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More photos of our cutie pie. Feel free to upload yours

Don't know if this is a phobia. But, I'm really scared of going out when it's dark esp alone. I I never do it.

Facebook cos my school blocked it cos it's supposedly taking too much of our tym. At least I have Nairaland

Try Bio Oil. It worked for me but you'll have to use it everyday (preferably twice a day) for it to be effective.

I'm too tall to wear most of those shoes too. But they're nice. More photos please!

I light a candle for my grandpa. It's been almost 10 years now. I wish I was old enough to really get to know you before you left us. But, all I have are photos and our family's recollection of the man that you were. I pray that I find a man with the same principles and values like you had. I really miss you!

You'll probably fall out of love with her again. So, I'm not giving you any advice. You're on your own!

This is a funny question. I can't really explain what's fascinating about Facebook. It's just too great!

Just keep praying for him but he has to be willing to change too. Also try talking to him. Your husband is a carbon-copy of my uncle. He nagged her to court. So, I kinda agree with Seun, divorce may be your only option. Although, it's still too early to take such an action. I believe that a woman should only divorce her husband because of adultery or if her life is in danger. Please don't sit back and think he'll change if he's physically abusing you. You have to act now!

Just keep praying for him but he has to be willing to change too. Also try talking to him. Your husband is a carbon-copy of my uncle. He nagged her to court. So, I kinda agree with Seun, divorce may be your only option. Although, it's still too early to take such an action. I believe that a woman should only divorce her husband because of adultery or if her life is in danger. Please don't sit back and think he'll change if he's physically abusing you. You have to act now!

We're not the dirtiest people in the universe. Come to SA and see dirtiness

A dark jeans jacket and lighter pants. I'm at school.

Nice photos, nice website!

@ poster

I agree with most of the ups but disagree with most of the downs. For starters, I don't watch too much TV and over-admire celebrities. When I admire them, it's usually their sense of style. I'm slim not skinny and I've got a figure 8 so this doesn't really apply to me. Just dropping my 2 cents.

But, in general, it's a well written article since it's just your opinion.

My favourite trend for this season is anything in patent leather. I'm crazy about patent leather esp patent leather bags and shoes. Winter is gradually coming to an end where I live, and during winter it was all about the trench coat, for me. Winter happens to be my favourite season, BTW. But something I must get right now is those high-wasted jeans.

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Yummy! Checked out your website too. It's really nice. Keep up the good work!

Asa. She's so very unique

You say he's abusing you and you don't want to leave him because you don't want your child to grow up without a father's love. Your husband aka wife beater is setting a bad example for your child. You don't want to divorce him because your marriage vows are forever. In the Bible, one of the grounds for diorce is adultery. Now, you want a male friend. That'll probably do you more harm than good. Don't you have any female friends?

If you want to stay in this marriage, then you have to tolerate the abuse. Keep praying for him but remember that a leopard never changes its spots. But, since we're talking about a human being, not a leopard, maybe he can change. The only thing is that, he has to be willing to change too.

Wishing you the best.

Guys who aren't don't deserve virgins. They're the ones who make virgins feel worthless because they go around comparing them to their former girlfriends. The thing is, if you've never had sex before, this sexual compatibility issue won't arise because they'll satisfy you and you won't compare them to anyone.

Stop speculating and introduce him to your parents when the time is right. i.e. when he has formally asked you to marry him, not now he's promising to marry you. If your parents refuse, try and convince them. If they still refuse, just ask them for their blessing and marry the guy. But make sure he's the right one for you though. Getting married to a guy from a different ethnic group is no big deal.

@ poster, you have to use your brain here. Evaluate and weigh what everyone has said here carefully and do what you know is best for you.

But really, do you want to abandon what you've helped built and let a woman from no where enjoy it all? Do you really want to leave this man penniless when you have kids to raise?

Anyway, you know your situation. Do you think you can stick with him for 6 years? Well, if you can't, get in contact with Legal Aid and find out where you stand.

If he's hitting you, make sure you write the exact dates and time when he does this. Also, PLS don't hide things from your kids cos they'll probably have to testify against him if you go to court. And, you don't want kids that'll say "My dad is the best dad in the world".

Before you do anything, think long and hard.

Wishing you the best. Pls keep us posted!

Nice post.

Love Bakers World. Couldn't get enough of their cakes during Christmas last yr. Bakers World rocks!

Ndipe:
Nice and creative cakes! I have always maintained that cakes from Nigeria taste way better than cakes from yankee. Some may disagree though.

I totally agree!

Facebook. Used to like hi5 but I now find it boring.

Feel sori for Katung. Hope it isn't true though.

We'll always dominate. It's Glory Glory all the way!!!

You should not stay with a man who abuses you. However, I can see where you're coming from. You're probably staying because of your children. Maybe you can read this article on spousesanonymous.com. It talks about the kind of relationship to let go of. Here's a link: https://www.spousesanonymous.com/My_Take.php.

Whatever you do, don't walk out of this relationship without the money. Talk to a lawyer about where you stand. Since he goes everywhere with you, you probably won't be able to see a lawyer, but you can call a lawyer from home when he goes out. Or, you can just go with sistawoman's advice. Marry the guy and stick with him. By the end of that 6 years, you'll know if you wan't to call it quits. If you've noticed that he can't change and he was a bad husband, then you take half of he's wealth and walk! It's a win-win situation here. Happy marriage or half of his wealth!

I would love to play Dr (what's her name) in Prison Break, Season 1 cos I'll get to touch Wentworth Miller whenever I want

Not all Nigerian music videos are lame. I'm also quite critical of the music video industry in Naija but guys like Psquare are really doing a great job.