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Your daughter should open a thread on Nairaland with the topic: "MY MOTHER'S BAD GRAMMAR."

What in the Holy Hell is "My daughter small handwriting". Shouldn't it be "My daughter's small handwriting"?

Kollins11:
between me and you, who is a fvcking SIMP here? If you know me on this forum, you won't be saying this gibberish to me.

Just imagine, you're insulting me just because you're trying to defend a girl... Infact Your SIMP stinks like a mature He-goat.

Na Sango and Amadioha go strike your mama smelling kpekus.

SMH. It is one thing to be a simp and another thing to be an ignorant, repulsive and prideful simpleton.
Disgusting dingbat.

That's how you go about sending women your dick photos, asking them for sex. Denigrating yourself and other men in the process.
Look at the toxic thing you were pestering for sex, even when she was insulting you.
Do you not have any standards at all?

Many fools here saying the son should sleep in the sitting room.
Imagine.
Are men born to suffer?
So the boy should sleep in the sitting room while the girl enjoys the whole room to herself at night?
The girl get two heads? Why can't she too sleep in the sitting room so the boy cab sleep in the bedroom.

That's how unnessasry divisions start cropping up in the family.

OP, you girl is spoilt and that's a fact.
She probably masturbates while alone in a room, or she probably has stuff she smuggles in and out of the house which you do not know.

When I was young, I had three siblings and we all slept in one room without issues.
But you think your daughter at her tender age deserves a room for herself.
Okay.

Keep on spoiling the brat.

Kollins11:
I know you like big preek. Stop pretending.

Simp stop pestering her stupid fool.
That's how you guys go about denigrating yourselves and putting these ladies on a pedestal.

Mumu

EmiDon11:
Is NATO aware of the invasion?

President Biden has called for a UN security council meeting to discuss this invasion.
Rumors are flying that Russia will veto any possible sanctions on the invaders.

Richy4:
<<<Firstly.. Stay away from nepotism... It's a bad business...

<<Secondly... It's a bad idea working together with your wife in the same team...Reason being that if there's a problem in the family, it might affect the productivity as well as the team's efforts to finish a project... Because both of u will not bring in your best...

<< Thirdly...If there's a conflicts at your place of work and your wife was involved, and u discovered that she was at fault,.. if u decide to take a decision in favour of the other person, as the boss, be100% certain that that decision you took will escort you back home...

<< Finally.. jealousy... If she was promoted more than you. Or suddenly u found out that she was 'doing over well'. u might start questioning her faithfulness... Or if a lady is your boss.. and u were being promoted and she was left out... U don't need to know how that will make her feel... That's where office rumours will start flying... Again the idea that she's too playful, familiar etc with a co-worker might make u hate someone unjustly... Hence probably hindering the career advancement of the worker or dismissing whatever good intentions/ suggestions he has for the team.. which might affect productivity..

<< Look for an opening for her in another department... Or u can bring her in and work for her transfer to another section or department... But nepotism has never worked for any country...

OP this the advice you should follow.
Do otherwise and you'll regret it.
Take my word for it.

[quote author= post=113709510]Ariaria International market Aba to shut down Wednesday, Thursday & Friday for #PVC collection. Ladies & gentlemen #Mr_Peter_Obi is actually more than a movement.[/quote]I love this.

Peter Obi is not a Saint, but he is the best of the crop.

Nigerians must utilise this opportunity to vote out crooked APC and prevent equally crooked PDP from occupying ASO Rock.

Peter Obi is the only chance we have at saving Nigeria from imminent, total collapse.

PETER OBI 2023!!!

Yes kick APC out and vote in Labour Party.
APC and PDP are filled with crooked politicians.

This is the only chance Nigerians have at steering the course of this country.
We cannot and we will not mess it up.

PETER OBI for president 2023.
GET YOUR PVC READY MY PEOPLE!!

Burma boy is a disgusting cultist.
Am arrest warrant should be issued for that bastard. This incident shouldn't be swept under the carpet.

Cultists like this shouldn't be above the law.
Lawless animal.

Burma boy is a fuckinggg idiot.
In a sane country, an arrest warrant should have been issued for him.

That bastard deserves to be jailed.

ZIMDRILL:
i think you are 1 overthinking 2 using the wrong
words

1 for a woman to became a mother she needs a ma to sleep with so we are equally important for the woman to be able to
cook in the kitchen 70% of woman need a men to be the provider (women =i need a man who can look after me ) (men = i need a woman to cook for me etc)

2 you dont to control your woman but she needs to understand your views, direction and adapt
for me control is a heavy word

3 most culture, religon and law are set up by man, eg mostly it is men who sit down a decide what downry to charge, women are still fighting for equall rights meaning most set ups favour men. There are more charity organisation to help girl/woman than men meaning the world thinks women are being disadavantaged/not in control

without bias we equally need each other to equally called a father or mother

i think you wanted to ask "who has more influence over a child the mother or father?"

Its hard to say who has more influence becoz of what one becames when we became adults, from my point of view if women have the most influence am sure most men would be better husbands than what we have in reality

Your last paragraph classified you as a stupid idiot.

henrimoto:
Are you a fulani man by tribe ? Or are you from iran ? If you are not from any of the above... She (niece) is not your only option. That your niece still be pikin o.

Marrying one's niece is an entitlement of Fulani people and not to others?
What stupid talk is this?

heartofcity12:
Genuine desire or nothing.. #trp

Truth.
If she is not showing high interest and commitment, abort the relationship.
Unless you want to pump and dump.

Again, men must learn that genuine attraction cannot be bought and cannot be negotiated.
If it isn't there, it isn't there.
Cut your losses and move on fast.

heartofcity12:
Redpill

Golden words.

Chikeluba25:
More

What about Awka millennium city?

dopeonlove:
I read your story , I shake head. I hope she no get bipolar ? I was very happy when I got to the part you wrote, all the red flags were there during your courtship but you foolishly went ahead to marry her . So you brought sorrow , tears and sadness to your self, thinking that things would change. I don't know how old your wife is , but I know that things ( lifestyle) that did not change over 30 years of her existence would not change now .

Anyways, I don't have much to say but to thank God for my life. My relationship of over a year now has been a very turbulent one from the very first day till date and I once believed things would change, but my brother , things are just getting worst and I am planning to go ahead with the marriage. However, Something very strange happened by she, taking her madness to my family and every one was stunned !

Imagine your wife telling you and your family she can't bear your surname and you should bear hers ?? Baba , it was a narrow escape and really thank God almighty for coming to my rescue. Now reading this your story even makes me feel I am on the right track not to regret my actions very soon .

My advice for you right now is to try as much as possible to stay away from reporting her to her family of any kind , pastors and councillors ( as it has not been working but only makes her more angry ) . Always try to make your wife happy . Be the first to apologize. Put in more effort to be a gentle , sweet , romantic, caring and loving husband . Go with her love languages, just maybe, she may see a reason to love you again. The reason for this is because the old ways ain't working so you need a change of approach to save your marriage. Lastly, put her in prayers! Good luck in your future endeavours.

Guy you're such a disgusting fool.
Look at the rubbish your wrote up there as advice.

You simply don't have an ounce of sense in you.
That's why you would have headed into marriage with a demon of not that your family intervened.
But you still have not gotten sense. I'm sure the next woman you meet will be worse.

If you don't change your mentality now, prepare for a marriage worse than the OP's own.

You're so disgusting and brainless.
Tueh!

Iritating simp.

imagrg:
Don't judge please. Learn to treat a woman with the respect she deserves.
If we don't ask her for sex perhaps she wouldn't be called such derogatory names. We made them what they are.

Stupid, hopeless simp.
I hope you die.

imagrg:
It's like beating your own mother!

I know say their mouth nor good sha, but never you raise your hands to beat her please.

Fool.

Prettygirl200:
I slightly agree with some of the things u said but not all. The one I didn't agree with was the one u said a man's and a woman punch are same abi how u take talk am. The physical strength of a woman and a man can never and will never be the same. A man can slap a woman and she will faint, but no slap of a woman can make a man faint or even stagger. If u feel u must hit a woman bc she hit u, then slap her on her cheeks and leave her there only that will reset her brains, u don't have to start exchanging punches with her like u are fighting with your fellow man bc at the end of the day she will be the one to end up with bruises her punches will make little or no effect on your body. So please rewrite this your post.

Stupid talk from a stupid fool.
So going by your useless analogy, if I punch Mike Tyson I should expect only a slap on the cheeks from him. Cos my punch can't do him damage but his punch will send me to hospital??

You are a big and useless, disgusting fool.

Cashio:
You can't be sure what she feels until you tell her your intentions. She can only say yes or no, she nor go beat you.
So my friend, shoot your shot. You can go like...hey babe, actually, the first time I stopped to engage in a discussion with you, I actually wanted to let you know how I have been feeling about you since the first time i saw you in church around February. However, on a second thought, I felt it would be too sudden and so I felt I needed more time to clarify if it was actually love I felt and at this time, I am completely sure I feel love for you and would like it if you would like to give US a try and see if we could work out together.

OP ml try this rubbish.
No follow this stupid advice.

See how men sell themselves cheap? See the nonsense and stupid words wey this fool dey spot from his mouth. Tueh!
Useless simp.

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synticate:
Don't know who needs to read this right now...


Have you heard that women act like cats, and men act like dogs? Ever
wondered what‘s going on? Have you ever tried to make friends with a cat, but
gave up because the cat wanted nothing to do with you?

Go over to a friend‘s house with a cat that seems to avoid being petted.
But instead of going over to the cat and trying to pet it, I want you to
completely ignore the cat.
Don‘t even look at it.
If you sit for long enough and pay NO attention to the cat, it will probably
come over and rub up against you, or walk by to see what you do.

Now, at this point most guys will reach out and try to pet the cat, thinking
―Oh, it‘s OK to pet it now that the cat is coming to me.‖
Don‘t do it!
Keep pretending that the cat doesn‘t exist.
Before you know it, the cat will be up on your lap. Guess what you should
do now? Right! Gently push it away. After doing this a few times, you‘ll have a
cat that probably won‘t leave you alone.


What‘s going on here?
Well hell if I know!
I just know that it works!
Whenever I meet a cat that I don‘t know, I always pretend like it doesn‘t
exist and wait for it to come to me. Then I push it away a few times. The cat
usually winds up on my lap purring to no end.

I often hear, ―Wow, that cat doesn‘t make friends with anyone that fast‖ or
―I‘ve never seen that cat let someone pet her so soon‖, etc. The point is that
this is the language of cats. And, interestingly enough, it‘s also a fantastic
introduction to the language of women and attraction.

Undiluted wisdom.

DKM123:
The way gay men on this forum h8te it when REAL men admire the beauty of a woman ehn?! Hahahaha! Your mancrush will still not look at you if you like cry over the way men NATURALLY admire women it still will not make your fellow men love you.

Even in the animal kingdom, the male animals are mostly the ones who go after the female cos nature has made it so.
Your little nairaland tears will not change it. It's IMPOSSIBLE! It will be that way till eternity. Deal with it!

Stupid simp

You are reaping the fruits of your simping.

Not only is she mismanaging the money, she is also apparently jobless.

This is what happens when you marry a fool who has no job.

Highly disgusting.
Death to simps.

Astrokid911:
It just too much any small post Dem don comment ,you are a weakling, a disgrace to manhood blah blah blah , I don't even know which method to do follow girl again ,give ur take about this

Don't a silly simp.
Ignorance is a disease.

HOMA777:
To everyone who have commented, I truely appreciate. God bless you all amen.

In all candour, I didn't bring the issue here to paint my fiancee otherwise. Personally, I have been through real life situation that is very deep and I lost everything except my life that older men comments if they were in such situations they will run away or commit suicide but here I am today doing extra good.

My concern is her thinking of such remedy.
9-5job I earn six figure, daily perks plus side hustle is juicy too occasionally.

I am an Islamic faith, Early hours of today we talked about it again and this time i applied all that have been suggested here. I got a shocking response from her that, I have changed, i now think too much, I don't cuddle her like I do every night, I don't talk to her like I do before, I now choose to sleep alone in the other room, that she's concerned about how I have been reacting. Though we never stop eating together and she needs me to be Lively like I use to be. She just wants me to be happy all the time. That the ritual talk was a test to know how deep I care about her and everytime she mentions I will tell her to hold on, since I have shared alot of reasons to stay off such remedy she is not going to do or mention such again. She have also apologised.

Once again, double thank you to everyone.
Not all single mom are bad some with beautiful soul are still out there honestly.

Smh
Low self esteemed, low value, sub class man.
I don't know whether you're a fool, an idiot or both.
Any body who entangles with a single mother with the intent of marriage is a hopeless fool.

The golden rule remains, AVOID MARRIAGE WITH SINGLE MOTHERS.