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Ukoma9:
6k cash

You are joking right.. lol osi cash..

I'm selling my S6edge, 32gb.

Crack at the back is the only fault it has.
Reason for sale. I upgraded.

Email udahchidi@gmail.com if interested.

I will deliver. Thanks
Photos have been included.
Serious buyers only. Negotiations welcome.

khiaa:
I know you aren't, that's why I said you don't know the meaning of the word morality.

Well from the story told so far..it seems like it's you guys that do not know the meaning of that word..
Use your senses..

Munzy14:
What will make a married woman not to pick up her call in the presence of her husband if she is not playing with the husband destiny??.

Cheating of course. I'm not supporting the battering but am not supporting cheating either

khiaa:
I was being sarcastic. That's what you all say but most of you don't know the meaning of the word.

Sorry but am not a black American

khiaa:
Just lie on your resume like he did and maybe that will help you to get a better job.

No need! I have morals

Ogalanyaidi:
Hello Nairalanders.

Seriously I feel I've been used and will need your advice. I need to be told the truth.

I am a Nigerian living and studying in Canada. I've been here for 2years. I was introduced to this black American lady, we exchanged calls, texts and emails for about 4 months before I arranged for her to meet me in canada. She relocated from US and we've been living together for 10 months now. Before her arrival, I helped her secure a job while she was still offshore, I got her a car, got a befitting apartment. Yes I paid her flight ticket to Canada paid for her visa fee, international passport because until that time, she was a first time traveler. An action I regret so bad. No doubt she cooks for me, does all domestic chores by herself above all, she is someone of same faith (Christianity)

My thought was that her coming was gonna make things easier for me as we'll both work to build our life's together. I also thought that she being an American might provide me the opportunity of having my American dreams but the reverse is the case. For 8months I paid the rent and bills myself as she was very reluctant to work but could sit for hours playing play station 4. I always reminded her of the need to work so as to help me but she would counter me saying ' I don't need help' because she feels that I make alot from my job. I had bad grade in school last semester because I was skipping classes cus I needed to work twice harder. This has created a breach in my visa condition because I'm only entitled to work 20hours a week during academic sessions.

To gain employment here we need certifications or reasonable years of experience. This has pushed few of us to embellish our resume as we claim years of experience we never had in the industry just to get the job. My fiancee insisted that she will not embellish her resume to land a job as it contravenes her morals. My parents, friends and associates waded in but she stood her ground and this has rendered her financially incapacitated and has pushed the responsibilities on me. Many times we ended up fighting, quarrelling and trust me when I say she hit me so hard and few times she had inflicted injuries on me. Her visa doesn't have job limitations because she's allowed to work unlimited unlike me who is a student. She's been here for 10 months and can't boast of having $1000 while many female students pay their tuition, rent, bills themselves and even send money to their parents back in naija. Each time I talk to her about these ladies she is quick to shut me up. She said they have no choice cus we are from a poor country and would do anything to stay.

Fast-forward to July, her one year working visa would end in October and she needs atleast $3500 to pay for her health insurance and visa application. She is helpless as she can't pay this fee. I have politely asked her to return back to her country but she isn't buying the idea because she claims to love me so much but in reality, she's homeless cus she has been squatting with friends and relatives. Her recent excuse is that she found out that my ex was still calling me and this made her depress.

My understanding is that she is a very lazy lady full of excuses because she wasn't used to hardwork even in her country. She wants comfort and luxury but doesn't want to pay the price. She is now pleading with me to support her so she could pay. During our quarrels, she nags me and insults me that I lied on my resume to secure a job. My fiancee has been feeding and living on the same job she said I lied about my experience.

I'm from a very humble background. For the past 2 months, my parents moved to our yet to be completed building with no toilet. I explained this situation to my fiancee and her mother but the mother adviced that my parents can use plastic buckets.(what an advice). I asked her mother if she uses bucket to poo over there in America.

Now I've asked her to get the money for her visa fee and health insurance herself because I will not contribute anything as i think its unfair for her to keep spending from an income she is opposed to but she tells me that God had forgiven me.

How could I've known that this babe I thought was coming to help me wil become a thorn on my flesh. She wants luxury she doesn't travel via train she would prefer driving the car to the toilet and kitchen if permitted. As at today, she has about 4 driving fines unpaid.

Are you stupid or is this who you are? No oo I don't mean to be insulting but are you really a Nigerian? The worst part is you are still being stupid. Chase her out of your damn house.. fiancee my left yansh. Your parents live in an uncompleted building, oh and probably pooing in a toilet and what are you doing? Feeding an American. What stops you from finishing your school and getting a permanent resident in Canada or is U.S a better place? I cry for your family mahn.. I am so dissappointed! And that woman, your fiancee's mother I mean.. no words. You spend all these on a woman who hits you cos she's a woman? You are working freaking hard.. god that is one thing with some of this oyibos.. they won't work the one they did will go to alchohol and party.. I am not praying for something like this to happen to me cos it won't lol (aputara m uwa itara mmadu ibe m ahuhu.. ) if it does, i cross my heart you are refunding all my money and leaving my house that day.. case closed. Just legodu.. she even has morals
(Sorry if I was harsh, I was so angry reading this esp the part about your parents)
Meanwhile where do you work, I am looking for a better-paying job

izzou:

I totally understand why she's 18

She must have seen job vacancies with requirements like

Candidates must possess the following
- A Bachelor degree with a minimum of Second class honours(upper division) from an accredited university in Nigeria
-Must have completed NYSC
-Must have a two year post NYSC work experience
-Must have completed his/her Master's degree
-Must have an international passport
-Must not be older than 25 years old by December 2018

With all these requirements, our aunty decided to be 18.

Hahahahahaha!!

olafunny:
Can anyone just arrest sex and lock it away? That thing is a distraction in this country.


Sex for marks
Sex for target
Sex for job
Sex for promotion
Sex to belong
Sex to slay
Sex for money

If we are not careful, e fit reach
Sex for transport fare
Sex for food
Sex for vote
Even kidnappers go demand for sex as Ransom

That is eeh

donstan18:
The man didn't do well, that's disheartening. He should be penalized properly.

I'm a lady. Truth be told, money and favor can't buy love or spouse. Because you borrowed your partner money shouldn't make you think it's a must for you two to end up

Some ladies like me ended up dumping a man after being trained in school. Money and favor shouldn't be a tool to cage a partner.

As a lady, I'm sure her only problem is that he didn't marry her, not even the money. Husbands are scarce these days, God should give me a man, I'm tired of being single and pretending on social media to be happy , a man who will rescue my mission before Aboki will use me(Evening newspaper) to wrap suya. Amen.

Bolded is true..
If I lend my partner money I expect it to be paid in full cos I hate stories.. the lady did well by taking him to court..

HEseesall:
When he told me he wants to use his share for his parents, we agreed my share would be used for get a property then we start to build from there and that's what i did, i expected he knows i would use my name cos i keep the documents, now he is saying he wants his own name only not jointly, who says that pls, at least i compromised for jointly,

So greedy..

HEseesall:
You dont understand, we have kids, i am working but i cant do everything on my own, how will i tell them we are no more together because of property

Oya nah get ready to tell them that their father sent you guys away.. legodi akuko.. hire somebody nah if you have the money..

Eketem:
I am confused as to why you are begging him.

You both got paid from a business
He used his own share for his parents, you used your own to build a house now he got angry and decided to kick you out of your own house, you told him it wasn't possible.

He gets angry and moves out
Let him stay out, he is a wicked man that would have been happy to see you out on the streets with your kids begging him up and down.

I don't understand why you are now begging him.

I don't know why Nigerian women are so desperate to keep wicked men

That is eeh.. I was confused myself. He should be begging you nah.. is it his money or his house? Ah god! Atire o

You mean that thing is an international airport..

kullozone:
Yea, they're trying... Just that it's very hard for them to get water to fight fire.

Abi nor be so?

Does anything work in that country lol.. anything

AZeD1:
What did you do(drink/eat/smoke) to come up with this sh*t?

Do you know the work of a mechanical engineer? Heck do you know the job of an engineer?

Engineers make something. Mecanics fix it. Is it not Naija again.. our mechanics nah engineers nah

royalamour:
That girl phucks anything. Even father and son at the same time.

Tell us the truth she don phucks you

Surprised to see Jackie here.. I like that gal like kilode..

IamAirforce1:
The many wise people in this nairaland community won't judge someone by his/her online comment, only the foolish will.
You don't judge a book by it's cover so they say ..
But you have the right to believe what you want to believe , your headache .

Emi o raye fun oshi

Nah your comments here are what you believe.. online though not visual is still a presence.. sorry but you are who you are offline and on

majekoam:
Hmm Ive just been reading your comments. Most of the statement you have made aren't made on any concrete evidence.
There are two sides to every story.
Such things happen but how do you know the Lady is telling the truth. Even AirForce1 said MAYBE a beauty without brains.
It might be harsh but it might also be true...
Lastly the part in Bold....not covering yourself in glory there.
Rise above immaturity....its the only way.

No need.. Mr. adviser
You must have seen his comment where he was going to slap me. You didn't come and advise then.. men and hypocrisy.. Keep your maturity to yourself

Westaslave2:
wont u shut up! wen a man decide 2 be 10% open lyk d proud creatures ie women dey wl say childish

Mr.Slave.. please mind your business

IamAirforce1:
Childish childish and childish is all you've been saying .. ok is it your childishness ?

I'm on nairaland to have fun and not to please you or sugar coat my comment to make you like me or see me as a no childish guy .

And what makes you think I can't lend you a Bitch slap if I see you face to face

It's not about sugar coating anything.. maturity is known by speech.. many people know you are childish

And back to your question.. Because you simply can't

CanadianEnginee:
You told you he isn't contended with her. Lol. I bet he loves his wife so much. You girls haven't been able to decipher men and their lies. He loves the wife, he just wants your pu$$1. His wife's pussy is for the short and long term, yours is for play

Unfortunately you cannot love someone and want to hurt them.. you got it all wrong..

IamAirforce1:
Sad woman, get off my mention
I'm not the cause of your misery

Unfortunately you can only slap me on the internet..
If I were you I'd focus on my music more.. and at least make something out of my life.. but childish, god! you are childish!

myners007:
You sound just like another heartbroken queen. Take solace in the Lord my lovely sister.

It's you that will be taking solace my lovely brother

oshe11:
Ha!


Sorry!


Didnt mean to sound like your Ex dear


Its well, You'd get another guy, kpele!

Lol I was vexing then
Sorry jaree

IamAirforce1:
You're obviously pained , probably because you've been so used and dumped like a tissue paper in the past

Pele

You are so wrong.. used? Dumped? I use people and dump them Mr. I can do that to you too but you are obviously not my type.. pained my foot!

myners007:
the manner at which you rained invectives on me leaves one with the impression that you were not properly trained and as such will not make a good mariage material. The anger in your tone also reveals that you must be in dire need of cash of which out of magnanimity i can oblige to help you out.Swallow your pride and ask me for help. I will assist without asking you for anything in return

You deserve it 100 percent.. cos am sure you will definitely not make a husband material.. a man that is not compassionate is that one a man..

rock003:
Before you condemn that man, kindly read the lady's profile below

And Feminist are not wife materials? What about Chimanda..

donnie:
While you were busy slaying, dude was looking for wife material.

You mean the one he's no longer contented with?
Dude wants to eat his cake and have it back.. arrant nonsense!

oshe11:
Some girls are meant to be JUST girlfriends and not WIFE.....




HER FIRST PICTURE KINDA SHOWS SHE IS ONE OF THEM.....

And how would you know that, do you know her?
Radio without battery..

IamAirforce1:
Maybe you're just a beauty with no brain

You are the most childish person I have ever seen in my days of using the internet..and calling someone beauty with no brain is laughable.. cos Mr. you are so freaking dumb!!