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Absuchat:
Better wall gecko never fall for en head inside wardrobe before.... Make en just dey play.



It was here on nairaland that we read how a couple that filed for divorce came to court on matching outfits ; D
Inukwa akuko

pls share me the link

GRACEGLORY:
Look at this one too

Sí ò sí?

jackcanfield:
I don't know, but I know most men who make this mistake tend to be suicidal, especially when they realize a woman ended their story and appeasement doesn't mean you won't serve the punishment, but it helps in the healing process.

I’m the only person that understands your points .

There was a day my girl got me so angry that I almost lose my sanity.. as in my body was literally shaking I just managed to leave house and went to my pos friend at nearly junction. I was with the guy for some hours , joking and arguing stuffs and before I knew it the anger had gone and she was even calling to know where I was , begging me that she’s cooked and all that.. if I had not controlled myself that day , ha, maybe na kirikiri I go Dey now.


Anger is a very dangerous thing and if one can control it, you’ve solved 50% of your problems .

Trust me the guy go dey wish say everything na dream. Infact he fit don commit suicide self.

OgogoroFreak:
Buy only bitcoin. That is how you win.

Leave alt coins alone. The creators are using your money to buy bitcoin for themselves.

All those other nonsense will go to fvcking ZERO!

like if you agree to this point , share if you don’t .
I want to check something ..

lawani:
Of course who you meet depends on where you are, where you mix and etc and that includes the internet and etc we are not in the nineteenth century and even in the nineteenth century, a well cultured and intelligent slave can marry a princess free of charge. However what you can achieve depends majorly on what you think you can achieve but to think you must be financially well off as a man to marry is not a good policy to carry about in your head

you’re deviating from the context of discourse. Stay on the topic. Women are hypergamous !!
In this 2023 , it’s virtually impossible to match a “well-to-do lady with your pittance salary( except I don’t understand meaning of well to do again )..., infact , what you earn determines what you eat, where you live , how you look, and to a great extent, who you know!!.

Things like this pain me so much cos you deeply know what you’re saying is not corresponding to the reality.. and funnily enough , some people on here will start having quack mindset of husling for “well-to-do” women instead of husling hard on self development..

Ilekokonit:
E go get to some point where you will be staring at one another from opposite sides of the sofa and thinking inwardly that :- se na like this I go dey go. Is this all life has in stock for me going forward Na like this I go take live the rest of my life

Rotfl

Godisablealltim:
look for a rich girlfriend but make sure you you hit her very well on your first intercos. Ladies will go extra miles for u when you knack the hell outta them pussy.

lol as if you have a rich girlfriend yourself

molybdenum0012:
No 2 is wrong. The best advice should be avoid broke women. Women with money can still change his life and turn his life around, talking from experience oo. Make una no dey give useless advice

bro, stop twisting reality just to appear smart.
99.99% chances are that he can’t meet women with money while earning 25k in naija… stop watching nollywood movies. To catch quality women who have things going on for them, you need to be doing well and position yourself in a viable location .. bro reality is different from what you read online or watch from movies.. share your experience let’s hear you !

yusufmurry:
My friend (graduate) was earning 15k in a school

he’s dumb if as a graduate, he’s earning such miserable amount.
Pls don’t tell blame it on anything, blame it on him.

It’s virtually impossible to survive on 25k monthly in this present economy . Please there’s nothing anyone can say to convince me . You can’t solely survive on that amount no matter your doggedness.

Bro you’ve not got a job yet, this is not funny atall. Find means, find ways to survive . At worst you’ll manage 60k which translates to 2k daily . 25k is just 800 naira, shey u no go pay transport, u no go chop ni ? U no go blow whistle? U no go buy data ? U no go buy cloth? U no go pay rent? Except you’re seeing support and tips here and there , but 25k solely it is not possible in every sense of it, even if you Dey drink everyday!!!!!!!!.

Daviestunech:
Snoring.... because I snore alot too


To me, if u ain't snoring u not enjoying your sleep

you’re fat

Bills till you die

nnamdizen:
There is no argument anywhere sir, you may have misunderstood my post, maybe out of spite for "Nigerian men" as you have categorized us, but my two cent about the matter at hand is that we men most times dont get our priorities right especially when we are involved with the opposite sex, but they on the other hand knows exactly what they came for and how to get it, when they sense decline or reduction in the benefit they came for, or get a better offer elsewhere, they switch without looking back. That my friend is called business transaction and nothing more!

Incase no one has ever told you , you’re very smart.
I follow u

Oodua to the world

sukkot:
that whole population thing is a lie. It's not humanly possible for 45 million to become 200 million in 60 years

To achieve over 200mp with 45m population ,
2/3 of the population needs to produce 5kids every 30 years.
That’s if my math teacher sabi work

1k .
Twice in a month

soberdrunk:
How do you give 2.5 million to someone without any form of security in this present day Nigeria where everybody eyes dey red. For me to give you 2.5 million I will know you and your next of kin in and out, down to the location of your village shrine......

You know a fraudster house and family no mean say e no fit scam u o.

It all boils down to reliability and reputation. Take for example there are people I’ve run millions of naira deals with on here without seeing their pictures self.

phemsie:
no matter how comfortable you are, if fuel is sold for 2k per liter, u can't fill ur tank from empty every time. no dey cap nonsense

lmao. Talk for yourself you know his net worth?

Take this from me, you’ll die of hbp if you accommodate them . See wait wait, shey u think say na beans to Dey feed 7 people everyday
Atleast you need spend 20k per day to cater for them in this economy , when you’re not a politician, that’s 900k on basic needs alone o, even if you have the financial means now, at some point, you’ll get tired and die before your time.


I’m sorry to say, you have to choose between your peace of mind and endless stress.

Not buying car when you have the means is pure stupidity. A car in 2023 is a necessity especially for a business person.

Op I don’t believe your story , but if it’s true, see no be everything woman talk u go take for heart if not u go just get hbp..take this advice from me, as much as you’re taking care of your family , don’t forget to take care of yourself too, find money, buy correct car, eat better food, build small house, and save the remaining money towards your old age.


However to people asking op how he makes 500k monthly , I don’t want to sound mean but 500k is just like 17k daily, honestly it’s quite achievable depends on your kinds of business . It’s not really a big money , when you start earning it, you’ll realize that your savings might not be proportional to your earning self.

Abeg , shey we don Dey bull run ??

blowjohn:
It's always easy to teach people how to make money in a way that is not realistic when u become rich and successful. They will tell u to ne focused, they will tell u to make use of any opportunities etc as if focus =capital

Oga dangote na capital give u breakthrough yes or no.

That's what the youths lack. Good capital.


E no get as e want be, give a man 50 million naira, he will be richer one way or the other.

not really. I know many people that squandered more than that amount , although they’re not so broke today, they’re just surviving ..

Adachizzy:
Nice writeup but the line you talked about a wife taking care of a man when old age comes, I disagree with it.

There's no guarantee that a man will always be the one to be carried around in old age. There's also no guarantee that he'll be the one to die first. There are women whose husbands take care of them and their age related sickness.

All in all, men should treat their wives well because it's the right thing to do and also to maintain a healthy and peaceful home. Nothing beats coming back to your peaceful space.

Men o, women o, respect yourselves. Tomorrow is pregnant.

you’re a blessing to your generation .

To be honest, the only way to know if a woman loves you is if she spends on you .

Everything other thing can be faked

virginboy1:
This thread reminded me of the " how I lost millions thread".

Lot of lessons to be learnt.

Such is life we can't really have it all.

Pls send link to the thread

Divay22:
While not source for a place you can get a good amount of loan at least to complete maybe 3 or 5 apartment and rent it out and dedicate to paying back the loan within a certain period of time...

Don't say you can't.. Please try and look for.
Or you can sell 5 to complete the other 5 for yourself (if you're scared of owning anybody)

I hope the house is in a good location thou
Please think about it.. It's a huge risk but i have seen people doing it.. All the best.

it’s risky ! Doesn’t worth the risk if the house is not in Lagos . Please I really mean it, he will regret if it’s not in Lagos

I still do am today self

R2bees2:
You are so hard on yourself, commiting suicide would have more cowardice. There is this quote that says something like if you have made so much money and lost it all that means you already know how to make it back, this time it's going to be easier than before"..

However my biggest regret is not studying or making research on Bitcoin/Crypto before investing. I wish I knew about market cycles. Or atleast basic T.A before investing. IT IS WELL

lol
100% wrong o