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Don't let Pasta addicts like me see this post

WTF

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Nairaland is gone.

oakson:
Thank you for this...


They are all fools, I am ready for their airheads

Don't be desperate.

You got all the qualities that makes a real man.

Be yourself

OP

A distant relative of mine,a divorcee with 5 kids got married to a single, virtuous, resourceful and super gorgeous nigerian woman.

Don't let anyone discourage you on here.

Magnoliaa:

Stubborn feminist

Bring it on

Magnoliaa:
I literally said nothing about all these...but anyway, ANYBODY can be a 'prize' or whatever that meant in whatever terms.

Your Masculinity Constitution has been amended to include the above fact; go check again.

Men and women are NOT the same.

Modern 3rd wave feminists like you need to understand something.

I'm going to be doing some very crude generalisations here, so don't take them too seriously

Men are stronger. Women are smarter.

Men are tougher. Women are softer (with emotions)

Men are more persistent. Women are less.

Women work better under pressure. Men don't

And so on.

So if a man and a woman are in the army for example, I see nothing wrong with the front line combatants being mostly male, and the stereotypical ‘office’ (I don't know army lingo) people being mostly female. At the end of the day, both sides contributed immensely to the victory and couldn't have done it without each other.

Accept that you are a woman, and a man is more likely to do a certain thing better than you. What you should be doing is taking on the roles the man would otherwise suck at. If bricklayers are 99% male, then cool. If beauticians are 99% female, also cool. Now most feminists would argue that a woman should be allowed to be a bricklayer if they wanted to, and I see nothing wrong with that. But they shouldn't be complaining when they aren't as effective as the men in the same field.

Do you get?

Magnoliaa:
Right. I am glad you agree men have emotions and can love, feel and experience it.

Would seem contradictory to all the tough-guy, men are logical shii y'all spread and still continue to reinforce, but what do I know...

We don't hate women

We just want women to give us the respect we deserve

Don't forget, we're the prize

Magnoliaa:
Oh, wow.

So men were CAPABLE of love.

I would have thought all men, from creation and evolution, were wired to not be emotional - unless you have a pragmatic and practical definition of love sha.



Right.

Our parents did not get married for protection, provision, and procreation as well.

Every human being got emotions.

Don't forget that women are often viewed as sensitive..... It’s socially acceptable for them to express their feelings, like sadness or fear. But men, who are seen as strong and fearless, are not encouraged to outwardly express their emotions.

Magnoliaa:
Oh, wow.

So men were CAPABLE of love.

I would have thought all men, from creation and evolution, were wired to not be emotional - unless you have a pragmatic and practical definition of love sha.

Don't forget that women are often viewed as sensitive..... It’s socially acceptable for them to express their feelings, like sadness or fear. But men, who are seen as strong and fearless, are not encouraged to outwardly express their emotions.



Right.

Our parents did not get married for protection, provision, and procreation as well.

It was built on true love and sacrifice....

I still don't know what men gain in marriages

Most of my younger friends and subordinates who got married many years ago are regretting ever getting married....Some of them are just still sticking to the marriage cos of their kids and what will people say if we divorce.

Most marriages you see happening nowadays won't last....I'm just being blunt....Some are "arranged" marriages

Don't get me wrong,I'm not saying don't love or have a relationship but don't be pressurized into thinking marriage is an achievement.

If Bill gates and Jeff bezos can divorce their wives after so many decades, wetin person wan tell me about marriage.

Note that Bill gates and Jeff bezos are not just two of the wealthiest men to ever live,but they amongst the most intelligent men to ever walk this earth.

If you're happily married on this platform,good for you And I wish you the very best.

Jovialjune1:
Is your papa a weak man? Or are you from a generation of baby mamaism?

Things done change Marriage has outlived it's purpose.

Our fathers and mothers enjoyed their marriages back in the days because it was built on true love.

Nowadays, people get married for what they gain.

Marriage is for weak men

In all honesty,I want Peter obi to be Nigeria's next president.

But from the look of things,Only the Almighty God can stop Bola Ahmed Tinubu from becoming Nigeria's next president.

Tinubu has the power of Incumbency

He has the current Number 2 and Number 4 most powerful man in Nigeria as his boys ( V.P & Speaker )

He has the support of so many northern governors....From Zulum to Ganduje to Masari to Lalong

He has money at his disposal....If Tinubu needs 20 billion naira today,Sanwo olu alone can drop it.

He has the men that run the streets as his boys etc Kabaka in Edo state and MC oluomo in Lagos state....These two men I mentioned got thousands of loyal supporters at their beck and disposal

His daughter is the Iyaloja General of Lagos state.....That woman only need to issue a decree to all market women in Lagos to vote her Father or get punished heavily.

If you know Lagos markets so well, you'll know they don't play with the Iyaloja cos she's very strict.

Tinubu has supporters from the Corporate world.....I'm talking Big players like Adenuga,Dangote,Wale Tinubu etc

More than 70 percent of Entertainers support Tinubu

More than 90 percent of Yoruba actors/actresses support Tinubu

I can go on but let's stop

Only God can stop Bola Ahmed Tinubu

Kobojunkie:
1. All these epistles over a simple command to endeavor to pay one's taxes to the government. Na wa oo!..

2. So, does God also want our money then?

I had to explain so OP can grab something.

God doesn't need our money.... How can someone who created Space,The Oceans,Mountains, Planets etc need material things? Lol.....God looks at the hearts of man,not his appearance or intelligence.

The message here is simple and the logic profound. Give to Caesar what belongs to him and give to God what belongs to him.

The word “give” here literally means to “give back.” In other words, our taxes our obligatory, we owe them to the government as part of our financial stewardship.

Jesus is drawing a distinction between the two kingdoms. God’s and Caesar’s. Caesar is the king of this world. But Jesus is the king of the eternal world. Followers of Jesus exist in both of these kingdoms, at least temporarily.

Under Caesar there are certain obligations that involve material things, money. But under Christ the obligations involve eternal things.

What Jesus is saying is if Caesar wants money, give it to him. It’s his anyway, his image is stamped on it. So, give him the temporary things he’s due. But don’t neglect God. While Caesar’s is over the temporary things of this world, God is over what’s eternal.

When two dumb beings without foresight get married,this is what happens.

That bitch ass hoe you call a wife cheated on you cos you're poor and and r-etarded

You better Man up and focus on yourself and dump that ratchet idiot you call your wife

CocaineLord:
A wave of nostalgia swept over me when I saw this comment

Cousin's cousin by Plantasion boiz - One of the greatest nigerian songs of all time

My favorite part of the song is the beginning where 2face,Blackface,Faze,Tony tetuila & Azadus where gisting about their babes cheating on them.

2face was like, The girl come make me look like first class ole(lazy man)

Tony was just laughing hysterically

Blackface was like , Tony dem do you too ?

Faze replied, Dem do am now

Very funny and insightful song.

I love that song too much

Our old school naija artists gave us songs with meaning not all these rubbish they're singing now.

When I look through my window

Na your cousin I see dey press your yansh ooooo

When I ask you,you go tell me say na something he wan collect from your pocket ooo

The REDPILL movement is Thrashy but FEMINISM ain't,right?

Magnoliaa:
But e don fess die this time sha.

The point is; even if he comes back deceiving gullible folks, his crusade will have lost some of its potency when people already know him for who he is- a man with a big belly and a likely peaceful mind from a lovely wife @ home.

I feel you sis

Much love

Dry bones shall rise again

OP will come back strong and better

Imjustagirl:
Please read well. His wife is a Nigerian, she's also chubby. She also joined him from portharcourt to the US.

Meanwhile he has condemned women, marriage, Nigerian women in particular and also fat women.

Conclusion he is the biggest hypocrite right now, he was probably saying all those things to chase clout on here. Shameful

He that comes to equity must come with clean hands

Well,it may be the wife is making life hard for him or he's not enjoying his marriage....That's why he's discouraging marriage

Forget all the food posts and vacation pictures, marriage is more than that.

Some people are in their marriages cos of what they gain or cos of their kids or "what will people say if we divorce"

Single,bitter, desperate and unlucky feminists have made the OP deactivate his account

So cos he always advice his fellow men to beware of nigerian women, y'all thought he's gonna hate his wife who might probably not be nigerian.

These dumb ass idiots calling themselves feminists don't know what time is it

I watched the videos and I almost vomited

They fit themselves perfectly.

Both of them dirty as fvck.

Empress with her bleached body and the useless nincompoop with his dirty black lips.

80% of women all around the world are sex objects

Though some of them are virtuous, majority of them are sex objects to be used and dumped.

These naked idiots will show themselves as sex objects but hates to be objectified.

Just imagine the level of hypocrisy.

TONYE001:
Absolutely incorrect, sir.

Just kidding boss

I love to pull our women's legs on nairaland

dominique:
Excellent! I hope more low self-esteem men like this continue run away from career driven women. People like him will force her to drop her ambitions to open provision shop then come online to say she brings nothing to the table.

She'll still end up in the Kitchen even if she becomes a Professor All those degrees don't matter in marriage

PhD or not, she'll still end up in the Kitchen

If I were Alex,I would forgive her, accept her back,fvck her mercilessly and aggressively before dumping her dry vain ass

The greatest athlete to ever walk this earth

No footballer dead or alive comes closer

Nigerian women of nowadays don't wanna be submissive to their husbands That's why some of them are still single in their 30's and 40's

Most of them also have terrible characters and entitled mentality

A man is the head of the house no matter what May God continue to bless our mothers who never disrespected our Dads back then....That's why they enjoy their long lasting marriages.

Chika Ike even though she's a hoe, I like the fact that she's a classy one.

She ain't only classy but she's also an educated hoe.

Shawty only do matured moneybags

Beautiful family.

She should move on and find another man since Yul ain't ready to do the needful