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Aksnoopy:
STFU!!!

OK

DamnnNiggarr:
lolz,
I didn't say that
I was also responding to the OP's claims
stating reason why she shouldn't expect men to be blame the same way women are blamed.
men get blamed in a way different from the type of blame women get.

You're still giving excuses.
If a man cheats on his wife, he should be blamed for cheating. There's no excuse here. If a woman cheats on her husband, she should be equally blamed.

Funny enough this is type of wedding I plan to have. No crowd, just me and hubby with one or two witnesses.

plusfield:
To think that all those bitter women called feminists jumped on their keypad to label the husband a domestic abuser and wife beater when she announced her separation shows how much those satanic things would gladly love to see any marriage destroyed and a man's name ruined. The same woman later came up with another video to announce that she never told anyone that her husband beats her.

You should look at this matter well. Feminist aside, doesn't it sound fishy to you? Don't you think something is wrong somewhere?

DamnnNiggarr:
Abagi! stop shifting goal post,

your comment now make it looks like only the men are the bad eggs and women are saints,
c'mon let me not go deeper in it,
we read every day about paternity fraud (like I said earlier, I don't want to go deeper) and other atrocities perpetrated by women against men,

now, based on your comment, men are the bad and dangerous ones in relationship.
issoright.

I'm not shifting goal post. I'm responding based on your previous post.
"Until women start paying bride price, men will continue to do as they please"
That's what I'm responding to.

Gerrard59:
MhisTahrah,

Here lies the issue: men invest financially more than women in a typical Nigerian married life. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Until modern day women start investing as much as men do, it would be hard to fight against the privilege that come with men cheating. Unfortunately, women are hypergamous species. Fortunately, we live in a time where both men and women have equal rights. So if your man (boyfriend or husband) cheats on you, nothing stops you from leaving him. And when you do, don't give a fvck about what people say.

Go to Ebonyi State and see how women struggle to feed both children and husband. Y'all should stop this excuse. I know women that carry the family. This mentality is flawed really.

DamnnNiggarr:
until you ladies start taking equal part of the expenses in marriage, and taking equal part of the responsibility in every day family life, is when you shall be regarded equal with men.

who's the borden of marriage expenses on?? it's always men.

who worries most in the betterment or moving forward of relationship?? always men.

who tells a woman how he feels about her?? until I see women do that, still always men.

who's ready to sacrifice both financially in relationship?? always men.

you ladies want to be accorded the same respect as men but don't want to reason like men

I think you guys bring this bride price issue up everytime to excuse your callous behavior towards women. It's not cool seriously. I know women that struggle in their respective homes. Work hard just like the hubby to make their marriages work. Some even work hard more than the hubbies, yet the so called hubbies go about misbehaving just cuz they paid bride price? Oh c'mon that's a silly excuse. No one forced you to marry this girl, y'all fell in love, dated, then married. Made promises to each other. Then because you paid bride price, you decide to be irresponsible? That's not cool.

If a woman suggests to pay bride price I'm pretty sure 95% of y'all won't agree, because of your ego.

SMH men.
You don't know what you have till you lose it.
"I'm not good for you", " I'm not financially ready for this".
Now see it.

Mekenz:
your digits please?

Sent it on DM

demmymoney:
I don't condole cheating but I won't buy that men and women are equal in marriage

OK

Mekenz:
is nice meeting you, can I chat you up on WhatsApp?

Hmm OK

demmymoney:
Nope but that doesn't mean in marriage men and women are not equal

Then why cheat? If it's not in the bible?

Jim99:
You ladies enjoy all the attention you get from men daily thinking you're trophies to be won. Until you get married and discover, you weren't.

Then all of a sudden you're trying to shield your man from seeing more attractive and younger women out there. Not gonna happen!

Do whatever you want biko. I'm not stopping you.

demmymoney:
Men and women can and will never be equal. Even in the Bible I didn't see any female discipline of Christ and I didn't see up to 5 female prophets.

Even in marriage the man and the woman are not equal at all, they both play different roles in the marriage.

I don't expect the man to b carrying pregnancy and neither do I expect the woman to b the breadwinner of the family

Is there anywhere in the bible that says you should cheat on your wife?

Mekenz:
if I may ask are you married?

No

Liposure:
men and women are not equal.

Says who? You better give your life to Christ. By the time you cheat around and carry a deadly disease, that's when you'll calm down.

Mekenz:
no.. you don't understand the nature of men, they can compartmentalize their feelings and attitude, a man can be a cheater yet a darling in the affairs of his family, he knows his onus.

unlike a woman that you will discover her cheating nature immediately, because she can't handle her emotional affairs without things going out of proportion hence weigh her down.

secondly you hardly see a woman that cheat, that still respects and submit to their husbands. all these things are not rocket science, it's just the nature of a man. that's why our mothers adviced the newly married once thus. feed your husband and while at it, empty his balls.

think about that.

OK o. If you say so

Mekenz:
your sister's husband cheated, because of that she left her home, so what's her aim of leaving, to punish the husband or what. so she will now becomes celibate or go and marry another man that won't cheat on her abi......

these days it only takes the grace of God for a married man not to cheat on his wife, mejority of women these days no longer accord cheating from their husbands a big offence that can dissolve their marriage.

some even know their husbands mistress, but chooses to ignore them, in other not to attract troubles in their homes.

so far their husbands is fulfilling their marital duties at home, and doesn't rub his cheating nature on her face, mejority of women no longer cares, who they are meeting outside. men will always be men especially these days that young girls no longer cover themselves well. married men are seeing alot these days.

I hope it'd be OK if the wife starts seeing other men as well. Since they're practicing an open marriage.

MRosario:
You can actually...

It is nature's way of ensuring the survival of our species.
Orgasm is a reward for Mating and reproduction. It is nature's way of rewarding us with dopamine for losing vital nutrients in form of Sperm.

This is why males must achieve orgasm for a new life to be created but females don't necessarily have to...

You're the type of married man that will meet a single lady and try to sugarcoat your reasons for trying to cheat on your wife.

LegendAnselm:
my dear, u dont understnd hw nigeria politician brain is working in nigeria. u want us to protest for revolution. or change of leadership...or change of government...
try such protest and see how people will get kill likefowl......
initially i told u that i never seen any protest in 9ja like this one....
av u forgotten that those that protes for revolution then ar still in jail..as am talking to u? sister chill lets start here, , while we protest we hop for the worst to happened

This particular protest was led by celebrities, that's why it gained momentum. They should also lead this same protest and demand for a better government.

LegendAnselm:
i av ask u severally but u av not attend to the question..... mentione the good work Sars is doing that Dss, efcc, police, army cannot do? i want to know

SMH. You're still talking about SARS. I do not support this SARS in any way, I'm only telling you the only way forward. Ending SARS isn't the issue. Ofcoz it won't be ended. They'll come back either reformed and still doing what they do. Or come back as robbers cuz of unemployment.

LegendAnselm:
have u seen any protes in nigeria than gain weight like #endsars? why wont u support us instead ur pooling us down...is it not after counting 1 b4 counting lets start frm endsars and see how it goes....warning stop going against endsars before we go stone u and ur family member

Because it's gaining weight that's why I want us all do protest for something better. Something that'll benefit us all in the long run. SARS won't be ended, it will be reformed, and they'll still continue what they're doing. Imagine a country with a better leader and better job opportunities for the youths. Just imagine. A country with a great leader, a leader who truly cares for his/her citizens. Let's End bad government, let's end unemployment, let's end ASUU strike, let's end police brutality, let's end boko haram. Let's end corruption.

LegendAnselm:
u just wan talk because u see people talking.....but u need to cover ur face in shame........isiaka is gone many people ar gone..who kill them? its Sars and u want them to stay....waiting for them to kill ur family member, , , , what are the crime in nigeria that efcc , army dss police cannot fight?/give the answer to urfamily

I'm not talking cuz people are talking. People died yes, but it's sad and unfortunate. But what Nigeria needs right now is a better leader. And that's what we should be calling for. With a better leader, a leader that will listen to his people and care for his people's welfare, trust me this SARS or police brutality will be over.
There are so many things that need to be done in this country, we need to demand for a better government.

Superpower:
Can dead people enjoy a better government? Are you not a Nigerian? You can lead the demand for better government and others will follow you.Stop criticizing the efforts of others when you are not doing anything.

My dear this is a fruitless effort. This energy should be used for something fruitful. Since they're already on the streets and being heard, let them protest for a better government. This SARS will end another one will emerge, and Nigerians will still be suffering cuz of bad leaders. Let's #Endthebadleaders first.

Nigerians and misplaced priority. Demand for a better government. Use this energy and demand for a better government. By the time we get a better government, all these brouhaha will be bygone.

Very soon bring back SARS will trend. Youths should use this energy and demand for a better government not this misplaced priority.

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Bernice4ozodo:
we all face some challenges in our life time....but when it comes to love,we give it our all, at the end of it our heart are shattered.....dey will leave you without any reasonable explanations....try to surround your self with positive pple,talk more don't isolate yourself you will get through it.....pple will reject you that's one thing for sure,listen to good msgs on you tube.....just make up your mind you will get through it

Thanks sis

ikswiss:
Same as me � mine wasn’t the prettiest honestly speaking but someone she found a way to my heart. The little things she did melts my heart, her inability to use gps while in New York streets was the funniest, the fufu talks and dreams of moving back to Africa someday made me more vulnerable to her.. Mehn life goes on last last, I feel like we met at the wrong time cos I know if it wasn’t for the pandemic I would have took a flight to fix our relationship. God knows the best for real �

It's well. Can we go in private, I'd like us to be friends. I need someone that understands me at this time

ikswiss:
Honestly we are the strong ones here and don’t forget that.

Love should be consistency, perseverance, communication, patience and endurance. If your significant other don’t understand this then they not the right ones for you.

I see mine as karma for real. I have dealt with girls in my lifetime and I understand now how they felt when I don’t give them the attention they deserve and needed from me. I believe this is the way the universe paid me back and I have learnt from my mistake.

Moving on is likely easy for the one who broke up than the other and most of my past entanglement was me breaking up and I know how it feels now from this experience. Keep taking everyday step by step we all will go through this stage.

It's not easy at all. I haven't done this to anyone. My previous relationships were mostly flings, until I finally found this one. Not that he is rich or that handsome. I got attracted to his intelligence and attitude. The way he carries himself. And I doubt if I'll find someone like that again.