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drnoel:
Don't kid urself, she doesn't want you cos she needs you. She just wants a child by you nothing more. If U like her that much get her pregnant ans move on. She will appreciate it

OKOATA:
I remember this Mugu, everyone de advice you you de form Lover Boy, as far as I know you are not a red piller yet, you don't even know what it means. Get a life and stop revolving your life around woman.

Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
[url] https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures [/url]

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

[url] https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice[/url]

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.


This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.

realunclej:
There are many things to consider that's why I'm taking my time. For instance there is war in Europe you never can tell what will happen any moment. I'm not really keen on living abroad but will prefer the freedom of traveling to any part of the world when I want at any given time. It's not an easy decision that's why I'm trying to sample opinion. I feel like once I relocate there is no looking back.

Samakus:
Broke girl wey..

1 him papa no fit cater for,

2. dey beg ex for money,

3. Still dey serve, never dey feed herself

4, never begin make her own money

5. Dey her whoring phase and whoring it ti the high heavens..

Dey broke shame man like you wey dey feed himself, dey pay rent, dey take care of him bills..

And you're feeling bad?


NO BE JUJU BE THAT

realunclej:
still on course bro. At least I have gotten some interesting feedback. It's also educational for others. I was actually trying to get more feedback from others who have been involved in setting up a startup or have been gainfully employed as a remote worker or have relocated for work abroad

Pukkalolo:
The reason she's playing you is because from your behavior you convey that you are a guy who can easily be played. Basically, you're the easy guy. Ladies can easily play the easy guy, but they can't play the difficult guy. Girls want to Bleep the difficult guy, but they prefer friend zone and exploit the easy guy.


The easy guy vs the difficult guy.
Here are some scenarios to differentiate easy guy from difficult guy

* She says or does something disrespectful
He call her attention to her disrespectful act and/or walk away from her. She must apologize before he can continue interacting with her. He has low tolerance for bullshit --- DIFFICULT GUY.

He ignores her disrespectful act and joke with her about it and keep trying to please her. He allows her treat him anyhow she like--- EASY GUY.



* He's in a company of a girl he finds attractive
He doesn't hesistate at all. He boldly express his romantic interest in her. No beating around the bush, no time for dulling. --- DIFFICULT GUY

He acts like a nice well mannered gentle man(simp) and waits for her to make a move or show interest because he does the same. Girls friend zone him all the time --- EASY GUY


* She reject him
He walk away from her immediately, and move on to the next available girl. He never chase any woman --- DIFFICULT GUY

He keeps chasing her, and begging her to accept him. --- EASY GUY


* Meeting new women
He uses his personality, bold behavior, and conversations to woo new women. --- DIFFICULT GUY

He uses money, gifts, or his status to woo new women. --- EASY GUY


* Interacting with a Girl he likes
He's not scare of upsetting her. He's not afraid of playfully making statements that challenge her ego. He says things like "You've got nice ass, but something tells me you're wearing a fake ass" OR "you are beautiful but I just hope you're not boring, I don't roll with boring girls." This guy doesn't give a shit. When a beautiful girl misbehave, he can look her straight in the eyes and tell her "Bleep you" --- DIFFICULT GUY

He compliment her and ass lick offline and online trying to make her like him. He always makes sure he doesn't say anything that will upset her. He treats her like a goddess--- EASY GUY




* Friendship with girls
He's selfish with his attention. He doesn't really like keeping female friends, unless he's dating her or she's friends with benefits. Basically, if he's not fucking her or she's not his business partner, colleague or something important or official, then he doesn't want to socialize with her. --- DIFFICULT GUY

He's an attention LovePeddler. He waste his time on girls who doesn't really fancy him. He has lots of female platonic friends. All these girls have friendzone him. He's like a brother to these girls. --- EASY GUY


* What girls says about him
They call him , cocky, bad boy, asshole, stingy, selfish, proud... --- DIFFICULT GUY

They call him nice, caring, sweet, generous, friendly --- EASY GUY


In summary, if a girl is misbehaving, playing you or messing with you, then it's because she view as the EASY GUY. You gain nothing from being the easy guy. Easy guy is called nice, caring, sweet, generous, friendly, but Easy guy get fooled, played, Manipulated, friendzoned and exploited.

You gain a lot from being the difficult guy. Diffferent girls might call you different names like cocky, bad boy, asshole, stingy, selfish, proud.... But you won't ever get played or manipulated by girls... Women will respect you more and they will easily and naturally throw the pussy at you. Believe me, I'm speaking from experience.

Cheasystickylov:
Well in last year, I told her I was leaving the home , she simply didn't even care , she asked me why am I bothering her, I should go if I want to, no need disturbing her with it

Kollins11:
Who give a f*ck about ex-girlfriend? If you read my comment very well, you would see where I asked the op why is he going back to his "Vomit"

I only adviced him to add his ex-girlfriend to his numerous bit.ches.

That his ex-girlfriend isn't loyal at all.. How can she claim she's in a relationship with op and yet she's eating another man's banana behind op back... Infact the op sef na confirm mumu.

That bitc.h belongs to the street and she needs to be treated like a street female dog that she is.

Kollins11:
I thought you said you've moved on with your life and you have a new girlfriend?? So why are you trying to eat back your vomit?

If I were you.. I would accept your ex-girlfriend back, turn her to sex machine.. I would fvck her like an animal every morning and night till I'm satisfied, I would make sure she do abortion for me like 7 times, I would make sure I waste her precious time, I swear I'm gonna deceive her big time.

But while doing so, I would make sure i secretly focus on my new girlfriend, treat her like a queen, I won't make her perceive something fishy about me and my ex-girlfriend.

Then, after my marriage introduction with my new girlfriend.. I'm gonna dump my ex-girlfriend smelling sorry ass. Let her go and settle down with a SIMPle man.

Bro please take my advice.. This is how you treat a Nigerian girl.

Stallionhorse:
those equipment is for real men, not kids like you.. Now go to xvideos and play. Allow men be men.. Shift a beg!!

JESHAL:
Never trust women fully, always rely on their true nature which is Hypergamy, no matter how spiritual she tries to present herself that she's above the workings of the flesh,nature doesn't lie, don't be scammed

ayomikuolatunji:
A hardcore redpiller recently got a job in his career as a React Developer in a foreign firm with a lots of benefits. I started learning web development the very day this thread was created in 2020 and I have used it as map that guild my life. I appreciate every loyal members of this thread. They said redpillers are loser, bitter,non achievers, ugly, broke, and all sorts of names but we are bigger than them.

You were a bit ambiguous.
Are you the hardcore redpiller?
If so, congratulations man. Keep winning.
One thing is very certain, as long as a man devotes time to improve himself, he will make it out to the top.

Stay Taliban bro.


#redpill.

mariahAngel:
Anything less than fairness is unacceptable to me.
Don't do to others what you wouldn't want others to do to you. Simple!

mariahAngel:
Your dad wasn't fair to you.
The least he could've done was to hear both sides, then decide who deserved what.

DkJay:
When I was younger, I did something that pissed my elder sister off, I don't remember what. She came after me, teeth and fist, tore my shirt. When I had taken all I could, I swung around and hit her. Just once.

When my dad heard of it, he woke me up that night. And flogged me senseless. That insulated cable used for running underground installations, he used it till it broke and the inner components were showing.

For every stroke of his hand, I got six to eight markings. My hand was swollen for a week afterwards.

He didn't ask whether she was the offender or not. I learned my lesson that night.

No matter the provocation, a man's not meant to hit a lady.

Drfernandez:
No healthy man will ever tolerate a woman with poor character in his life and I know for sure that no healthy woman will equally tolerate a man with poor character in her life too. I create this thread to correct the misleading comments I read from Expensiverichy.b's deleted thread where some women say the fact that coco.handy has a husband and poco.hantas now has a man in her life too, even though they are said to be known as women with poor character who take pleasure in abusing men in this forum, has rubbished the age long believe that a woman needs to have a good character in order to have a man in her life and keep him. Once more, I say no healthy man will ever tolerate a woman who has poor character in his life.

Truth is that, any man who does not see anything wrong in his wife or girlfriend going from one thread to another abusing men is not healthy and a time will come when he will be the one constantly at the receiving end of her abuses. 

There is nothing wrong with a woman having her voice, like men, but there is everything wrong with a woman who takes pleasure in abusing men, or a man who does the same. A woman who has a good family background and upbringing will know that she does not need to abuse men to have a feel of sense of importance. 

Before any woman will start to broke shame me, have it in mind that money is not one of the things I lack in my life, but if you think otherwise I challenge you or the man in your life to post his assets declaration form, if he has any, from anywhere in the world, while I post mine. Or, we can appoint some independent members of the forum and pay them to go and verify our individual assets. 

I am not jealous either, because I am a married man and I am not looking for a new wife or mistress.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 167, REDPILL 2022

I don't care about a woman's dark side!

1. Humans are in their real form when no one is watching, they are free to do what they like because they are not threatened and opposed; they are not criticized and bedizened with arrows of shame and guilt. They just live for every moment as they have no one to please.

2. Men feign strength in the presence of others and women feign submissiveness. Pretense is a result of them being compelled by an outward entity to demonstrate or represent a realm of quality beyond their capacity. And as a result, you will not know their depth.

3. Women are more neurotic than men, and can easily let out their emotions, especially under pressure. However, with their dark side, they are very protective and secretive about it. The details of her dark side, her inner wh0re can only be ascertained by her; with the sisterhood, she is careful about this side of hers.

Women do relate with each other emotionally and can either render help to themselves willingly or grudgingly. They are careful about this dark side of themselves because when things go sour, women slut shame themselves even more than men thereby unleashing told secrets.

4. You can mistake superficiality for ingenuity during the vetting process and end up committing to a chameleon. You will be shocked when you discovered it by chance because you never considered her dark side when vetting.

How can you be able to get a glimpse of her dark side?

5. Romance is the damn of men, like wine in excess fill in the stomach, he ends up acting in weird manners even though wine also brings warmness, joy, and gladness to the heart. Romance and wine act similarly when it comes to men, but one is for beautiful maidens and the other for the stomach respectively.

6. To know this dark side, you must act on the same emotional plane as women. Not that you are foregoing logic and rationale, but you must be cautious about them as women shy into their shells when they first notice it because logic is an embodiment of criticism and judgment; those that are conflict avoidants stay aloof from this zone because the result if not favorable is ostracism. Keeping secrets is for this reason.

7. You need to connect with her on the same level of emotional bonding: bring yourself to her level, assume your ways are like hers or share a similar scenario you have experienced concerning this dark side. Make fun of it and express excitement about it. The essence is to make her feel relaxed. Once done, she begins to feel that you have a dark side too and will gradually let hers out. Amplify every little detail shared to get to the nitty-gritty. She may not expose all of her dark sides but at least, you will get hold of it and what it contains.

8. If you are eager to get her, that is, you are chasing her all around, she will not expose much of these details; the women you chase will never because they don't trust you enough and they will cover up for this dark side with grandiosity making you feel they are what they appear. Female celebrities in every sector of life are on this table. The grandiosity of some may be out of their achievement, however, it is this achievement that encapsulates their dark side.

To know about a book, you must read it.

Authority: Be wise.

Cc. Someoneschild2, dhiqson et al.,

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Men. No matter how much you love your wife.Please and please, always be the trouble maker in your house.
Shikinan.

Only the wise will understand this.

@OP. You shouldn't be worried about the time she goes out on Mondays to get what she needed for her business because the reason she gave is very valid considering the type of business she does. Your concern should be in the areas of her dirtyness,carelessness,lies,non challant attitudes and her inabilities of taking corrections/ making amends.

But the whole truth is that all was your fault because you have allowed such behaviours for a very long time.

SweetVibe:
Kings in the house, something interesting happened yesterday. There is this pretty girl whom I was kind of interested in,she has been acting indifferent all this while but I just played along to eat her cockies.
Yesterday out of the blues she called my number for the first time (I was the one previously doing the calling). She started acting all loving and caring on the phone which made me confuse, next thing she asked me what was my favourite meal and I told her vegetable soup and eba,she said she will prepare it right away and call me when it is ready. After she dropped the call I was wondering where the sudden love came from for a lady whom has never even gave me her attention before,anyway I still payed along.

3 hours later she called me that the meal is ready and I should come and eat,I insist she brings it to my house but she refuse and told me her younger sis came to stay with her and she doesn't trust her to leave her alone in the house (I smell lies). I told her okay I will come later. I arrived at her place later in the evening and I met a very expensive meal with costly fruit juice on the table,( I was still confuse) in order to be on the safe side (poison or karashika things) I insist we eat together which she accept. I it was one of the most delicious meal I have ever eaten,after eating we gist and did some little romance but she refuse sex. l left for my house later. She chatted me so sweet and loving through out the night.

Then this morning, something shocking happened. She called me by 8:am this morning and begin to sound sober,when I asked her what the issue was; she told me an urgent need came up and she is in need of #20k cash from me and that she promise to be pay back by next week ( I laughed in my heart)
I told her straight forward that I don't have right now.Next thing she asked me; do you know who is speaking? I said yes it's you Victoria,she said "it's me Victoria you visited yesterday o"? I said yes I know but I don't have any cash here with me,she insisted I do transfer and I told her that will not be possible for now. After I ended the call my brain begin to understand the reason for her fake caring and loving yesterday which gave me a deep insight to always be skeptical when a b**tch is acting all loving all of a sudden.
Guys always be wise,this b**tches are extremely maniputive.stay wise and smart.

heartofcity12:
It is a big shame supposed Redpillers can’t even maintain frame on here. That shows some of you aren’t learning anything here and I’m highly disappointed, you keep engaging the troll and you expect her to stop? you’re making it too easy for her by rubbing yourselves in the muds with her. I wonder how some of you deal with women in real life when you can not maintain frame here and simply ignore that monicker, what a pity. It’s why girls keep dealing with some of you mercilessly even after going through Redpill contents on here daily, you’ll continuously keep crying and getting dealt with, it’s not a curse, it’s a fact, since you don’t learn. Just simply practice what you read or preach here.. Avoid trolls and bluepilled guys on here, is that too much to do? Smh

Raalsalghul:
Is there anything bad with above because I see you are now coming with that "running away from responsibilities" comment.

Why the world hates a well to do man that is not yet married is something I am yet to fathom. If it's a woman, they applaud her for being independent and whatnots.

I guess this ties into the theory that men are supposed to be workhorses/burden bearers till death huh?

Something must tie him down at every moment: he must be slaving for something?

His resources must be geared towards servicing whatever whims and caprices the society wants?

I guess that's the ideal picture in you people's head.

And this is the reason why I go soft on cheating married men.

Young chap hustles all his life: small change enter him hand you force him into marriage without leaving out his peak and fantasies to a lady who's most likely not a virgin and has lived out hers.

It's outright unfair if you ask me.

Qpid5:
Na why I no like to the do pass my power o. See, two of them are at fault here, they lack senses and as it would be always be, one must actually get hurted (the yeye girl)
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Here is my point.
The guy asked the lady on Twitter, requested for a date, then took her to where they sell food worth N16,500(expensive restaurant)
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Now the idiot guy claiming he doesn't have up to that amount. Ok, he knows he doesn't lived up to the task but behaving as one that does. He no get money, he d go twitter go meet babe, na mumu he be
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The girl part, considering where they first met (twitter) and where they fixed the date(expensive restaurant) makes her realise the guy is genius enough to have fixed a date like this. So she thinks the guy get money
Where she mumu be say, you see person d order for only water and pie, you no ask what's up, at least eye signs to know what's up, you come d other for food worth 16k.
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The guy think say he wise but he don reduce him respect from 5 to 0..
Now him name don spoil

Kingkumsecond:
You too like vawulence comrade!

are you satanist? if yes, i will like us to discuss on a dead thread. should i mention you?