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orunmila144:
Does nepa strike if you have credit in your prepaid meter ?

no just dat you would realize that nepa have been deceiving you since. When you use prepaid, they would lose if they don’t bring light unlike the estimated billing system

Michaeljnr225:
To get straight to the point. I met this girl some time ago and we instantly zinged. We've been at it for a long time now, talking about how we'd like to get married and stuff. Though I'm financially incapable of that at the moment. Of the things I like about her, her honesty takes home the cake. She's freaking honest but not at a hundred percent though. She's 24, comes from a poor background and is in her second year in the university. And to add to it, she's given me four years to get my shit together as she feels we'd both be fully ready for it by then; financially and otherwise. I on the other hand is 26 with little going. But she inspires me a lot. So much so that she's become the fuel of my ambition for wanting to get rich as I've made her so many promises that I intend to keep. We've been going at it smoothly with no issues until recently when she told me that some guy came home to ask for her hand in marriage which I can't say if she truly refused. She told me herself that she did but I doubt. And according to her he's an uneducated trader who imports and exports goods but she's willing to go out with him as per say the guy get money to spend and I have little to give but that I'm her pick any time, any day. I'm so uncomfortable with the idea because she doesn't want me jealous or seeing other girls for that matter and I just dey pity the guy join. At the same time I can't find it me to walk away cause it feels like I've known her forever. So pls guys what should I do?

guy let her go. Don’t put unnecessary pressure on ur self cus of her. Since u said the babe is from a poor background, thats the more reason you should let her marry a rich guy. Sometimes you have to let go of something you love not bcus you want to, but because you need to. More so, what’s even the guarantee that after that four years now you would marry her? If you leave her then she begins to blame you for her not being marry cus u didn’t allow her marry the guy. My guy stylishly tell her to go with the rich dude. Forget all this promises. People change bro

Stewart883:
Well it depends on the girls u meet(age wise) and where u met them. Well to me it's not a trophy coz if it was well... I'm 33 years old and in the course of my experiences I had disvirgined over 9 girls(although not married to any of them). I'm married now but I wasn't the one who disvirgined my wife. So guy chilax!

bro we would call you “the opener”

Vizzy4u:
pls who's dis "okafor" i've heard of him severally on Nl

lol
Okafor’s law isa Nigerian movie created by omoni oboli

nedekid:
Una go enter IJN. Lol

lol amen bro

Born2Breed:
A woman only behaves like this if 1)There is someone else in the picture. 2) You did something that has really offended her.

Sit her down and talk but start like this...Present her with a gift and then start the conversation with an apology..."pet name" ( I know I might have offended you,please forgive me...)

this one won’t work. It is clear she is no longer in love with him again

Audu12:
Hello nairalanders
I created this new account for this topic,
Pls sorry for my grammar mistakes, im not too fluent,

ME and my girl had sex 20min after she took the pill, is it possible the pill didn't work? As some said its supposed to be taken after having sex.

Am so confused right now

people tend to think that these pills work 100% but in reality, if the lady is already ovulating when she takes the pill, it won’t work. So bro it might or might not work depending on ovulation

carlyfrank68:
[color=#000000][/color]Op, please help me bring this to the front page as I urgently need guidiance.
I've grown to love this girl so tenderly till of recent I noticed a particular comment that always pops up on all her posts on Facebook as ASAM(my beauty), at first, I took it as nothing. But as time went on, I noticed it was becoming more consistent, then I had to take a closer look at the username, though at first, I found nothing that serious, but after a deeper background check, I found out he was a priest. this got me bothered cos I've heard of so many cases of Catholic priests sleeping with young girls. I called her attention to it and she denied it, saying he was just a family friend. I trusted her and we moved on.
Travelled down to the east for an event, called my girlfriend to meet me up in owerri town so that we could go to somewhere since she was schooling in one of the university in Imo state, she agreed, and told me to wait for her by ten, which I agreed upon cos I didn't travel with my car and then, I would have enough time to dress and get to town before the agreed time. But to my greatest surprise, the same lady that told me she was in her room in school was dropped off at the junction by that same priest whom she claimed was just a family friend. I couldn't believe it. I walked up to her in the cab she boarded and was waiting for take off. She couldn't believe it. I wanted to end it there for lieing to me, but on a second thought, she was already crying on the main road. I forgave her, we checked into a hotel, she wanted to break her sim card, I stopped her, she promised never to go back to her old ways of telling me lies.
A day to the day I was supposed to go back to Lagos,she pleaded she wanted us to stay together which I didn't object to, we checked into a hotel in town, it was fun, she told me that night that she wanted to go to aba to see her aunt, little did I know she went straight down to the priests house and spent 6 good days. All the while she was with the priest, she claimed she had no data and hardly picked my calls. This made me pry into her Facebook account after she had left the priests house, lo and behold, the chats I saw between them got me shedding tears. I could not believe it. She even sent him nudes. I confronted her, and she accepted it and cried and pleaded for a second chance, she went online, blocked him on Facebook, and changed her sim card. And has since then been begging for me to forgive, I have forgiven as a human being. But the problem I'm facing now is this, I can't seem to forget it and I'm finding very hard to trust her again. Please house, advice me, what do I do?

do you need someone to tell you that she can never change her ways? Oga move on

EtherealAnn:
we that haven't entered plane let's gather here

lol

aysnoopy:
actually, I don't know d law. can u tell me?

okafor’s law states that
“ once you have slept with a woman, there is always a possibility that you can sleep with her again , even though she might be married “

vybzkartel:
U r scaring me

even when babe touch you?

candygist:
Evil men. If you don't have meaningful thing to say just don't type.

lol but its the truth na
What do they want us to do

MrBrownJay1:
Then he should settle for local universities that are cheaper...EOD!

abi na
Or do they want us to contribute and send him out?

Tell her to give you money for rent first

Wisdomval67:
Really, I wonder why you all don’t see anything wrong in this. Why hasn’t he come out to defend him self? Pastor pastor pastor is what is killing Nigerians. Why do you feel the man can’t do all those thing. We just read on nairaland of a deeper life pastor beating is wife like a boxing bag.

u are saying another thing. I don’t have a business with this topic, why i comment was to explain to you why u cannot call it sex with a minor. I don’t care about the pastor and the lady. Na thier problem be dat

Wisdomval67:
I don’t know why useless Nigerians won’t believe this woman was rape. Or is because that man is a pastor? Having sex with a minor of 17 years is also a rape. Nigerians would never have sense. I am 100% sure Nigeria police would force you to do anything because of money.

as at wen the incident happened, the age of consent wasn’t 18 . So technically speaking, u cannot term it sex with a minor. Its either rape or consensual sex

OmoAlata1:
”her mates don do am” you are oponu for that statement.

i hear you

kelvinboj:
Just thinking about all this now sincerely speaking...

guy as u go getmany, forget am

I can never trust a lady oooo. Even if she tells me she doesn’t cheat and co. From day one I wld start suspecting you. Op next time when u meet a new babe, from dat one , silently check her phone.

I cannot even train a lady i want to get married to in school. I can only train a lady out of pity and not that i want to marry her

OmoAlata1:
Do you know how difficult it is to be a mother and a student at the same time? You could at least suggest he marries her first then sends her to school. Try to go back to school while you are a very involved father and tell me if you manage to finish the program.

i don’t support you, op get he pregnant, she can manage. Her mates don do am. You don’t know how these ladies can be ungrateful atimes

I tell ladies this

Teewhy2:
Some people give birth just because they have turned their wife to a recreation center, they don't care and want to know what family planning is all about. They give birth and blame the government for not been able to take care of the children.

exactly

Isha327:
Why did u have sex with her in d first place when u have no feelings for her.

Guys ehn
I 'll rip off ur d**k if I were her abi if she was me ni
Don't let me make blunders jare

having sex doesn’t mean you must have feelings or you date the person. Sex is just sex

Rajman45:
Good day everyone... I really need a honest advice and possibly solution to this my problem. Am seriously going insane gradually on this topic.
I and my fiance love each other so much, but we recently found out we are both AS. We have done our introduction, and seriously planning for our wedding in few months time.
I really don't know what to do right now. I learnt that the first 3 kids of AS+AS match are AA, AS and AS, then the fourth will be SS.... Is that true?. I need sincere help and advice from people who might have experience it, doctors and the entire good people of nairaland.

why would you even make the mistake of doing intro without check genotype? Even if you don’t do other test u should do that one immediately you feel its about to get serious.my guy there is nothing you can do. You just have to accept the sad truth. But yiu can still go ahead if you wish not to bear kids with her. My guy just move on and not make this kinda mistake again

Boyooosa:
u did that already...

ok please can you respond to my email. I really need to tell you something

Boyooosa:
Remove emboldened, efcc is everywhere...don't koba omolomo because of proving point on an online platform.
Mw, write this down today and always remember, you will still have the opportunity to steal in this country, if you survive that temptation, come back and quote me if otherwise, u don't need to come back again, just enjoy your money,..

hello please can i dm you?

Expresso17:
It's my turn for a testimony- PPR!

Will be back with full details please, I owe this forum

WES : Sept 12
IELTS: Oct 13
IELTS REMARK: Nov 16
ITA: Dec 19
AOR: Feb 13
ADR for SCHEDULE A : March 30
MEP/BIL: APRIL 10, Done by 24th April
RPRF : June 16

PPR: July 25

Thank you all
All Glory to the God of my journeys

wow congrats
So it took more than a month after receiving rprf request to get ppr. Please what was on ur additional document slot on the cic site after submitting d receipt

jamesbellu:
Sept 11 2018

wow
Truly they are slow

Icecreamy:
Hello ma'am, please I notice your NOC states secondary school teacher, i want to know if you have a degree in education because I was told I can't use same as my primary NOC since I did not study education. I just want to confirm if it's true.
Also what documents did you submit for that NOC(NYSC).
I really need this information so I don't make errors when entering my profile.
Thanks.

i don’t have an education degree but i’m currently 7+ months post AOR

emmanuelsea:
Correct info, the results are out. I've just checked for someone

rili can i check for some one nw

I have dissociated myself from dat shit a long time ago