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Jubal01:
Thank ya'll 4 ur comments!

BUT Actually, i am gettin more confussed by all your comments!
Pls are there professional marriage/relationship experts u can direct me to

Jubal01:
Pls I need matured recommendations/advices from matured minds!

I recently got to unearth someting very disturbing about my mum. I got fool-proof evidence of her escapades with my dad's friend. Unknown to my dad and us, my mom got pregnant 4 dat man 26yrs ago! We have been living together as a family not knowin dat our dad is actually not her biological dad. My mum and her family knew of it but they connived to keep it a top secret until recently wen God decided to expose her(them)!
Pls wat should i do?
Should i tel our dad d truth? I'm very confused!

vikiylove:
When they are trying to gist you.. They will look really wealthy... Only for you to start hearing stories and watching their bank account go through the peril..

Yet they created a thread of sexuality section where they talk about how they spend 25k on a runs girl for just a day of pleasure.. Or you will see some talking about how they spend 2k weekly on prostitutes..

I pity for those broke guys out there..

swagguElite:
You guys are damn funny! ...how will you find an empty condom pack in your girlfriend's room n you think he would come around and forget evrytin he had seen ... Words coming from people who apply Novels toRealLifeExperiences!

It would have been a different thing if it was a pack of condom not used! ... This was a empty condom lack found in his girlfriend's room n both of them are telling me they don't know ao an empty pack of CondomSkydivedItselfThruTheCloudsOfTheirPoorlyExecutedLies n softLanded thru the door n ended getting stuck in the bathroom having ran out of fuel!

The guy didn't find the condom pack on the table but in bathroom shows that there was an intention to hide the empty pack of condom! ...

I would you feel if you found a pant DanglingOnTheShowerPipeInHisBathroom n after asking him he asked his roommate if he was the one who forgot his girlfriend's pant in his bathroom...

Nd he said No! ...this scene paints the picture of two men trying to cover up the truth the same way you girls are playing with the guy's head!

Pls be real! ...No reasonable person would believe theCondomPackSurvivedAPlaneCrashnLandedInYourBathroom
WithAParachuteOfHoveringEnthusiasm!

CuddleMe:
Enough with the blames, married men should try and satisfy their wives needs.

khiaa:
LMAO I don't think they are all like that, I'm sure there are some with compassion. How could someone claim to love someone and be such a burden to them.

To be honest, when it comes to the actual wedding I would prefer a small wedding with family and friends and invest the money that would have been spent on a lavish wedding into buying a home.

As a matter of fact, if he is the man that I love and he loves me, where we got married wouldn't even matter, it could be just the two of us eloping to Las Vegas or Mexico.
It's the marriage that's important not the wedding.

khiaa:
So the man has to purchase his bride, the rings, pay for the wedding , and pay for the house to live in without any contribution from the bride , what good are these useless women? It's hard to believe that someone could be so selfish. That part of your culture is definitely flawed. You men should marry foreign women.

xynerise:
At the end people like you will bring more of the finance of your wedding.


Nne, when life is tough, you don't justify his taking care of everything for the wedding as being responsible.

iamadonis2:
Dey dia Na... If every other guy were like me, you'll stay single till your village people feel you're old enough to be an Ancestor.

Who ur forming epp?

Onyejemechimere:
An apparent Nigerian lady has shared detailed reasons why good girls dont marry first. In the write-up that seems to be from her perspective, she talked about women being toys to men and how a woman should act so as to be valuable in the eyes of the opposite sex.

Everyone who read her writeup, Women and men, were all concurring to it...Read below

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http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/05/nigerian-lady-explains-why-good-girls.html

PROPHETmichael:
WOMAN WAS CREATED FOR MAN!

That is why a woman's happiness is directly connected to a man.

Any time you see an unhappy woman, you're seeing a woman who is not properly relating to a man.

That is why you must turn a deaf ear to every woman who claims she doesn't need a man.

She's a baldfaced liar!

"Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man" (1 Corinthians 11:9).

For a woman to say she doesn't need a man is as asinine as a fish claiming it doesn't need water or a plant insisting it doesn't need soil.

Every woman needs a man!

But Western society (dominated by the lies of the Devil) deceive multitudes of women into believing they don't need a man.

And that is precisely why those women oftentimes end up old and single and bitter at the world instead of old and happily married and pampered and protected by their man.

THE WEDDING DAY IS NOT THE WOMAN'S DAY BUT THE MAN

Western society (dominated by the lies of the Devil) deceive multitudes of men and women into thinking that the wedding is the woman's day when in actual fact, it is actually the man's day. It is a day a man invite his family, friends and well wishers to come and celebrate with him for finally locating "the bone of his bones, and flesh of his flesh" Genesis 2:23(which was taken from him). It's like losing your most priced possession and one day you found it, you called your friends saying come and celebrate with me for i have found that which i lost. The wedding day is the day a man calls his friends and well wishers to come and celebrate with him for he has found a good thing "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord."Proverbs 18:22.

News Flash!!! Traditional marriage is actually the woman's day.



No wonder the Word of God admonishes,

"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2).

Don't be conformed!

Ladies, don't let your perspective on romance and marriage be shaped and molded by the ungodly heathen of this world and their satanically-inspired points of view.

Allow your thoughts, rather, to flow in harmony with the clear teaching of God's Word.

By doing so, you will find and enjoy the degree of happiness that you both desire and deserve.

Believe the prophet!



EVE BUCKED AGAINST ADAM'S LEADERSHIP BEFORE THE FALL!

Think of that.

While woman was in a state of perfection, yet she elected to operate independently of her husband's leadership.

Indeed, she went and ate from the Forbidden Tree anyway although her husband strictly told her not to.

What kind of rebelliousness, pray tell, do you think woman is now capable of exhibiting towards the headship of her husband since the Fall?

Tremble at the mere thought of it.

Selah!

oluwasma:
You want to find out if a man is serious about you? Wait to have sex with him. It may not be easy especially if you are Hot as well. If you don’t because you are a liberated lady, don’t be surprised if a decent percentage of those men never call again. sex doesn’t keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept. Guys tend to appreciate ladies that don’t give in easily.

I asked a question some time ago about the quickest you have gone from meeting someone to having sex and a guy said he started chatting with a lady around 5pm and by 7pm they already had sex. Guess what he said it was like a movie to him because they never met before so he deleted her number. I am not judging or shaming any lady but if you know you want a boyfriend/husband material, make him wait till he commit himself unless you want to do it for fun.

It’s not really about the number of dates or months, its about assessing his intention: Does this guy really like you enough to commit or does he just want to have sex with you? This will repel men who dont want to commit and keep women from having their hearts broken by pump and dump guys.

Thanks for taking time to read…

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/30/why-ladies-should-make-men-wait-for-sex/

Bumbae1:
Yes they do that because they don't trust ya Simple
So
They'll rather scare off the next chic so by leaving items its like telling the chic ..
he already don get bae o u dey trespass

Example if you about to bleep a girl she goes to the bathroom to change , comes out screaming whose pant is this .. lol no bleeping for you that day .. the pant owners plan don work

But its more because the guy is not trustworthy or has tendency to cheat

Love Machine:
If I catch my gf cheating,if I have one,i will break a bottle and thrust the broken part inside her kitkat.Men cheat with women.So both sexes cheats.

misspicy:
Ok...the truth is that in every 10ladies u meet 3 are constant masturbaters,d remaining 7 have masturbated at one time of their life or the other...now this statistic is not international or widely know but due to d questions I asked fellow girls after an inccidence I witness,d answer is in d affirmative from almost all the girls..

Now I know some people especially girls will come and deny the above and probably cuss me out,buh thats just d truth.

Tho I am stll carrying out my research to know the reason behind dis masturbation and possible ways of stopping doz addicted to it,dis is my humble submission.

sexybbstar:
Thats his problem.I can take care of myself without the help of a boyfriend........why did i have parent?,its for them to take care of me before a man ask for my hand in marriage.

Adeinfo:
Little gifts? I have the feeling that you are not working, if not you will realize that whatever anyone gives you is a privilege and not a right
Say no to entitlement mentality
Get empowered and feel less concerned about what people will give you

Cleopatra4:
U think so? So you want to tell me you have not seen a broke guy still cheating on his girlfriend cheating is a natural thing with men with or without money.

GloryIsaac:
I recommend bros to read the book called The Great Female Con.... thank me later

Aderola15:
Awwwwwwnnnn

Thanks much Sir.

Goodmorning and happy easter.

funmisticqueen:
may two of you not experience stories that touch in jesus name

ojun50:
Broke girls are d one who say no sex till marriage

Amarabae:
NONSENSE. Must a lady be a financial liability to a man? Is Relationship a poverty alleviation program?
Ladies should dream of working to be financial independent, its brings respect to a woman.
If a guy is broke and you love him, as long as you as a lady is financial dependent, you can be in a relationship with him.
"Broke" is temporary, that he is broke today, does not mean He can't make it tomorrow.
Stay with him during rainfall, He will appreciate it when the sun shine.

Aderola15:
My brother cannot



























Ion even have a brother

Merlissa:
This list is hilarious....