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MrsAdadinmma:
Welcome on board sister and...(I know some creepy dudes will be snooping around too )



What am about to expose to you is a top secret closely guided by few distinguished high class ladies in the society.



You are this lady that have been into so many relationships that never takes you to the next stage which is ENGAGEMENT. You can also be this lady that have been engaged once but that engagement failed to lead you and HIM to the alter simply because he was afraid of commitment and chickened out, he left you embarrassed and heart broken and since then you have been afraid of every relationship, you no longer trust men and you 'think' all they need is sex.



I know how you feel my dear, I have been there before and it took me years of trauma to uproot this secret I want to share with you. Why giving this out to you? I was traumatised for years and I know the damage it had on me before I finally met the man of my life. A trauma I won't wish for even an enemy so I want to show you the way. Let this be what I contribute to womanhood.


Brace up let's do this!

HOW DO YOU GET HIM COMMITED?
This is a question on many ladies lips! We have been asking and yet no answer given to you by friends and so called professional love doctors seems to be working. This is because they have not told you something and you yourself have not taken your time to understand how men think (or maybe you have but never found out), Who they are naturally and what the society moulded them into. I will summerise these secrets into 3 simple points and pick each to explain.

1. PENETRATE HIS PSYCHOLOGY
2. STRATEGISE HIS DREAMS
3. DON'T ALTER HIS FREEDOM


These three powerful points on the surface may not mean much to you until explained. So baby girl, ama gonna take each point and trash the hell out of it to make you understand how it works.


1. PENETRATE HIS PSYCHOLOGY
Most ladies makes a mistake of going into a relationship when they have not control of the man they are going into a relationship with. When I mentioned 'control' I mean psychological control. They allow the men control them physically when they can control the men psychologically. You controlling the man psychological will influence how he controls you physically.



How do you control the man when you don't know how he thinks? This is why the first step is to penetrate his psychology. To penetrate a man's psychology is very easy if only you know how to but because you don't, you need to pay attention to what am about to teach you.


"EVERYONE ADORES WHAT THEY EARN"


That quote up there is just a summary of the human psychology, especially men. Every man adores a woman who he won his love. Don't go about persuading a man into a relationship. Yes you may succeed in seducing him with sex and other things into a relationship but my dear the very day he realises he was 'Sleep-walked' into that relationship he will step out and your heart will be shattered. Always remember this!



The male psychology is one that adores anything that caresses his ego. Men and women are given birth to through the same process.


-Sperm fertilized the egg
-Foetus matures into a baby
-Baby is pushed out through the Vagina!


So you see practically the man and the woman are the same psychologically at birth but the male psychology is changed as he grows! Who changes it? The society, starting from the mother. (I won't go into much details about this here you can email me for that). None of us choose to be a woman!




It is the society that made the man into a being that must achieve great things for him to be seen as a man, he has to have the abilty to conquer else he is not a man, he must have dreams and ambitions else he is not a man! Anything that is tossed to a man has no value. [b[He wants to earn it![/b] Stick this into your skull shoddy.



If you understand this about the male psychology then you have to make the man sought for you! And not you throwing yourself at him. How do you do this? GET HIM INTERESTED and watch him sought after you. I didn't say get his SEDUCED!



Make him believe that your presence in his life will make life thrilling. (I will show you how to achieve this in my future posts), he should see that with you his dreams are bound to come to pass, once you've done that my dear you have penetrated his psychology and he will want to win your love but don't just fall in like a blind person, there are other things you need to do and that takes us to the next step

STRATEGISE HIS DREAMS
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I will be explaining this very essential point in my next update until then, Keep watch!
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Peace sisters!
Be your sisters keeper
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Incrizz:
Thanks. Happy happy new week. I'm cool...

ItsQuinn:
Kneeling to propose is tradition just like paying the bride price befor marriage is a tradition. So it's compulsory in my opinion. There's no other way to show your love other than kneeling.

Incrizz:
Lool..
Clown

lovelygurl:
I agree with her. You are irrelevant

luvinhubby:
Some persons are just allowing their personally grudges against established pastors becloud their sense of reasoning and are willing to grasp at any straw of negative publicity to malign pastors.

Everybody mentioned by this girl have denied her, her father and mother, all she did was make wild allegations without any single piece of cogent sentence or evidence. No photographs, no bank statements, no emails, no call logs, no SMS, no hotel lodging evidence, absolutely nothing and some persons choose to believe her against established conventions.

Malice is dangerous.

Incrizz:
You got this one

Incrizz:
You got this one

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Incrizz:
Lol..
Just click the quote button, then don't type anything until after the second "]" symbol.

Weird..I also have to manually copy your comments.

Incrizz:
Lol..
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Incrizz:
Lol..
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Weird..I also have to manually copy your comments. [[quote]

Kondomatic:
They are cheap and silly because they don't want to marry a single mom.

You reason foolishly sometimes.


The Op just stated that she had a child years ago but your warped mind didn't tell you that the reason men leave after hearing that may not just be bcoz she has a child but because of the circumstances that lead to her having a child, the life she lead before having that child, her life after, the father of the child etc.

Single moms get married always so why is her case different?

You need start thinking before you comment.

6fit:
sex bcome uninteresting with your sex mate when yu find another sex mate to make comparism[/

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zuby4real10:
How did the gate man(not even a cleaner) whose job is to stay outside has access to the other room. who in this Nigeria will handle the keys of his bedroom to a gate man. ? Am i the only one that is finding it difficult to believe this story. ?

JohnXcel:
Hmm...interesting.

I wonder if the judge would have passed 'the same' judgement if the perpetrator were a woman and the victim, a man.

TOL: *thinking out loud*

Incrizz:
That is like trying to make the two like poles of a magnet attract!

Incrizz:
God answers prayers oooo

Do you know why I say so?
About two months ago, I asked God to restore unto me the spirit of gentleness.
That I'm replying you this way is proof of His goodness to me, yet again o!

Ho

Incrizz:
Dearest future hubby,
Please don't cheat on me o.
That is if you value your home and your relationship with me.

I will leave you faster than the speed of light if you cheat.
Dear men, you may not be so lucky with some other women as they will break your head or pour hot water on you while sleeping!
Some other women will break your side chick's head or pour acid on her!
While another may destroy your windscreen and flat screen!

I don't want issues with the police or the law enforcement agencies, so I will gently pack my bags and leave.

You don't want to eat one soup for life but you expect me to endure that same boring sh@+ forever and stick with you while you are at it!!??
I hear you!!!

Just in case you don't know,
As much as you think you were wired to cheat,
So we, females, are wired to not endure cheating speak much less of expect it!!!


A woman can endure so many ills from her man but cheating??! Haba neighbour!

Every woman, past or present, who has stayed on with her cheating man, did so with a lot of tears and anguish of soul.

Please quit trivialising it.
It is not a joking sturrvs arall

We women may even forgive a cheating man but flinging it in our faces and telling us to expect it or that you're a man and its inborn is plain heartless and we aren't ready to put up with such wickedness.

Be it known to you today, history is there as proof, there is no campaign or propaganda in this life thrown at women that will ever cause them to accept your lack of self control and view it as natural. It's like trying to reset DNA.

Telling me you'd cheat on me due to a fault of mine is like me telling you that I will cheat on you because you cheated on me. How does that sound to you?
Senseless!

Sincerly,
I think Faithful Men, and all Virgin Men, you guys are all too quiet on this forum and society at large!

Is it that you think you'd be laughed at?
And what if you're laughed at

I wish you guys will all begin to speak out and leave legacies or something behind for future generations to read and be guided by.

Chai!

Incase you didn't comprehend, asking women TO EXPECT cheating from her man is twisted thinking