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Shelloween:
it WAS NOT a woman that brought Osama, Saddam Hussein, Ghadaffi, and other notable tyrants down. They were brought down by men. Truth is, men bring themselves down. Women are over rated.

So correct bro, they just over rate themselves, was it a woman that brought down the highest and wealthiest drug baron Pablo down? NO Oooo
many of this girls keep saying that the man has ruined her life, ... what does it means. ... simply that the man has brought her down and people will start laying causes on the man but it's the same thing HE BROUGHT HER DOWN...

poshestmina:
I haven't seen that man a woman cannot bring down. God has not created him .

They should have kept Amaka's involvement hidden na ,this NPF self! they have put the lady in a big danger.

I guess it works vice versa, in his case he knew but just didn't want to eliminate her cos if it where another person, he might kill her on the ground that he will be caught finally.
A man can still pull a woman down , if he really wants to do that

greyboy5000:
you didn't complete that list jare
Kk let me help you
Guys doesn't have money he is broke and lazy and deserves to die alone
Girls doesnt have money - it is normal and deserves a rich guy
Note : I don't support stereotypes but I hate double standards

Guy you need a medal. Let her explain it

solomon4samuel:
Most of the time,one of my favourite male friend always say to me that a girl can never keep one guy. He said that every girl needs three types of guys
1)A talkatiue:a guy who makes her laugh and always feel happy and tell her much about how she looks.
2)A spender:a guy who takes her outing when ever she needs it and spend enough money on her and satisfy almost her financial needs.
3)A horse power raider:a guy that gives her the mind blowing sex. Is this true?

A girl can never never keep one guy even if he has all those qualities and more. it's in there DNA so nobody can change it unless they lie to you, making you to believe what she wants you to believe but looking deep , she not sincere.
A girl keeping even five guys, others girls will advice her to have more.
Only 2% out of 100 or unless can stay without one guy.

Her mates are there making good money, who has better stuff to offer than her.
it shows her level of fish brain and has nothing to bring to the table.. so disappointed sha..

lovethchioma:
Of course.. you are also right
Just like a man will cheat even if the wife ain't cheating.... and might even have a child with one of those women he is cheating with, without even knowing and another man will be training his child. Meanwhile he will be the one shouting about DNA the most...

You are also right but let me tell you the difference.
most men that has kid outside gives most of the girls some money as his contributions to assist her unless the lady wanted to use the pregnancy to hold the guy down who will reject and won't contribute anything once he notice her plans.
Most of whom usually get pregnant for this guys are mostly single ladies who prefers to be a babymama.
Now let's talk about the lady who gets pregnant for the man and won't tell him about it and still brings the child into his home for him to feed whereas a man contributes money to the other lady.
So, why won't she tell the husband that the child ain't his. The annoying thing is she will sleep with the other man when she is not free ( with the man's seed inside her) gets home that same day to sleep with her husband so the date won't be argued. Showing she knows what she's doing is wrong.
How will you now blame the man seeking for DNA cos if in the reverse, the woman will go for the DNA without the man knowing and will even come the the media to criticize all men which will be a new trend, not knowing started the cheating before him

PaARAaH:
OP is sounding pained mehnnnn dude I feel you're describing ya ex

Am not pained cos don't allow room for such nonsense . I spot them out easily and place them where they belong.

lovethchioma:
The First to comment poster isn't far from the truth.
Some men now think it is natural for a man to cheat.. Someone will even tell you to prepare your mind because all men cheat. I refuse to believe that trash.... Do you think it's only the men that get tired of sleeping with one woman for the rest of their lives? Don't you know even the women get bored fu**ing one dick for the rest of their lives too? should that now be used as an excuse to cheat on your spouse? that's why I always say it all boils down to self control and commitment to making your relationship work which a lot of persons lack now adays. They prefer to take the easier way out, which is to cheat.
If men will continue sleeping around with other women, what makes you think your woman won't do the same? And if anything happens along the line.. you sure would have to train up another's man child.
How are you sure that as a man all those women you are sleeping with, you have not mistakenly put your seed in one of them and another innocent man is busy training your child too ?
Or doesn't your conscience tells you that those women you've been sleeping with outside your relationship are either somebody's girlfriend, fiancee or wife too?
The level of moral decadence is increasing by the day. Why won't there be chaos in marriages?

It's even the unfaithful once that are busy shouting go for DNA as if it's that easy sef.

The unfaithful men will be blessed with unfaithful women... and if care is not taken you will train up another's man child . Yes... una deserve each other.

If you are a good man don't worry... relax your mind, pray hard, watch carefully, and God will bless you with the right woman who won't give you heart attack.

A woman will cheat even if the husband doesn't. so don't put it as ' she is cheating because the husband is doing so 2. it doesn't work that way.
if she wants to cheat, nothing will stop her, it's a mind thing, she will do that but codedly.

itsJude:
Women will only cheat if she sees that ure not serious, my girl has been with me for almost 9 months and she has not cheated once, abeg lets stop putting our problem on them



Guys wen no get 1 kobo but want love go dey shout say na true

It's not the issue of money, who wants to cheat will do with or without.
The main thing is that even if a woman cheats , men hardly talk unlike a woman, who goes to the media to shout.

Waiting for comments from all this NL girls that argue without facts.
Before you caught a woman, you must think like them

uwanIsong:
Women! We cheat more than the men..
Especially the married ones and they wickedly don't go far ...always within... brothers..uncles..your boss or hers..they make sure you collapse or develop BP once you are in know of their escapades.

At least na cry we go cry if we catch you
But you, you might die on the spot.

Scared of getting married

JasonScolari:
Aunty, with all these indepth analysis, and the shameless way you're trying to defend them, I hereby declare you guilty.


Bloody lesbian...

Not only a Bloody lesbian but also a sex freak ironically saying 92.5% of women have high sex urge but pretend.
Let her go for even Cucumber, she's use to it at least she's open to tell us her status

Nogodye:
Honestly, i have been expecting this kind of thread since.Can we call it counter thread? Anyways, your opinion is spotted.Hope you write this base on your experience? or base on the threads that surface here about ladies? I reserve my comment then

Well said brother, she wants to counter my thread and that's one of the signs of irresponsible woman

freecocoa:
The guys are laughing about it but this is in no way funny, I believe most of what's written here cos I have male friends and most of them recount same. It's really a pity that molestation of the male child is practically overlooked and I wonder why those women chose little boys when there were available men to sleep with.

Well, I kinda think it's no longer like that these days, I will kill any man or woman that tries to, let alone molest my kid, nonsense.

Chai! This partly explains why so many Nigerian men are fvcked up, its such a shame.

My dear, male child abuse and molestation is more than a female child abuse cos you will see blood flow on the female child so caution is being observed unless the male child abuse where you won't see blood flow so no caution cos he doesn't have evidence to prove being molested or abused.

HitlerGaddafi:
I sometimes dey always wonder wetin those big aunties dey always like for small small boys príck.

Shout out to aunty dorcas. I bin dey like 8 yrs that time when she call me for sitting room . She put my hand inside her Toto say make I dey rub am. Oboy as I commot the thing I take style smell my hand. She talk say make I commot trouser put my "kokoro" inside her Toto. I no even know wetin to do. She still dey even beat me self on top say I no dey fvck am well. As I bin wan cry she pet me say she go buy "ekana Gowon" for me na hin I shut up. Oboy I just dey rub príck for toto o. The thing sweet die I no go lie. Aunty dorcas for don marry with pikin now. She fit even don turn grandma sef. Na only God sabi where she dey.

Greater percentage of male child were left to be abused most expecially by the mothers who expose and makes them understand that their private part is not private but public.
Exposing male child unclothedness in the presence of other females who now takes advantage of the male child or even themselves does do molest the child.
They protect the female child body from abuse and leave the male child to be abused.
They make the female child to protect her body and make the male child to understand that his body doesn't worth anything in this world.
They avoid bathing the female child in the presence of the male but see it as nothing bathing the male child in the presence of other females or her sister who will later abuse him.
Believing that only the female child are abused cos you will see blood flow but males child are not being abused cos you won't see blood flow but now forgetting the psychological effects on him.
Believing the male child enjoys it while the female doesn't, how on earth would a woman have such a stupid mentality.
After all these male child abuse they now feel in secured cos the bad seed they did sow in the male child minds and mentality is coming back to hunt the females.

I saw a woman that brought a male and female child to pee, she pulled the female child pants to bend and pee but rather didn't pull the male child trouser to knee level so he can pee 2 without hold his peepee, but rather held the male child penis, I couldn't hold myself and try to correct her that it's a private part not a public part which she is sending signal to the boys brains . she acted like it's normal when three men shouted the hell out of her life that she is abusing the male child.
The men should protect their male child from these female abusers and make them face penalties 2.
male child hardly opens up cos of threats from their female abusers and on the point nobody will see blow flow, he doesn't have any fact to crucify the females.
It's Hurst me so bad cos the psychological effects on male child brains is really bad.

Cinderella5:
you are funny.
Pls tell me why our new generation guys prefer to be tight handed and rather depend on women, our father's are not like your generation, what went wrong?

Ask yourself, are you stingy?
secondly, don't depend on anybody in life for money, seek God's direction so you also make it in life and help people.
Start having the mindset of helping people instead of the reverse.

makydebbie:
You've a twisted mentality. Go and make your money and watch how rich guys run after you. It's because you're broke, that's why broke seems the only option.

Nice one

Safiaa:
yawns. Weak argument. Weak logic. I would respect you more if you defend yourself with substance. This was a weak attempt. Try again.

Go get yourself a brain reset so you can talk to me.

AHCB:
You deserve a medal.

They need a brain reset , though they r still kids but will know when the time comes.
Pray they should know early cos if late, the sole called girls will beg to answer a man's name

Cinderella5:
so you can date a guy that never has to give and dependent on you?

It's just obvious you are from a very poor family background with pains in your heart to make it in life by fire by force. It's doesn't work that way but try cos it's a two way thing,
1. you succeed or
2. Sends you to your early grave.

Safiaa:
Why can't you accept the truth, and stop insulting. Your self esteem derives from your finances 80% of the time. When you don't have money, you feel less than a man. Our self esteem normally comez from our physically appearance and appreciation. It's the truth, just accept that. We're not equal in that aspect, but i still believe a woman should have her own finances.

Stop building excuses, try to depend on yourself and don't be a parasite.
The guy graduated from Uni to get a job, work and raise money, the girls was also sent to Uni, so get a work.
Who fine and physical appearance help in nigeria condition 2day with all the make - up, Be natural and be shocked that most guys are even better good looking physically than most girls.

Learn how to give and not to receive, it will rescue your mentality from all the trash.

Draei:

A girl is labeled broke financially & mentally
the moment she hunts after all-ready made men.

Don't know why we have some many broke girls here.
Like you said, broke girl is labeled broke mentally and financially and to add the one you omitted Has nothing else to Offor apart from sex. Very disgusting.

firstladyp4:
Millions Of Ladies Have Suffered And Stil Sufering In The Hands Of Men They Truly Love,they Wil Promise You Heaven And Earth But After" I DO " On The Long Run They Start To Cheat,barther Their Wife Or Use Abussive Words Why?

You reap what you sow, girls did same to many guys in their lives who truly loves and care so much but cos he is not wealthy, they will break his heart, lied to him in- order to get the small change his has ( label him as mumu) and CHEATS on him 2 so they can get a wealthy man who doesn't and will never care or love them.

They use their real husband to be as bf and then use their bf as husband, who is to be blamed?

I guess the wife made up her story to back her infidelity act.
Left the house for a year and 7 months, this is cheating / infidelity to the highest order.
mostly likely the man has being raising another men children from her cheating act.
It's a pity sha

Oyindidi:
I no understand



Make I follow put mouth for this your matter. You are a chronic cheat and your wife is seeking revenge. I av said it times without number that most men are the reason their wives are unfaithful. Now you're claiming you only look at a lady's backside.
You are the cause of the problem in your home.

As for your wife, she is plainly childish.
Both of you are cheats reason she replied with the big dick issh.

Be faithful to your wife Mr man. You've caused enough damage already.

Modified
Kids of Nl quoting me upandan abeg I no support the wife as she dey cheat but this op start the wahala for him family. If the wife talk her own side una no go too yab her.

Guess you are very wrong in your judgment. He starred which he said "reflex" also human and admitted, do you want to tell me the wife has never starred at a guys ass or zip line ( which she has but won't admitted) and went as far as using another name to save the ex number and still discuss family issues with him.
Out of the two scenario, if you really want to be sincere with yourself, WHO HAS CHEATED?

There is nothing like he's the reason of her cheating. Stop pushing blames, if she wants to cheat she will whether he does cheat or not.
Even if she does, she knows the husband won't know

Happy Birthday Bro. All the best

Papzey:
1. Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME she's of marriageable age, ask her what her views on marriage are. One hint might save you the drama- just because she does not want to get married now does not mean she never will. She has other plans for herself right now, let her live a little.


2. Just because a girl wishes to do her Ph.D after Masters does not mean she doesn't want to settle down in life. Give her a break, and respect the fact that she has the confidence to take that up, cos yeah, Ph.D is no joke. There will come a point when she would happily devote herself to her family, and balance it out with her work life. Her degrees, or lack of them, won't make any difference. Let her study while she wants to, okay?

3. Just because she is 27 and unmarried does not mean she's been rejected by many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made.

4. Having a boyfriend does not make her characterless.

5. Just because she has recently gone through a break up doesn't mean she is vulnerable and available.

6. Just because most of her friends are boys, does not mean she is "having a good time" with all of them.

7. Just because she has a drink in her hand does not mean she is an alcoholic.

8. Just because she wore a short skirt to one party does not mean she dresses up that way every day.

9. Just because she is ambitious doesn't mean she isn't a family person.

10. Just because she doesn't discuss her plans doesn't mean she's clueless about life. Give her a chance, alright?

11. Just because she is outspoken doesn't mean she is a rebel.

12. Just because she comes home late from work does not mean she is sleeping around with her colleagues.

13. After a hectic week, give her some time to relax over the weekend. Don't make that one weekend party make her look like a she's a frivolous party-girl without a job.

14. Just because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed or lonely. It's how she relaxes, respect that.

15. Just because she is on a holiday alone does not mean she doesn't have company. Maybe it's a break to get back her lost confidence, or maybe that's how she is. Admire her spirit instead of giving her advice, okay?

16. Just because she is a woman doesn't mean she can't kick ass in military school.

17. Just because she has a tattoo doesn't mean she is attention seeking. Maybe that's her way of expression.

18. Just because she doesn't know how to cook doesn't mean she won't make a good wife. Remember when you were just married and cooked chicken curry which was um, a disaster?

19. Just because she likes everything pink and shiny and fluffy doesn't mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much better than her male counterparts.

20. Just because she is pretty does not mean she is a LovePeddler. And just because she is friendly does not mean she is flirting with you.

Yes, girls cry, they are emotional; they take things personally, and sometimes over-react to situations. But this does not give any one the right to judge ladies in the wrong way. Times are changing; don't confine her within those boundaries, no matter how orthodox you are. There are some who might be fighting this losing battle, yet compromising on their decisions and plans, just to please society.


http://www.rapportnaija.com/2016/03/men-things-ladies-wish-you-knew.html

Ironical statement. meant for those that still don't understand women sha

lovethchioma:
Some Married women cheat as well as most married men....
no matter what, I don't think there's any genuine reason to cheat on your spouse.
The only reason why any man or woman will cheat on their spouse is because of lack of self control and having no value for the institution called marriage.

Just do yourself the favour of remaining unmarried if you know you won't be able to keep to your vows.

Now let me correct your write up...... " SOME Married men cheats as well as MOST married women cheats codedly

sisisioge:
You ate lying! Married Women don't cheat like that. Unless u have legit examples, don't even think of this slander!

Married women cheat very very well but coded. Seen, noticed or observed only when the guy looks and thinks deep.

lovethchioma:
Some Married women cheat as well as most married men....
no matter what, I don't think there's any genuine reason to cheat on your spouse.
The only reason why any man or woman will cheat on their spouse is because of lack of self control and having no value for the institution called marriage.

Just do yourself the favour of remaining unmarried if you know you won't be able to keep to your vows.

The best responses I have ever heard or seen as regards this particular topic here, sincerely speaking

sekxy:
I will give the rship a break..if i can bear the pain..I will forgive him and continue with the relationship but if not ,I will simply move on.

cool.

sekxy:
this is more like I visited my boyfee and prolly saw a female under Wears. .seriously I will find it hard to believe him..but op he will still come back to his senses..

Lol, exactly.... but how will you handle it if you find female under wears in his house. will you still continue with the relationship?