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The boys are hungry and have to be settled as there are no more returns from the road. As you can see we are still the ones to pay, either on the road or my organised exploitation from above.

What have we not heard? it used to be ECMR, that made some people millionairse now it is BCMR. Haba!

Women!!!!!!! Please take care of yourselves, take out time to check your health and welfare, you do it for the whole family but nobody will do it for you, if you die life continues o! as you can see!

jhydebaba: Typical Nija Girl

Really? then I am not typical and none of the ladies around me are, well.. maybe some relatives.

If you are still in your reproductive age, or you plan on having children soon, start taking folic acid.

Is the happeiest day in a woman's life being her wedding day something you guys would like to believe or you have actually taken a poll and found out to be so?

@Dayo,

On how he got her to date him, the girl is probably realising that the smart ones are few and does not want to live a miserable life in this 'woman must be married to be respected' society.

If she has an excellent career profile as you said it is most likely she is making sense, it maybe that you cannot keep up with her , if you are not married yet, it may be something to think about, you may want to look for 'one of your own'

If the woman had molested the son, would you have 'blamed' the man for leaving the son with the mother?


That's a question to be answered.

What facility does PHCN repair without bothering the customer? maybe the one that has to do with power generation, but with distribution, if something do your transformer, na you go contribute money fix am!

You now see why our mothers stayed with us despite all they went through? they know some things we do not know, they know there is a lot hidden evil, have you guys noticed how often this kind of things have been showing up in the news lately?

Probaly because, women now flee for a better life.

I am not saying women should stay and be battered or subjected to all sorts but I just wanted to highlight the sacrifices some of our mothers made, some gave away their happiness just to make sure this kind of thing did not happen to us, especially in those days when the man would make traditional claim on the children just to punish the woman for thinking of leaving or when the man would outrightly refuse to continue to train the children if their mother left.

The reason corperate organisations prefer air travel and on business class even, is to reduce travel time and stress so that staff can settle in quickly at their destination and focus on the main ojective of the trip.

It is ridiculous to pack 100 managers on a bus to Lome, while other countries are doing it the proper way. If the Bank thinks a Team building event is required, let them plan it.

I saw him on Teju Babby face show at a time, he was hailed for having a 8/18months old baby at that age.

Let them meet Teju Baby face and other celebrities who have hailed him and considered it a thing of adimiration, to set up an Education fund for the kids.

bamboke: But what if the man has decided not to do anything? He decides he wants to go for a course and she in the bid to help him back on his feet pays about 50k monthly for the course. He gets angry at slightest instances and doesn't like that the wife chips in a word at all. They both spend her money and she denies herself of some things cos of he but he doesn't appreciate. What do you say about this?

He will never appreciate it, very few do, from history, it has never been appreciated, wives have worked in time past to support thier husbands schooling overseas in the times of our mothers, only for them to come back and marry second wives,
'She denies herself of some things' what he expects is for her to deny herself of all things for him to be comfortable and never say a word- that would be the 'good' wife.

They expect from you, things they will/can never do. ...just ask for grace!

Bawss1: A wife's contribution to family wealth in instances where she did not directly participate in the family business is on the same level with that of a teacher who contributes to his student that runs a successful business.
The hornet's nest is stirred when one attempts to monetize that contribution and I feel that is fundamentally wrong.

The teacher gets paid abi?

99cent: I say both husband and wife should treat each other with love and respect regardless of who makes more money. gbam

That is how it should be. The reason it is difficult for the men to do may be the same reason it is difficult for the woman too, it is not the case of 'women misusing power' if it is that, it means the men are the masters in the 'misuse of power' or that women are human beings after all!

I just wonder how a woman will go out and sweet it out to pay School fees, house rent, put food on the table, buys chlothes (for those with growing Children, that can be a huge budget), social obligation and you say it should not 'get into her head'? that she should remain sweet and nice and still carry out her 'duties'? Is it ahuman being we are talking about or 'Super woman'.

Even the men that have the responsibility of providing for the household will not let you rest with their 'do you thing i am plucking money from a tree' attitude, they move in the house like Masters and feel the least you could do is serve them for all the financial load they are carrying but you want the woman to carry the same load and be sweet, humble and nice.

Make you no go look for work, or if you are a young man, start to chanel your energy to productivity and develop skills that will enable you cater for your family

Good Schools- Norwegian International, Greenoak, Trans Amadi international

I do not know how super rich people run their homes,but at my level, it would be unfair for my male colleagues to think that thier wives do not contribute to whatever wealth they have.
They pick up thier bags to go anywhere in the world at any notice, short or long without thinking of the homefront, some cant even pack thier bags without forgeting tooth paste/brush, soap or underwears.The wife does all that.
Some even have equally qualified wives who they have told before marriage that they will not allow to do some demanding jobs becaue of the homefront.

Not to talk of the endless social demands of the inlaws.

The two year old has become the wahala of the mother, as always!

As it has always been in this part of the world, look for a woman to blame and the wives are always available.

This is the problem, when we condemn ladies for not getting married and makelife difficult for those that are not by asking them to 'go and marry'. They settle for less, end up with men they can just get by with , they just bear the men enough to have kids (since that is what they realy want anyway) and then cannot bear the thought of being touched by them and end up leaving miserable lives for the sake of the Children

What a pity.

^^^^^ I very much doubt if such a person would be broke as you claim.

All the commenets about money above are the type you get from guys who lack many of the listed attributes, it is a 'consolation' statement when girls start to shun/reject them.
Any decent girl would be attracted to a guy with manners, eloquent,well dressed etc, so please work on it if you were not
trained from home! or learn how to identify decent girls who would appreciate these things.

Fhemmmy: As an application, it is your duty to find a way to get to where the job is and not the employer to make provision for the applicatant . . . Also, how many millions would they have to pay out before giving jobs to the ONE

..and as a company that wants to excell, you want to attract the best brains from all over,you want the guys/gals to be able to go as far as borrowing to get there, knowing they can pay back after the test/interview especially in a very Technical industry as Oil & Gas.

..... just a line to appreciate this woman.Congratulations!

Osynan: pls is it the kabuki fairness extract?

No, Sothesbeauty.com

Agberos!

Na wa, custody of the children given to him, including even the unborn? Money can surely do and undo.

Based on this^^^^^ I must go have my gender rechecked somehow.

I have met many men in the course of my duty who will not raise a finger to find a solution to any problem but will be ready to tell you over and over again how terrible the situation is.

^^^^^^^Please dont try them if you like your money, this is the third week of my order with nothing to show for it!

Died at 47? this is sad. but I know people who are not in the medical field and are living with diabetes with no serious issues, they just take their injections and watch what they eat, well maybe science of how to manage diabetes was not fully known then. 47? haba, just imagining how many more lives he would have imparted with even 10 more years.