₦airaland Forum

Henitan24:
Poorer girl meet a poor dude

That is eh poverty without brain

AK6464:
You need transport fare not advice

That is eh

dainformant:
A lady who thought she was coming to Lagos to have fun, has revealed her surprise after she claimed she was deceived by a guy she met online. According to her, she met a guy online and decided to visit him in Lagos not knowing he stays in a one room apartment in Ogun state.

Below are her words according to relationship expert Ben who shared the update. ;

This guy lied to me about staying in Ikeja, Lagos but Ben he stays in Ogun state in one small room, he even cooks inside the one room, everywhere is just smelling, even my room in Abuja is bigger and neater than this. Now I told him I want to go back but he refused to give me transport saying he is broke he doesn't have money.

Since I came, I have been eating yam for the past 3 days now only yam and the yam has finished. Please I need help and advice please. I'm in Sango Bridge sugar, I'm really tired of staying, I want to go back home please I need advice.

He said he stays in safe contain in Ikeja. I have never been to Lagos before, it was my first time. I didn't even know I'm in Ogun state until people started saying I'm in Ogun not Lagos. I thought I'm coming to lag to have fun after all he promised me ooooo. I didn't know I'm coming to suffer"...

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/07/lady-travels-from-abuja-to-lagos-to-have-fun-with-a-guy-then-this-happens-photos.html

And the yam has finished... I haff died lol
Lady you are so hilarious.. why not kukuma stay for your Abuja house nah.. lol

Coming to have fun with whose money for this economy, I no even see yam chop

seedman:
If na for naija you go pay for restaurant delivery fee

That is eh

Talks

mimimile93:
If u don't sell, they won't buy.

Still ALL are guilty..

1stolax:
And doesn't like you...

Frustration could kill you.

Nah.. I won't even like someone that doesn't like me. Someone whom I love more and they love me too

EazyMoh:
But since you like them more don't you think they'd always fall short of your expectations always?

As long as they love me too in their own way.. that'll do. Everyone falls short of expectations..

I choose the one I like more

Modified: so long they feel the same way. I cannot like someone who don't like me, you know in that way. You know someone gotta love more, no worries if that someone is me

Arysexy:
This yeye naughty girl that always talk about how her future husband must lick her pvssy.

The girl is under some demonic possession. Watch her Facebook videos and see she is from d pit of hell

Now am seriously trying to understand what is wrong with licking a woman.. So she is under a demonic possession because she said what she wanted while all of you guys go licking prostitutes eeh kwa..
Ekwela m kwuo okwu o She has her desires and so do all of us.. this is 2018 Mr.

mimimile93:
See this wh.o.r.e.

Who told her that prostitutes would go to heaven?

The real question is, who is patronizing her..

CoCoLav:
Your cousin’s sisters

Lol that's more like me..

Thunder fire Frederick Amanor Skeleton or whatever his name is..
Who hits a woman.. and a child? over her own money.. nnahh eeh

Beggars come in different styles..

Gratefulheart1:
It's hard to pass judgement these days until you hear both sides of the story. Bad girls don't deserve to be pitied but if she is a good girl, the guy just kissed his destiny goodbye. NEVER hurt a good girl, especially one who sincerely loves and trusts you, because when you begin to reap the reward, no climbing of mountain will bail you out except when she forgives you. Play boys, be careful

Don't steal from anyone good or bad. Scamming is illegal.. O na asi bad girl. Is it his money.. let what is yours be yours

gbagyiza:
Sometimes I do asked myself can anything good come out of this country? For God sake, when are we going to do d right thing in this Nigeria? How could an innocent wife n her kids go tru this punishment because of a crime committed by her husband.

When the world ends..

IamPopular:
Niqerian police and stupidity,arrestinq his wife and his little kids because he bouqht a stolen phone,they even slept in the cell till the followinq day... God help us in this zoo of a country

Lol I give up on Nigeria

Caris77:
My humble submission.

1) marriages pass thru phases and the phase you and your wife is determines the future of the marriage. Pls talk things out with ur wife.

2)probably you acted like most men does when it comes to marriage, which is ; "i can spend money more on my family than yours ". Am not disputing the fact that ur half went on ur dad 's medication but be honest if it were hers would you had allowed her to use her half for her parents medication. You probably would have told her to give some certain amt. And if this were the case , she must have queried herself on what the future holds and did what she did .

3)that she used her name dosent mean she stopped loving you but its for future security should incase what you did or said by asking her to leave ur house comes up.

4)oga , women are moved by what they hear and you stopped telling her how much you appreciate her effort ,started having harmless friends like you said . Some whom you sometimes compliment and of cos she felt threatened of her position and ur Love. So stop all you did or do which made her to question your integrity .

5) you sound like one who doesnt apologise when he is wrong but maybe buys gifts to makeup, and she wil forgive and you wil still do same thing again. Oga things like this can make even the softest, most forgiving woman to harbour resentments ,and the day she will explode, you will marvel at the depth of bitterness from her mouth and i guess this is why you where shocked she insulted you and family members together .
You really pushed her by telling her to leave the house and her full bitterness came up. Show ur wife love and make her fill important again.

6)finally quarel brings out the worst in ppl ,so you showed her what she feared most by telling her to leave ur house and belives putting ur family ,s need most is the reason she did what she did. Pks you guys should make up, dont allow urself think you cant beg her .if this marriage is important to you then put pride aside , call your wife and thrash things out . Let her unburden her years accumulated resentment out and make her know that there is no other her if you claim you dont have another .

Ogwula mu na onu.

Ikwuru hooha!

I still retain my comment on the other thread..
Madam don't change your house deed to his name
The story is still the same.. their really isn't much.. she was honest enough

[quote author=isaacprinz post=69540896][/quote]I don't undetstand

Akanapiaigwe:
talking of majority here sweetheart

Lol nah you do the count.. abi you be woman

Priscy01:
Read his instructive writeup and share your thoughts;
"Nigerian families destroyed most marriages Shar..
From tribe, to jealousy, to insecurity.. it's terrible..
A sister feels her brother is being jazzed by his wife because he bought her a car..
But she's keeping malice with her own husband because he hasn't done same for her

Most mother's want to overwork your wife to be to see if she's the one for you.. but be quick to advice her own daughter not to let her in-laws use her as a servant.. why ?

A father believes his son should be constantly sending him money not considering the fact that he has his own family to cater for.. and eventually when he doesn't have to give, they go with the narrative that he's spending on the in-laws more.. then the bad blood starts rolling

Families will tell their male kids not to marry a poor girl that doesn't have anything she's doing.. same families will caution their jobless daughter to only marry a rich man that can take care of her very well..why's that ?

A Yoruba girl would rather settle for a TUNDE with four to five girlfriends than an EBUKA who is a proper loyal gentleman, because she's has the orientation that nothing good will come out from dating the latter.. it's more like a song for them when they were younger. Tribe!!!

Every other family is not clean.. you'll take their names to several pastors for prayer before you decide if they can marry your child.. but did you equally take names of your own family members ?

In my town, we were made to believe that all ESAN people are witches and troublesome, that we can't marry them.. hardly will you see a delta man who's married to an ESAN woman. Hardly.. my same people dislike igbo's because they believe they're ritualists.. but what re we ?

Some families even see churches as an obstacle.. they're redeemed we re Catholic.. we can't marry them.. i mean.. isn't it the same God ?.. someone said to his son, even if it's an slowpoke I don't mind as long as she's from our town.. LoL. Really ?

Me for one never really cared about anyone I settled with.. as long as she brings me peace and makes me happy.. be her Yoruba, Igbo, efik, Tiv or idoma.. even igala and ebira.. but the family factor always plays in my head.. it's terrible. �

One of my best relationship was from a Kaduna girl.. about 4yrs older than me... Her name was arashiiaa.. she was near perfect, matured and peaceful.. the day I told my uncles about her was the day they talked me out of the relationship.. we no go fit go that side they said �

-dem too dey spoil.. she old pass you sef. Abeg go fine better girl.. everyone had flaws but us.. now If u decide to say Bleep all and go against them.. the world will turn on you when life goes south on issues which aren't even relating.. smh"

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/man-writes-on-how-some-families-have-destroyed-the-marriages-of-their-loved-ones.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Because we are HYPOCRITES!
But you are too sensible. You no no say Naija and hypo are 5&6

I am going for the cucumber soon though..

gaetano:
Afonja pink lip balm nko

Does that thing work?

Akanapiaigwe:


taaaa who's talking about dark lips
all i care about is more and more money and healthy life

Infact i love dark lips nigga more than those pinkish lips guys
they look gayish to me
dark lips looks masculine more and majority of lad ies love dark lips and masculine guys trust me.
leave pink lips for ladies joor

btw when I say black lips i don't mean that charcoal lips of a chain smoker

Nah lie..

I'm impressed.. nice one

Maturity ke..
None of them like that gal one cent
Or maybe they do.. but don't mind sharing

Lol nah way!

AgricSalt:
Ego eji anu nwanyi ito.

Lol that's polygamy nah. Marry one and buy her my phone

AgricSalt:
10k

150k.. maybe you can start from there..

greenhulk:
I believe he is asking because u said the phone has a lil crack. So people need to see the photo to see the level of damage.

Makes sense.. okay will upload soon

correctBlogger:
So there's no other phone that you can use to snap it.. when you are ready you wake me.. i am sleeping..

Lol okay will snap later

correctBlogger:
So the phone does not have photos abi... abi is it a spiritual something?

Lol I can't use it to snap itself nah.. you don't know s6 edge..