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Queendera:
bros no mind this one o.

Please go and collect your things. Not showing gratitude is disgusting regardless of the gender.

Your mama no born u to slave for another person. Please go and collect your things and lock up

harqinhola:
What question did you ask her to answer ?

bonnez:
You no get ya own house? Why are you always in her own house?

MrBrownJay1:
does she hide you from the neighbor's wife too?

MrBrownJay1:
does the above happens when ANY neighbour is around or just that man?!

zed7:
Are you a toddler? Only toddlers are easily deceived.

Patented:
if you value your peace of mine. you either demand to be introduced to the Man as who you are or you should just walk away.
my inner mind says walk away sha

UnusualEmissary:
Do whatever you can to make her open up to you about the REAL reason why she hides you from that particular man.

Or try finding out through other means

Weknowbetter:
You can't raise your kids but want to raise somebody else's? You'll regret it

SPRINCE001:
Why not focus on your two kids, Raise them well give them best life and maybe later in the future you can then choose to have a wife.

Why putting your neck into something that will later backfire. 20k each weekend you visit.

Why not spend these money on your kids and yourself growth, Must you Knack for now? If yes why not get a side chick instead

Ynix:
You are mentally not ready for marriage. Since you already have kids outside of wedlock I will advise you push your energy into become a high valuable person.
If you can fix your mind and yourself then getting married won't be a issue.
Focus on developing yourself and not looking for a woman to complete you

Berrityga:
Lemme not lie I experience same thing, I've lost many good girls cause of it. The worst part is that I nor may get bruises most times I have sex cause of the longevity. My present girl is always scared of my sex. She says I'm always pounding her hard and I don't release fast. I started drinking king sugary stuffs but e no dey work. You see that drink called action bitters God go punish the people wey do am. Two weeks ago one new babe wey I just dey guide cause her family hold bar. Run from my house with her cloths in her hands. She literally wore her cloths outside my house. After she left she blocked me. Sometimes I ask God if my prick is a blessing or a course.

mmadu5:
peter obi better is more active and full of life than tinubu . it shall never be well with all of you that voted lifeless dead man


Yoruba people have shown that they don't want the progress of Nigeria nor do they like Igbo's . this election has shown that

aameyah:
Oh puhleez! The name is Aameyah. Double A, you olodo.
Now back to you because this is not about my submissiveness or lack of.

I can see you are seriously pained that you had to quote me twice (truth hurts). See who is dishing out advice about homes. Do you have a home yourself? Is it not the one a woman is managing to help you build that you are throwing away for a paltry 100k?
Just take a deep look at your sorry life and make amends. Else, na baby papa you go everly be....

daniel56:
I think u should send her message, and use another line to chat with her, b4 u start ask her for forgiveness, and tell her some part of ur story, tell her to meet u to get all d story, send that lady away, if u want d lady u love.

aameyah:
You men and kalo kalo (cheating nature).
Just look at you and at how you painted her the devil while you are the angel.
She is abusive. She nags. She is not submissive. She disrespects your mum. She goes through your phone at night. She does this, she does that. Shuoo. Only you!

From this your whiney post, you sound like a nagging, immature boy filled with bitterness and complaints. It is so obvious you are the one with the issue. Yelz!!

First year, you never knew she was like this. Second. Third. Fourth. Bros, where you blind? Or simply because you have seen a fresh chick that wants to give you 100k (cheap gigolo like you, selling his soul for 100k when your mates are putting 500k into MMM as spare change ).

You are in what you claim is a committed relationship yet you chat up random girls after chasing away her own male friends, getting her pregnant and reducing her desirability in a highly saturated love market.
Put yourself in her shoes. Would you fold your hands while she chats a guy who wants to "invest" money in her business? Won't you accuse her of promiscuity? Ehn, broda sege the angel?
Would you fold your hands and watch her sell herself for a paltry change (as you are doing) and watch 5years go down the drain? (Even though you are not worth it, you are still the father of her child and half bread is better than non).

In fact you are lucky she only goes through your phone at night. She hasn't poured you hot water while sleeping and run away with the baby after clearing the house down to nothing. That is why you have the mouth to proclaim love to this your 100k lady.

aameyah:
You men and kalo kalo (cheating nature).
Just look at you and at how you painted her the devil while you are the angel.
She is abusive. She nags. She is not submissive. She disrespects your mum. She goes through your phone at night. She does this, she does that. Shuoo. Only you!

From this your whiney post, you sound like a nagging, immature boy filled with bitterness and complaints. It is so obvious you are the one with the issue. Yelz!!

ameyah or what do u call ursef ?
Am not surprised at all...
Is this how u behave too?
U better change ur lifestyle
A woman who does not submit herself can never have a home

First year, you never knew she was like this. Second. Third. Fourth. Bros, where you blind? Or simply because you have seen a fresh chick that wants to give you 100k (cheap gigolo like you, selling his soul for 100k when your mates are putting 500k into MMM as spare change ).

You are in what you claim is a committed relationship yet you chat up random girls after chasing away her own male friends, getting her pregnant and reducing her desirability in a highly saturated love market.
Put yourself in her shoes. Would you fold your hands while she chats a guy who wants to "invest" money in her business? Won't you accuse her of promiscuity? Ehn, broda sege the angel?
Would you fold your hands and watch her sell herself for a paltry change (as you are doing) and watch 5years go down the drain? (Even though you are not worth it, you are still the father of her child and half bread is better than non).

In fact you are lucky she only goes through your phone at night. She hasn't poured you hot water while sleeping and run away with the baby after clearing the house down to nothing. That is why you have the mouth to proclaim love to this your 100k lady.

3KINGZ18:
If u leave her what will happen to your child

LorDBolton:
After reading this part of your epistle, I can't help but pity you.

Treasuredlove:
See, go and sit down. You are no saint. The fact that she begged and agreed with you that she is "bad" might just be because she wants peace to reign. It shows her maturity. A man that can come out and call his woman different names in public without remorse is a stupid man. In fact, I think she should be the one running away from you. How have you even positively impacted her life? Have you tried setting something up for her and she used up all the money for makeup? Have you ever tried getting her a job and she told you she is not going to work? Grass is not greener from the other side. Build a woman and she will help you build mansions. Your case just dey annoy me, I dunno why. I don't like men that always transfer blame and never take responsibility for their actions or lack of it

drealaz24:
Don't leave this girl. The girl still loves you and you can change her attitude with this current situation of things.

Firstly, this girl don't know that her actions were wrong. Thank God, u have shown her that several times.

Secondly, this girl loves you so much. She doesn't want to lose you. This is evident in that she can stay up in the night just to check ur phone to see if no one is snatching her husband away. once u start showing her some love and reassurances, she will definitely change.

my verdict: (Threaten her). Take some bold and big step that you are no longer interested in marrying her and be serious about it.

Result Analysis:

This might bring her back to her senses, as she wud realize and question her own excesses. Yoruba adage says "the day a mad man knows he is mad, he is cured that day". So if she value your relationship, she wud change immediately. but remember, change is a gradual process, so be patient with her.

if this doesn't work, leave her immediately, as she is not likely to change in the nearest future.

Mind you, as for the other lady, you might know her other side, and probably she might even be worse, however everything is a risk.

Abo oro lazo fun omoluabi, ti Oba denu e. A Di odidi.