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ePoster:
Self defense must also be a sin, right?
How about women whose life are endangered by the baby?

Endangered how?

PRETTYPRINCES:
Please it is some women. Kindly make the correction now. Please and please. Infact only very few women behave this way. It is men that are always fighting and killing themselves over us.

Some women then. I just shame for this my gender some times.

DrFunmisticGlow:
No it is not. It is a crying, Shitting, dependent burden. The church is not a parent, a charity, an orphanage or a nanny. Children are expensive to raise. A majorreason why we have so many hoodlums around is because someone made poor decisions years ago and brought a child onto the world that he/she was not ready to raise properly, believing that God will provide.

You think hoodlums is because of what exactly? Hoodlum is a result of bad parenting.

And it is the duty of the church to take of children born from rape, or children whose mothers have nothing to take care of them. If your church don't do it, well that's bad. Means they're are not following the ways if our Lord.

Very true. But still, a man will rather help a big breasted and big bumbum lady than help his fellow man. Very pathetic.

Men go through a lot. And the worst part they suppress their emotions, and act like everything is alright thereby shutting everyone out. Maybe it's their ego. Idk

A responsible woman would want her brothers, and her man to grow. And most times men will rather be with irresponsible ladies than the responsible ones, yet they complain.

All in all, both men and women go through stuff, it's not just men honestly. But when you have a purpose in life, you won't feel that void so much.

Most people only live to grow up, get a job, marry, produce children. While their spiritual lives dwindle right before them.

Apart from growing financially, intellectually and otherwise, endeavor to grow spiritually. Very very important.

ePoster:
How about under_age girls who were raped? Any advice?

They should give birth to the baby, and as they might not be financially ready to take care of the child, the child should be taken care of by the Church until the mother is ready.

A child is a gift, no matter how it came about.

ePoster:
So religion is the only excuse? Reply me who's an atheist.

Never said you're an atheist, and if you are, well that's between you and God.

You have no right to kill a soul. God molded that being in you, it was a gift from him. Killing it is disobeying God and bringing curse to yourself.

Abstain from premarital sex to avoid abortion, have a family plan with your husband to avoid any unwanted pregnancy.

There is nothing normal about abortion. Nothing.

MhisTahrah:
I totally agree with you op. Abortion should be legalized and contraceptives should be made widely available.It annoys me to see little children without any form of proper care walking aimlessly on the streets.

And you call yourself a Christian?

thesicilian:
I'm well in support of the legalization of abortion, weed and prostitution.

We are really in end times.

Things we see in this life.

MMXX:
It's the same thing dear.You just didn't get the context.

If No one encourages and appreciates you, encourage and appreciate yourself.You're solely responsible for you.

Don't do stuff because you were promise a suppose marriage or to please him cos you love him.

Why you saying you you? I'm talking about complaints I've gotten from girls.

Like I said, you'd never understand this until you're in a woman's shoe.

MMXX:
Lol who goes about telling people that they'r a virgin or not..isn't that myopic?

Again, if someone with a zeal to study in a university fails jamb twice,and Someone walks up to him and says forget school jare "who school help or school na scam"..

Who is it left for to make the final decision??

Those are two different things.

Stockholm syndrome at work

MMXX:
oh I have

Even the sophisticated and Polish ones fall for that also.

I'm not judging anybody,you were trying to push blame and justify the act for the ladies. Which in my opinion was wrong

They are not under any pressure or held at gunpoint.. So they should accept sole responsibility for their actions

It is their fault. As a man, a lady tells you "I'm a virgin" wouldn't it be normal to encourage the person instead of telling her it's nothing? All men do that. That's why most virgin ladies don't even go about telling people they're virgins, to avoid these predators and the rapists.

MMXX:
Well that feeling isn't reserved for ladies only you know.

Ladies should set their priorities right,relationship is 80% love and 20% Brain (logic).

A man that insists Premarital Sex is his demand for staying or marriage,Does he truthfully mean well for you as a lady?.Knowing fully well you can never force him if shit goes otherwise.

In some cases this same man will label you cheap when he brags to his buddies on how an easy lay you were at the mention of marriage

Hmm you haven't met naive ladies.
It's well.

Lol women can disgrace themselves sha

MMXX:
Do you go for "pre degree" without aspiring university admission

Still not a valid reason

You don't understand. As a lady, it's not easy to lose someone you love.

This is why, I'll advice any virgin to make God their friend, and forget men. When the time comes, your own husband will come.

Hmm

MMXX:
@emboldened

Is that the perfect justification for not being chaste?.

Com'on it's no secret people use relationship as a charade to explore their sexuality.

A virtuous strong willed lady should be able to say "No" when such proposal is brought before them..Women to an extent are always at the losing end of relationships this days.Even after giving out your body with the intention to secure him or marriage,there's no guarantee the final outcome of the relationship, if it's alter or otherwise..

So why not strengthen your resolve and see it to the final end..If they are monsters,then they surely never repudiated such

And assuming you love this man and doesn't want to lose him?

Uncle93:
God will bless you !!!!

And bless you too.

Yes settling with a virgin is good, and it's the dream of most men.

I wonder who took the virginity of the non virgins, maybe spirits.

Right now somewhere, a lady is at the verge of losing her virginity because her boyfriend has promised her "marriage" or the boyfriend can't commit to a non sexual relationship.

At the end husband she no see, boyfriend she no see too. Deal with it men, they're the monsters you've made.

Hmm

MMXX:
I'm glad it did and thanks for sharing..All hope isn't lost after all

So many people give less importance to the things and ways of God this days.the highest is a Sunday service which they seem not to learn anything from and they back to their everyday life and struggles.

Sexual immorality is the order of the day,covetousness thrives in today's youth(men/women), lack of contentment with the little they have..I urge young people to seek the face of God genuinely and they will never regret they did.

What they need to know is that there's power in one's tongue..Bible says "Men ought always to pray,and not to faint".we worry over everything instead of praying bout those things,commit our ways to him and lean not unto our own understanding,rather trust in the Lord with all our hearth..Overall faith is key,a very important tool which without it you cannot please God..


Study the word of God always, when things are rough,let it be your motivation, let the word of God strengthen you,Sadly though with the immense increase in social-media apps this days,the minute given to the Bible (even now that it's also been made an app) is infinitesimal.

I really wish they'll hear. And put all these into practise.

This is very sad.

Beautiful girls

One day God will show you himself, then you'll see his omnipotence in its purest form.

Hmm

Very interesting. The tongue is a dangerous weapon, it can kill and destroy a life.
We should be careful and cautious of the things we say to people. And mind the way we talk.
May God guide and help us all.

Hmm

I wish seun will add block button on this forum.

Hmm

Na wa. Election for how many days now