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tayebest:
Sex is overrated!

Overrated by men especially.... I wonder how men cope sexually when they leave this world?

GreatResearcher1:
What does a 24yr old lady with over 3million in her acct doing in Allen avenue?

Note: The 3mil wasn't made from ashawo work

Reread what i wrote.

Mind u, there is the spiritual aspect of sex which sets in whether from abuse(as a baby or as an adult, just as it happens even with males who later become gays) or by having a boyfriend in the name of wanting to get Married who introduces her to habitual, constant sex which she may continue with even after leaving the guy...... You may see #3m as big money, she wants to hustle more and add to it now that she is still appealing then retire later..... abi, u keep better work for her with good, long lasting prospects?

GreatResearcher1:
Why do women go into asahwo? At first I thought it's because they need money to take care of certain things like bills. But my ex proves me wrong. Now a politician wife doing ashawo.


Hey Guys! Women are hoes.

Those into i t do so because of MONEY and BAD INFLUENCE unlike men who can sleep with ANYTHING (including animals& babies) out of PLEASURE.

Most women were born INNOCENT but a background check on ladies into prostitution will reveal alot of corruption and exposure to sex by men( men usually are rotten naturally).

GamalNasser:
I predicted this two weeks ago , next America will move production to India and let's see what China is

After all India is a political enemy of China

E no go better for China.......If na here, these ones will not get anything as they will be called rich people.....numerous Nigerians till date are still waiting for the promised food and cash by government.

When government gives only the audio elderly and lockdown able bodied youths with no food and some cash, what do u expect?

Mightyhaiz:
Love for my kids would never make me contemplate suicide.. 2years ago I was swindled of over 12m.. I kept thinking the opportunity cost of this hard earned money.. With time,my blood pressure rose and I started having palpitations and heart pain.. When I noticed this,..I stopped thinking about the money,stopped making efforts to recover it...which I was even spending more money.

I just woke up amidst one fitful sleep,thumped myself on the head after looking at my beautiful kids. If I kill myself over some lost money,who will take care and give them the best life they deserve...who will look after my beautiful wife and even my aged parents.. That's how I swallowed that bitter pill,picked up from scratch ,gained focus and resolved all my health probs


How can u claim to love people and yet have a mind to remove yourself permanently from them??

Watch how the man will marry again and those kids be treated as second class..

U talk am finish.

HeavenlyCherub:
Honestly I think you have good points in your paragraphs. I agree that as women we shouldn’t single out every man who isn’t walking in their purpose at that given time. However I would never advise anyone to settle.

Some of the financially challenged/student men who come to the US, a very large percentage have taken advantage of good women all in the name of love. I can only use myself as an example. I have dated guys who weren’t stable financially so I can only try help my fellow sisters.


Man 1: Yoruba guy - I dated him for 5 years. Great guy however refused to self improve. He did yahoo. I found out about it and tried to make him stop and do legit as I wouldn’t want our foundation built on potential blood money. He refused a legit job and informed me he knew “the life he wanted for himself and 9 to 5 was not it.” This is because he was consumed by lifestyle and driving range rovers and a Porsche’s. I stuck with him for love but I refused to marry him or his proposal as he didn’t believe in taking care of a woman. He was very selfish (during the course of a 5 year relationship this man never gave me any assistance for upkeep - mind you I didn’t need his money as I do very well for myself but every woman wants their man to be able to support and provide in small ways. This shows me you’re stable and can support our family should we hit hard times. He would always ask me why I need money and what I do with the money I earn. $10 to buy a panty he could not even do, but he stayed embellished in Gucci, LV and Prada. He also had a baby on me and begged me to raise the child with him if it was his after dna...I was scared toput myself in that position as a time when I have to depend on him will come and he would not man up as he should so I broke it off. He proposed I said no. . No way I can submit to a man like that?..

Man 2: was an international student, the devil himself in human form, they say respect them, support them and let them reach goals.. this guy I supported financially for months, paved a way for him to get his paperwork.. loved and supported. He was nice at first but when we started dating he started changing. Abusing me for not giving 5k usd and not wanting to marry him for green card... I thank God for protecting me from that one chance. He is the biggest regret and bad mistake I ever made in my life. So disheartening you support someone and they physically, verbally abuse you and blame you for the wrong going on in their life... read my story on my profile from 2 years ago for more context Note: I myself am not perfect and I’m constantly working on self improving and strengthening my bond with Christ. I’m big on giving advice to others so they won’t repeat the same mistakes I have made.

My aunt always told me never to date down. Never settle and I did. All the women waiting...wait for Gods time don’t force or rush things because you want to get married. You will end up with someone who puts baggage on you and breaks you emotionally, physically, financially etc. Let Go and Let God. If it’s his will for your life it will be. Don’t leave worse off then you started.

I also have a friend she married someone coming straight from naija. They lived as man and wife 3 years. He got his green card and went back to Nigeria to marry his real girlfriend.

I truly dislike when men put down women like this post. Marriage is not an accomplishment. It will be nice to find a compatible companion but sister- you are enough as you are. Don’t let anyone rush you. Some are happy but many more want to get out of the marriage you are rushing to. Be wise and Let God lead.

Pray for God to give you discernment. Marriage is life and that’s a long journey. Don’t end up with the wrong person because of societal pressure and advice from OP above. I have said my own

THANK U.....Especially some men who always say ladies don't want to struggle with them, but have sinister intentions and end up COMPLICATING the innocent lady's life.

goaldynman:
Chinedu Nwoko, Ifeanyi Okowa and Austin Okocha are all Igbos While James Ibori and Festus Keyamo are Uhrobo! If you dont accept these fact go and hang yourself!!


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All you mentioned are of SAME ancestry..... ANCESTRY is not based on NAME.

E no go better for China!!!

[quote author=Ipisi post=88266942]Op... You're doing well...

Please link me up with some of your Canadian female friends.

That's the least you can do for us or better still create a thread for Naija men to hookup with Naija Canadian ladies[/quote.]


Good to want ladies in diaspora but una Nigerian men should drop your over sabi, dishonesty behaviour......and lying that u love only her meanwhile u have a side chi c in your village

kponkedenge:
They could have just monitized it, instead of sharing stone filled rice which many people end up rejecting.

But it always pain APC government at mere thought of giving Nigerians money via any means.

PDP is more generous & may have favoured Nigerians at this time a bit more.

ettekamba1:
Can confirm that pensioners of the state are being contacted to verify their address details. My mom got a text to confirm if her address was still same as the one she used to live in. She wrote back to confirm the address of my sister's house where she is currently residing.
Ask the ex-Lagos civil servants who are above 60 to check their phones for the SMS. Think it was sent last week Monday.

Means double for pensioners in a State where many aint working but living from hand to mouth.

But the lock down is for every one, better copy Ogun State time table for lock down and encourage the use of masks and social distancing.

there was zero compliance to social distancing in Abeokuta.

Are there advantages in marrying more than 1 husband?

Ogun State too isn't so dirty but needs to do more on cleanliness, good roads, more painting of its building and more storey buildings which makes a place beautiful. It is trying too on streetlights but needs more

If u must leave in March make sure your balance with him is for light, water bills and the likes.

SultanOfPuna:
Christians Should Start Paying Tithe To The Scientific Research Committee..

My mum that is a hardcore Prayer Warrior
Decided not to go to church again
I asked her to rub annointing oil and go to church
That Nothing will happen. God will save her
You need to see the way she look me..
I still dey laugh her

As a Scientist, I know prayers also stimulate ideas in humans for great discoveries that help the human race, don't ever underestimate prayers.

Mind you this plague will not see true believers, remember Rahab with the red cloth dangling from her window, the Israelites with blood on the doorposts and even Noah inside the ark with his family and animals( animals as SLOW as snails and tortoise with God waiting for these animals provided they were serious to enter the ark before HE SHUT it)......If you run under the cover of Jesus Christ, you will be SAFE despite the ravaging Corona Virus or any other virus.

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Mycommand:
Assuming you are referencing the way it is done in most western countries! When there is no legal document establishing marriage, there is nothing to dissolve. On the other hand, if one is to answer the question on the welfare of children, which the inquirer did talked about and for the clarity of others who commented on what to do with children! One, would be to find out if a father signed a government birth certificate affirming that he is the father of a child or children born in that relationship, if this is the case, the man is liable to providing financial support for the upkeep of the child or children as the case may be. Another, would be to pursue a "DNA" test to establish paternity if the man is challenging the need to provide financial support to the child or children born in the relationship or simply just denying fatherhood. If the man consent to a "DNA" test and paternity is established in 99.9% then he is liable for the financial support of the child or children. If paternity exonerates the alleged biological father of a child or any of the children, the man is not legally obligated to provide financial support. Case closed! Just my input!

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My dad can NEVER carry last in this aspect and even my grand dad was a specialist in 'backing' children with oja.

I pray more men will value marriages and HOMES.

From all indications, Corona Virus is sent from the devil.....See how it is trying to stop Christians from gathering in their numbers to pray because it knows the kind of spiritual force that will hit it and drive it back to hell.

Those using head knowledge to rationalize this sickness, na wa for una, especially the one being blasphemous. There is nothing PRAYER and FAITH cannot do( apart from following hygiene rules) particularly when one buys things outside. We can't be too cautious.

Ladies, NEVER give your pearls to pigs as they will trample over it.
See Gbenro of yesterday who was unworthy to untie Osas shoe lace not to talk of date her and marry her, married her and started treating her like trash- someone that if not for Osas even the USA for no work for him.

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ursullalinda:
Alot of men are abused but the attention is on women.....even as kids alot of boys were abused but the teaching is always about girl child.....the society needs to balance the awareness and men should stop forming hard and speak up .....Abuse is abuse either way not minding the gender.

And those who usually rape boys are men.

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