just fight exposure by the media for no sensible reason.

You are the one that's stupid. So, it's the media that will talk to me about the church, right? Is BBC a Christian organization? Have they ever been on God's side? Shame on you. Shame on your BBC.

helinues:
That's too harsh now.

They can still be operating while the investigation would be going on .

After the investigation, if they deserved to be shut down, it can make sense then

Na so the politicians perfect?

Tah

Keep quiet. Nothing is harsh there. You are saying this because you don't go to anywhere using flight. If you do, you'll understand flight isn't what anyone should joke with. Dana Air has been problematic for a long time. So, let them go and put their house in order before a repetition of Sosoliso incident occurs in the country again.

BBC have started again, and some stwepid people in Nigeria would still support them.

They'll keep dying until they repent. Kudos to the Nigerian Army.

Let go. Tell your boss to let go too. He didn't steal any physical thing. He played just computer games. You guys should let go.

DuBLINGreenb:
Gbam gbam… make e go cool off for Kirikiri or Ikoyi small. Body done too Chark am.
E sure me die say him go lose small weight. E go chop water water beans for 6 months body go tell am.

Look closely at the charges again and think twice about your comment. Mind you, it's not the same with that of Idris.

vivalavida:
Off course that is what he has been telling you since.

Just wanted to be sure. Thank you.

GAZZUZZ:
There is a reason those contacts are not soldered.

Can you throw more light, please? Are you implying that if I get a new one the contact won't cut off?

GAZZUZZ:
I was very clear in my response.

I was thinking something else could be causing the soldering to detach. Or does it mean the thing is bad?

GAZZUZZ:
Replace this part called the resistor, it is located in the location below

Hello boss, the problem isn't over. I'm sort of confuse sef. I found the component (see attached) and realized the blade lifted from where it should make contact as seen in the picture. So, I took it to a technician for soldiering. I ensured he used an original led wire to solder it, then I inserted back the unit and it worked, but before I drove from the guy's place to my house the blade had separated from the contact again and the plate/mirror area was sort of hot. What could be the problem?

Darkandhandsom:
I was enjoying your previous comments but this particular one just shows that you are a small boy and don't know what life is about. Time will tell

I see beyond and I understand you, but it what it is. There shouldn't be any justification to prolong poverty. However, it's about perspective. We see life differently. By the way, I may be bigger than you agewise. Don't address me as a small boy.

helinues:
Something they could have been settled within the family without exposing the dirty linens.

Eish

Make it look as if it happens in your family, you can settle it.

Usefulsense:
Last year, I sought the opinion of Nairalanders concerning my plan to move to Australia.
My major worry was my age (48) and also considering that my net salary in Nigeria was a little over a million Naira per month as the financial controller of a manufacturing company in Onitsha.

Below is the link to the thread I opened to seek peoples advice and I recommend that you go through the thread to fully appreciate
the story that follows.

[url=https://www.nairaland.com/7825207/japa-confused-please-advise][/url]. I promised to tell my story after 3 months of my stay in Australia.

I finally left Nigeria on December 7th, 2023 and arrived the country on December 9th with my children. Today, I am exactly 3 months, 2 weeks and 6 days old in Sydney, australia.

This is not a hearsay, it is not an eye witness account, it is my story.

This is intended to guide people who maybe planning to travel outside Nigeria. Should you migrate at an age over 45 or not?

Those who told me not to go are right and those who told me to travel are also right.

Given another opportunity, will I take the decision to move out of Nigeria at 48? Have I made a mistake? How am I surviving?

You will find out in this thread.

To be continued shortly .........

Why didn't you go into IT? Do you think someone with IT background will do better? Is Australia a country that appreciate IT like the US and UK?

3. Rallying around and voting useless politicians during elections, then expecting positive change.

The state of this nation today is as a result of many Nigerians continually voting useless people into leadership positions. For some of us, when we put 8 years of Buhari and another 8 years of Tinubu, we'll be losing 16 years of our life achieving nothing. Even Jonathan's tenure was still rubbbish and that's like 22 years.

At the state and other federal political positions, the story is the same. We still keep voting useless people to represent us. How long are we going to continue this way?

I'll be back...

2. Night travel in Nigeria.

Here's another one the dummies of Nigeria keep doing. They pretend as though everywhere is cool or they are untouchable. As rife as insecurity is in Nigeria, you'll still see people jumping into a vehicle in the name of night journey. It appears dogs gave birth to these set of people because they got no brains. There's absolutely no justification for embarking on a night journey in Nigeria. This is a country that's fill with thorns.

Even during the day, it's hard to identify who's a Police or criminal on the road, yet you mount up on the same road at night. Are you okay? Don't just complain about transport fares because you know you can still pay for the trip during the day, which may not still be safe but at least manageable.

Every time I read that some Nigerians are still doing certain things which I consider to be fool!sh, my heart bleeds. I mean, we are all Nigerians and we were all born here, yet we still behave as though we don't understand the country.

How long for God's sake will it take an average Nigerian to understand their country and adjust accordingly?

So, here we go.

1. So-called graduates traveling long distance for NYSC.

I mean, this is the most painful of all. These are people you'll assume are knowledgeable because they've spent some years in the university. However, many of these guys have learnt nothing.

How can you come from the South, especially, SS/SE and you print your call-up letter, and it shows somewhere in the North, then you begin to park your things and journey to the North in today's Nigeria in the name of NYSC? You must be mad. You've learnt nothing being a Nigerian since birth. Your parents probably have learnt nothing too because they are supposed to stop you from embarking on such a near-suicide mission.

First, there's no one Nigeria and you are not going to enjoy your stay as a Southerner in the North. You won't be loved. Up there, they bundle SS and SE together, because they are all Christians and share similar faces. Pray they don't look for a way to start their religious trouble, else you are gone. So many corpers from the South have lost their lives because of religious violence in the North.

Again, traveling from SS to the North is like journeying through the wilderness. You'll have to pray against kidnappers in the SS, unknown gunmen in the SE, armed robbers as you journey through SW, herdsmen as you cross Abuja, herdsmen again and Boko Haram as you journey through the North to your PPA. If from the SE, you still face similar risks.

All of these for a national service that guarantees nothing after 12 months; a national service that has no depth. Everyday in the camp is parade, SAED, and other fool!sh things. Shortly you leave the camp, then it's teaching JS1 to SS3 students in a private secondary school in exchange for 5k naira monthly. Many private school owners are totally depending on this cheap labor provided by corpers. Good luck to them. Who wouldn't want to take advantage? Some would even want to select corpers based on gender. I still remember going to a school and the school owner insisted on only male corpers. Meanwhile, she's a female. These are the people that makes the most profit from the NYSC.

That's by the way. Now, if you are from the SS/SE and you are posted to the North, you should turn it down. You may just be embarking on a journey of no return because of a so-called national service. Right now, I don't know if the prospective corpers from Akwa Ibom kidnapped by herdsmen on their way to the North have been released. I doubt. Sadly, kidnapping is a normal thing there so the FG is probably seeing it as one of those daily northern thing.

This so-called SERAP should be disbanded. They've been useless. They haven't won any case.

seunmsg:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/03/labour-party-crisis-obi-hints-at-dumping-party/

Above is the source. Vanguard is an Igbo newspaper so who exactly are you accusing of propaganda?

See, one of the major quality of leadership is the ability to accept one’s fault and stop looking for who to blame always. Peter Obi and all you his supporters have unfortunately mastered the art of blaming others for your own failures.

When Lamidi Apapa was complaining about Abure, characters like you with the support of Peter Obi physically assaulted him in Abuja. You called him all shorts of name including APC mole. Today, Abure is the new APC mole and vanguard is now a propaganda outfit trying to blackmail Peter Obi.

Don’t you guys ever learn? Is this how Peter Obi intends to rule Nigeria? Lies, propaganda, blackmail and never taking responsibility for anything? Smh!!

Keep quiet. We've seen how your god is turning the country to Eldorado. Rantings of a hungry man. Ebin pawa and sons!

jceesquare:
What's stopping him from rolling the engine from the starter?
Why wait for the mechanic?

Hmmm! We never knew it's something that he could do. How's that done? We sef fit go try am o

jceesquare:
You've been asked to check your fuse.
But that's only applicable if you or your rewire has not breeched the fuse with thick wires. If your fuse (main fuse especially) has been customised, then you'll have to kiss your ECU and maybe harness goodbye depending on the severity of the damage.

An electrician came yesterday and dig out one transparent fuse—sort of big, joined wire to it and inserted it back. From there, light entered the car but it won't still start.

At first, it behaved like the problem was as a result of a low battery but even after changing it to a good one, the car still behaved same way. Lastly, he suggested we get a mechanic to try to turn the engine from the side and see if it's going to be free and if it turns, then the problem, according to him, will be the Kickstarter.

So, that's the situation for now.

Klass99:
When I first felt the desire to be child free and not have children I was in my 20s. Several people told me the feeling would change or I would change my mind as time goes by.

As the years went by my desire didn't wane neither did my mind change. The desire only grew stronger and my mind more convinced that motherhood is not for me.

I have no regrets so far and I don't see myself regretting the choice. Home ownership and companionship with a good man, matter to me more than biological children do.

Would you permit the man to have one or two with another woman outside without disturbing your home?

Prigidypogodo:
a lesson to you bigots
over here we don't tolerate shitt because it's my tribe or whatever.
if you fucck up you'll be treated squarely.
Igbos are unique.
nobody dey feed anybody because we dey work hard individually so you don't expect us to start bootlicking the rich among us in whatever they do right or wrong like some certain people.
If you be billionaire na for your pocket nobody cares.
that's the mentality of an average igbo man.
we don't entertain mediocre over here.
The man messed up real big just like an average Nigeria rich man that thinks he can intimidate people using his connections.
unfortunately you can't get away with some things in this digital age.
he's reaping his reward and no sorry for him.

Loud it.

GAZZUZZ:
Start with fuses.

Alright boss. Thank you.

kingreign:
Blown fuses and/or relays, he should check these, if all is okay, he should check ECM.

Alright sir. Thank you.

Hello house, @Gazzuzz @Jceesquare @kingreign

My friend mistakenly connected his car battery terminals wrongly. Immediately, headlight came up, stayed, then he disconnected the battery. We interchanged the terminals thereafter but car showed no sign of life. Please, what's likely to breakdown in the car? What's going to be the possible cost of repairs?

The car in question is a Honda Accord 04.