Rozz:
no love compared to a father's love for her only daughter.

Xj2020:
I pray you don't come across a highly deceptive and manipulative woman. Amen.

pocohantas:

Every scorpion has a venomous sting, a few are LETHAL.

ibkayee:

Lol not really, no bad experiences either, just nothing special enough worth noting. I think I've had like 4 nokia phones, including this one which was cute

Ishilove:

You don't know Carlton Banks?

pocohantas:

I am just 38, Ishi. Who is he?

merahki:
@ OP, I don’t know what to say. Child welfare services exist for some reason in other climes. To work on behalf of children whose parent(s) are a danger to their existence and wellbeing.
Our extended family system is dying, or relatives would look out for the child. No extended family, no child services, just that person for a mother, the poor, poor child.

CHoccolaTE:


Oga you be atheist ni?

Because if you are either christian or Muslim I dont know why you are here arguing against someone saying its not womans job to provide for the family.

Biblically and Islamically you men were ordained to provide, your wife can decide to assist you but it's not her duty or an obligation for her.

Mariangeles:

You made no sense at all.
Whose name do the children bear?

Mariangeles:


It is not a woman's duty to bear children for the man and still provide for them.
You want her to die young? Are you wicked?

As for you, don't go and hustle you hear? Keep looking for a woman you'll scam into "I'll make it in future" marriage.

Hathor5:

[s]I am not fighting. I just want to know why you think you are so important that anyone would disturb you after a crime has been committed. [/s]

Hathor5:
[s]This is the kind of person I expected behind these horrible pictures.
And she feels 'woke'. [/s]

Oluromantic:

Lol is it all women that have control over their love or appetite for money or even have manners? You're talking as if you just came into the world or you just reached puberty. We have people who have control over their desire and those who don't. It's been like that and will continue to be in both genders. But one is seen as a crime while the other is looked over

udopee:

Real women that understand what it means to be a woman should own their sense of personal value. Don't let people in the world convince you that the role of a woman is a powerless and useless thing.

Decide to be a complete woman in love with her life and her God. As you become complete in God's Love, you will find yourself more satisfied than you have ever been. You are not relying on anyone for validation or your happiness.

Hathor5:

I know dear. That's why I refuse to eat cheap meat. Meat should always be a luxury. If not for the love of animals then for our own health. The ways they keep the price so low is And because it is so cheap oyinbo will throw away all the different parts of the animal we would still eat.

ibkayee:

[s]Your analogies are easy, clearcut examples of leaving an object in a vulnerable location. Like I said, they can be likened to scantily clad women literally twerking on a convicted rapist. Obvious scenarios, minimal gray areas

‘Decency’ however, is so subjective (especially in Nigeria) and delusions so rampant by the assaulters that when you find out what was ‘suggestive’ dressing, you will be shocked to find it was as ‘mild’ as a sleeveless shirt. People’s concepts of decency vary, it’s not uncommon to see things like ripped jeans considered as ‘immoral’.

And there are plenty of sickos who are twisted enough to use their own warped perception of what they consider decent and what is not as an excuse to rape.

More often than not the ‘indecency’ is a dress that hugs her figure enough to see a bit of an outline or a glimpse of a waist bead at a party than a scantily clad woman visiting an unknown person’s house (which most people would agree is unwise).

You may be one of the ones that can decipher reasonably (cough), but a scary amount of them either can’t or choose not to. Like I said, although the fault of rape is always the rapist's alone, teaching preventive measures (without victim-blaming) can be useful and practical, but a blanket statement of ’tell them not to be indecent’ is way too simplistic knowing the mentalities of the type of people we're dealing with[/s]

FirefliesSun:

I believe you are educated enough to know civilization started in Africa or let's say in-between Mesopotamia and Egypt in 3100 BC

saucecode:
Kai see lightskin yansh.

Pocohantas would have been perfect if she does not hype herself too much.

cococandy:

I usually do that because other banks will want to charge me fees anyway. Thief people.

egopersonified:
I don't really get this thread. How can't you know a guy is married when you stay in the same town and have a sex inclusive relationship? You mean you never slept over in his house?

Hathor5:

I was wondering if they really thought the argument they put forward was logical and made any sense or if they were actually trolling and trying to be provocative. If I am being nice I'd think it is the latter.

ibkayee:

People are outraged because she's a minor with minimal autonomy and responsibility for herself, being sexualized and very possibly getting the attention of pedophiles?

merahki:



I see it now too
I will modify as I remember better/more.
I have been accused of being unambitious, irresponsible, idealistic, self involved but those ones are true kinda